Do Pisces generally take things to heart?

Do Pisces generally take things to heart?

Well I accidentally hit the wrong button and it posted before I got to explain.

But say for instance a person just stopped talking to a Pisces - with no explanation. A woman/man that had been interested beforehand but lost interest after the confusion. (and wants to avoid any awkwardness such as "Well, I don't want you to flirt with me anymore because I lost interest."

Would a Pisces take someone completely ignoring them to heart or would they get over it rather quickly?

lol


Depends on the person?


I dunno. I tried ignoring one twice- didn't work.

I'm sure this person will live w/o you. lol You could probably just say what's on your mind, using tact of course. Might even be easier this way.

You could probably just say what's on your mind, using tact of course.


Everything I say ALWAYS comes out harsher than I meant for it to be.

I'm so much better with just drifting away and hoping the person forgot I even existed. Horrible I know.

""I'm so much better with just drifting away and hoping the person forgot I even existed. Horrible I know.""


Yeah, I used to be that way. But as I'm getting older, I am learning from those around me, how to approach different situations and people according to their personalities.


You'll figure it out. Don't worry, it will work itself out.

Hi Prince 😄

I take everything personally.

And come back with the most hurtful insult you will ever hear in your life. You will feel it from the depths of your soul and it will eat you out alive. You will wish you have never been born.

As for being ignored by the opposite sex, I never worry about any guy, I'm a Pisces don't you know? We're surrounded by many suitors. Even now that I am married (4 months), I have more admirers.

"Well personally, i wouldnt care LOL."

Good to know. Don't want him to go bad mouthing and playing innocent me to my friends again.



"I'd just figure it was their loss lol."

Not if you were into mindgames and weirdness - then it wouldn't be their lost lol

LMAO @ blueangel


lol@ Siamese and PP



Looks like the Pisces board is back on track. 😛

"We're surrounded by many suitors."


Definitely know that - it made his head overly big (HUGE infact) lol.

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"Yeah, I used to be that way. "

My best friend is a scorpio (moon and sun). It's funny because she wanted me to manipulate. Not my thing though.

""And come back with the most hurtful insult you will ever hear in your life. You will feel it from the depths of your soul and it will eat you out alive. You will wish you have never been born.""

- aaahahahaha!

This Pisces girl I know is like that. lololol She makes ppl cry. I've seen my auntie hurt ppl's feelings too. Like, really bad. ha!


I don't know. You'd have to be someone close to me in order to hurt my feelings. And not very many people are close to me.

Lol scorpsuperior, usually I lash out and don't even know what I'm saying.

Afterwards, I feel very apologetic and upset with myself. I realise that things I say oftentimes upset people so much that they breakdown and cry in front of me, then I feel horrible.

I would say be honest. If you're not interested, you're not interested. Our world will not be destroyed. Trust me on this one. 🙂

I've had a female friend do that to me. She stopped speaking to me with no explanation. My pride kicked in and I never confronted her about it or showed my annoyance and hurt but it did bother me for some time before I got over it.

And come back with the most hurtful insult you will ever hear in your life. You will feel it from the depths of your soul and it will eat you out alive. You will wish you have never been born.

LOL !
you've obviously never had your lights knocked out before...I know people that do that !!! say hurtful things to them, they hit physically - OUCH !

Depends on how close the person is to me and how much I respect them. If its an acquaintance, I would figure maybe they were busy or didnt like me and I would just keep going. If its a love interest or a family member, I might be hurt a bit more and ask them if everything is ok and if they are mad at me.

I agree with Hizaki, the truth is tough, but I rather hear the truth and see if I can understand them or fix the issue than to be in a constant state of confusion. Just tell me so I know!

depends on the situation ... if they haven't reached closure then they will try to flirt with you again, don't know about boys but girls will usually do it in a passive way ... maybe a boy will wait until you are vulnerable and stroke your hair in a gentle way that makes you fall into his arms

the thing is why are you even worried about that? are you afraid that you have feelings for him?

"the thing is why are you even worried about that? are you afraid that you have feelings for him?"

That one even hit home for me and it's not my situation!! But it definitely sounds like that may be the case LOL 🙂 So cute!

I've had a female friend do that to me. She stopped speaking to me with no explanation.

Actually, a pisces friend of mine stopped speaking to me without warning too! I wondered what her deal was, I'm not really sure if it was what I did or what I said lol

She was cool, we had tons if common ... I still believe that she didn't like the fact that I said her Saggie love interest was a creep *holds tongue*

Depends on relation.

If it's just a potential partner/love interest ... then I'd swim away easily and never think of the person again.

Seriously .. if a person I was interesting in didn't want me, then why would I do anything else? To hang onto those feelings would mean I would put forth effort into winning a person over who rejected me.

I've never been that desperate, and hopefully never will be.

I'd rather be alone than fawning over a man who didn't want me, and to hang onto feelings of this sort ... reduces a person to making a fool out of themselves.

""you've obviously never had your lights knocked out before...I know people that do that !!! say hurtful things to them, they hit physically - OUCH !""


- aaaaaaaaahahahhaaa! I know ppl like that too. When it comes to feelings, they believe they could *show* you better than they could *tell* you. lol 😛

"Of course we would take it to heart and get confused if someone we like / love did this to us.Would you not?"

True, I personally wouldn't like it if that happened to me - but I assure you i'm not trying to be manipulative or play mind games. In fact he seems like the type to not care so I thought it wouldn't matter. He seems so stoic at times.

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"the thing is why are you even worried about that? are you afraid that you have feelings for him?"

Yes, I do/did have feelings for him for a while, but he's like dr.jekyl and mr. hyde.One minute he's trying to make sure everything is okay with me then the next his head starts spinning (okay i'm exaggerating) but he does get rather snappy with me for asking the simplest question.

Me:"How are you?"
Him: (snappy) "If you insist on knowing i'm fine."
Me: O_o

Two days later . . .

Him: "(insert joke here to try to make me laugh) Is everything okay with you? How are you? What have you been up to? Tell me all about it."
Me: O_o (scratches head)


He constantly asks my/our friends about me behind my back but is rude with me a lot nowadays.After dealing with that behavior for so long when I know i've been cordial (never pushy or weird) it's a of a turn off. The mood swings are making me dizzy.

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Generalizing...but as a pisces, I would take it to heart.

I would want to know that we're not hanging out any more, so my behavior wasn't inappropriate toward you. That I would take to heart, b/c I would be acting on a false premise toward you.

It's simple, "hey I enjoyed hanging out with you and I'm sorry, but I don't think I can sustain a romantic connection ... and wanted to be honest about that."