@livictori
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Angry fish
How to Manage Anger After a Break in Communication
To stop feeling angry, focus on calming techniques like deep breathing and grounding exercises. Practice self-compassion and give yourself time to process your emotions. When your ex returns, set healthy boundaries and communicate openly if needed. Managing anger involves understanding your feelings and prioritizing your well-being.
Posted by dixie
Your moon?
My moon is in Leo
Posted by Arrius
A Pisces with a fire Moon and Venus? And Moon in Leo at that? Not so easy. You'll pull yourself together, but there's no point to repressing your feelings. You're going to have to have it out with him.
I'm more upset with myself than I am with him. I frustrated and his indiference might make me assault him.
While he's been gone 2 weeks. He also blew me off before he left. I asked him to check out the house I was moving into as a second eye. His lack of interest in me, blowing off our appointment and general neglect pisses me off.
Problem is I don't care about his reason. I half don't care about his reaction, I'm furious he thinks it's ok. I shouldn't have to explain that. I'm just offended
Posted by dixie
Hahaha *DIRECT
He's having financial problems and he didn't want to go on this vacation. It was prepaid for and he's dealing with a nasty situation with an ex. He said I wasn't the problem but didn't change his behavior. I feel like I warned him enough
Posted by dixie
Did you try diet questions
Reminds me of this....LMBO!!!
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Are you angry cuz he went on vaccation?
Posted by dixie
Did you try diet questionsReminds me of this....LMBO!!!
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Ahahahaha...oh shit I needed that thanks!
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Diet cooking time
Posted by dixie
Did you try diet questions
lmao!
I was reading through the topic and thought "Pisces peeps being cryptic again...my poor Virgo brain cannot compute"
Posted by LoveSeeker
Are you angry cuz he went on vaccation?
I'm angry he neglected me while on vacation. You can text and call. 2 weeks is a long time to not speak. On top of the before he left, he blew me off on an appointment to see the house I was moving into. Not to check up on me during the move, not to keep your appointment, not to say hey bitch ho last sucked my dick, how are you.. is grounds for termination.
Did you try reaching him?
I did. He responded to texts. He said I wasn't the problem and that the phone works both ways. I'm not willing to court him. I know once he gets home he's going to act as if it's not a big deal. Given how stressful this "family visit" is in light of all he's going through, I don't want to argue. BUT I've been very understanding and accommodating. I've been patient and he hasn't taken me seriously. He's got a virgo rising. to him it's all black and white
wow, you're an asshole.
He dodged a bullet with you ... kudos to him for realizing you're not worth it.
wow, you're an asshole.
He dodged a bullet with you ... kudos to him for realizing you're not worth it.
how am I an asshole?
Really? I move, get into a car accident and burn my leg; he doesn't even send a text to see how I am and I'm the asshole? all I wanted was a text or phone call. yup I'm wrong
Posted by MsFisk
I don't think you realize how emotionally demanding you seem. He appears to have been upfront that he's going through some stresses right now and he's probably struggling to get himself together mentally. You acting like this isnt helping him (or your cause) in this manner. Being accomodating isnt the same as being understanding.
I've been very upfront about my being emotional. At the same time he knew I'd be alone in moving an entire house. Understanding is a 2 way street. a text is not too much to see how my progress is going. It's not like I'm reaching out and complaining. I have the right to feel like I shouldn't be going through this alone.
Posted by livictori
Really? I move, get into a car accident and burn my leg; he doesn't even send a text to see how I am and I'm the asshole? all I wanted was a text or phone call. yup I'm wrongnot that it plays a major role, but you never mentioned the accident until now ...
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not to blow things out of proportions; it was a fender bender that damaged my car. The point is, I should be able to tell him thins. If I call her and interrupt, I'm wrong
You are wrong.
You are expecting of him to cater to your feelings, because that is what you want.
If a guy doesn't want to do those things for/with you, then what you're suppose to do is grow some dignity and step the fuck away from him, so you make your energy available for a guy who actually does want to.
I don't get it.
To me, there's something wrong with you. If a guy isn't into you, you're suppose to thank you, and leave
You want to force a dude into expressing sentimental feelings he has for you, through deeds and concern for you ... when he isn't feeling it.
For the life of me, I've never met such a dense Pisces when it comes to feelings.
I can sense a person's feelings in the next room .... but, you have no clue that this man isn't into you?
wow
You are wrong.
You are expecting of him to cater to your feelings, because that is what you want.
If a guy doesn't want to do those things for/with you, then what you're suppose to do is grow some dignity and step the fuck away from him, so you make your energy available for a guy who actually does want to.
I don't get it.
To me, there's something wrong with you. If a guy isn't into you, you're suppose to thank you, and leave
Reread my original post
It has to be the Leo moon or Aries venus...has to be. This is not Pisces like...at all. Emotional, yes, but weirdly self centered to the point of not being able to really SEE the other person? That isn't Pi like at all. Now, I'm not surprised that you called my boyfriend who you DON"T even know a name...in another thread. I totally get it.
Posted by MsTeeq1974
It has to be the Leo moon or Aries venus...has to be. This is not Pisces like...at all. Emotional, yes, but weirdly self centered to the point of not being able to really SEE the other person? That isn't Pi like at all. Now, I'm not surprised that you called my boyfriend who you DON"T even know a name...in another thread. I totally get it.
I have apologized and admitted to being bitter.
At the same time p angel is correct in that o can't make anyone have feelings for me. I'm not wrong it wanting to be cared for. I'd be wrong for trying to make him or settling for less than I want. I guess it is unlike Pisces
Posted by MsTeeq1974
It has to be the Leo moon or Aries venus...has to be. This is not Pisces like...at all. Emotional, yes, but weirdly self centered to the point of not being able to really SEE the other person? That isn't Pi like at all. Now, I'm not surprised that you called my boyfriend who you DON"T even know a name...in another thread. I totally get it.I have apologized and admitted to being bitter.
At the same time p angel is correct in that o can't make anyone have feelings for me. I'm not wrong it wanting to be cared for. I'd be wrong for trying to make him or settling for less than I want. I guess it is unlike Piscesclick to expand
Let me apologize also. I'm at work and so my responses are a bit hit and miss. I meant to go back to the other thread and let you know that I'd mentioned the interaction in that discussion here so that you wouldn't be alarmed or think that I didn't genuinely accept your apology. It's all good.
wow, you're an asshole.
He dodged a bullet with you ... kudos to him for realizing you're not worth it.
how am I an asshole?
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This guy is a major troll, he does this with everybody, check out his other posts.
Like all pisces hes. Aperfect sociopath. You'd never guess the plan things down to the last detail, but they do. Every little thing they do is a manipulation, they plan things years in advance. They are children with adult capacities. They are SUPER dangerous.
Your friends goal is to hurt you, he planned every little detail, trust me. They're kids, the reason behind it is kids, immaturity, not being fully aware of reality. They're like a kid burning ants with a magnifying glass. Trust me. I have 20 years experience i know everything about them.
wow, you're an asshole.
He dodged a bullet with you ... kudos to him for realizing you're not worth it.
how am I an asshole?
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This guy is a major troll, he does this with everybody, check out his other posts.
Like all pisces hes. Aperfect sociopath. You'd never guess the plan things down to the last detail, but they do. Every little thing they do is a manipulation, they plan things years in advance. They are children with adult capacities. They are SUPER dangerous.
Your friends goal is to hurt you, he planned every little detail, trust me. They're kids, the reason behind it is kids, immaturity, not being fully aware of reality. They're like a kid burning ants with a magnifying glass. Trust me. I have 20 years experience i know everything about them.
I hate men that get in relationships and only think about themselves or force you to tell them every fucking thing you want every fucking time because their too stupid (or have their heads too far up their own ass) to look around and see that there is a whole nother person involved in the situation. So fucking irritating. After a while that shit builds up and you get tired. It can be really hurtful. Granted, a relationship is about two people learning abt one another so naturally there will be misunderstanding and offenses. But, after a while, if the person CHOOSES not to take your feelings into consideration (especially in a situation like a car accident. Fender bender or not) you have to acknowledge they are a selfish, self-serving piece of shit that just wants another person to be around them. NOT A RELATIONSHIP.
Also, I don't think you are bitter. I think you are hurt because someone that should care about you doesn't, all the while you are going through things that would make any considerate person stop and send you a phone call, send a text, or maybe even send a small gift.
wow, you're an asshole.
He dodged a bullet with you ... kudos to him for realizing you're not worth it.
how am I an asshole?
This guy is a major troll, he does this with everybody, check out his other posts.
Like all pisces hes. Aperfect sociopath. You'd never guess the plan things down to the last detail, but they do. Every little thing they do is a manipulation, they plan things years in advance. They are children with adult capacities. They are SUPER dangerous.Your friends goal is to hurt you, he planned every little detail, trust me. They're kids, the reason behind it is kids, immaturity, not being fully aware of reality. They're like a kid burning ants with a magnifying glass. Trust me. I have 20 years experience i know everything about them.
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Pisces a perfect sociopath?
Posted by KaptainKhaos
I hate men that get in relationships and only think about themselves or force you to tell them every fucking thing you want every fucking time because their too stupid (or have their heads too far up their own ass) to look around and see that there is a whole nother person involved in the situation. So fucking irritating. After a while that shit builds up and you get tired. It can be really hurtful. Granted, a relationship is about two people learning abt one another so naturally there will be misunderstanding and offenses. But, after a while, if the person CHOOSES not to take your feelings into consideration (especially in a situation like a car accident. Fender bender or not) you have to acknowledge they are a selfish, self-serving piece of shit that just wants another person to be around them. NOT A RELATIONSHIP.Also, I don't think you are bitter. I think you are hurt because someone that should care about you doesn't, all the while you are going through things that would make any considerate person stop and send you a phone call, send a text, or maybe even send a small gift.
This is the understanding I needed from him. I'm just processing my emotions on my own.
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From a pisces woman to another.
wow, you're an asshole.
He dodged a bullet with you ... kudos to him for realizing you're not worth it.
how am I an asshole?
This guy is a major troll, he does this with everybody, check out his other posts.
Like all pisces hes. Aperfect sociopath. You'd never guess the plan things down to the last detail, but they do. Every little thing they do is a manipulation, they plan things years in advance. They are children with adult capacities. They are SUPER dangerous.Your friends goal is to hurt you, he planned every little detail, trust me. They're kids, the reason behind it is kids, immaturity, not being fully aware of reality. They're like a kid burning ants with a magnifying glass. Trust me. I have 20 years experience i know everything about them.
Pisces a perfect sociopath?
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Yes only a Pisces can make my spine squirm like theres something really wrong with the world. Its them. Some Pisces are ok. Ok? Lol some of them are ok but those who drink a little too much, or are on drugs, or simply a bit too used to lying, watch out. It's like a fish with a warn out liver, they're no good 🙂
Throw him back in the water...
wow, you're an asshole.
He dodged a bullet with you ... kudos to him for realizing you're not worth it.
how am I an asshole?
This guy is a major troll, he does this with everybody, check out his other posts.
Like all pisces hes. Aperfect sociopath. You'd never guess the plan things down to the last detail, but they do. Every little thing they do is a manipulation, they plan things years in advance. They are children with adult capacities. They are SUPER dangerous.Your friends goal is to hurt you, he planned every little detail, trust me. They're kids, the reason behind it is kids, immaturity, not being fully aware of reality. They're like a kid burning ants with a magnifying glass. Trust me. I have 20 years experience i know everything about them.
Pisces a perfect sociopath?
Yes only a Pisces can make my spine squirm like theres something really wrong with the world. Its them. Some Pisces are ok. Ok? Lol some of them are ok but those who drink a little too much, or are on drugs, or simply a bit too used to lying, watch out. It's like a fish with a warn out liver, they're no good 🙂
Throw him back in the water...you can´t even handle your own pisces situation; but are so generous with dishing out advice ..... ahhh it never gets old.
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Nothing in my text suggested that.
wow, you're an asshole.
He dodged a bullet with you ... kudos to him for realizing you're not worth it.
how am I an asshole?
This guy is a major troll, he does this with everybody, check out his other posts.
Like all pisces hes. Aperfect sociopath. You'd never guess the plan things down to the last detail, but they do. Every little thing they do is a manipulation, they plan things years in advance. They are children with adult capacities. They are SUPER dangerous.Your friends goal is to hurt you, he planned every little detail, trust me. They're kids, the reason behind it is kids, immaturity, not being fully aware of reality. They're like a kid burning ants with a magnifying glass. Trust me. I have 20 years experience i know everything about them.
Pisces a perfect sociopath?
Yes only a Pisces can make my spine squirm like theres something really wrong with the world. Its them. Some Pisces are ok. Ok? Lol some of them are ok but those who drink a little too much, or are on drugs, or simply a bit too used to lying, watch out. It's like a fish with a warn out liver, they're no good 🙂
Throw him back in the water...Yo Taurus trash. There's taurus out there which is a serial killer, so do we have to brand all of them incuding trash like you serial killer
Answer me idiot childish kid !?
COME ON DOG !? ANSWER !?
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So basically I was seeing someone who just stopped initiating communication. My post isn't about him but how do I stop being angry. I was hurt but now I see myself just stewing in anger. He's been on vacation and will be coming back this weekend and I know he'll try to reach out to me then. How do I pull myself together?