lilyofthevalley987
@lilyofthevalley987
8 Years
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Posted by IamThisPosted by Blue_FroggieWhat to look for regarding the Saturn? If both have saturn in capricorn - is it good or bad? My saturn trine his moon? My Venus conjunction his Saturn? My saturn square his venus?Posted by lilyofthevalley987Combinations look good but it all comes to Saturn for longevity.
@Blue_Froggie i am a gemini woman with moon in gemini as well and venus in taurus
I'm dealing with a Gem with taurus moon as well (venus in aries, mars in pisces) and he is rather the same - aloof one day, making effor the other. Currently I am ignoring him a bit, or rather just doing my own stuff, he went crazy when I yesterday did not answer his message, he called and messaged me like crazy, haha. I'm pretty sure he likes me, but I'm not sure on which level, he does not show his emotions. But he wants to spend a lot of time with me and teach me stuff etc, which I guess are pretty good signs he is interested, but at the same time I have not seen any emotional sides of him, like we do not have any emotional connection whatsoever, Im still always wondering what is he thinking about, when should I contact him, should I initiate dates (though we have spent all weekends together for the last month) etc. Its been only a month or 5 weeks or so, but still.. It seems like he has so much to do all the time and if he wants to meet me - I must be available, but if I want to see him it's ok if he has not the time. He seems rather selfish, to be honest. When I'm with him, it feels like he does not care whether I am there or not, but when I leave or ignore him, he goes crazy. For example, I hanged out in his little cafe one day with his friends, we just sat around the same table, he was not even next to me, he barely looked at me or talked to me, we were just in the same group of people. For two-three hours. Then I just suddenly said I'm going home, goodbye. Then he just ran after me, eyes filled with scare, put his arms around me, said do not go, pleas stay, lets go together, I will close up the cafe soon, please stay. I'm not even sure whether he really wanted ME to stay or he just wanted me to stay so I would be sober driver so he does not have to leave his care there...click to expand
Posted by MissGemmiPosted by MutabullPosted by lilyofthevalley987
how will a gemini sun taurus moon man acts if he likes you,?would it be sublte or obvious ?
he confuses me, some days he makes an effort and other he is laid back and aloof
oh and he have a gemini venus and mars in pisces
I have similar placements. Sun Gem/Moon Taurus/Venus Gem/Scorp Mars
I can relate...however, if I like someone they will know it and get a lot of my attention. If there's days when I'm aloof it's because maybe I felt I was showing too much and let them come to me. Once they initiate though I will respond quickly to someone I like/love. I also mirror though, so if I like them but they are being aloof, I will back off more and keep my response short and further apart. We need mental stimulation and love to learn and banter, so keep it funny and interesting!
I'm a Sun Gem, Moon in Taurus. I can relate to this even though I have Venus in Cancer. I need mental stimulation as well. I'm pretty straightforward in how I feel about someone...when it's positive. When it's negative I will find a way to distant myself, but not after I've tried one or two times to point out what bothers me.
I mirror a lot as well. I like stability. So when someone is showing me the same negative trait over and over and over again (this can be over several years time span) I can be very patient and will fill in the reasons why someone is behaving like that myself, but at some point when I get dizzy of the ADHD hamster movements in a cage, I leave the whole setting. I like to shower my 'object' of interest with loads of affection. You will not know what hit you. I will comfort you, listen to you, protect you, cuddle you, give you gifts, take time for you, make time for you, flirt with you, chat with you all day and night, spend lots of money on you, make you the center of my world. I translate what I feel in clear actions, no hesitations
After some time when I feel you take it for granted I will gradually cut down. Then my Gem rationality kicks in, but feelings first. I think Taurus moon reacts to aura (if the person is down to earth, comfortable, reasonable etc.) and then focuses on the actual person itself (day-to-day personality).
When I've made up my mind about you being a negative force in my life or if I feel that it's not appreciated and got the opportunity to balance rationality with emotions (this takes a good amount of time), I will not disrespect you and I will treat with utmost courtesy, but it will never be the same again and I will distant myself. I like to keep my environment calm and stable, so I will not make an effort to change you or go after you. It is what it is.
It has confused people before. Because they don't expect the sudden change and it must feel very cold coming from me. They don't realize that I already stayed patient for so many years and have tried to figure out the balance between what I truly feel for this person and how I think this persons effects me in a good or negative way. I constantly evaluate how this person (Gemini) effects me in my emotions (Taurus). Being a Taurus this effect needs to be beautiful and sensual.click to expand
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he confuses me, some days he makes an effort and other he is laid back and aloof
oh and he have a gemini venus and mars in pisces