he so interested if I've had sex since leaving?

We went on one date only then I realised he wasn't into relationships only sex(he told me upfront). After the date I told him that Im looking for a relationshhip not a fwb situation. He contacted me out the blue after a few months for light chit chat a few times over the course of a week, then one night he texted me at almost 12am (drunktext?) Asking if I had slept with anyone?
He knows Im a virgin and that I won't sleep with him, because I want to be in a relationship first. Why is he asking this? I didnt respond

Delete his number and stay far away from him. He sounds like a pig. There is no reason other than him being drunk and a woman-user.

Label him as Don't Answer and keep it moving.
He doesn't care about your virginity or why youre doing it

Posted by KaptainKhaos
Delete his number and stay far away from him. He sounds like a pig. There is no reason other than him being drunk and a woman-user.

so it wasnt a drunk text? why does he want to know?

he wants your v card.

i suggest not mentioning you're a V next time.

Hon you deserve better.Block him and go for someone who treats you with respect and consideration for your healthy choices.He is a jerk.

Posted by recka1313

Posted by KaptainKhaos
Delete his number and stay far away from him. He sounds like a pig. There is no reason other than him being drunk and a woman-user.

so it wasnt a drunk text? why does he want to know?

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Because he is the type of pig that preys on women with strict values/traditions, coerces (or forces) them to do other wise, and then leaves; feeling victorious in successfully using a woman's body as weapon against her to inflict emotional trauma. It would also be a supreme ego boost for him as only the lowest of the low PREY on virgin women who have admitted to not wanting sex.

That is his only desire. He is an abuser. And you, being a virgin are sadly a target for his abuse.


You'd be a fool to entertain keeping him in your life. If your decision to abstain from sex is based in religion, you have alot more to lose than him. If he seems persistent he might try to rape you.

Even if it isn't based in religion, you still have a lot to lose and he seems interested in taking it.

wtf is up with this?


You describe to us how this guy is only wanting to have sex with you, no relationship.

We know this because YOU told us, which means YOU actually get this.

And then you act all innocent to say shit like, "what is this?"

when you know what it is, because you made a whole thread in it's honor to tell us.


So, since you already know the deal .... the logical conclusion then becomes = you made this thread to let us know that you're wanted by a man. I guess it makes you feel special .... like a woman has never been wanted for fucking before.


I can't see any other reason for this thread. You have all these people telling you what you already said = not having sex until a relationship.

so, since they are telling you what you already stated you knew .... then the only reason there could possibly be for this thread is so you can rejoice in the feeling that you're fuckable.

It's small of you.


Women get upset when treated like meat .... and yet, little girls often come in here to talk about how they are sexually desired ONLY.


And yet, you're honoring it .... a whole thread dedicated to talking about how special you must be to be wanted sexually.



It's disgusting.