clingy pisces

cant help it, but we are, . . . . fulled w emotions . . . . fantasies . . . . n constant sexual desires . . . . adorable personalities we have (well the females) n still i cant grasp a good/respectful/loyal/independent man y?

I agree w/ SF225. Except my moon is libra and my merc & venus is in aquarius. I have never ever been excused of being clingy. In fact, I'm the exact opposite. I give guys enough rope to hang themselves with.

"we are, . . . . fulled w emotions . . . . fantasies . . . . n constant sexual desires . . . . adorable personalities we have"


Maybe that ^^^ has something to do with not being able to catch a good/respectful/loyal/independent man.

Stable relationships of trust and respect are built around those very things. When describing yourself in the above, you would comment on those three things, as though they are stable components for a man to value you in terms of wanting a good, loyal and respectful relationship ..... when in reality, those are the very things in which will draw a "Player" to you because it doesn't describe any substance.

A woman of substance is what a man of substance wants as a life partner.

full of emotions
hieghtened sexual fantasies
conceited regarding own personality

^^^^ doesn't equal substance .. it equals empty



I would suggest that you focus on parts of your life that aren't so feeling based, with intentions of securing a foundation for yourself. for instance: your job, your art, intellectual pursuits.

When you meet a man you think will be right for you ... instead of trying to woo him with your self-percieved adorable personality, try to woo him by accentuating him .. if he likes Science, then do some reading to gain the ability to talk to him about Physics ... for example.

"I think we know very little about piscean to judge why she is unable to attract the "right" kind of man."


I agree with you, we only know what she posted .... however, when she made those descriptions, she used the wordage ..

"n still i cant" .... by saying "still", it would infer that eventhough she possesses those 3 characteristics, she still is unable to capture a good man ... which equates to = those 3 are being used as measurement.


That's why I said to her to try and focus on things of substance.

In reality .... I didn't make the judgement that because of those things is why she can't catch a man ... she did.

She used those things and then said "still", I can't get a good man.

I merely pointed out to her that she is using emptiness of substance to try and snare a man of substance.

That's a huge problem with forums .. responders can only respond to what has been posted.

Pisceans tend to be driven within an illusion ... and one can only assume that this is the case when reading these 3 characteristics.

Adorable personality
sexual fantasies
full of emotions (which without a direction, these emotions are pure vagueness)


When dreaming in my own deluded world .. I too feel those things about myself. In my fantasy, my man loves my personality, the sex is kinky, passionate, loving .. and he absolutely loves it that I'm so emotional about life.

However, without a real man, in the flesh to put this dream to ... it is just that .. a dream, an illusion ... I would see myslef as possessing these desirable qualities as being valuable to a man in the flesh, when in reality, a man in the flesh would see it as being deluded.

This is typical of a Pisces, especially a female one ... for her to truly want a man .. she will have to focus on the parts of life that have substance in reality.

((((Gangstalicious1982)))) re: lmao @, I give guys enough rope to hang themselves with.

((((Hizaki)))) re: perverted? lol

((((Hizaki)))) re: i deeply agree on wat uve posted the 3 terms i chosed briefly r not all wat complete me as a woman,
((((P-Angel)))) re:
but alot of men they enjoi 1)emotional chicks *emotional chicks not alwayz meaning teary eyed* emotions: feelings trwd something/some1 including caring/sharing/pleazing/ catering/ etc...). . . . 2)fantasies (which can leads to reality w the rite approach every man have fantasies) . . . . 3) constant sexual desires (which again majority men lust 4 take a look at *Hizaki* posted: "About the "constant sexual desires": I have never dated a pisces girl and now you just made me manic about finding one I have so many suppressed sexual fantasies (some nice, some perverted, hehe) that I would like to make happen...I just haven't found the right candidate yet, maybe an equally perverted pisces girly is just what I need") . . . .4)adorable personalities we have(ie attitude which is 1 major part of relationships if ur attitude sucks then u suck beauty comes from within not above the skin if u dont a personality thats meaninful ie appealing n adorable to there likings then ull just have waisted tyme spent w him/her "just that simpe". n closing no P-Angel mii life is full of substances/stability/meaning's clearly mii 3 phases i chose to use are merely just a glimpse of a piscean not mii as an individual . . . . 😉

yes Hizaki u care to elaborate??

piscean, I understand that you are more. (I hope so) 🙂

"fulled w emotions . . . . fantasies . . . . n constant sexual desires . . . . adorable personalities we have (well the females) n still i cant grasp a good/respectful/loyal/independent man y?"

However, you stated those things .. and then inferred, that in consideration of you possessing those qualities, you still can't find a good man .. which would indicate that it's those things in which you would make estimates, to determine your worthiness of a good man.


You asked why (y) ... and I told you why, according to those qualities that you described as being ones you own that aren't attracting a good man.

lol, Piscean men are sick muther-fukers 🙂



There are no rules about posting sexual stuff, Hizaki ... however, one has to keep in mind that children have computers.

Most of my fantasies revolve around two things .. well, actually one thing, two locations.

Well, same location, really .. 😛 .. tip to bottom.

True.

Enema's?


That's really gross, actually ......

I don't know ... obviously the location of this said enema wouldn't bother me .. it's just the thought of creating oozing, to put it nicely.

Maybe it's from living with a Virgo for so long ... seems messy to me. Just think of the clean up, afterwards .. how dreadful to have to be the one for this task.

hizaki

Ok I tried looking everywhere but I cannot find any forum rules, please direct me in the right direction if anyone is aware of where they are located and if I violated them.

wow, I set myslef up pretty bad hahaha ok I'll start and I'll be honest.

For example fantasizing about your gf and her two sisters all tied up, blindfolded, spanking them with these cute leather whips and ticklin their privates with feathers. Then giving all of them enema's and after they are all "done", then toy with their buttocks for hours while they give me oral pleasure...ok better stop before I get carried away. Anyways, my question revolves around the notion of whether every person has sick fantasies or just a few select ones? Since obviously if everyone has them then only very few people are willing to explore them, right? If I offended anyone, remember it's not you and your sisters I fantasized about.

re:wow umm yea agreeing w star225 continue your search to find that super freak for you..lol

piscean and Starfish225

You two asked me to elaborate, so I did and was honest about it. It is a dirty fantasy, but I was specifically talking about sick fantasies and I wrote down my thoughts. I have much more gentle fantasies that would turn any woman on and that would give you shivers down your spine. So how about you guys? No perverted thoughts? Is that all the female Piscean mind can offer? At least P-Angel came out of the woods and chipped in ... much potential this thread has

re: im just sayn whn u said dirty fantasies i didnt think u were talkn that dirty
to each is own im not down putting on u of course i have fantasies of my own(2 men n i on a hot steami night has mostly been on mii mind) but evry1 has diff limits . . . .

WAIT wait..... I want to know too Hiaki!! no private messaging 🙂

Oooh.......

"ticklin their privates with feathers."......COME ON GUYS......that's not TOOO bad...lol. I kinda like the idea of that.😉

yea i would like 4 mii pvt to b tickled w alot of things . . . .

Hizaki .. you really want to know what goes on in our little female Fishy heads when lusting, don't you? 🙂


I would have to agree with Starfish, when she makes the impication that a person HAS to be in my head in order for me to fantasize, unlike a man who only has to have the wind blowing in right direction to get aroused. Without a wo/man who has my fancy sexually, my libido is at level zero .. extremely frigid fish.

However, once there is a person who has my sexual desire .... then anything goes, no matter what it is. ANYTHING/EVERYTHING would be considered as sexually acceptable, if it turns the other person on.

And that is key here, for me ..... what turns me on, is whatever turns him/her on.

hizaki i think it's good that you admit your strange fantasies. better than repressing/denying them.

i agree hizaki w wheelhomies

i'm not sure if i have any weird fantasies...gotta think about that one

Pisceans live so much in their own heads ... that it's doubtful that they would actually do what they fantasize about.


Most people who comment on Pisces sexually from experience, either say one of two things ...

1. They are a lousy lay, cold, unfeeling ... and the lover cannot get the Pisces to open up and do anything except lay there and expect to be serviced. Or ..

2. They are so freaky expressing this kink that the lover is left feeling like a toy, an object.



Over the years, people have come in here and commented about this. Even now we have a new man in here that asks how to pull the freak side out of his female Fish, who apparantly remains sexually unexpressive enough for him, if he has to ask this question of his own lover.

Personally, I know I never sexually express with my husband what fantasies dance in my brain when lusting.

So, I really think that all this fantasy is in vain, and really holds no value for our lover to feel physically loved the way they probably need to.

I hear you, Ashley, and I live it every day.


I've been married for 26 years to the same man, and if he ever approached me with something kinky .. I'd likely run, as fast as I could get away.

Yet, in my head, when I have a fantasy man I'm lusting after ... you just can't even imagine how freaky it can get.

I'm not sure why, Ashley ... but, I do feel sorry for our lovers. And yet, we know how to treat a man like gold in all other areas of their life .. and it keeps them 🙂

go figure .....

All these other women can't figure out how to keep any man, and they use their sexuality .. we don't use it, and yet, here our men stay by our side.

go figure ... life is so wierd.

not really that strange i suppose, but i do enjoy some purposely induced pain. the pleasure is fine, but mixed with pain it's much more intense.

i also enjoy teasing to an extent that i think it's weird. like watching them masturbate while i rub their thighs, run my fingernails under their chin/through their hair, but not touching them where they want most.

i am a little verbally and physically sadistic - but i try to keep it on a level where there's no lasting damage.

so basically a little S&M never hurt anyone.

as for really taboo stuff...i'm afraid i don't have anything to offer.

"I noticed that when the passion or fire dies so does my desire to please that person in a sexual way."


I know exactly what you mean here, Hizaki. Desire in me to sexually please my husband ended several years ago ... I really couldn't care a less about his sexuality. Any sex after that time, was to keep him from being an ass, aggressive. However, he finally calmed down after about 2 years, and is nice now, while blue.




"I could go without sex in a steady relationship for years. Now going without self-pleasing is a whole other subject."


Me also, and do currently go without, and it has been years.

If a Pisces isn't feeling it, then it isn't going to happen. Yet, can be perfectly happy in a relationship. 🙂

Decided to keep that ^^^ to myself. For those who read already, please erase from memory .. thank you 🙂

Wow, that sounds romantic 🙂


We so love to wrap worlds around our loved-ones .. one of the bestest parts of being a Pisces. It may seem scary on one hand, but, on the other, Fish love being adaptable to new environments .. I mean, just think about dreams we have, ever changing, and the envisioning of changing/adapting ourselves to these changes is what our dreams are all about. 🙂

It's the situational changes we dream about, not really an object or person ...... so, I can just imagine how thrilling this must be for you to put reality to your dream of being a man for your woman in the flesh.

One thought, though ... culturely, how are her parents going to feel about this? It has been said that Asian girls abide a lot by parental discretion, as it pertains to their daughters men. Is that just gossip and holds no validity?

I would do that too 🙂


There's a man I dream about, and have for over 4 years now. And I would drop everything and move across to his country, if he loved me as much as I fantasize about loving him.

In a second ... with no further thoughts than touching him.


Is it a beautiful quality, or a curse?

I mean, life exists beyond that point. Sometimes, I think I could spend an entire life, living just at that moment.

So happy for you that you get to live it .. dreams really do come true.🙂

For this reason (out of many), I truly believe that Aries are perfect matches for Pisces ... Rams are in a constant state of flux, their whims change with the wind .. new moments are forever.

Very profound .. Ashley is indeed, a remarkable woman .. most of her comments are worth making note.


Please keep us updated as this adventure unfolds .... you know us Fish, to hear about making dreams a reality is what we live for. 🙂


My fantasy man is a celebrity, and doesn't even know I exist. However, two times now I've astrally projected myself to him ... so, he does know that he has been visited, because after the last time, he did an interview and mentioned about this ghost woman (me). I know he can feel me. That might make me sound mad, but, I know it to be the truth because often times a new interview will come out that he did, and he will make mention of something that I've fantasized about, about him.

So, unconciously, he is doing some stuff in his life, thinking it's his own choice to do .. when really, I'm projecting this onto him.

Crazy sounding or not .. I know what I know, and I know he feels me.

P-Angel,

were you in love with your husband in the beginning and at what point, did you withdraw that "inlove" feeling?
Hope this isn't to personal...

freakyhomies, hahaha

def my fave dxp nickname 😉

that doesn't sound like sadism...it sounds like more evidence of the lack of substance you pointed out. 😛

yeah,. ive noticed that you guys are.

I have not even read the entire post, but I know from who I am, I am not clingy whatsoever. I do better in relations where someone is not trying to control or manipulate me. I think this is why I do well with fire signs. I prefer relations where I can remain autonomy.

If I have ever been clingy it is because I was unsure about who I was. I out grew this behavior years ago. I think it comes with age. I think this not isolated to pisces but to age. I see a lot of young peole become needy and clingy to their mates and friends. I see it with old people too, who have not identified who they are without being attached to someone which is clinically diagnosed as co-dependent.

PD

wow ashley, those drawings are really good. srsly.

😕

When I was younger I used to be clingy, now i'm just "mean" and detached. I realise that people need space as much as I do.

I consider myself a bit clingy, but Ive learned to give people their space a lot more. Now I dont wait for people to do things with me, I just do them. If they need time to themselves, I just hop out the door and go about my day without a worry. I kind of just stopped caring about what others think and started caring more of what I think. Im learning little by little to be independent and not rely on others too much.

@ Hizaki

I'm still friendly to people but in terms of relationships I can be quite unemotional but I don't mean it.