Femme Pisces and cockyness?!

Do you ladies act all cocky when you flirt or wish to express intrest (or maybe just want that someone to notice you)? I'm Leo so I'm easily offended and it's hard to determine if I'm being insulted or just playfully toyed with. Do you even bother being cocky to a guy you don't like?

This censor thing is getting to my nerves - YOU CAN'T CENSOR INTERNET, MORONS!

But chickenyness reads c-o-c-k-y!

And I guess another relevant question would be do you actually like guys being c-o-c-k-y or do you perfer serious guys who speak directly to your hearts and minds? C-o-c-k-y-n-e-s-s come natural to me most of the time but I'm actullay far more the serious type.

Ah they had one of those things.. thanks!

Not Pisces but I can tell you as a woman, I like a cocky guy at first...something has to attract me and also a quick witted person. A little outgoing shows confidence but then... I want someone that is not too scared to express himself either...best we woman dont try and think what you are thinking/feeling ...it's just too hard and we always fuck it up!!!

@sweethearts, yeah experience tells me women like a certain amount of cockyness, but also that Pisces don't particulary like that treatment. They want real connection and cockyness is just masked flirting, which katica kind of confirms but seavixen in a way opposes ..


@seavixen, intresting.. how's the rest of your chart?
moon, mars, venus, asc. etc.

There are some major fire placements in your chart (moon, asc) so obviousely cockyness comes natural to you 😉

ooh yeah 😄

Personally, I feel one's Venus, rather than Sun or Moon sign, is a much better indicator of how they are in love, relationships, flirting, etc.

I'm a Pisces Sun. Taurus Moon. Aries Venus.

I'm definitely a mutable, changeable Pisces, but I also crave stability (Taurus Moon) which tempers my natural Pisces desire for change and natural inclination towards being bored easily. I AM bored easily I guess, but I like stability and comfort, therefore I'd rather do something to spice things up, change or compromise to bring back excitement.. rather than just chucking the whole lot and starting over with someone new, like my Pisces Sun might want me to. My Aries Venus though - that's the kicker for me. So I'm a sweet, dreamy Pisces gal, right? Nope, not when it comes to love. In love and relationships, I'm much more aggressive, comfortable being the initiator, unafraid to go after whatever I want. Pure fire, direct, assertive. In love, I'm much more like my fiery Aries Venus than my quiet Pisces Sun or my calm, patient Taurus Moon. Yes, I DO like a touch of cockiness, self-assurance, self-confidence. No, not to the point of being an insufferably boorish asshole who is entirely too full of himself. But a manly man, a confident man -- oh yeah, baby, I like that! And yes, I probably give off the same kind of vibes as well - the touch of cocky, the self-assurance. I don't think I'm the Most Awesomest Chick on the planet... but I DO think I'm pretty great, and you should too, damnit! LOL

Are you thinking of a particular Pisces girl? Her VENUS is what I'd like to know. 😄

Hey Nefer, boy does that Aries of yours shine through. My sister-in-law is Aries and I sense much of her atittude in your posts. Altough I've never known anyone with Aries Venus, but generally Aries placements freak me out a little! I have two girlfriends with their Moon in Aries and they are very aggressive in sex while detached in love. I've heard people with this placement are prone to cheating, and knowing them it kind of makes sense. Funny thing is I can't disrespect their ways because it always comes with a certain amount of logic.

Yeah right now I have a special Pisces on my mind. She's a Taurus Moon. Pisces Venus. Capricorn Ascedant. I very much like her chart, seems very stable and in terms of love - secure (which suits me fine because I'm Cancer Moon-Taurus Ascedant). She displays a great deal of innocence and vulnerability, and just like any Pisces she has this huge wall between herself and the rest of the world. I caught a glipse of what's inside and now I want in!

Altough I'm a little concerned about her Gemini Mars since I keep hearing Geminis are...well kind of slippery in topics of sex and love. But I dunno, it's just what other people keep saying.

I think my Aries in Venus shows quite a bit too LOL

If a Pisces gal's gotta have a Gemini placement somewhere, Mars is not bad. Mars is our energy, our drive, our way of DOING things. Though Geminis have a bad rep as being a rather unfaithful sign, prone to cheating, it's more that they bore easily -- and plenty of bored people cheat, of every sign. If they are willing to cheat, they'll probably cheat. If cheating is unfathomable to them, they probably won't cheat. Not every Gem is a cheater, and it would be unfair to say that. As unfair as to say every Scorp is a twisted sex fiend, or every Pisces weak and deceitful, or no Libra can ever make a decision, or every Virgo an anal-retentive asshole beyond hope! Her Gemini in Mars won't make her unfaithful - and her other placements attest to her natural fidelity.

Some fun reading for you:
http://astrology.about.com/od/venus/p/VenusPisces.htm<BR> http://www.astrologyzine.com/flirting-with-venus-in-pisces.shtml<BR>
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/marsinsigns.html<BR> http://www.sexualastrology.com/marsingemini.html<BR> http://www.astrologyweekly.com/learn-astrology/mars-in-gemini.php<BR>

Thanks for clarifying the Mars/Gemini aspect. Not that I thought her Gemini would make her less of a person, just that maybe that placement would be less compatible with me. I guess having both Capricorn and Gemini under the same "roof" will make for some intrestign debates.


(And thanks for the links btw, I've already read some of it, some of it was new. )

I act playful/cocky when i really like someone, or sometimes when i really dislike someone, im sure the difference would be noticed between the two. If i am indifferent i make no effort to act this way, and may be quite plain or just quirky.

And i like a cocky guy, but he has to show that his cockyness is playful and not always serious.

Admits ....I am a flirt. When I have strong affections for someone ......I can flirt but I can also get kind of shy or reserved.

I find that when I was younger, less mature, I tended to go for guys that are chickeniness...lol generally because I am not extremely confident myself and its easier when the guy is, he would pursue etc. But as I get older (though not that old/mature) I find that I'm getting more attracted to guys that are more down to earth such as earthy signs. They are more realistic and less extravagant. I find over chickeniness in a guy annoying and repugnant.