INFJ woman/ENFP male Compatibility

This topic was created in the Personality Types forum by EmilyClaire on Wednesday, December 17, 2014 and has 9 replies.

INFJ Woman and ENFP Male Compatibility Overview

INFJ women and ENFP men often experience strong emotional connections and mutual understanding. They share creativity and passion but may face challenges with emotional independence and decision-making. Open communication and respecting differences can foster a balanced and fulfilling relationship between these types.

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@EmilyClaire
11 YearsCapricorn

Posted by SingASong41
Catfish subject aside...
I think it's a good match. His extrovertedness might drain you sometimes.

There's this INFP man I know (He's also a Taurus) and I'm an INFJ Virgo, it's like we were made for each other. We understand each other so well and can talk about everything all day without ever getting bored while also respecting each other's privacy.

I assume it would be the same in this partnership except the ENFP would be more outgoing

Exactly! I do feel like I have a better connection with him than other people because talking about things that would be hard to talk about with other people seem to flow more easily with him but sometimes it is like we are brother and sister and fight about the most miniscule of things. Thanks for the input!

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@CocoKat
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Im an infj and there Ive noticed there is definitely a very big attraction between infjs and enfps (also entps), huge! The only obstacle Ive noticed with intps and entps is that extraverted feeling and introverted feeling can sometimes clash... Introverted feelers tend to stuff things where we are very blatent with our feelings which can cause huge disagreements. They think we're fake or overly demonstrative and we don't understand how they cant get over things from the past and bring it up even if we've moved on, they can hold grudges. Other introverted feelers can understand each other like an unspoken language I cant seem to get past the fi/fe thing. EN_P's are our suggested partners.. I can see this with ENTPS for an actual relationship as we share extroverted feeling, ENFP's the attraction is great as well but Im not sure Ive seen any actual couples (male entp and female infj) with this combo but Ive seen male infj and female entps a lot. Im not sure why.

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@CocoKat
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sorry I meant the only obstacle with infps and enfps Ive had not tps... the fe/fi divide. This is probly just my personal struggle as my partner is dominant fi, I have much to learn from it obviously.

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@kane48txboy
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Sorry but Im new at this and I can get some of the letters but have no ideal what ENTPS,ENFP,INFP,etc.means.Could someone please explain so I can maybe get in on the convo.Thanks. Oh Im and Introvert by the way.

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@EmilyClaire
11 YearsCapricorn

Posted by kane48txboy
Sorry but Im new at this and I can get some of the letters but have no ideal what ENTPS,ENFP,INFP,etc.means.Could someone please explain so I can maybe get in on the convo.Thanks. Oh Im and Introvert by the way.

There are 16 different personality types according to the Myers-Briggs system, you can take a test to figure out what type you are. Each of the letters represents a different aspect:
E/I - Extroverted or Introverted
N/S - Intuition or Sensing
F/T - Feelers or Thinkers
J/P - Judging vs Perceiving

Hope that helped a little bit! Once you figure out your type you are going to read about it and think someones been in your head your whole life. Lol

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11 YearsCapricorn

Posted by CocoKat
Im an infj and there Ive noticed there is definitely a very big attraction between infjs and enfps (also entps), huge! The only obstacle Ive noticed with intps and entps is that extraverted feeling and introverted feeling can sometimes clash... Introverted feelers tend to stuff things where we are very blatent with our feelings which can cause huge disagreements. They think we're fake or overly demonstrative and we don't understand how they cant get over things from the past and bring it up even if we've moved on, they can hold grudges. Other introverted feelers can understand each other like an unspoken language I cant seem to get past the fi/fe thing. EN_P's are our suggested partners.. I can see this with ENTPS for an actual relationship as we share extroverted feeling, ENFP's the attraction is great as well but Im not sure Ive seen any actual couples (male entp and female infj) with this combo but Ive seen male infj and female entps a lot. Im not sure why.

The attraction part is spot on lol haven't gone a day without talking since we met each other. And I would definitely agree that a lot of fights stem from me being introverted and him extroverted, I don't understand why he needs input from soo many different people when I can figure out things for myself cause I don't like feeling like everyone knows our business. There are definitely more positive times than negative though. Thanks 🙂