Scorpio moons... and doubts

How do you scorpio mooners deal with having doubts about people?

I am usually right when I doubt someone, but sometimes there are people whom I never doubted that betrayed me or lied to me.

Now I am having a hard time as I doubt my bf is lying to me and I am getting very uncomfortable even when he is good at making excuses.

When the doubt is there, no words can change what i already sensed


Tell me what would you do? Are you usually right when you doubt someone? specially lying?

Jesus I thought this was just me but guess it's a moon thing.
I truly truly want to stop being negative nancy but that gut feeling or chest tightening I get when I have a thought is just so hard to ignore.

Not a Scorpio moon but a Scorpio sun so can relate to this. Sure it's easy to disregard "doubt" or whatever but in the end what's happening is intuition. I was reading somewhere that the "gut" is only second in line to the brain where our energy as a person goes. The brain is the hub of human energy but the gut is a storage area as well.

I thought that was interesting. So back to intuition, doubt or gut feelings whatever we want to call it. It may feel random, but it's not. Your brain is processing so much information each day. Every little nuance that you might not consciously be aware of--I'm going out on a limb to say that Scorpio is very good at processing and internally digesting information. Everything from voice inflection to a twitch of a finger. Words, body language, action, what have you.

That gut feeling is your brain processing all the information, putting it into a perspective that makes sense to it and then flooding out energy that "feels" like the conclusion it's drawn. This is energy goes out into the body and, since the gut is a powerhouse of receiving energy, of course you are going to feel it in your gut. You are feeling your brain"s assessment of the situation in your gut.

If you feel something is off or you have doubt, spend time contemplating what your gut feeling is and what information went into putting that feeling together. Think carefully about what exactly your gut is trying to tell you. Usually, the gut floods us right away with what we think as red flag events. It's like something happens, the brain processes it quickly and that energy floods the gut. But if you are like most people you don't pay it attention or say, I'll keep an eye on it.

In the end, I'm going out on a limb and say, the gut reaction or intuition or whatever is 100% right. I don't think my gut has ever let me down. It might take awhile to further analyze exactly what it's telling me but it's good at alerting me to something that needs attention: good or bad.

i remember reading a post where someone said trust your gut, those flashes of insight and rely less on thoughts.

I stick with this and its never steered me wrong.

When i do doubt someone, i do absolutely nothing. i withdraw quickly and see how they handle the situation. i just sit back and observe.

if i still cant get to the bottom of things, i straight up ask them.

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Posted by TxOgal
How do you scorpio mooners deal with having doubts about people?

I am usually right when I doubt someone, but sometimes there are people whom I never doubted that betrayed me or lied to me.

Now I am having a hard time as I doubt my bf is lying to me and I am getting very uncomfortable even when he is good at making excuses.

When the doubt is there, no words can change what i already sensed


Tell me what would you do? Are you usually right when you doubt someone? specially lying?

you mean you doubt he is telling the truth? or you you doubt he is lying?

i pay attention to any alarm bells or off-putting, they will be kept in mind and ticked off accordingly - i´ll let these clues guide me but not control my actions.

in other words - observe and learn.

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I asked him about a situation and he gives me those excuses that I dont believe... I am 80% sure he is lying.. not telling the exact truth.

It is the first time I feel he is really lying.. but there are past situations that made me feel uncomfortable so this is why I have this strong feeling now.. n i wont put it aside.

Posted by RumiLove
I put it aside, like a set-aside file.


Time will tell everything and time takes care of everything.. Got other things to do.


Because there really is no point in worrying or thinking...going in circles.. We can only do that which we can, that which is in our power 🙂

There can be lots of reasons too.. When I have negative assumptions, I try to look for possible positive reasons too.. But, being a shy Aries, I never ask or put forth my doubts... I wont even ask if they are hurting me before my eyes. I just watch everything go past me.. Do whatever I can.

I hope you can get it off your mind, fellow Scorpio moon ☺

Thanks really 🙂

I just think i ran out of positive reasons ....i always gave the benefit of the doubt.. but this time i find it hard to do..

It depends on the person and what I'm having doubts about. For the sake of the thread, I usually confront the person about it after taking time to think the situation through. If th doubt continues, I either stop talking to them or ignore it.

Posted by blackphase
I tend to doubt almost everyone that I get close to. Paranoia and suspicion come along with this Moon. I seem to doubt everyone and their motives due to fear of being hurt or taken advantage of. I read wayy too much into things and I end up being my own worst enemy due to this. My s/o also often lies, which is dangerous for a Scorp Moon, because now I think he is lying even when he is telling the truth. I can't even tell anymore. And I am also a very confrontational person.. If something is bothering me, you are going to hear about it.. Him being a Libra, despises confrontation, so I have to tread lightly and try to decipher things on my own, which is difficult.

I was wondering why my Scorp moon man been so hesitant. He doesn't say he is but I can feel it. When i bring it up he says nothing. This helped me to see clearer now. I just hope he can see that I'm not out to hurt him. I'm tired of trying to prove myself at times. He pulls close then pull away like he's scared. Smh. But this helped me tremendously.

she says they have alot of short term relationshps due to trust issues....

but many of you see right through the HEART in everything. good at secrets, ect.

she says if you pair up with moon in virgo you are the SLEUTH team.

virgo is known to go to the underworld and pair up with the underworld king.

she's got a different insight. she is Scorpio sun/Leo moon/ Aries asc, astrologer: I like her analysis.

Posted by lisabethur8
she's got a different insight. she is Scorpio sun/Leo moon/ Aries asc, astrologer: I like her analysis.

lol i wear her type of lipstick too. love it.

Omg I love Scorpio moon threads I always feel like having a big weight lifted off my shoulders when I post in here.
Everything bright lights and black phase and pretty much everyone else describes is what I deal with internally, I think it's a state of mind that I go through, I'm very investigative and intuitive and I'm real and open about my feelings and I don't understand why we can't all have it out in the open and walk around on egg shells getting all defensive, I can't bring up anything to my boyfriend without him thinking I'm attacking him (he's a libra) though he does have his reasons for being defensive. My intuition is off the scale, my Scorpio moon is like another being in me like my shadow self, there was a time where I thought my psyche was separating as if I was possessed by the babadook, I have the strangest dreams about being cheated on or having fights with my boyfriends and I wake up and it's like it happened, even if they didn't I'll think it's possible and then suddenly all the doors containing possibilities of me being fucked over fling open and I have to count back from 100 meditate and quiet my mind and get out of the mind set, if not I'll just have an argument, break up then makeup again and be happy again, it's seriously like rising up from ashes constantly in my life

@The_eleventh_sign_11 ... I can definitely relate to what you said ... About your bf and about dreams .. and oh my I was just talking with my bf and he started saying how I sound like im investigating and putting him on a lying detector... all i wantedis to know hes not a liar :/ .. I dont know if im being paranoid or if hes getting away from appearing as a liar to me .. And oh the break ups .. always on my mind ... I always express everything i feel and think of but i end up feeling its all in vain... many times i feel i just want to free myself from hurt and from feeling these doubts by any means... even if it means i wronged him : ( the feelings are too intense.. cant stand this pressure on my chest

I swear we just know...we doubt, and we discuss and then like act like it's okay but those people confirm our doubts eventually!!