Eusivesoulll versus Hurricane Sandy.......... (Page 3)

So was Nefer and biker judging Nasad—? Hmmmm...

What "qualifies " as judging?

And bubbles .... I'm ignoring your comments only because their not based on facts... clearly emotional responses ...
with very little thought ....

I love how people accuse me of doing the same thing that they're doing....
But somehow its different when they do it.

I understand the twisting of my words.... misinterpretations .....
But for what end? Why?

Have y'all even thought to consider why? Why is no one telling Nasad everything will be alright ...
everything will be fine because you're single.

Since deezie like going "deep"
Don't make me pull up quotes from all of you showing how much of a hypocrite you are......

Smh.... talking about "judging " you went there not me....
I said I will call you on your bullshit .... bottom line....

That was... circling in the shallow waters dear.
Proving my point.

And I've admitted many times in the past few days to my level of hypocrisy. Go ahead. Waste your time and bring it up. You aren't uncovering anything. You're even using the word of which I called myself out on.
My goodness...

Well I'm done. You aren't even reading what you respond to.
To each their own. Nothing saying that you have to... but I've had my fill.

Good luck Bubbly.

PHV - pleasure as always. Don't stay in the window too long, the neighbours will call the cops 🙂

Silver - welcome! You seem like a nice woman, hope to see you join in some more 🙂

Posted by deezie
Well I'm done. You aren't even reading what you respond to.
To each their own. Nothing saying that you have to... but I've had my fill.

Good luck Bubbly.

PHV - pleasure as always. Don't stay in the window too long, the neighbours will call the cops 🙂

Silver - welcome! You seem like a nice woman, hope to see you join in some more 🙂

Thanks deezie! 🙂

I do read what I respond to but this site takes time to refresh .... and also I like to think about
What I say before I say it.

Deezie, this is why history is so important. Good thing about this site is its not as easy to distort history
on here unless you delete your account.

First deezie, I don't think you have ever been married.... so you are starting off biased.
I have been married and I am divorced now. So I know both sides. Not just one side.

Not from outside looking in but from within. Both sides.

If you want to be single. Be single. Why feel the need to validate your decision by
saying it is "just as good". That's the only issue. Stay focused deezie.

How can you say that if you never been married ....

That's like saying "having one leg is just as good as two" to make yourself feel better because
you only have one leg. Having one leg is not just as good. That's a bold face lie!!!!

Having one parent instead of two is NOT just as good.... that's a bold face lie!!!!!

Coming in second is not just as good as finishing first ..... that's a bold face lie! !!!

And being single is not just as good as being married ... another bold face lie!!!!!

And deezie if you watch the news.... you see the truth...

The lies are catching up with us. We can't keep lying .... the world itself wont allow it....

Now quit trying to turn this into something its not...

Stay focused ....concentrate.....

This all started because a few mermaids wanted to validate their choice to be single
and say it was "JUST AS GOOD AS BEING MARRIED ".

Did you really think I forgot how all this got started?

Your goals are selfish in nature ..... mine are not.
I'm single and I'm having fun being single...

But I don't need to LIE and say its "JUST AS GOOD AS BEING MARRIED ".

That's the only difference between me and you.
Once you get married and you will get married one day trust me

And you will KNOW the truth ..... that's all that matters

@scorched. All people are not good or bad.... nothing is absolute. There are no guarantees in
Life except for one:

We all will die.

Being single wont guarantee you happiness neither will marriage. But look at it like this...
If you don't try you are then guaranteed not to do.
So try. And if you are going to try. Try for something good. Why not?

People need love. They need to feel loved. More than from family and friends ...
I didn't make the rules.... none of us did. We either choose to live by them or not.
To love or not is your choice. To try is your choice.

@scorched. Think about it like this....

You have a 35 year old man who decides he would rather live at home with his mom than
go find a job. He then points to the 38 year old guy who works at McDonald's and rides a bicycle
to work. The 35 year old feels he is just as good or rather he believes he is better than the 38 year
old guy because he would never work at McDonald's or ride a bicycle to work.

He's choosing not to compare himself to the 29 year old man who works 2 jobs and has a wife
who stays how with the kids. The 35 year feels that he is just as good as both men even though
he refuses to find work and instead plays world of Warcraft all day and night.

If I'm able to work.... I'm going to find something and not just sit at home and complain and criticize
other people that work in dead end jobs to make myself feel better for not having a job. Ignoring
all the many successful people with great jobs and careers.

The 35 year old says," I'm glad I don't work because McDonald's got robbed and somebody got
killed." That could have been me. Never thinking about all the other jobs out there that didn't
get robbed.

Its all on how you choose to see things...
Just don't let FEAR govern your life.

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Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0sense
@scorched. All people are not good or bad.... nothing is absolute. There are no guarantees in
Life except for one:

We all will die.

Being single wont guarantee you happiness neither will marriage. But look at it like this...
If you don't try you are then guaranteed not to do.
So try. And if you are going to try. Try for something good. Why not?

People need love. They need to feel loved. More than from family and friends ...
I didn't make the rules.... none of us did. We either choose to live by them or not.
To love or not is your choice. To try is your choice.

you try too hard to sound deep or insightful. it makes me feel embarassed for you. especially at your age.

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Lmao thank you for that.... you made me laugh....
I'm laughing only because you really believe what u said.... you think im trying to sound deep ...
If I was trying to sound deep I would use famous quotes and big words and all that nonsense ....
I have an advantage over you. I have been your age. You haven't been my age.
I use to "think" like you... that's what's funny... now some of my words and "thinking "have
Come back to haunt me. You don't know how that feels yet... but u will. Then u will
choose your words and your battles more wisely ....

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience,
but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. MLK.

FYI, I only come on here and say what I say because of all the people who feel the same way
I do but are scared to be known. To let them know that they are not alone. Love is still alive and well.
I can stand alone.

And entertainment ..... to make people laugh and cheer them up!

Its all for love... 🙂

Lmao.... ok I'm sorry.... ok let me explain a few things.... first I'm on this site most of the time
on my phone ..... and don't have the time to commit to actually sitting at a computer.

So I'm doing other things besides this site. Then it refreshes a little slower when you access
the site by phone. Then I might a few calls in between posting etc ...

Then how can a stranger serve me—? Say what—? That's a good one....
So it talks a while for me to catch up with posts ....

I almost was about to make a call and saw all your posts ....

Ok so since you seem to have me all figured out and feel such pity for "the old man"
Tell me about you....

Have you ever been married? Are you single? Do you have kids?
I will try to reply fast lol and hope I don't get a call cause I don't want
You to think I ran away...

Then this dam auto correct on my phone has a mind of its own..... Grrrrr
so trust that I am educated enough to make over 6 figures ......

Thanks Nina but its cool.... she is free to view me however she likes....
I find it amusing myself. I like a disadvantage ..... I'm amazed how well I do
from a cellphone .....ha!

Dammit scorched. I'm still waiting for this ass whipping? —?

I was about to make a phone call. Is this gonna take all night or what?

Thank you for answering honestly. I appreciate that.
This site is therapy for me because I need balance.

I like the fact that you voice your opinion and I respect that.

I can come across as arrogant and very flamboyant offline and no one would dare step to me.
I joke a lot on this site and try to humble myself because humility is important.
I am working on that. Please forgive me if my words upset you or hurt you.
That was not my intention at all. I don't try to "talk down" on people but sometimes
I am too passionate and I need to work on that. My apologies.

Being dominant doesn't mean being a fool or not listening to reason.

I admire the fact you approach me with tenacity lol.... you wanted me to hear what u had to say

I'm hoping that if I can do better on this site.... then I can do better offline.
I can't speak too much or say too much cause people get offended or start
feeling insecure or awkward ......

@scorched. I don't want you to apologize for anything. I'm not offended but anything
you said. To be honest the way you attacked me I did since a little "male hatred " but wasn't
sure.

If I "lived" online I would be offended but lucky for me I do well for myself "offline ".... thank God for
small wonders .....

So I can "play the fool" online... sad thing is someone of you are doing it backwards ....
Y'all "play the fool " offline and play "Einstein " online...... hmmmmm

Whatever floats your boat...... 🙂

Dammit with this auto correct ..... sorry for typos.... lol its kinda hard to try
to proofread and correct on a cellphone ....

And this site only gets cellphone privileges .... 🙂

LOL @ this thread!

Just because you read a book, does not an expert make.

Posted by EusiveSoulll

Posted by StillWater
^ Look, I'm not here to analyze anyone's personality. I was just looking at the topic and reactions.

@deezie - It seems everyone on this thread is determined to be offended?

Anyhoooo.... mercury retrograde at it's best * leeee deeeeepppp sigh*

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Tell me about it... 😢 (I'm trying to stay out of people's beeswax and FB)

Posted by StillWater
...we are all HUMAN BEINGS with FEELINGS.

what can a person, whose ideas are so different than yours, do to still receive some respect?!

Is being human, not enough to respect that person? Their idea has to match yours?

nice contribution, Stillwater! everyone expresses themselves differently..

i often tell myself that all I have to do is be my message... and i'll get respect where it matters 🙂