How do Pisces Feel About Ling Distance Relationships?

Love them hate them? Willing to relocate for love? How often do you want to see your lover? How long can a relationship last with the distance between you?

Mine either, but someone else tried to say Pisces woul enjoy one.

I'm a Taurus woman dealing with a Pisces man. We've been friends for a couple years. I really really like him although I do question his feelings for me. Overall:

He says he wants a relationship, but he doesn't want a "long distance relationship". We live about 45 minutes away from one another with a lot of traffic between. I don't want to move because my job and family is here and he lives in a VERY rural area. He doesn't want to move because his family and job is there and I live in a the city. We have been circling one another like tops for about 2 years now. We bump off one another whenever we get to this damn relocation stalemate. I want an official relationship status, maybe engagement even, before I even consider moving. He doesn't want a long distance relationship period. We usually only see one another on the weekends he doesn't have to work. He wants to "see me at least 3 times a week. To be able to do that one of us would have to.move closer

Recently we bumped heads because I questioned how meaningful it is to me when when have sex. He got mad and said even tho he doesnt cuddle after, I shouldn't take it persobally. I dont know what we are, I just don't want to get caught up in my feelings with it seeming like he won't budge unless I load up the UHAUL and head to Green Acres.

Ling? Is that chinese or something?

Lmaoooo it's a typo. I meant long distance lol.

Posted by SweetestFatale
Love them hate them? Willing to relocate for love? How often do you want to see your lover? How long can a relationship last with the distance between you?

I had a Pisces friend who had to maintain his relship as LDR. the end result? his gf cheated on him and became pregnant.

It's like a normal relationship where you have to spend all your time making appointements for talking with your s.o, and giving explanations why you remained 25 hours without contacting, except that you can't have sex.

Posted by SweetestFatale
I'm a Taurus woman dealing with a Pisces man. We've been friends for a couple years. I really really like him although I do question his feelings for me. Overall:

He says he wants a relationship, but he doesn't want a "long distance relationship". We live about 45 minutes away from one another with a lot of traffic between. I don't want to move because my job and family is here and he lives in a VERY rural area. He doesn't want to move because his family and job is there and I live in a the city. We have been circling one another like tops for about 2 years now. We bump off one another whenever we get to this damn relocation stalemate. I want an official relationship status, maybe engagement even, before I even consider moving. He doesn't want a long distance relationship period. We usually only see one another on the weekends he doesn't have to work. He wants to "see me at least 3 times a

Recently we bumped heads because I questioned how meaningful it is to me when when have sex. He got mad and said even tho he doesnt cuddle after, I shouldn't take it persobally. I dont know what we are, I just don't want to get caught up in my feelings with it seeming like he won't budge unless I load up the UHAUL and head to Green Acres.

So you all only see each other on the weekends and "he doesn't have to work" or does he work and doesn't have to ??

Either way if he wanted to see you more...it sounds like he could. Since he doesn't have to work.

Your story is weird.

"We only see each other on the weekends he doesn't have to work."

He works some weekends but not every weekend. On the weekends he does not work he comes to visit me.

Hmm doesn't seem weird to me. Sorry you got confused by that one line.

Its hard. me and my scorp woman are doing the best we can, I haven't seen her in about 3 months.

The good: You can basically live on your own terms. If you dont want to clean you dont have to, and you can keep a routine that's revolved around yourself.

The bad: speaking for myself, you'll miss them so much it hurts at times, and when the other is busy you're left to claw away at your imagination. Basically, overthinking if you don't catch yourself in time.

The best: if it's with the right person, the pisces loves them so much that it hurts and stays faithful to them (I

m speaking for myself although this may be true for others as well). Personally I make sure to know my scorp is loved either through words or snaps, and she returns the favor; it's a two-way street we both enjoy inhabiting.

bottom line: It has to be with the right person, at the right time. Pisces are *good* with long distance relationships, if they are mature enough to understand that the other isn't and shouldn't be at their beck and call, has friends and a job/school, and if it's someone they desire and can trust/can have adult conversations with over the phone/skype. LDRs are not necessarily limited to pisces per se, but people who are able to handle the distance and find ways that make stretches like 1500 miles feel like 3 feet. Pisces often tend to be dreamers and escapists, and can get out of the difficulties and float off in their own imagination while still being attached to someone. It's ideal, it's fun, but it has to be with the RIGHT person!

haven't had one but i would only do it if we caught up frequently.

nah!