He admits feelings but treats me badly?

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firefis1996
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I have been having a friends with benefits relationship with another pisces male 20yo, for the last two years. two weeks ago he was very drunk and admitted his feelings for me. I didn't admit mine back and tried to make him understand we will talk about it when he's sober. we never did.

We've only been talking about friendly things since then. he has not asked to hang out with me and turns down all my invites. he ignores my message for up to a day or up to a week if i dont send a second message.

This is driving me crazy how obviously rude he is treating me right now. we were friends. the whole beginning of this year we have had a very good relationship. only now has he been avoiding me.

Whats this pisces man doing and what shall i do?

I have feelings for him too!
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the body of the post doesn't coincide with the title of the thread.

In nothing that you said, does he admit to how he's treating you.



It doesn't look to me like he's treating you bad ....... a fuck buddy has no obligation to cater to your feelings. If he would rather do something else, besides being with you, then you have to accept that and shut up about it .. because that is what you agreed to when you started fucking him without terms.

The only person who treats you bad is yourself. You never required of yourself to have respect.
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Posted by firefis1996
I have been having a friends with benefits relationship with another pisces male 20yo, for the last two years. two weeks ago he was very drunk and admitted his feelings for me. I didn't admit mine back and tried to make him understand we will talk about it when he's sober. we never did.

We've only been talking about friendly things since then. he has not asked to hang out with me and turns down all my invites. he ignores my message for up to a day or up to a week if i dont send a second message.

This is driving me crazy how obviously rude he is treating me right now. we were friends. the whole beginning of this year we have had a very good relationship. only now has he been avoiding me.

Whats this pisces man doing and what shall i do?

I have feelings for him too!
He feels rejected by your refusal to talk about feels. Or he's embarrassed he brought it up.

You have to initiate the conversation.