Do Pisces girls cheat?

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Okay. So I'll just drop off my experience here.

I am a Leo, Cancer Moon, Scorpio Rising.

PLEASE BEAR WITH THIS. THIS IS A VERY LONG STORY.

I have had the privilege to be with a Pisces girl once. The very first time we met, I knew she was into Astrology, and almost always emphasizing she is a typical Pisces. So I looked up mine (and I am amazed how true it is) and our compatibility if we were to become a couple. Sucks that most of them say we will just hurt each other and ours will definitely not work.

At first, i said that is just BS and we make our own destiny. So i pursued her. She is an amazing woman. Sensitive to my needs, took really good care of me. I did the same for her. I literally became her knight in shining armor. I gave her everything I had.

We were together for a year. She was busy with work, I was busy with work. But I always make sure I visit her after work, even if I was dead tired. I never forget events, and I always show up with food or any random gift. But still, slowly she grew farther and farther away from me. You know what you said when they lose interest and their expression is a giveaway? I saw that in her. She never looks at me the way she looked at me when i know we were in love.

As a Leo, I value loyalty, faithfulness. She is a popular girl, and even though people knew we were together, guys don't stop hitting on her. So maybe i thought that because I am always away, she fell for someone new. That was when I started to question her incessantly. Endless probing questions. I admit i am wrong in doing this, but she never answers me directly. And more so often lies about the people she is communicating with. And that pisses me off more than anything.

Yes. So both of us decided to break up. I had to let her go if she is not faithful to me. And after just a few days after break up, I just heard that she is in a relationship with a co-worker. That blew my mind and I attacked her for cheating. She said it is not cheating because technically we broke up already. I said maybe she just wants me to let go so she can say yes to the other guy, meaning she is —entertaining?? him even when we are still together. She just shook her head and —swam away??.

Well, that guy she is with, is a total bad boy, with a reputation of changing from one girl to another. Even though I hate what she did, I still love girl and I wanted to save her from him. So I said that no matter what happens, I am with her. Turns out he cheats
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Turns out he cheats on her immediately, within that week they were together.

We became friends again. We've had casual encounters (because I didn't want to commit that fast again), I went back to visiting her at work and bringing her food, helping her when she needs me. Slowly, she looks at me the same way again. I was thinking maybe i could work it out, that I can't be without this woman.

We've had ups and downs even then. Her childhood friend/sweetheart kept texting her and JEALOUS as I am, asks and wonders what they really are. She said he has a girlfriend and that they are just keeping in touch. I told her to be careful because I don't want her to get in trouble and be labeled third party, to always put herself in the shoes of that woman. And then I calmed my senses.

After a while then, AGAIN, things started to change. She went away because of a sort-of training, and when she went back, she was like a total different person. I was astounded because I thought —WTF happened in 3 days that made you change drastically— We were texting and I asked her that, in a polite way of course. She said she wants to explore the world more. So I said no one is stopping her.

Later, I??ve learned that she met her childhood sweetheart there. And as she was talking about it, she was all smiles, ear to ear. My senses told me that was not just an ordinary date. I asked her if she likes him, she said no. I advised her that she stop communicating with him, that it's not good for the relationship of her —friend??. that even if she doesn't realize it, she is stepping on another territory.

I stopped visiting her. And she didn't care. There was one night I really miss her, and I texted her that I know deep inside me that she likes him, no matter how much she denies, because i saw the look in her eyes when she talked about him. i know because she used to look that way when she talks about me. and it's perfectly fine if they will be together, for as long as they don't keep the other girl in the dark, and that they tell her the truth.

she replied, telling me that i am right. she likes him. no doubt. but if i really think that what they have now will really hurt that woman, then she wouldn't butt in their business anymore.

THAT BLEW ME UP. AGAIN.

It was hurtful for me. I didn't believe she could be that low. Yes, the man showed interest. But it was her final decision. And she decided to cheat, again, in another sense. I was real
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It was hurtful for me. I didn't believe she could be that low. Yes, the man showed interest. But it was her final decision. And she decided to cheat, again, in another sense. I was really really really hurt that I said really hurtful words to her. Words that I know scarred her heart. I blocked her on FB, on my contacts, on everything. I hated what she have become.

I know not all Pisces girls are like her. But are they prone to cheat? I don't want to brag, but I gave her everything. I couldn't say I was lacking (or is this just my Leo senses tingling?)

Anyways, i hope to hear from people. Thanks.
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@fishinamaize, i never wanted to control her. in fact, i want her to be the best she can be. i help her in any way she wants me, and though i always wanted attention and praise from her for the things i have done (which she rarely gives me) i don't put pressure on her. i continue to just be there for her.

i thought of that as well, that she chose to cheat with that man. i still give her the benefit of the doubt, to see the good in her though. but she really was a totally different person when i first knew her and right now.

@nemesis: currently reading it now. thank you 🙂
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Posted by Nemesis
Posted by osiris626
nemesis: I used I, me, and myself as often as i used she, her and herself. To tell you honestly, I still love the girl. And if I can take her back, I will, because I know Pisces girls can be misled by people sometimes. And my girl in particular.



she can be mislead?! maybe it was her (a) deliberate choice?! geeeezzz.

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^^pisces pouring her heart out in here 😄

But seriously, I don't know what it is about the Virgo/Pisces axis but it's always someone trying to control us. Happens way more with men who date Pisces Woman...they probably see that soft quality of "i don't really give a fuck about anything" of Pisces and misinterpret as "here is a woman I can bend to my will". So wrong.
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LOL. i'm new here and i've been seeing the treetrunk word in almost every forum. and i think i get what it means now.


they are in a discreet relationship. but not the physical one. they've only seen each other once this year (when she went for that training) and they've been in constant communication since.

i guess it's his words and constant communication with her, which i failed to do i guess. and yes, she chose to cheat with him. 🙂

no guys, i am not trying to control her. she pretty much led our relationship, i was the second fiddle honestly. i was always willing to obey. i seek her advice and she does mine, except for this one though.
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@nemesis, yes. i advised her to stop communicating with him in 'that' way, because she is stepping on someone else's territory. as i have said, we value faithfulness. i kept telling her, "what if i was the guy, and there is a girl who keeps on texting me like that, would you like it?" she keeps saying no, and that she puts herself in her shoes. but yes, that happened.

@damnata, i didn't value faithfulness? may i know why?

yes. i guess i've placed her on that pedestal. i viewed her as a saint, that's what she appeared to be from the very beginning. that's what attracted me to her. and yes, everything just crumbled down.
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@damnata, i didn't value faithfulness? may i know why?

yes. i guess i've placed her on that pedestal. i viewed her as a saint, that's what she appeared to be from the very beginning. that's what attracted me to her. and yes, everything just crumbled down.



Where did I say you don't value faithfulness? I said you BOTH don't...because you were speaking for a person who doesn't value it...aka the pisces. I don't know if you value it or not but she seems not to.

You were attracted to an illusion, not someone's real self. People think they're doing a service by placing someone on a pedestal..like it's a measure of how much they love them, how much they adore them.

Meanwhile the person on the pedestal just wants to get back down, to be human..allowed to be flawed. Loved inspire of the less virtuous qualities and their mistakes. No one is a saint.

Look at the real person, not the illusion. No one wants to be on a pedestal and chained to standards other people have of them. You cannot live up to them and it creates a drift between two individuals who might've had a good run at it, despite the flaws.
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@damnata, i didn't value faithfulness? may i know why?

yes. i guess i've placed her on that pedestal. i viewed her as a saint, that's what she appeared to be from the very beginning. that's what attracted me to her. and yes, everything just crumbled down.



Where did I say you don't value faithfulness? I said you BOTH don't...because you were speaking for a person who doesn't value it...aka the pisces. I don't know if you value it or not but she seems not to.

You were attracted to an illusion, not someone's real self. People think they're doing a service by placing someone on a pedestal..like it's a measure of how much they love them, how much they adore them.

Meanwhile the person on the pedestal just wants to get back down, to be human..allowed to be flawed. Loved inspire of the less virtuous qualities and their mistakes. No one is a saint.

Look at the real person, not the illusion. No one wants to be on a pedestal and chained to standards other people have of them. You cannot live up to them and it creates a drift between two individuals who might've had a good run at it, despite the flaws.
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felt frission with what you said. is this why she cheated? to feel human again? i guess i have had high expectations from her.

interestingly, her profession somehow puts her on a pedestal, everyone expecting too much from her. and when we were together, the good old times, she can be herself with me. she would laugh out loud, pick her nose, belch, or pretty much whatever. we would talk about anything at all.

i hoped you have read my story above. i don't seek for advice on how to get her b.ack or what, but i wanted to understand a pisces even for just this one. thank you.
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Posted by Damnata
This isn't the typical Pisces MO..they swim away before they cheat.

For whatever reason, at some point she didn't feel like being with you anymore.

No, I'm not saying she cheated to be human again but putting people on pedestals yields..interesting behaviors.



whatever reason that is, i had hoped that i was told. so i wouldn't be wasting her and my time. but she has always been secretive, and always accusing me of probing in her mind. lol.

interesting behaviors, huh? technically, she didn't cheat on me, we broke up already, but still having casual encounters. she is cheating with a man who has a girlfriend. and the girl, is her friend. so i am pretty much worked up. i don't want other people talking bad about her.
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Posted by Curiousram
Interesting story.. My cancer friend had been with this pisces guy for 3 years and they got engaged (gay couple). Anyways the pisces guy decided that he wasn't happy anymore and broke up with him and then he found a new guy a week later with a "player" type. So im not sure if this is how pisces deal with their emotions by latching on to someone new. I was too lazy to read your whole essay so I'll read it later



thanks @curiousram, dude let me know what you think later. the last guy she is with now is a cancer, and he is a childhood friend of hers so they get along pretty well.
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You're a Leo man bro,,, your feelings aren't expected to matter, only hers.

also, you're new here, Leo men are sort of on the shit list here on dxp so don't expect any sympathy.

in this leo man pisces women mismatch, don't expect her to be perfect because apparently they don't like that... oh but YOU better be perfect.... I mean don't slip even once bro, or you'll get the whole silent treatment thingie.



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Posted by osiris626
It was hurtful for me. I didn't believe she could be that low. Yes, the man showed interest. But it was her final decision. And she decided to cheat, again, in another sense. I was really really really hurt that I said really hurtful words to her. Words that I know scarred her heart. I blocked her on FB, on my contacts, on everything. I hated what she have become.

I know not all Pisces girls are like her. But are they prone to cheat? I don't want to brag, but I gave her everything. I couldn't say I was lacking (or is this just my Leo senses tingling?)

Anyways, i hope to hear from people. Thanks.




Here is a straight answer...You are predicable and boring. You blame her but in reality you stuck her on a throne she didn't want. In order to keep her you needed to stop smothering her. Stop making her your whole life. Create a life where she wants to be in with you and know you can handle all aspects on your own without her existence. If your tired after work go home instead of sacrificing your rest for another. See them when your refreshed and ready for fun.

It has to be the Cancer in you...your whiny, unsure, and needy. All things Pisces women dislike. You didn't scar her heart that you didn't have in the first place. She is fine. She is just shaking her head at you. Move on and get a little backbone before pursuing another lady.
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Posted by AL4813
You're a Leo man bro,,, your feelings aren't expected to matter, only hers.

also, you're new here, Leo men are sort of on the shit list here on dxp so don't expect any sympathy.

in this leo man pisces women mismatch, don't expect her to be perfect because apparently they don't like that... oh but YOU better be perfect.... I mean don't slip even once bro, or you'll get the whole silent treatment thingie.





hi there good sir. yes, i am new here and it didn't take much time to realize that. lol.

in some way, yes, she didn't like me having high expectations from her. and me trying to be perfect for her is pretty much my own doing. i just believed she deserves the best that i am. the silent treatment thingy, i get that a lot, lol, but isn't that just another woman's thing?
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nemesis: I used I, me, and myself as often as i used she, her and herself. To tell you honestly, I still love the girl. And if I can take her back, I will, because I know Pisces girls can be misled by people sometimes. And my girl in particular.



You are far too forgiving, guy. She had sex with another dude and you want her back?

This has nothing to do with her Sun sign IMO. Look at her Moon, Venus, and Mars.
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hi sir. no. she didn't have sex with anybody else. if she did, i am out of the door in no time. when i said 'cheated', she is in a relationship with him. they are far away from each other as well.
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It was hurtful for me. I didn't believe she could be that low. Yes, the man showed interest. But it was her final decision. And she decided to cheat, again, in another sense. I was really really really hurt that I said really hurtful words to her. Words that I know scarred her heart. I blocked her on FB, on my contacts, on everything. I hated what she have become.

I know not all Pisces girls are like her. But are they prone to cheat? I don't want to brag, but I gave her everything. I couldn't say I was lacking (or is this just my Leo senses tingling?)

Anyways, i hope to hear from people. Thanks.




Here is a straight answer...You are predicable and boring. You blame her but in reality you stuck her on a throne she didn't want. In order to keep her you needed to stop smothering her. Stop making her your whole life. Create a life where she wants to be in with you and know you can handle all aspects on your own without her existence. If your tired after work go home instead of sacrificing your rest for another. See them when your refreshed and ready for fun.

It has to be the Cancer in you...your whiny, unsure, and needy. All things Pisces women dislike. You didn't scar her heart that you didn't have in the first place. She is fine. She is just shaking her head at you. Move on and get a little backbone before pursuing another lady.
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I guess I am boring. And yes, i did put her on that throne, but I don't know if she really didn't want that. It's kinda funny but you hit me spot on.

That after work thing, it's her who always wanted to see me. always wanting me to come to her, even getting mad if i am late. I grew accustomed to what we always do. I was just wasn't ready for the downfall. I didn't see it coming.

Yes, my moon is in Cancer, and a Cancer-Leo cusp as well. I do hope that I didn't scar her heart, but it will pain me if i didn't have hers in the first place. 🙂

I hope she really is fine and doing well. I hope she is happy. I just don't want her to be happy in the wrong. Cheating is cheating. And being in a relationship with committed man, i know she will be hurt one day. And i don't want that.

Thank you for the advice. I won't be pursuing anyone in the mean time. 🙂
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Posted by LunarMaiden
Sounds like you just need to move on.
You are waaaay to much into her business.
She wants to date around, see other guys.
Let her. She is not your woman.
If she were your woman, you wouldn't even have to ask do Pisces girls cheat.



hi there good miss. yes, i am on the process. i was into her business as she was into me. turned out to be unhealthy though :

it is perfectly fine with me if she wanted to date other guys. i was wrong to have thought of her as the woman she presented herself to me. i didn't believe she would cheat, yet she did.

pretty unpredictable sign. 🙂
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You caring selfless Scorpio Moon you.



Oh hi yes good miss, your pleasure is my treasure.
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i googled that "your pleasure is my treasure" and this is what I came up with:

http://books.google.ro/books?id=9b5RAAAAQBAJ&pg=PT103&lpg=PT103&dq=% 22your+pleasure+is+my+treasure% 22&source=bl&ots=_SwObIKl7Y&sig=JI_XHOupNjRjPvEOuaQJsSWDU84&hl=en&sa=X&ei=4ib_U_zSAYSE4gTbwoFg&ved=0CEIQ6AEwBg#v=onepage&q=% 22your% 20pleasure% 20is% 20my% 20treasure% 22&f=false

you're writing erotic novels now? LOL
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Posted by tiziani


So she actually spelt out her entire game to you word for word. You're probably better off listening.





i don't understand yet. lol. but from what i remember, when i started asking her probing questions and she can't answer them directly, i am always told that i should not just assume. but how can i not assume when ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS? she tells me one thing and does another. and always tells me i am a judgmental person. In turn, I say, okay. tell me the truth then so i may understand and not judge you wrongfully. and goes off telling more lies that i believe is the truth (at the moment) until i learn about the truth later. It has become a cycle. lol. Not that i care about it anymore though. She was a totally different woman before. It was like she shape-shifted.

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It's all an illusion though. You're responsible for breaking yourself free. She doesn't owe you anything.
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I guess you're right. I am slowly breaking myself free from the illusion presented to me. I am just pissed off I wasted so much time, effort, and my sense of self. It was like she took everything from me. Hahah. Not saying that i didn't give it to her willingly, but i wouldn't have if i knew everything is just illusion like that. It makes me feel so stupid.
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Posted by anjiepants
all types of signs can cheat. Your sign doesn't necessarily dictate what you will do, however I think some have a tendency to do it more than others. Pisces being a water sign, is emotional, and may do what they are feeling at the time. I would say they have a higher probability of it, if you purely look at it from an astrological perspective.



hi there good miss. well, yes i agree that maybe she is an emotional sign, and the man catered to her in a way i didn't (a cancerian guy who has a girlfriend). he is a childhood friend as well. Yes, she has that tendency to do what she feels like doing at the moment, and it is usually me who knocks the sense out of her. I admit, for you people it's control. But i always find her grateful for me being there for her, always seeking my advice about things. So lately, I have been giving unsolicited advice and i believe she didn't like that.
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Posted by tiziani
It's all good man, I know the feeling.


the thing is even if you had known it was an illusion, you would have done it anyway... because you did.

Do you realky believe you wasted your time? If you think about it, you answered all your own questions in here. Maybe you just need to let it sink in to make sure next time, you do it differently. Because there will be more illusions down the line.

the best advice I received in this scenario - "Make better decisions"



I don't know man, i think I wouldn't have done it if i knew she was not something real. I just felt really used, that I haven't been treated by a woman like this before. All my other relationships, though they have failed, but they have never been a roller coaster ride like this.

Thanks man. I will do better next time.
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@osiris626
We cheat if we are not happy
But we will let you know when you are fucking up. And we hope that you will fix the situation before it gets to that point. We are emotional so if you are not emotionally satisfying us we might find that in someone else. We need someone who can be there for us physically and emotionally. We don't like feeling neglected.
We do like bad boys! They're attractive especially if they can handle us emotionally. Maybe you were too nice and that bored her. You have to switch it up sometimes. Not saying change yourself if that's who you truly are though. We like intensity! We hate dual moments. Make the relationship adventurous. If you somehow get her back and you want her back keep her guessing, be romantic, when you fight have angry sex, don't be a bitch boy, we like being told what to do sometimes..
A lot of bad boys are aggressive and we love that.. If you're too sensitive we may feel like we're dating a girl. You can show emotion we love that but it depends..
Maybe make her jealous. She might get emotional from you showing the love you used to show her to someone else. But just take it one day at a time. It's hard dealing with drama and matters of the heart. Keep yourself occupied. Meet new people and she might come back to you and become a better person for you. We do learn from our mistakes. Maybe she'll realize that.

Just some of my thoughts.. I didn't read the whole thread..
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Posted by PiscesGoddess

We need someone who can be there for us physically and emotionally. We don't like feeling neglected.



I did nothing but support her, physically and emotionally. SO much I even lost my sense of self. But that's a thing in the past now. 🙂
We do like bad boys! They're attractive especially if they can handle us emotionally. Maybe you were too nice and that bored her. You have to switch it up sometimes. Not saying change yourself if that's who you truly are though. We like intensity! We hate dual moments. Make the relationship adventurous.



Now that you mention it, I tend to be that way. Always the Mr. Nice Guy. Just because I want to treat my woman well. Plus having the ROUTINE of me just going to her workplace everyday. We haven't really went out on a big date after both of us got busy with work. So yes, I became boring for her.

If you somehow get her back and you want her back keep her guessing, be romantic, when you fight have angry sex , don't be a bitch boy, we like being told what to do sometimes..



I actually laughed at that. Yes, we had angry sex. Mostly when she is mad at me. And if you have read the thread, they were all telling me that I was way into her business. So I pretty much told her what to do. Lol

Maybe make her jealous. She might get emotional from you showing the love you used to show her to someone else. But just take it one day at a time. It's hard dealing with drama and matters of the heart. Keep yourself occupied. Meet new people and she might come back to you and become a better person for you. We do learn from our mistakes. Maybe she'll realize that.
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It's not my style to make someone jealous. Though I have thought of that as well. If she is happy with being a man's sideline woman and not see me worthy of her, it is her choice. I have made my decision and I stand firm to that now.

Thank you so much for your input. Greatly appreciated Pisces Goddess 😉
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Posted by Jynja
OMG! A lion crab caught in a the fish pond?

Poor you, Sweetums. They are like our blessing and curse, and somehow letting go of a fish... any fish... is a difficulty. But when things reach this point though, you should probably wish her adieu and burrow in the sandy shore.



Yea, i found it very hard to let go. And in 'crab' terms, I just chopped my pincers so I can free myself. She took a piece of me I can never take back. She just didn't love me back as I have loved her. And it's fine. I just have to find somebody who will. 😄
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She just didn't love me back as I have loved her. And it's fine. I just have to find somebody who will. 😄



^^ think about that statement.

do you know what you mean by this and how you are measuring "love"?
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now that i think about it. yea. you know, deep inside, i know she did. honestly. i am pulling my hair as i type this. i am just bitter i guess. i don't know how i feel anymore.