
osiris626
@osiris626
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Posted by fishinamaize
Something not often mentioned and/or recognized: the pisceans that get "misled" in the way you're meaning it are the ones who want to be.
Also, love=/=desire to control

Posted by NemesisPosted by osiris626
nemesis: I used I, me, and myself as often as i used she, her and herself. To tell you honestly, I still love the girl. And if I can take her back, I will, because I know Pisces girls can be misled by people sometimes. And my girl in particular.
she can be mislead?! maybe it was her (a) deliberate choice?! geeeezzz.
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Posted by fishinamaize
but i'm just saying, that's not a successful way to love a fish.

Posted by osiris626
but is quite weird because we both value faithfulness.




Posted by osiris626
@damnata, i didn't value faithfulness? may i know why?
yes. i guess i've placed her on that pedestal. i viewed her as a saint, that's what she appeared to be from the very beginning. that's what attracted me to her. and yes, everything just crumbled down.

Posted by fishinamaizePosted by DamnataPosted by fishinamaize
but i'm just saying, that's not a successful way to love a fish.
Pretty much preaching to the choir here. And you're not a religious man
But being a charlatan and a demagogue is so much more entertaining than always being an outsiderclick to expand

Posted by osiris626
as i have said, we value faithfulness.

Posted by DamnataPosted by osiris626
@damnata, i didn't value faithfulness? may i know why?
yes. i guess i've placed her on that pedestal. i viewed her as a saint, that's what she appeared to be from the very beginning. that's what attracted me to her. and yes, everything just crumbled down.
Where did I say you don't value faithfulness? I said you BOTH don't...because you were speaking for a person who doesn't value it...aka the pisces. I don't know if you value it or not but she seems not to.
You were attracted to an illusion, not someone's real self. People think they're doing a service by placing someone on a pedestal..like it's a measure of how much they love them, how much they adore them.
Meanwhile the person on the pedestal just wants to get back down, to be human..allowed to be flawed. Loved inspire of the less virtuous qualities and their mistakes. No one is a saint.
Look at the real person, not the illusion. No one wants to be on a pedestal and chained to standards other people have of them. You cannot live up to them and it creates a drift between two individuals who might've had a good run at it, despite the flaws.click to expand


Posted by DamnataPosted by osiris626
as i have said, we value faithfulness.
We, again? Stop speaking on behalf of her.click to expand

Posted by Damnata
This isn't the typical Pisces MO..they swim away before they cheat.
For whatever reason, at some point she didn't feel like being with you anymore.
No, I'm not saying she cheated to be human again but putting people on pedestals yields..interesting behaviors.

Posted by Curiousram
Interesting story.. My cancer friend had been with this pisces guy for 3 years and they got engaged (gay couple). Anyways the pisces guy decided that he wasn't happy anymore and broke up with him and then he found a new guy a week later with a "player" type. So im not sure if this is how pisces deal with their emotions by latching on to someone new. I was too lazy to read your whole essay so I'll read it later

Posted by fishinamaize


Posted by osiris626
It was hurtful for me. I didn't believe she could be that low. Yes, the man showed interest. But it was her final decision. And she decided to cheat, again, in another sense. I was really really really hurt that I said really hurtful words to her. Words that I know scarred her heart. I blocked her on FB, on my contacts, on everything. I hated what she have become.
I know not all Pisces girls are like her. But are they prone to cheat? I don't want to brag, but I gave her everything. I couldn't say I was lacking (or is this just my Leo senses tingling?)
Anyways, i hope to hear from people. Thanks.

Posted by AL4813
You're a Leo man bro,,, your feelings aren't expected to matter, only hers.
also, you're new here, Leo men are sort of on the shit list here on dxp so don't expect any sympathy.
in this leo man pisces women mismatch, don't expect her to be perfect because apparently they don't like that... oh but YOU better be perfect.... I mean don't slip even once bro, or you'll get the whole silent treatment thingie.

Posted by ReincarnationPosted by osiris626
nemesis: I used I, me, and myself as often as i used she, her and herself. To tell you honestly, I still love the girl. And if I can take her back, I will, because I know Pisces girls can be misled by people sometimes. And my girl in particular.
You are far too forgiving, guy. She had sex with another dude and you want her back?
This has nothing to do with her Sun sign IMO. Look at her Moon, Venus, and Mars.click to expand

Posted by SpinCyclePosted by osiris626
It was hurtful for me. I didn't believe she could be that low. Yes, the man showed interest. But it was her final decision. And she decided to cheat, again, in another sense. I was really really really hurt that I said really hurtful words to her. Words that I know scarred her heart. I blocked her on FB, on my contacts, on everything. I hated what she have become.
I know not all Pisces girls are like her. But are they prone to cheat? I don't want to brag, but I gave her everything. I couldn't say I was lacking (or is this just my Leo senses tingling?)
Anyways, i hope to hear from people. Thanks.
Here is a straight answer...You are predicable and boring. You blame her but in reality you stuck her on a throne she didn't want. In order to keep her you needed to stop smothering her. Stop making her your whole life. Create a life where she wants to be in with you and know you can handle all aspects on your own without her existence. If your tired after work go home instead of sacrificing your rest for another. See them when your refreshed and ready for fun.
It has to be the Cancer in you...your whiny, unsure, and needy. All things Pisces women dislike. You didn't scar her heart that you didn't have in the first place. She is fine. She is just shaking her head at you. Move on and get a little backbone before pursuing another lady.click to expand



Posted by CreativeCap
^^oops my bad. It's posted on the Leo forum. Here it is https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/cheated-with-a-leo-man-5063773/


Posted by LunarMaiden
Sounds like you just need to move on.
You are waaaay to much into her business.
She wants to date around, see other guys.
Let her. She is not your woman.
If she were your woman, you wouldn't even have to ask do Pisces girls cheat.


Posted by fishinamaizePosted by Damnata
You caring selfless Scorpio Moon you.
Oh hi yes good miss, your pleasure is my treasure.click to expand

Posted by fishinamaize
That was just a throwaway line, you missed the main joke.


Posted by tiziani
So she actually spelt out her entire game to you word for word. You're probably better off listening.
Posted by tiziani
It's all an illusion though. You're responsible for breaking yourself free. She doesn't owe you anything.click to expand

Posted by anjiepants
all types of signs can cheat. Your sign doesn't necessarily dictate what you will do, however I think some have a tendency to do it more than others. Pisces being a water sign, is emotional, and may do what they are feeling at the time. I would say they have a higher probability of it, if you purely look at it from an astrological perspective.

Posted by tiziani
It's all good man, I know the feeling.
the thing is even if you had known it was an illusion, you would have done it anyway... because you did.
Do you realky believe you wasted your time? If you think about it, you answered all your own questions in here. Maybe you just need to let it sink in to make sure next time, you do it differently. Because there will be more illusions down the line.
the best advice I received in this scenario - "Make better decisions"

Posted by PiscesGoddess
We need someone who can be there for us physically and emotionally. We don't like feeling neglected.
We do like bad boys! They're attractive especially if they can handle us emotionally. Maybe you were too nice and that bored her. You have to switch it up sometimes. Not saying change yourself if that's who you truly are though. We like intensity! We hate dual moments. Make the relationship adventurous.
If you somehow get her back and you want her back keep her guessing, be romantic, when you fight have angry sex , don't be a bitch boy, we like being told what to do sometimes..
Maybe make her jealous. She might get emotional from you showing the love you used to show her to someone else. But just take it one day at a time. It's hard dealing with drama and matters of the heart. Keep yourself occupied. Meet new people and she might come back to you and become a better person for you. We do learn from our mistakes. Maybe she'll realize that.click to expand

Posted by NemesisPosted by osiris626
Hoping to get favorable responses. Cheers!
why - so we can validate you?
actually amazing how many times you used "I" "ME" "MY"
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/i-caught-my-fish-with-a-bruise-on-her-thigh-4930766/
i suggest you read this thread ^^click to expand

Posted by Jynja
OMG! A lion crab caught in a the fish pond?
Poor you, Sweetums. They are like our blessing and curse, and somehow letting go of a fish... any fish... is a difficulty. But when things reach this point though, you should probably wish her adieu and burrow in the sandy shore.

Posted by NemesisPosted by osiris626Posted by Jynja
She just didn't love me back as I have loved her. And it's fine. I just have to find somebody who will. 😄
^^ think about that statement.
do you know what you mean by this and how you are measuring "love"?click to expand
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Hoping to get favorable responses. Cheers!