Are you happy to be a Pisces?

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anotherpisceswoman
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sometimes yes, i think we are the best sign of the zodiac a combination of all the good, sometimes a combination of all the worst also, would like to get rid of the overly emotional/sensitivity thing sometimes, be like some other people who are able to just shrug things off. what I've observed with some us fishes is either the slump into despair because of being hurt...OR...becoming abusive sadistic bullies who as a defense against being hurt again just lash out at everyone and esp the other sex whichever the case may be, and i know a few, become actually quite sadistic.
but i do like having some of the instinctual psychic abilities, acting on them is the tough part sometimes.
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Interesting concept,Branh,changing my sign!Hahaha...Do you do it by deed poll?
I hear what you're saying,anotherpisceswoman.
I SO wish I could just shrug some things off,I am getting better at it,but some things I just don't want to shrug off,I need to deal with them,even if it causes despair.
I could never become an abusive,sadistic bully!
No matter how much abuse I've taken.
If I could change my sign,I'd definitely be another water sign,probably a Cancer.I get along with them so well.
Thanks for your opinions.
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anotherpisceswoman
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dreamyfish, i know what you mean, I also could never become a mean sadistic bully, just not in my nature, and in some ways i'm glad, i don't WANT to be bitter, angry and hopeless, BUT and here's the BUT...being nice to the wrong people is what i need to be aware of..and yeah, i have friends who are so able to just "shrug things off" that hurt them, whereas i tend to turn the anger pain whatever inward, not good, not healthy, i don't really want to be another sign though, i think we're great, just need the right people to appreciate us.
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I agree with you whole-heartedly anotherpisceswoman. It's really exhausting swimming from one situation to another. I am very intuitive and absord other people's emotions quite easily. All my friends tell me I'm psychic but what they don't realize it's a real drain on all the senses.

What I love about being a Pisces is my sense of adventure, daring, creativity, love of music, art and books. Having so many varied interests allows me to talk to a variety of people. I do have a strong, sexual appetite and have never found a man who was truly able to satisfy me. I dated a Cancer for a few years who was very attentive and skilled but tired easily. I think earth signs make better lovers, I find they have more stamina.
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Lonesome Libra
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Hello,
I sent this yesterday to the Libra board. But since it concerns a Pisces male, I thought I'd put it here, too. I probably haven't done this posting right. Sorry. Still, I'd appreciate everyone's help. Especially from you Pisceans.
I'm in a total quandry. I have been thoroughly infatuated with a Pisces male for two years. Last summer, I got up the nerve to write him an explicit note suggesting we get to know one another (much!) better. He appeared very pleased, but told me he had a girlfriend. Still, that didn't stop him from screwing at least three of my acquaintances. And he continually flirted with me, coming on to me, but never really gave me a firm yes or no. And once, when he saw me talking at length and animatedly to a couple of men, he even reacted jealously (?)-- coming to sit at my table and interrupting the conversation; eyeing me without smiling.
Despite his actions, I am so hung up on with this man. I plan to send him a Valentine's + Birthday sms, just to see if there is a vague possiblity that we can start something this summer (that's when he works in my area).
Am I stupid?
Pisceans, is this a typical reaction of your sign? How does a girl nab a slithery Pisces man?
Help me, please.
Lonesome Libra
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anotherpisceswoman
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I agree with Tiamat, pisces or non-pisces he sounds like a sleazy slimy fish. Throw him back in. Has a girlfriend but was screwing 3 of your acquaintances? why make yourself another notch on his headboard? If he's screwing around on his girlfriend what makes you think you'd be any different? except if all you want is a one night f--k buddy, but it sounds like you really have it for him, which means, you'll be really hurt. Pathfinder said on the cap board, and I think it's a great saying "If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything" and i know when i fall for anything, I fall hard and HURT even harder. good luck but it just sounds like you'll end up feeling totally degraded.
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I'm tired of being a Pisces. I can be way too sensitive and clingy sometimes and it's ended some of my relationships before they started. I'm too indecisive and dreamy. It's hard for me to focus on something for too long. I'm much too intuitive as well so I know that bad things are going to happen before everyone else does and so of course I feel like I'm going crazy until it indeed happens. On the plus side, being a Pisces makes me the colorful person that I am...artistic, musical, creative, curious about everything...but sometimes I feel that being a Pisces has made my life SO incredibly difficult. I'm getting better as I get older...but old habits die hard.
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Lonesome Libra
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Pisc74 and all pisceans, I wish I were one too. I keep reading all this stuff about how sexy, romantic, etc Pisceans are. They seem to be the zodiac sign with the most sex appeal. I want some too. Librans are just well, balanced. I long to become unbalanced, intuitive, sexy, romantic, erotic, wild and crazy -- like you pisceans. I'll switch with you. Or maybe I just want to be a pisces because I'm in love with one.
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Keef
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2 Sharks swimming in opposite directions

Shame on You Tiamat.......and yes to the question I enjoy being a Piscean being both sensitive and tough has been challenging in my life but I know who I am. As Ivegotten older I've gotten better with myself, experience is the best teacher and it also makes you wise if you pay attention and play your tape back. Some roads I will never go down again. Yet I'll always be an open minded bohemian. A tough sensitive sensual guy.
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I love and hate being a Pisces for the same reason: living in a fantasy world.

It's great to dream, it feels so good to make up a world that doesn't exist where I feel safe and above myself. I can do no wrong, live completely hedonically.

However, reality is the real existence. When times get tough, the fish will swim away, on to the next adventure - but, someday, somehow, real life has to be dealt with with feet firmly planted, which is nearly impossible to Pisces. Completely impractical which causes other people angst with our nonesense. So, what do we do? Leap into another fantasy, where we feel safe. There, we don't have to face our fears.

Thankfully, there are Virgo's, Aries and other people who can put us on leads and give us direction.
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Dreamyfish, eh? That's interesting. By the way, I'm Dreamy-eyez. How are ya? Anyway, the topic is about being happy as a Pisces. I'd say "Yes". As a Pisces, I'd often find myself tapping into people's emotions that aren't on the surface. Sometimes, that can be a bad thing. . . especially if they have negative feelings towards ya. To me, every little action within human interaction is magnified. Sometimes, it's endearing to me and sometimes it drives me nuts, but I can cope with it. Also as a Pisces, you're naturally "Hot" so when people are just staring or checking you out, you notice their behaviour towards you. Everything from the dialation of the pupils, the breathing rate suddenly changes, the flushness of the face, the stuttering or tense hesitation. . . Yeah, I notice those things way before they ever get arund to just saying, "I really like you." One thing I don't like about being a Pisces is that I don't have that natural drive like some people under other signs. Somedays, I do and somedays I don't. Well Dreamyfish, it's good to seem their another "Dreamy" individual on this board. Take care. Dreamy-eyez, out.