xelaekys
@xelaekys
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Posted by MlleFiskpeople who are really cool don't talk about "being cool"
Maybe @hydorah can weigh in on this. Apparently he was cool back in 1998.
Posted by hydorahI didn't. If you re-read, I wrote I am attracted to cool and people tell me I'm cool. I never said I was 'cool'. ;PPosted by MlleFiskpeople who are really cool don't talk about "being cool"
Maybe @hydorah can weigh in on this. Apparently he was cool back in 1998.
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Posted by killerwhalemoonVery true! But I have to wonder why this keeps happening with Pisces guys. I am a Cancer btw.
Your really boxing yourself in by being a little down over a few pisces men when we live on a planet blossoming with men who are NOT pisces and probably worth more of your time. Be optimistic.

Posted by WestsidekodakActually yes, I had a bit of the "period gentleman" style during the 1990s.Posted by MlleFisk
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Posted by xelaekysHow old are you ? if I may ask
I keep finding myself attracted to 'cool' pisces guys. Edgey, fiercely independent males with confidence. I often try being into other types but I never find myself excited in the same way (if at all) as I am with these 'cool' guys. I am not trying to limit myself to Pisces, but I keep connecting with them and having the same thing happen (4 times in a row!).
The irony is that people are always telling me how cool I am. Generally I am all the things these types of guys want, but they ultimately want what I am to the extreme. For example, I am a musician, but they want a rockstar. I'm attractive, but they want model hot.
I'm also nice, which guys often mistake as weakness and insecurity. I don't have much 'game'. I wear my heart on my sleeve and if I'm into a guy I will let him know. It seems like expressing any kind of emotion to a male is a major turnoff. It's depressing for me because I don't know how to be any other way.
They always start out completely infatuated, acting like they actually want a real relationship. Super attentive, not wanting to stop communicating. Then suddenly they shift and decide they only like me as a friend. They stop being attentive and start treating me as an afterthought instead of a priorty.
It's like I'm the 'cool girl' who these Pisces guys ultimately see as a good friend or fwb, but not as someone for whom they can fall head over heels.
I keep getting hurt and it just makes me so sad. I do all this work to get myself back into a good place then 'he' appears and knocks me off my equilibrium so quickly.
I'm really not sure what to do anymore. Any advice?

Posted by jimaras22true about pisces
@sensitiveblue selfish maybe sometimes when wronged mostly but weak rarely[or on purpose]
at least for me and the pisces i know. We hide our strength and reveal it when others think we are chickens , it is the best defence i believe.
You never see it coming jajajajaja , it is passive and cheeky but who cares , most ppl do it anyway.

Posted by hydorahsweet holyPosted by WestsidekodakActually yes, I had a bit of the "period gentleman" style during the 1990s.Posted by MlleFisk
Maybe @hydorah can weigh in on this. Apparently he was cool back in 1898
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Posted by Vegetta91I'm too old for founding a family, I'm just a sugar daddy nowPosted by BlondeAmbitionWanna have kids with him? 😄 🙂)Posted by hydorahsweet holyPosted by WestsidekodakActually yes, I had a bit of the "period gentleman" style during the 1990s.Posted by MlleFisk
Maybe @hydorah can weigh in on this. Apparently he was cool back in 1898
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Posted by xelaekysI dated 3 Pisces back to back. That was enough for me to just see a Pisces man and go the other way. â€Posted by killerwhalemoonVery true! But I have to wonder why this keeps happening with Pisces guys. I am a Cancer btw.
Your really boxing yourself in by being a little down over a few pisces men when we live on a planet blossoming with men who are NOT pisces and probably worth more of your time. Be optimistic.click to expand




Posted by hydorahPlease stop posing as a Virgo Man.Posted by WestsidekodakActually yes, I had a bit of the "period gentleman" style during the 1990s.Posted by MlleFisk
Maybe @hydorah can weigh in on this. Apparently he was cool back in 1898
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Posted by LittleStarfishinamaize made a topic about this, god I miss him.
All Pisces men have a fantasy girl. If you aren't it, then you will never be "cool" enough.
And their fantasy is each something different.



Posted by Damnatahe posts as "mrpepperidge" these daysPosted by LittleStarfishinamaize made a topic about this, god I miss him.
All Pisces men have a fantasy girl. If you aren't it, then you will never be "cool" enough.
And their fantasy is each something different.click to expand

Posted by hydorahsmhPosted by Damnatahe posts as "mrpepperidge" these daysPosted by LittleStarfishinamaize made a topic about this, god I miss him.
All Pisces men have a fantasy girl. If you aren't it, then you will never be "cool" enough.
And their fantasy is each something different.click to expand

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The irony is that people are always telling me how cool I am. Generally I am all the things these types of guys want, but they ultimately want what I am to the extreme. For example, I am a musician, but they want a rockstar. I'm attractive, but they want model hot.
I'm also nice, which guys often mistake as weakness and insecurity. I don't have much 'game'. I wear my heart on my sleeve and if I'm into a guy I will let him know. It seems like expressing any kind of emotion to a male is a major turnoff. It's depressing for me because I don't know how to be any other way.
They always start out completely infatuated, acting like they actually want a real relationship. Super attentive, not wanting to stop communicating. Then suddenly they shift and decide they only like me as a friend. They stop being attentive and start treating me as an afterthought instead of a priorty.
It's like I'm the 'cool girl' who these Pisces guys ultimately see as a good friend or fwb, but not as someone for whom they can fall head over heels.
I keep getting hurt and it just makes me so sad. I do all this work to get myself back into a good place then 'he' appears and knocks me off my equilibrium so quickly.
I'm really not sure what to do anymore. Any advice?