SadgeGirl318
@SadgeGirl318
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Help me please? I need some insight. So confused.
Because you wrote this in another forum, I would suggest you find someone that isn't putting his hands on you.
"It could be that our suns were squared that we brought the worst in each other, but man did he have a temper. He slapped me when I broke up with him."
"It could be that our suns were squared that we brought the worst in each other, but man did he have a temper. He slapped me when I broke up with him."
um no it's not about anything square. it's about him who is cruel and inhuman.
OJ simpson and Nicole are trine suns but he beat her up alot
and also, Chris brown beat up Rihanna and that's sextile, but they no good together.
it's about the human being you're dealing with.
OJ simpson and Nicole are trine suns but he beat her up alot
and also, Chris brown beat up Rihanna and that's sextile, but they no good together.
it's about the human being you're dealing with.
Oh! Totally different Pisces...
The one that slapped me had Mars in Aries, this guy has Mars in Virgo. Should have clarified that.
The one that slapped me had Mars in Aries, this guy has Mars in Virgo. Should have clarified that.
Should I leave this guy alone or approach him again but with a phone call (last time was a text) asking him to get together? I know I'm not entitled to see him, but my venus in scorpip heart is really hurting. The rejection is so blatant. I thought pisces don't like to hurt people?
Posted by AquarelleYeah, it's obvious to me too.Posted by SadgeGirl318Why would you bother with someone who treats you this way?
Should I leave this guy alone or approach him again but with a phone call (last time was a text) asking him to get together? I know I'm not entitled to see him, but my venus in scorpip heart is really hurting. The rejection is so blatant. I thought pisces don't like to hurt people?
He has a Venus in Aries which may be the cause for his super enthousiam followed by a quick loss of interest.
Best advice I can give you is to leave him alone and move on. To me it's obvious he has no interest in you anymore.click to expand
I wonder what changed his mind during those 3 days....could it be that you mentioned that you were moving so close to him? I mean come on, nobody moves 2000 miles away on a short notice.
If you did mention it....he was never interested in a relationship with you. Perhaps he is even married. All he wanted was a FB "fling" and maybe an adventure abroad. Now he is scared of your proximity and that his real life will be revealed.
Sorry....and don't chase anyone who rejects you.
If you did mention it....he was never interested in a relationship with you. Perhaps he is even married. All he wanted was a FB "fling" and maybe an adventure abroad. Now he is scared of your proximity and that his real life will be revealed.
Sorry....and don't chase anyone who rejects you.
"He was willing to move for me"
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
Posted by UndineMe moving close was something we talked about in the beginning, it was a hypothetical. But then circumstances made it reality after our "relationship" fizzled out.. I really think something just turned him off, he's pretty insecure. His exact words were "It's how you're acting that's turning me off". Meaning, the distance I was giving him. But even after I explained my reasoning, I think he was already too far gone.
I wonder what changed his mind during those 3 days....could it be that you mentioned that you were moving so close to him? I mean come on, nobody moves 2000 miles away on a short notice.
If you did mention it....he was never interested in a relationship with you. Perhaps he is even married. All he wanted was a FB "fling" and maybe an adventure abroad. Now he is scared of your proximity and that his real life will be revealed.
Sorry....and don't chase anyone who rejects you.
I just want to see the guy in person, it doesn't feel like I was ever given a fair chance. I don't understand why just seeing me once is such a "No" from him. I would at least be curious to see this person I've been talking with all this time. I wish I could move on, but man it's hard. I have not been terribly needy or demanding of him. I've contacted him twice in the two months since it ended. The first being Christmas where I said something brief "Merry Christmas" and that my heart hurts. He responded with "mine too". The second contact was when I asked to get coffee.
Is there any way to spark the interest again?
Posted by UndineThe move happened about 2 months after our thing ended. Thanks for responding and helping me sort through this mess. I appreciate any insight.
"He was willing to move for me"
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
Posted by UndineI've been thinking about this since I read it. I never thought that me moving here would freak him out because he was not a deciding factor, why would I think about him, right? But now that I think of it, holy cow, that probably totally freaks him out. I'm feeling kind of embarrassed, but kind of don't care because my son comes first (my son was diagnosed with an illness so we moved to be close to my family and good hospitals).
"He was willing to move for me"
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
There's no fixing this, right? Life is really hard sometimes.
Any other venus in scorpios have a hard time with breakups? I can't describe the feeling but I take it really hard.
Posted by rmactavishWOWPosted by SadgeGirl318First of all I would say that I share alot of signs with your Pisces guy so I completely understand his behaviour and why he's doing it.Posted by UndineI've been thinking about this since I read it. I never thought that me moving here would freak him out because he was not a deciding factor, why would I think about him, right? But now that I think of it, holy cow, that probably totally freaks him out. I'm feeling kind of embarrassed, but kind of don't care because my son comes first (my son was diagnosed with an illness so we moved to be close to my family and good hospitals).
"He was willing to move for me"
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
There's no fixing this, right? Life is really hard sometimes.
Any other venus in scorpios have a hard time with breakups? I can't describe the feeling but I take it really hard.
My placements - Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon and Rising Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Aries (before you think about it, I've never hit a human being leave hitting a woman)
Now, I have been in the same position like him when I was in a LDR with a Scorpio woman. I was best friends with her brother and then when we first had a conversation we immediately clicked, and felt that soulmate connection. Both just jumped onto the boat and were from strangers to couples in a week. But she had to go back to her relatives' place for completing her studies so we had to Continue it in a LDR. A few weeks into it, I felt feeling the same way like your Pisces guy. My girl wasn't talking much, wasn't replying much and it used to piss me off. Eventually I stopped texting her and then she immediately asked me why am I so unavailable recently.. (Really I'm the one unavailable xD) So I told her about how I was feeling and she said she was busy with her studies and stuff and wasn't getting time. I said okay but from that day we kinda had a constant drop in connection and frequency of talking which eventually forced me to tell her that I can't handle this much anxiety and distance and have to end it, to which she was absolutely fine and said 'she rushed in with me and hope we cross each other's paths in future, goodbye' (Wow)
So basically what I'm saying is we Pisces guys are the ones who have shit load of love for you and wanna spoil you bad, but if you disapprove or shush our love away even once we kinda feel betrayed and then can't open up or trust that easily again.click to expand
First off, thank you for taking the time to write.
That story is eerily similar minus the fact that we never even got to see each other in person. I'm sorry it didn't work our for y'all. So at this point, do I let it go completely or do I reach out on more time and ask for a face to face? I don't want to make him mad but it really just seems like such a waste to not at least give the other person a chance in person. It's been 15 years since we've seen each other. Of course that's how I feel. He may feel complete different, well he does feel different.
If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?
Posted by rmactavishI forgot to add, do you think me being here freaked him out?Posted by SadgeGirl318First of all I would say that I share alot of signs with your Pisces guy so I completely understand his behaviour and why he's doing it.Posted by UndineI've been thinking about this since I read it. I never thought that me moving here would freak him out because he was not a deciding factor, why would I think about him, right? But now that I think of it, holy cow, that probably totally freaks him out. I'm feeling kind of embarrassed, but kind of don't care because my son comes first (my son was diagnosed with an illness so we moved to be close to my family and good hospitals).
"He was willing to move for me"
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
There's no fixing this, right? Life is really hard sometimes.
Any other venus in scorpios have a hard time with breakups? I can't describe the feeling but I take it really hard.
My placements - Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon and Rising Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Aries (before you think about it, I've never hit a human being leave hitting a woman)
Now, I have been in the same position like him when I was in a LDR with a Scorpio woman. I was best friends with her brother and then when we first had a conversation we immediately clicked, and felt that soulmate connection. Both just jumped onto the boat and were from strangers to couples in a week. But she had to go back to her relatives' place for completing her studies so we had to Continue it in a LDR. A few weeks into it, I felt feeling the same way like your Pisces guy. My girl wasn't talking much, wasn't replying much and it used to piss me off. Eventually I stopped texting her and then she immediately asked me why am I so unavailable recently.. (Really I'm the one unavailable xD) So I told her about how I was feeling and she said she was busy with her studies and stuff and wasn't getting time. I said okay but from that day we kinda had a constant drop in connection and frequency of talking which eventually forced me to tell her that I can't handle this much anxiety and distance and have to end it, to which she was absolutely fine and said 'she rushed in with me and hope we cross each other's paths in future, goodbye' (Wow)
So basically what I'm saying is we Pisces guys are the ones who have shit load of love for you and wanna spoil you bad, but if you disapprove or shush our love away even once we kinda feel betrayed and then can't open up or trust that easily again.click to expand
Posted by rmactavishAwe... it's not stupid, I get it. You can't help how you feel.Posted by SadgeGirl318"If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?"Posted by rmactavishWOWPosted by SadgeGirl318First of all I would say that I share alot of signs with your Pisces guy so I completely understand his behaviour and why he's doing it.Posted by UndineI've been thinking about this since I read it. I never thought that me moving here would freak him out because he was not a deciding factor, why would I think about him, right? But now that I think of it, holy cow, that probably totally freaks him out. I'm feeling kind of embarrassed, but kind of don't care because my son comes first (my son was diagnosed with an illness so we moved to be close to my family and good hospitals).
"He was willing to move for me"
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
There's no fixing this, right? Life is really hard sometimes.
Any other venus in scorpios have a hard time with breakups? I can't describe the feeling but I take it really hard.
My placements - Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon and Rising Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Aries (before you think about it, I've never hit a human being leave hitting a woman)
Now, I have been in the same position like him when I was in a LDR with a Scorpio woman. I was best friends with her brother and then when we first had a conversation we immediately clicked, and felt that soulmate connection. Both just jumped onto the boat and were from strangers to couples in a week. But she had to go back to her relatives' place for completing her studies so we had to Continue it in a LDR. A few weeks into it, I felt feeling the same way like your Pisces guy. My girl wasn't talking much, wasn't replying much and it used to piss me off. Eventually I stopped texting her and then she immediately asked me why am I so unavailable recently.. (Really I'm the one unavailable xD) So I told her about how I was feeling and she said she was busy with her studies and stuff and wasn't getting time. I said okay but from that day we kinda had a constant drop in connection and frequency of talking which eventually forced me to tell her that I can't handle this much anxiety and distance and have to end it, to which she was absolutely fine and said 'she rushed in with me and hope we cross each other's paths in future, goodbye' (Wow)
So basically what I'm saying is we Pisces guys are the ones who have shit load of love for you and wanna spoil you bad, but if you disapprove or shush our love away even once we kinda feel betrayed and then can't open up or trust that easily again.
First off, thank you for taking the time to write.
That story is eerily similar minus the fact that we never even got to see each other in person. I'm sorry it didn't work our for y'all. So at this point, do I let it go completely or do I reach out on more time and ask for a face to face? I don't want to make him mad but it really just seems like such a waste to not at least give the other person a chance in person. It's been 15 years since we've seen each other. Of course that's how I feel. He may feel complete different, well he does feel different.
If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?
Even after all this time I still like her. xD (We stupid Pisces people)
So yeah I definitely would BUT, not in an instant. I will throw a little bit of drama (tests) to see if you're really serious or just want play time...If you pass the test I would definitely meet.
PS - What are your placements?
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Me: Sadge Sun
Venus: Scorpio
Rising: Scorpio
Mars: LIbra
Moon: Aquarius
When he first said "I don't think it's a good idea" I thought he was joking. When I realized he wasn't I was crushed. I told him I'd like closure, and he said "closure from a two relationship over the phone and we never saw each other, that doesn't make sense". I told him no, closure from not seeing you for 15 years and talking about seeing each other for over a year. But that's where it left off. I was genuinely surprised he wouldn't at least meet me once. I assumed it was because he could sense I still care for him, and because he doesn't have feelings for me he's scared he'll have to reject me again? Not the case by the way, I'd love to date him but I'd also love to just have our platonic connection back.
Posted by rmactavishI assume the only way to know if it's a test is to ask him again? The prior conversation was all via text. I was thinking of calling him and speaking to him. What kind of tests would you do?Posted by SadgeGirl318"If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?"Posted by rmactavishWOWPosted by SadgeGirl318First of all I would say that I share alot of signs with your Pisces guy so I completely understand his behaviour and why he's doing it.Posted by UndineI've been thinking about this since I read it. I never thought that me moving here would freak him out because he was not a deciding factor, why would I think about him, right? But now that I think of it, holy cow, that probably totally freaks him out. I'm feeling kind of embarrassed, but kind of don't care because my son comes first (my son was diagnosed with an illness so we moved to be close to my family and good hospitals).
"He was willing to move for me"
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
There's no fixing this, right? Life is really hard sometimes.
Any other venus in scorpios have a hard time with breakups? I can't describe the feeling but I take it really hard.
My placements - Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon and Rising Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Aries (before you think about it, I've never hit a human being leave hitting a woman)
Now, I have been in the same position like him when I was in a LDR with a Scorpio woman. I was best friends with her brother and then when we first had a conversation we immediately clicked, and felt that soulmate connection. Both just jumped onto the boat and were from strangers to couples in a week. But she had to go back to her relatives' place for completing her studies so we had to Continue it in a LDR. A few weeks into it, I felt feeling the same way like your Pisces guy. My girl wasn't talking much, wasn't replying much and it used to piss me off. Eventually I stopped texting her and then she immediately asked me why am I so unavailable recently.. (Really I'm the one unavailable xD) So I told her about how I was feeling and she said she was busy with her studies and stuff and wasn't getting time. I said okay but from that day we kinda had a constant drop in connection and frequency of talking which eventually forced me to tell her that I can't handle this much anxiety and distance and have to end it, to which she was absolutely fine and said 'she rushed in with me and hope we cross each other's paths in future, goodbye' (Wow)
So basically what I'm saying is we Pisces guys are the ones who have shit load of love for you and wanna spoil you bad, but if you disapprove or shush our love away even once we kinda feel betrayed and then can't open up or trust that easily again.
First off, thank you for taking the time to write.
That story is eerily similar minus the fact that we never even got to see each other in person. I'm sorry it didn't work our for y'all. So at this point, do I let it go completely or do I reach out on more time and ask for a face to face? I don't want to make him mad but it really just seems like such a waste to not at least give the other person a chance in person. It's been 15 years since we've seen each other. Of course that's how I feel. He may feel complete different, well he does feel different.
If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?
Even after all this time I still like her. xD (We stupid Pisces people)
So yeah I definitely would BUT, not in an instant. I will throw a little bit of drama (tests) to see if you're really serious or just want play time...If you pass the test I would definitely meet.
PS - What are your placements?
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Posted by rmactavishUgh Why couldn't he just say that? hahaPosted by SadgeGirl318Just straight up tell him how much he means to you and how much you wanna get back with him. And talk to him about what went wrong in the first place, even if he denies it there surely something was.Posted by rmactavishI assume the only way to know if it's a test is to ask him again? The prior conversation was all via text. I was thinking of calling him and speaking to him. What kind of tests would you do?Posted by SadgeGirl318"If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?"Posted by rmactavishWOWPosted by SadgeGirl318First of all I would say that I share alot of signs with your Pisces guy so I completely understand his behaviour and why he's doing it.Posted by UndineI've been thinking about this since I read it. I never thought that me moving here would freak him out because he was not a deciding factor, why would I think about him, right? But now that I think of it, holy cow, that probably totally freaks him out. I'm feeling kind of embarrassed, but kind of don't care because my son comes first (my son was diagnosed with an illness so we moved to be close to my family and good hospitals).
"He was willing to move for me"
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
There's no fixing this, right? Life is really hard sometimes.
Any other venus in scorpios have a hard time with breakups? I can't describe the feeling but I take it really hard.
My placements - Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon and Rising Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Aries (before you think about it, I've never hit a human being leave hitting a woman)
Now, I have been in the same position like him when I was in a LDR with a Scorpio woman. I was best friends with her brother and then when we first had a conversation we immediately clicked, and felt that soulmate connection. Both just jumped onto the boat and were from strangers to couples in a week. But she had to go back to her relatives' place for completing her studies so we had to Continue it in a LDR. A few weeks into it, I felt feeling the same way like your Pisces guy. My girl wasn't talking much, wasn't replying much and it used to piss me off. Eventually I stopped texting her and then she immediately asked me why am I so unavailable recently.. (Really I'm the one unavailable xD) So I told her about how I was feeling and she said she was busy with her studies and stuff and wasn't getting time. I said okay but from that day we kinda had a constant drop in connection and frequency of talking which eventually forced me to tell her that I can't handle this much anxiety and distance and have to end it, to which she was absolutely fine and said 'she rushed in with me and hope we cross each other's paths in future, goodbye' (Wow)
So basically what I'm saying is we Pisces guys are the ones who have shit load of love for you and wanna spoil you bad, but if you disapprove or shush our love away even once we kinda feel betrayed and then can't open up or trust that easily again.
First off, thank you for taking the time to write.
That story is eerily similar minus the fact that we never even got to see each other in person. I'm sorry it didn't work our for y'all. So at this point, do I let it go completely or do I reach out on more time and ask for a face to face? I don't want to make him mad but it really just seems like such a waste to not at least give the other person a chance in person. It's been 15 years since we've seen each other. Of course that's how I feel. He may feel complete different, well he does feel different.
If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?
Even after all this time I still like her. xD (We stupid Pisces people)
So yeah I definitely would BUT, not in an instant. I will throw a little bit of drama (tests) to see if you're really serious or just want play time...If you pass the test I would definitely meet.
PS - What are your placements?
I wouldn't prefer straight up call him outtanowhere cuz he might be busy somewhere and it would annoy him/me.
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So I should NOT call? Do I tell him all of this in person or through which communication text, email? How do I get this message across to him? My stomach is in knots just thinking about this... oh man.
Posted by rmactavishThanks for all of the help! I can guarantee he's not going to respond kindly to anything right now. haha 😢Posted by SadgeGirl318Hahaha, I've been there.Posted by rmactavishUgh Why couldn't he just say that? hahaPosted by SadgeGirl318Just straight up tell him how much he means to you and how much you wanna get back with him. And talk to him about what went wrong in the first place, even if he denies it there surely something was.Posted by rmactavishI assume the only way to know if it's a test is to ask him again? The prior conversation was all via text. I was thinking of calling him and speaking to him. What kind of tests would you do?Posted by SadgeGirl318"If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?"Posted by rmactavishWOWPosted by SadgeGirl318First of all I would say that I share alot of signs with your Pisces guy so I completely understand his behaviour and why he's doing it.Posted by UndineI've been thinking about this since I read it. I never thought that me moving here would freak him out because he was not a deciding factor, why would I think about him, right? But now that I think of it, holy cow, that probably totally freaks him out. I'm feeling kind of embarrassed, but kind of don't care because my son comes first (my son was diagnosed with an illness so we moved to be close to my family and good hospitals).
"He was willing to move for me"
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
There's no fixing this, right? Life is really hard sometimes.
Any other venus in scorpios have a hard time with breakups? I can't describe the feeling but I take it really hard.
My placements - Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon and Rising Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Aries (before you think about it, I've never hit a human being leave hitting a woman)
Now, I have been in the same position like him when I was in a LDR with a Scorpio woman. I was best friends with her brother and then when we first had a conversation we immediately clicked, and felt that soulmate connection. Both just jumped onto the boat and were from strangers to couples in a week. But she had to go back to her relatives' place for completing her studies so we had to Continue it in a LDR. A few weeks into it, I felt feeling the same way like your Pisces guy. My girl wasn't talking much, wasn't replying much and it used to piss me off. Eventually I stopped texting her and then she immediately asked me why am I so unavailable recently.. (Really I'm the one unavailable xD) So I told her about how I was feeling and she said she was busy with her studies and stuff and wasn't getting time. I said okay but from that day we kinda had a constant drop in connection and frequency of talking which eventually forced me to tell her that I can't handle this much anxiety and distance and have to end it, to which she was absolutely fine and said 'she rushed in with me and hope we cross each other's paths in future, goodbye' (Wow)
So basically what I'm saying is we Pisces guys are the ones who have shit load of love for you and wanna spoil you bad, but if you disapprove or shush our love away even once we kinda feel betrayed and then can't open up or trust that easily again.
First off, thank you for taking the time to write.
That story is eerily similar minus the fact that we never even got to see each other in person. I'm sorry it didn't work our for y'all. So at this point, do I let it go completely or do I reach out on more time and ask for a face to face? I don't want to make him mad but it really just seems like such a waste to not at least give the other person a chance in person. It's been 15 years since we've seen each other. Of course that's how I feel. He may feel complete different, well he does feel different.
If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?
Even after all this time I still like her. xD (We stupid Pisces people)
So yeah I definitely would BUT, not in an instant. I will throw a little bit of drama (tests) to see if you're really serious or just want play time...If you pass the test I would definitely meet.
PS - What are your placements?
I wouldn't prefer straight up call him outtanowhere cuz he might be busy somewhere and it would annoy him/me.
So I should NOT call? Do I tell him all of this in person or through which communication text, email? How do I get this message across to him? My stomach is in knots just thinking about this... oh man.
Just text him on Facebook, or WhatsApp or whatever medium he frequently uses, and send him a message saying "'Random XYZ Thing that you both were close to' This reminded me of you. I wish I could tell you how I felt after seeing/experiencing it"
And then see what he replies.
If it's a positive reply tell him you really want to speak to him. And then you can call.
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That's been the theme. I'll figure out a way to talk to him and let you know how it turns out 🙂)
All the best!
Posted by rmactavishMe too 🙂Posted by SadgeGirl318Cheers. I hope you two get togetherPosted by rmactavishThanks for all of the help! I can guarantee he's not going to respond kindly to anything right now. haha 😢Posted by SadgeGirl318Hahaha, I've been there.Posted by rmactavishUgh Why couldn't he just say that? hahaPosted by SadgeGirl318Just straight up tell him how much he means to you and how much you wanna get back with him. And talk to him about what went wrong in the first place, even if he denies it there surely something was.Posted by rmactavishI assume the only way to know if it's a test is to ask him again? The prior conversation was all via text. I was thinking of calling him and speaking to him. What kind of tests would you do?Posted by SadgeGirl318"If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?"Posted by rmactavishWOWPosted by SadgeGirl318First of all I would say that I share alot of signs with your Pisces guy so I completely understand his behaviour and why he's doing it.Posted by UndineI've been thinking about this since I read it. I never thought that me moving here would freak him out because he was not a deciding factor, why would I think about him, right? But now that I think of it, holy cow, that probably totally freaks him out. I'm feeling kind of embarrassed, but kind of don't care because my son comes first (my son was diagnosed with an illness so we moved to be close to my family and good hospitals).
"He was willing to move for me"
I forgot about this (if this is what he said). Maybe he wanted a reason to move where you were?
Again, I feel that your bold move was what scared or disappointed him.
There's no fixing this, right? Life is really hard sometimes.
Any other venus in scorpios have a hard time with breakups? I can't describe the feeling but I take it really hard.
My placements - Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon and Rising Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Aries (before you think about it, I've never hit a human being leave hitting a woman)
Now, I have been in the same position like him when I was in a LDR with a Scorpio woman. I was best friends with her brother and then when we first had a conversation we immediately clicked, and felt that soulmate connection. Both just jumped onto the boat and were from strangers to couples in a week. But she had to go back to her relatives' place for completing her studies so we had to Continue it in a LDR. A few weeks into it, I felt feeling the same way like your Pisces guy. My girl wasn't talking much, wasn't replying much and it used to piss me off. Eventually I stopped texting her and then she immediately asked me why am I so unavailable recently.. (Really I'm the one unavailable xD) So I told her about how I was feeling and she said she was busy with her studies and stuff and wasn't getting time. I said okay but from that day we kinda had a constant drop in connection and frequency of talking which eventually forced me to tell her that I can't handle this much anxiety and distance and have to end it, to which she was absolutely fine and said 'she rushed in with me and hope we cross each other's paths in future, goodbye' (Wow)
So basically what I'm saying is we Pisces guys are the ones who have shit load of love for you and wanna spoil you bad, but if you disapprove or shush our love away even once we kinda feel betrayed and then can't open up or trust that easily again.
First off, thank you for taking the time to write.
That story is eerily similar minus the fact that we never even got to see each other in person. I'm sorry it didn't work our for y'all. So at this point, do I let it go completely or do I reach out on more time and ask for a face to face? I don't want to make him mad but it really just seems like such a waste to not at least give the other person a chance in person. It's been 15 years since we've seen each other. Of course that's how I feel. He may feel complete different, well he does feel different.
If that girl moved close to you and wanted to see you, would you meet her at least once?
Even after all this time I still like her. xD (We stupid Pisces people)
So yeah I definitely would BUT, not in an instant. I will throw a little bit of drama (tests) to see if you're really serious or just want play time...If you pass the test I would definitely meet.
PS - What are your placements?
I wouldn't prefer straight up call him outtanowhere cuz he might be busy somewhere and it would annoy him/me.
So I should NOT call? Do I tell him all of this in person or through which communication text, email? How do I get this message across to him? My stomach is in knots just thinking about this... oh man.
Just text him on Facebook, or WhatsApp or whatever medium he frequently uses, and send him a message saying "'Random XYZ Thing that you both were close to' This reminded me of you. I wish I could tell you how I felt after seeing/experiencing it"
And then see what he replies.
If it's a positive reply tell him you really want to speak to him. And then you can call.
That's been the theme. I'll figure out a way to talk to him and let you know how it turns out 🙂)
All the best!
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