
lolmeng
@lolmeng
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Posted by lolmengYou can't make people do sheet, especially a Pisces!! Try to hold us in your grasp and we'll slip away through your fingers and swim away for good.
I'm a Virgo on Libra cusp. He said he wanted to be friends and I'm fine with that but I still want to make him like me back.




Posted by lolmengAlright, I'll give you something useful.
I was never holding him in my grasp, I was fine with being friends. I'm not clingy at all. It would be better if you gave me more useful advice. I rarely even hint to him that I still like him.



Posted by lolmengaries venus?
Well mine is Leo
He is born on 29th February 1996. It's the extra leap year date.
I don't know the place or time.
How often does Venus signs change? If it's not that often, I put his details in and got 23 degrees Aries.

Posted by lolmengDoes he know you like him? because thats d only way he will feel pressured to give you something back. my birthday is coming up soon as well and d guy I was talking to i believe remembers and honestly even if he gave my a small chocolate I would be happy we haven't spoken for about a month now but it would mean a lot. the scribbler would be nice but if you cant get it delivered then send him an ecard.
His birthday is coming up soon! I want to give him something meaningful but hes not at school this semester and I cant deliver personal gifts to him. I can only buy something for him online. I wanted to give him a scribbler with cute drawings on it.
I dont know what to do exactly for his birthday. If I give him something I feel he would be pressured to give me something back.
Maybe I should buy him something meaningful without too much monetary value? You Pisces dont seem to care about monetary value.

Posted by OceanBoy88He pretty much sums up everything a Pisces man is looking for. I'm on the same cusp as you are and been in relationship with a pisces for 6 months and we are dating again. His long term female friend is also on the same cusp, he says she is "fun" cos she is a party girl, he probably can never see himself being with her. He only enjoys her company cos of familiarity and drama free.
Pisces wants the whole package to be honest. You must be smart, deep, and sexy. If you match that, be nice to him. Hugs, play together, and smile sweetly with pretty eyes. Have him used to you. Then disappear and be friends with another guy. When he "bumps" into you when your alone or free, watch him come full force for you lol. When he does, let him do the chasing and give him clues he's winning. Flirt back with your eyes and hands. We feel more and understand through touch not words. The chase and the building up of emotions is a huge turn on versus the "hey you win without having to try" feeling.
Posted by PoppyseedsPosted by OceanBoy88He pretty much sums up everything a Pisces man is looking for. I'm on the same cusp as you are and been in relationship with a pisces for 6 months and we are dating again. His long term female friend is also on the same cusp, he says she is "fun" cos she is a party girl, he probably can never see himself being with her. He only enjoys her company cos of familiarity and drama free.
Pisces wants the whole package to be honest. You must be smart, deep, and sexy. If you match that, be nice to him. Hugs, play together, and smile sweetly with pretty eyes. Have him used to you. Then disappear and be friends with another guy. When he "bumps" into you when your alone or free, watch him come full force for you lol. When he does, let him do the chasing and give him clues he's winning. Flirt back with your eyes and hands. We feel more and understand through touch not words. The chase and the building up of emotions is a huge turn on versus the "hey you win without having to try" feeling.
Pisces man hates drama, they would swim away from that.click to expand
Posted by OceanBoy88
If he's an Aries in Venus then I can relate to that in a way. I share Aries in Venus with him. Usually I connect strong and intense, but as soon as I lose interest, it fades away. In highschool I developed a powerful relationship with a Virgo. She knew I was crazy for her but it was so hard to read her. It's funny because she was so talented in art. I still have the things she drew for me actually. She would always do sweet things like buy me snacks for lunch break and we'd always sit together and talk. As much as I fell for her she never really gave me solid clues. I'd tell her she's beautiful and really liked her but all I got was an "oh okay" or "shut up". I took that as a " I'm not interested" and started my luck on other girls. I would always strike out and talk to her whenever I was hurt and down. After we graduated and I completely gave up on her, she became insanely aggressive to get me back. After a total of 5 years of knowing each other, we started a dedicated relationship that lasted 7 years. It was by far the most fulfilling relationship I've ever been in. I find it extremely difficult to create a bond through chats and text because you can't feel the person and vibe with them. No emoji in this world can express a genuine feeling. In my situations, bonding with a woman face to face is key. You can see happiness, sadness, anger, excitement, and love. If all you two can have is a long distance thing, then its going to be hard. Without one and one time, everything is blurred and imagination runs wild. Personally, a long distance relationship would drive me insane.
Posted by OceanBoy88Pisces loves to be peace maker more so than Libra, but they would soak up all of those negative emotions from both parties and ended up stressing themselves!
@Poppyseeds Lol I hate drama! I've been called the peacemaker so much! I stepped in so many fights to stop them and cringe whenever I hear people planning to
get even
Posted by OceanBoy88hm you have gemini moon/aqua rising.
@Poppyseeds Lol I hate drama! I've been called the peacemaker so much! I stepped in so many fights to stop them and cringe whenever I hear people planning to
get even
Posted by OceanBoy88I went away for 3 weeks holiday, the night before my flight he had tears in his eyes. He tried not to let me see him cry, so I pretend I didn't see it. Since I was gone I know he miss me but he never said a word.
@lisabethur8 I can agree with that 100% . The ONLY way I can do a long distance relationship is only if a pure bond was created. I was supposed to include that but forgot
Posted by OceanBoy88You sound like him a lot especially with the "lock out", he's never learn piano but he loves piano. He said he doesn't really open up to anyone not even towards his family. He says everyone gives out different energy. He would chill with his best friend for beer or watch TV or simply enjoy the comfortable silence with him.
@Poppyseeds Im definitely like that. I tend to go out and hang with friends constantly almost every day and all of a sudden shut down and decline everyone. I don't really have much people to talk to. Not that I dont have friends (I have amazing friends), but I just need alone time. Especially after feeling too much negative energy. I don't have much friends that I can completely confide to in a deeper sense. I have only one but I don't want to burden him with my problems. Ironically he's a Scorp. Best friend I've ever had since 2010 and his value surpasses friends I've know for my lifetime. Now, when I'm stressed out, I close my windows, lock my doors, ignore all messages, and just calm myself. My biggest escape is music. I am a pianist and its my only place I can bring peace to myself. It calms my spirit and restores my energy to face the world. It's my form of meditation and for me, it has saved myself many time. In your sense, you are his meditation and for me its my piano.
Posted by OceanBoy88hm yeah it maybe your gemini moon.Posted by lisabethur8Mars capricornPosted by OceanBoy88hm you have gemini moon/aqua rising.
@Poppyseeds Lol I hate drama! I've been called the peacemaker so much! I stepped in so many fights to stop them and cringe whenever I hear people planning to
get even
what's your mars venus?
pisces i know dont really go out of their way to be "peacemakers" ...
Venus ariesclick to expand
Posted by OceanBoy88oh well, now that i look back, my ex husband started fights only because he was drunk....so it doesn't count.
@Poppyseeds Lol I hate drama! I've been called the peacemaker so much! I stepped in so many fights to stop them and cringe whenever I hear people planning to
get even
Posted by lisabethur8maybe if he had gone into film, that would have been great for him.
hm nooooo he started fights when he was SOBER too....he was a fighter. god it was long ago.
Posted by OceanBoy88He came from a divorce family, I'm guessing he had a traumatic childhood but he wouldn't admit it. He has a love hate relationship with his mom. He is a good son who often spend time with her yet he is determine to find someone who is nothing like her. As he finds her very frustrating. He loves his family, he is close to them as he sees them a lot but I wouldn't say very close as he can't fully express himself.
@Poppyseeds I have the same issue with my family. I don't really tell them much because I don't want them to worry. Sadly we never were an affectionate family. I see other family's and I honestly can say it makes me jealous especially how close others are. I've always seen Thanksgiving Days, Christmas parties, and birthdays more real in other families. My parents told me they loved me less than the amount of fingers on my hands. I know the love is there but we never expressed affection. I actually feel weird saying it to my parents and siblings and we're all in our mid/late 20s.
I can agree to the people giving different energies. People make you feel a certain way and that's undisputable. Regardless of man, woman, or star signs, everyone effects you in some way. I do the same with my best friend. I feel silence really do speak louder than words. As far as your friend stringing you along, I wouldn't be able to tell. But soul searching I can agree to. I'm constantly looking to find myself, and if I had tears in my eyes or fear, it would be because I was completely broken. I hide it well behind a mask
Posted by OceanBoy88You are right about him with expression, he is exactly what you describe. I'm amazed by how much similarity you two share.
@Poppyseeds yea I feel expression is hard. Everything I wrote hear would never come out of my mouth honestly. My face would be more clear and any words I planned to say would just blank out like stage fright. If only someone can read my mind if would be do easier!!! Sometimes a word can't fit an emotion. Thats how I feel sometimes. A divorced family for him is especially rough. The constant back and forth with bonds fading away would hurt anyone. For me, the only time words come out clear is if I was faced with an ultimatum like how he probably felt in your situation so maybe that's why everything came out at the last minute

Posted by lolmeng
He definitely knows I like him. It took a week for him to tell me he just wanted to be friends.


Posted by OceanBoy88Even your view on verbalizing stuff is the same as him.. he told me once about don't focus on my words, focus on things I do for you.
@Poppyseeds exactly. If he's like me, its the expressions
that mean more than the words. It's hard to find someone that truly understands that aspect in a sense because everyone wants to verbalize everything. There's nothing wrong with talking, its great because you can here sincerity in each other and just vent and catch up on the day or share some jokes but there were so many times that you just want to sit there and be quiet enjoying each other's vibrations. What he does for you is just as important to how he smiles, holds you, or gives any affection. I can't say all Pisces are the same but I can agree to the stereotype of us giving, loving deeply, and becoming spiritually involved to our significant other
Posted by P-AngelAt least I'm not a troll, now go fuck yourself
I see that poppyseeds is making ANOTHER thread about her .... a real attention whore.
Posted by lolmengAll I can say is don't hold your breathe for him, go with the flow, enjoy the friendship and be open to other opportunities. If he wants you he will ask you out. That's my experience with Pisces.
Well. I take everything on here with a grain of salt. I can sense which pieces of advice are BS and which are not 🙂 I'll decide what to do personally because I wont let anyone else tell me what to believe. I was never that kind of person. But any more advice and insights are welcome. I dont think I'll give him another birthday present this year but maybe the next. By then he wont know for sure if I still like him or not.
Its true that /maybe/ I did get friendzoned but the whole situation is more detailed than that. You are all ignoring how we are both busy from school.
Anyways if I cant get him then I have lots of other opportunities for guys it seems.

Posted by lolmengI can relate to your feelings as I'm on the same cusp, not sure if you saw my comment earlier.
poppyseeds; Exactly. Im not completely unopen to other guys. I love our feiendship too and my libra side always values building a great friendship before love. Im definitely not going to bring up the topic of relationships to him again, not for 2-3 years at least.


Posted by HellDoradoFish are very intuitive, they can see through what you are trying to do.Posted by lolmengno don't do that. that's a very bad strategy.
Yeah thats more accurate. Hes low level and subtle. Im already telling him and my friend in the group chat about guys who hit on me. Hahaha hope thats a good strategy.
It would be nice if I knew even more about male fishes' minds. Hes so closed off and a bit mysteriousclick to expand


Posted by OceanBoy88I only asked because he seem to be more at ease on social media with colleagues and friends. I asked him what if your friends take it the wrong way and want more? He goes that's their problem and not mine.
@Poppyseeds I do find it easier to talk to girls I have friend zoned. If I become deeply attracted to them after, I'd tell them because that would b messed up to not be honest now. Many powerful couples started as friends. It builds a solid foundation for each other and gives you a candid moment of each other.
Posted by lolmengTypical Pisces who suffers from inferior complex. They need female attention to soothe their fragile ego. Some are harmless and some would put on a big bad front to put others down in order to lift themselves up.
I just want to tell you all more about him. See what you can make out of it.
He actually lacks self esteem. He never shows me his weaknesses anymore and only tells me about his good grades. But once he told my friend that he thinks of himself as worthless and not good at anything. He told me that he lacks self confidence and hes working on it. Yet hes the leader of a university club and he has leadership and people skills.
He had a crush on another Pisces girl before and that lasted 4 years. He just got over that terrible experience when we met. And we talked pretty much every day for 3 months when we met. We flirted and went to places for fun and those felt like dates. That happened four times. He even paid for my food and snacks. Later it died off and we were more distancey but still remained a close bond.
I even met his sister and made fun of him with her haha
On the surface honestly he seems like a very shy reserved but responsible and mature guy.
Recently he is weird haha. In group gatherings he sits far from me. He just talks with his guy friends and never me. Then as we are getting ready to leave he says goodbye to everyone then says it again specifically to me in a low voice. In one group gathering I got on the wrong bus and he offered to pick me up lol. My friend mentioned he looked kind of annoyed when he was on the phone with me offering to pick me up. At the movie he sat the farthest from me.



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So what does Pisces guy look for in a girl?? And what are some strategies to get him to like me back?
We are close friends who deeply care about eachother. I'm pretty sure hes not completely uninterested. He wanted to be friends because we are in school and he feels awkward when we talk. How do I make it less awkward?
I need help from awesome and at the same time not so awesome Pisces haha! My worst enemy was also a Pisces. I guess thats what you get when you put opposites together.