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@E. You're welcome. I don't want anything to happen to you are your family! See it's times like
this when having a man comes in handy. Thank goodness you're a fish cause you might need to
do some "swimming " literally! Just saying ....

I hope Nefer and her family are safe also.

Its kinda chilly down in Houston, Texas. Other than that its cool (no pun intended)

Go TEXANS. 6-1!!!!!

Y'all don't have us worried being MIA after the storm.... Make sure y'all check in and let us know
"What the business is?" Lol
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@Nefer. Thanks for checking in.... Glad everything is fine so far...
* fingers crossed *

I'm going to see E and Nefer's charts and see how the stars align tonight to see what the future
is after the storm....lmao!!!! J/k!!!!

all I can say is try to stay dry and hope like hell the power don't go out! !!!
And have plenty of food and water...
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First order of business ......

E. we need to start a "campaign " to improve my "image " with the ladies on dxp.
The women need to know that I'm a gentleman in the "streets " and a freak in the "sheets ".

Hmmmmm.....

Ok E focus on the gentleman part and leave the freak part out. The women need to see my
Compassionate and sensitive side..... I mean after all, I am a Pisces! I'm counting on you
Eusive! !!! Don't let me down. I know this wont be an easy task with all my shenanigans in the past but if anyone can pull this off, its you E.

I mean, you're a woman, so you can sell me to them. You can sell the "Dream!" YES YOU CAN!
FORWARD!

Also.... help smooth out the "Neanderthal " comments ....

* thumbs up! *
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Posted by EusiveSoulll
^^^^ ahhh nahh, you already made a cardinal mistake by calling me your PA, but since you're showing interest in working on your 'image' I'm willing to help.

Things to remember:

1) I'm a freelancer (don't ever forget that ;p) !! I am happy to offer guidance, but the real work will have to be pulled of by *you*.

2) In order to smooth out 'Neanderthal' comments, you may wanna stop thinking like a 'Player'. Players are bottom feeders thus not very attractive. What you wanna achieve is a Mac status. For that to happen however, you will have to refrain from *blatant* reference towards 'intercourse'. Mac has no need to BRAG about it,.... he just does it *wiggles my eyebrow* !!!! What you can do is use rhetoric as a substitute for *blatant* statements.
You're very bright, and you proved it more then plenty of times....USE IT to your advantage!!!!

and finally

3) I shall remain unbiased/objective until your 'stage persona' has been burnished, thus occasional jabs might be necessary 😉 (tough love school of thought here 😄 )

Lesson one.... done! Take this, study it and then apply it

When you prove you've mastered the aforementioned, I shall commence with further lessons.

You're welcome grasshopper 😛 😄



Bravo E. Very impressive. You seem to be well versed in the "game". Hmmmmm....
Well E, I'm actually a combination of both...
All the greatest of a "player " minus the negatives and all the greatest of a "Mac "
I'm what you call a "Baller ".... lol at "grasshopper " my child I am the "lotus "
Ok E, you off to a "slow" start ....I expected a lot more from you....smh step it up!
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Its my Gemini moon.....
Twins one good...one evil
One wise....one a dam fool...smh

Never know which one is going to get the keyboard sometimes lmao

Like Plato said...

Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something.

Lmao both apply to me....

Why should I get married? Why not?
Love is the reason.
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Posted by EusiveSoulll
PP...

We've been over this very same topic several times and all we end up doing is running in circles and it's making me dizzy quite frankly. I grasp what you're trying to convey, I really do, but I am not so convinced you are willing to open yourself to other ideas/concepts some of have voiced over the past couple of months.

You are the captain of your own ship and the master of your own life, your prerogative. As far as I am concerned, all I have been trying to tell you is that *I* do not NEED to be in a relationship/marriage to be happy. That is not what defies my happiness.

Would I LIKE to be in a loving, mutually supportive relationship is a whoooolllleee another concept. I am a social creature and by that alone, there is a innate desire to be in one, but I am not going to let the need and desire dictate my choice in a partner, desperately and hopelessly seeking out a relationship. Sorry, it just isn't me!

That is why I have been saying all this time, I rather be alone then just with anyone.. period

To each their own tho



Smh..... why do people have to "deal with extremes" instead of all the "middle ground".....
When did I ever say or suggest that you should rush out and marry the first guy that looks at you?
Never once said that...... my point is this. We all have a choice.
Good or bad. We make choices. You have every right to live alone the rest of your life..
But call it what it is.... its not due to lack of good available men. You just made a choice not to
look and decided to be alone...


Like a person who makes a choice not to work but rather stay home. That's all I'm saying.
I choice to work. But u can stay home... don't hate me cause I wanna work.

FYI, if more women put the same effort into a relationship as they did their career, there wouldn't
be so many single women....just saying

Don't hate me.....I'm just the messenger. 🙂
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Sorry for typos... at work.... I choose .lol

E. I was raised to believe in marriage. I have a lot of strong morals concerning this. Even though both
my parents divorced when I was young, they both are remarried. I have 3 brothers. All are married. I have
a sister who is also married. So this is not luck or rocket science. Its called making a choice.

My Mom and Dad don't live alone. I don't have to worry about them growing old alone....
(Please tell the lie that's its okay to grow old by yourself to some kid dumb enough to believe
that bullshit.) My sister has a husband so I don't have to worry about her growing old alone
and not having someone che king on her daily. But hey that's me and my family and I'm proud
of that.

E. You do realize that I am divorced. I am currently single and live alone. Only difference between
me and you is our attitude about or situation.

I made the mistake of marrying someone who didn't grow up with the same value system
that I have and I paid the price for it..

You free to be single forever if that's your choice. Just don't lie or mislead people. Be real.
Stop the double talking and bullshit. Don't act like being single is just as good as being married
Because that's bullshit. If you wanna sell that bold face lie...I'm sorry I ain't buying
your "wolf tickets ".....smh
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And FYI I been legally divorced for four years but you will never ever hear me praising being
Single. So you don't see me rushing out to marry the first woman I see....smh

I may joke about a lot of things but FAMILY AND MARRIAGE wont be one of them....

And anytime you try to disrespect either or mislead, imma set you straight ....
I don't care who you are....


Are we crystal clear.....
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Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0sense
FYI, if more women put the same effort into a relationship as they did their career, there wouldn't be so many single women.



There does seem at first glance to be a certain misogynistic tone coming through in this statement. To rephrase your comment, it appears you believe women need to choose between marriage and work. The percentage and absolute quantity of permanently single and divorced single women in the Western world has significantly increased concurrently with the realisation of full equality and acceptance of women in the workplace, but upon what basis do conclude this to be the result of said women assigning their relationships a lower priority rather than the fact that, now that they are financially able to survive, and even thrive, independently, they have chosen to do so?
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Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0sense
My Mom and Dad don't live alone. I don't have to worry about them growing old alone....(Please tell the lie that's its okay to grow old by yourself to some kid dumb enough to believe that bullshit.) My sister has a husband so I don't have to worry about her growing old alone and not having someone che king on her daily.

You free to be single forever if that's your choice. Just don't lie or mislead people. Be real. Stop the double talking and bullshit. Don't act like being single is just as good as being married. Because that's bullshit. If you wanna sell that bold face lie...I'm sorry I ain't buying your "wolf tickets ".....smh


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And anytime you try to disrespect [family or marriage] or mislead, imma set you straight.
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You necessarily imply that Bubbly and Elusive are, in effect, delusional, and that their belief in this regard is disrespectful of the very institution of marriage itself when, in fact, they have done nothing more than voice their shared belief that a life partner is not a prerequisite to their happiness. The morals and values instilled in you by your family and resultant from your life experiences notwithstanding, why is it you believe it is necessarily —better?? for everyone to be in a committed relationship? Do you not find it to be the slightest bit presumptuous of you to categorically state that everyone who does not want to be in such a relationship and who espouses the belief that the single life is perfectly equal in quality to the married/committed life is a bold-faced liar and intentionally misleading?
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@Stoic. Let me simplify what I am saying.

There are universal laws (nature) (science) (math) that govern the world we live in.
Humans have the unique capabilities of accepting or rejecting the natural order of things....
ecosystems ...

In order to have a baby naturally. You need a Man and a Woman.
In order to survive you need food, water, and shelter. Everything else is extra.

If you have ever experienced a natural disaster first hand, you know this.
To mislead in the way that I mean it is to lead someone astray to darkness
rather than to "light". To give innocent people a false "light" for economic gain or
out of ignorance or pure evil. This is bigger than me and you.

Bigger than a 6 figure income and equal wages. Where do kids and family figure into all of this?
What is truly best for the children which are the future ?

Greed and selfishness seem more important and more relevant to you than the future of our kids...
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I try to keep my words simple so there is no misunderstanding or confusion so for you to suggest that
I implied in any way that a woman had to choose between a relationship or her career ....that is clearly intentionally meant to
mislead. How is putting the same amount of effort into a relationship as you do your career the
same thing as having to choose between the two? Hmmmm....

I'm still at work but will be off soon and will give this more thought. I apologize for the "educated fool"
comment ...... I don't know you well enough to make a comment like that. Just frustrated at work.
You seem like a good guy who means well.
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The fact of the matter Dimey - is that you like to argue. And are creating an argument where none exists, with your duality.
Nobody has claimed that EVERYONE should be single, never marry, and single is the only way to go. It's your staunch stance, that's creating this. You are making some people feel attacked for their own life decisions, as if somehow they will learn later they were so wrong to think the way they did, and had they only listened to you they would have been enlightened. Those are fighting words to a Pisces. You can go push that omniscience at some other sign (I won't deign to suggest one though 🙂 lol)

Some have stated their personal beliefs.

Accept that as humans evolve, so do their beliefs. With good things evolving, some less than good things evolve as well as some bad things.

Dare I ask you what you think about those couples that got together and decided they didn't want to procreate. Because this "women not marrying" thing is the same as the "not procreating couples" from the baby boomer generation. I'm not asking, I'm pointing out the similarity.

I'm not really looking to respond further than this post, because like Elusive said - the circles you create are exhausting. I have to be in the right mood, and willing to get upset to even look at most of your posts lol.
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To be or not to be in a relationship... which is better?

I think it depends of the person's character. It takes a certain degree of self development (both parties) to build and maintain a successful relationship. Independence is a must. One should first be happy with oneself before one can be even happier with someone else. I think people should be more like EusiveSoulll and bubblyaquarius. Nobody should need to be in relationships to be happy with themselves. That's just taking the easy way through your self development, which means a great burden for the person you are in a relationship with. People always end up paying dearly for those mistakes eventually.

Imo, the whole point of being in a relationship is to be able to achieve greater things than when you're by yourself. It's a higher degree of happiness reserved for those who have (among many other things) maturity, integrity and the will to commit.

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Smh..... why do people have to "deal with extremes" instead of all the "middle ground".....



Please read your own posts.
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Posted by bubblyaquarius
" And as of right now I'm happy single.

You say some stuff I agree with, and then other stuff that just doesn't seem to make much sense....or contradict.... I don't even think I understand how this convo happened between you and Elusive.... If some gals are single, it doesn't mean they are sad, depressed, bad, or secretly want to be in a relationship, they may be happy single! Your reading to much into it.



Tell me if I'm wrong bubbly... but weren't you with a Sag about a week ago? You are giving the "single girl speech"

I have heard that speech many, many times. It is women trying to convince themselves they are happy being single... when they are not.

I know how this conversation started.. it was in fact Elusive that read into $ .41's "talking in general to her" and she decided to open the door to this conversation. If it didn't apply to her.. or she didn't see herself in his "opinion".. she wouldn't have felt the need to defend her singleness.

Come on Pisces Ladies!!! You are martyring yourself when you give the happy being single speech. You Fish love to love! You get hurt then talk about how painful love is, your broken relationships, how complicated you are... all women of all signs do this when they are single but you Fish ladies take it to a different level..

There is nothing wrong with being single.. but there is nothing wrong with ADMITTING you would like love... without actively looking for it. You Fish ladies flirt like crazy.. but when it is time to move a little past flirting.. the walls come up. the excuses start happening... past pain is revealed and you block yourselves with your own doubts and fears.

lighten up and take a chance or be open to love. I think that is all $ .41 was trying to say but I don't want to speak for him and yes... his thoughts can go in several different directions. But his basic message is pretty spot on.. i think

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Posted by bubblyaquarius
ShellShocker, I am with a sag. I actually have ended and started a new relationship with one very recently. I forget I'm taken when its new and fresh sometimes, it doesn't feel as real to me at the start. I wasn't feeling it with the first one, now I'm with another. I am actually thinking maybe i should avoid the sags, seem to be some failed relationship threads i've been coming across lately with these air and fire signs.

I really don't feel unhappy when I am single. The Aquarius in me is good outside of a relationship. I do think I'm more Pisces than Aqua, but I still am Aqua.

Look ShellShocker, I admitted I didn't see anything wrong with love and marriage...did you read that? I don't flirt like crazy. I find it difficult to talk to the men I am interested in actually.



I see! Good for you... you are open to new experiences in love and trying again...

But you are also misleading... you are giving single ladies a pat on the back and a thumbs up to being single.. but do not heed your own advice. Why is that?

And why did you say that you were single when you weren't. Did you really "forget"? But you are a Aqua/Pisces and the truth is subjective to them, haha!

please don't take offense to that.. i do enjoy that trait cause I like to read between the lines! 🙂
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Posted by bubblyaquarius

Who here said they were against marriage?



Absolutely zero.
Nobody is saying they don't want love either.

Being happy single - does not necessarily equate to not wanting/desiring a relationship.
It's not an equation. It's acceptance of what is. My stupid little brain can't recall if anyone said they don't WANT anything. I don't think they did (forgive me if I'm wrong). I think they just said they're fine with things as they are at the current moment?
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Oh he is misunderstood - because that's what you get when you want to live in the grey.
It's all up to interpretation at that point. Hence $ 0.41, why the extreme - does have a place in the world.




Bwahhahaha... I just looove the way you say things lady

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hahah I have a way of dramatically presenting my thoughts (so I've been told. I've learned it's a pretty valid thought).
But come on - I'm mostly a mix of Pisces/Aries/Leo - how could I not!
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And she was like...? Was she marriage crazy too? or not?



Every conversation we had on the phone either started with "when you gone marry me?", or ended with "We not married soooo...". Matter of fact, she left me for a wealthy, old, fat, white man. And guess what? They're married!...Go fucking figure...



its worse than i thought. =o



SMH...you dont know the half.
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Purely for shit disturbances sake - MAYBE she should have put more effort into your relationship, and now you guys would be married 🙂
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And she was like...? Was she marriage crazy too? or not?



Every conversation we had on the phone either started with "when you gone marry me?", or ended with "We not married soooo...". Matter of fact, she left me for a wealthy, old, fat, white man. And guess what? They're married!...Go fucking figure...



its worse than i thought. =o



SMH...you dont know the half.



Purely for shit disturbances sake - MAYBE she should have put more effort into your relationship, and now you guys would be married 🙂



Fuck No! I would never marry that bitch, or be in another relationship with her, or "relationship" period. I feel sorry for the next man.......oh yea I forgot he's old and desperate, smmfh...He'll enjoy her then...
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You proved my point. That so wasn't to shit disturb you PHV. It was meant for 3dimes reading pleasure whenever he ventures into this beautiful disaster of a thread 🙂
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Posted by EusiveSoulll
@ Shell...

As other members have clearly gotten my point, I shall emphasize the fact that I have NEVER stated I OPPOSE the institution of marriage (or relationships for that matter) neither have I by any means undervalued/disrespected it's worth in the society ,but what I will not subject myself to, is someone imposing their subjective opinion on what makes ME happy and what doesn't.

Also, I wouldn't go generalizing and throwing all individuals of the respective zodiac sign into the same basket. Just because I'm a pisces now all of a sudden that spells I have been planning a wedding all my life or somehow secretly desiring it. What?!?! I'm lost

Honestly, when and where did I state that I did not believe in love *smh*....



I do "get your point"... I just think you are bluffing a bit. and you don't have to tell me what other members have clearly gotten.. because i am not them... nor will i share their opinion just because the "masses" think it...

I never said anything about planning weddings or marriage. I said Pisces love to love... in any context.

Nor did I state or even imply that you do not believe in love. seriously, E?

Believing in love..and seeing the importance of marriage/relationships in society is VERY different than being OPEN to love!

I'm going to get more forest than trees for a moment... think about the laws of attraction. I have observed that Pisces women when in a relationship... rarely talk about their relationships. How happy they are or unhappy. They keep it to themselves and do not "rejoice" in their love. (Probably don't tell the guy either) BUT when they are single.. they will go to great lengths to defend being single and talk about all the negative traits in their past relationships.

Perhaps, just perhaps if they focused on the positives of love and tried harder to express their love while in relationships... they would have a better chance of maintaining them.

just a thought... *ducks and covers for assault* 😛



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I'm going to get more forest than trees for a moment... think about the laws of attraction. I have observed that Pisces women when in a relationship... rarely talk about their relationships. How happy they are or unhappy. They keep it to themselves and do not "rejoice" in their love. (Probably don't tell the guy either) BUT when they are single.. they will go to great lengths to defend being single and talk about all the negative traits in their past relationships.

Perhaps, just perhaps if they focused on the positives of love and tried harder to express their love while in relationships... they would have a better chance of maintaining them.

just a thought... *ducks and covers for assault* 😛



Guilty. But to qualify - I think we keep quiet for the most part about a lot of things - good or bad.
I think most single women (any sign) feel the need to defend being single (especially if prolonged, or *gasp* by choice).

Just the other day I mentioned something I read that you had said in the past (to prove a point about Pisces lack of communications). I get what you are saying. I'm coming around to your way of presenting it. If in any stretch of the imagination this is what .41 was saying.... he failed miserably.

I, personally will admit to the fact that this probably is 75% of what holds me back from actually having someone in my life.
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Posted by bubblyaquarius
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You don't undertsand, I go above and beyond for my lover.

Do you even know pisces women? I know so many who are too kind, too submissive, martyrs or however its spelled. Those are our negative traits. Not being cold and non expressive of feelings. I always tell my feelings to my love. =/ Pisces are all about feelings, idk if we could bond with someone not having felt we could express that. Haven't you read that pisces women make men feel on top of the world. Read about pisces girls. we are the girliest. lol

and yeah your right, i've read pisces need love and to be loved, etc... but it doesn't mean we sulk and are depressed single. we go through many phases. have you read that? I hear we go through so many emotional and sexual phases. we really are emotional. so its not like we always want it. you know, we go through different seasons and modes...
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Deezie, I'm jel. Water Rosster entirely sucks now.



Bubbly.. you are starting to annoy me a bit deary. You are more Aqua than Pisces.. no matter what you think. (Was married to an Aqua/Pisces. Am in a relationship with a Pisces/Aqua now)

Yes.. I know many Pisces male and female. I am also a Pisces Ascendant and have 6 aspects to Neptune so this pond is not "foreign" to me.

I am not talking about YOU specifically, Aqua. Please stop telling me to educate myself and take a look at the rafter in your eye...

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Posted by bubblyaquarius
ShellShocker, my dominant element is Water. don't know what else to tell you. but yes, i do have aqua traits as well.

but to say pisces women don't express their love or rejoice in their love seems wrong.



Seems wrong... but you know what - I agree that in less than ideal circumstances - is more than correct.
It would take exceptional circumstances for me to break down all the walls.

It creates a cycle starting with the fish - of needing to see it first, before following. And when you are with a partner that also needs to see it first, the fish gets tossed back, and then the partner moves on and easily finds it with a non-fish.

hahahahaha my god.... my hypocrisy never ceases to amaze me. I wish it were on purpose. At least then I'd feel like I had more control over it.
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Posted by bubblyaquarius
ShellShocker, my dominant element is Water. don't know what else to tell you.



good for you...

I very much agree with Deezie... The "way" Pisces express their love is different... and sometimes others have a hard time seeing it.. until they can feel it.

I think it is more about finding a balance in showing/communicating that love in a way their partner can understand.

It is hard.. and that level of difficulty may be what holds them back from "going for it"
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ShellShocker, my dominant element is Water. don't know what else to tell you. but yes, i do have aqua traits as well.

but to say pisces women don't express their love or rejoice in their love seems wrong.



Seems wrong... but you know what - I agree that in less than ideal circumstances - is more than correct.
It would take exceptional circumstances for me to break down all the walls.

It creates a cycle starting with the fish - of needing to see it first, before following. And when you are with a partner that also needs to see it first, the fish gets tossed back, and then the partner moves on and easily finds it with a non-fish.

hahahahaha my god.... my hypocrisy never ceases to amaze me. I wish it were on purpose. At least then I'd feel like I had more control over it.
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haha Deezie! I didn't even read this before I posted. You KILL me... LOL!!!!!! 🙂 🙂
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ShellShocker, my dominant element is Water. don't know what else to tell you.



good for you...

I very much agree with Deezie... The "way" Pisces express their love is different... and sometimes others have a hard time seeing it.. until they can feel it.

I think it is more about finding a balance in showing/communicating that love in a way their partner can understand.

It is hard.. and that level of difficulty may be what holds them back from "going for it"
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Totally agreed - I more often than not refrain from "going for it" until it's too late.
I believe (and always have) that Shellshocker has our number - and she's good at verbalizing it to us.
Choosing to listen vs getting defensive though... that's the tough part.

Shell didn't even pay me to kiss her ass 🙂

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Don't get me wrong. ACTION: I go above and beyond. And I do too much. And I get taken advantage of HARD. Because I see love as "service", not "expression". (Hrm. I just figured out the gap I need to bridge).

But when it comes to acknowledging my feelings. And speaking them. And hugging the feelings.... I am a fucking rock floating in outer space. Catch me. I dare you to try.
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