are pisces cold?

I'm often told by my friends that I lack compassion and when I talk to people it feels like I have a wall in front of me...

background info:

rising: Libra

sun: pisces

moon: gemini

mercury: pisces

venus: aquarius

mars: aries

jupiter: pisces

saturn: aries

uranus: aquarius

neptune: aquarius

pluto: saggitarius

n node: virgo

(if anyone can enlighten me to what everything under mars means as well as n node that would be lovely ?)

Air dominates my natal chart obv. and the lack of earth signs (besides n node) is accurate as well - i'm absolutely awful at taking care of myself.

I was talking with this libra sun guy a few weeks back and unfortunately it just didn't work out - he never contacted me first (i was always texting first) and he just didn't seem all that into me...

IDK I've never had great luck with men because apparently I look scary and intimidating to them = makes them not want to approach me? I'm also picky AF and I like to be the one who is extremely forthright with my affections (if i like you, I will tell it to your face).

I guess basically my question is what are your/some opinions on my natal chart? What can I improve on to make people less afraid of me/find love?? LMK if clarification is needed

Too much air in your chart. As if Libra rising isn't bad enough, then you got the rest of it.

gemini moon

experienced a little bit of childhood trauma there?

i know i know so much air in my blasted chart ?

and childhood trauma... does senior year of hs count? asked a guy out to winter formal and he dumped me for a girl his ex gf chose for him so yeah...

along with a bunch of other crap like eating issues and self-esteem issues bc i use to do classical ballet so yeah quite a lot of childhood trauma haha

another note about the too much air part:

my lilith is also a libra ?

5th and 7th house placements?

5th house is pisces i believe and 7th house is aries

You should change your name to "air bubble".

Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
You should change your name to "air bubble".

lmao is it really that bad to have air as a dominant element in my chart?

Obviously it is.

Posted by Shadowcat
Moon in Gemini and Venus in Aquarius

is that why i seem so cold to other people?

when I fall in love with someone I can be super clingy and emotionally attached to them - which doesn't seem like a venus in aquarius at all... perhaps my pisces sun is coming into play here?

Posted by quixotica
Gemini moon can dissect/intellectualize emotions away, awkwardly juxtaposing that pisces sun. I do think this moon can break emotions down in a clinically logical way.

that is true... i constantly feel like explaining my emotions through words but when I do it never turns out exactly the way I really am feeling—?

Constant conflict of head vs. heart in me I feel like - always feel drained and tired everyday ?

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Posted by datboi
I'm often told by my friends that I lack compassion and when I talk to people it feels like I have a wall in front of me...

background info:

rising: Libra

sun: pisces

moon: gemini

mercury: pisces

venus: aquarius

mars: aries

jupiter: pisces

saturn: aries

uranus: aquarius

neptune: aquarius

pluto: saggitarius

n node: virgo

(if anyone can enlighten me to what everything under mars means as well as n node that would be lovely ?)

Air dominates my natal chart obv. and the lack of earth signs (besides n node) is accurate as well - i'm absolutely awful at taking care of myself.

I was talking with this libra sun guy a few weeks back and unfortunately it just didn't work out - he never contacted me first (i was always texting first) and he just didn't seem all that into me...

IDK I've never had great luck with men because apparently I look scary and intimidating to them = makes them not want to approach me? I'm also picky AF and I like to be the one who is extremely forthright with my affections (if i like you, I will tell it to your face).

I guess basically my question is what are your/some opinions on my natal chart? What can I improve on to make people less afraid of me/find love?? LMK if clarification is needed

Aqua venus comes off cold. Aries mars likes to initiate. You need a fire dominant partner. I'm an air dominant pisces and as much as I love Libra energy men, unless they have some fire there is no spark.

As far as you lacking compassion, I've never had that complaint. Must be your gemini moon. I have a few Gemini moon female coworkers and they come off abrasive to me. I usually avoid them.

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my mom has always said that I needed someone who was more abrasive or outgoing than me - water signs would be too sensitive, earth signs too slow, and air signs are boring as hell.

and yeah i tend to be very abrasive (sorry about that haha - working on being gentler)!! when i give advice to someone if they are the ones who are wrong i won't hesitate to tell them they're being idiots, etc.