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Is he trying to tell me something?
Ive just read all through your posts and I cant really see anything to suggest that he doesn't feel the same ?? We Aquarius moons are confusing to others, I know that, the times in the past ive tried tell someone how I feel and sounded as though I'm just a bad actress, its so frustrating, so we end up avoiding the situation through fear of sounding fake. You two have a strong connection, he even went all out and said no one connects with me like you do, also he misses you A LOT lol! Do you see what I'm saying, you thought you were reading him correctly, then started doubting yourself, but you were reading him correctly all along! You know each other like mirrors, you speak to each other without words I bet, and you know instinctively what each other is thinking....yes?
Perhaps he felt how I explained earlier in my thread also, which is why he wasn't as direct as you would have liked, also you said you were friends but got closer and more intimate before, that's a little more than friends in my eyes, especially after 4 years, tbh I don't understand what you want, you need to be direct if you want to move forward with him, both admit your more than friends now, discuss it with him honestly, depending on what you want, I don't know what you actually want from him either, you havnt said, so how is he supposed to know ?? X
Perhaps he felt how I explained earlier in my thread also, which is why he wasn't as direct as you would have liked, also you said you were friends but got closer and more intimate before, that's a little more than friends in my eyes, especially after 4 years, tbh I don't understand what you want, you need to be direct if you want to move forward with him, both admit your more than friends now, discuss it with him honestly, depending on what you want, I don't know what you actually want from him either, you havnt said, so how is he supposed to know ?? X
I don't really understand the situation as you described it.
You share your soul with him at a time when he cannot respond to you ..... which only leaves him to respond to you later ... but, when he does later, it hurts your feelings because he should have been more sensitive that to just blurt it out when you cannot respond well.
then it still hurts your feelings, so you wait a very long time to respond back to him, and then when he takes a little while to respond back ... that also hurts your feelings.
It hurts your feelings when he tells you he misses you ... and it hurts your feelings because you miss him and want him to rectify that by being more direct than him saying, "I miss you"
and now your feelings are hurt because he hasn't addressed your pouring out of your heart to him
So, what I got out of this is that your feelings are hurt, regardless of what he says or does .... so, that makes me not quite grasp what the situation is that has brought you to make this testimony.
Posted by piscespoppyYou're right! we need no words to communicate ^-^
Ive just read all through your posts and I cant really see anything to suggest that he doesn't feel the same ?? We Aquarius moons are confusing to others, I know that, the times in the past ive tried tell someone how I feel and sounded as though I'm just a bad actress, its so frustrating, so we end up avoiding the situation through fear of sounding fake. You two have a strong connection, he even went all out and said no one connects with me like you do, also he misses you A LOT lol! Do you see what I'm saying, you thought you were reading him correctly, then started doubting yourself, but you were reading him correctly all along! You know each other like mirrors, you speak to each other without words I bet, and you know instinctively what each other is thinking....yes?
Perhaps he felt how I explained earlier in my thread also, which is why he wasn't as direct as you would have liked, also you said you were friends but got closer and more intimate before, that's a little more than friends in my eyes, especially after 4 years, tbh I don't understand what you want, you need to be direct if you want to move forward with him, both admit your more than friends now, discuss it with him honestly, depending on what you want, I don't know what you actually want from him either, you havnt said, so how is he supposed to know ?? X
Well I told him i had feelings for him! I thought that was enough!! lol Although i do understand the way aquarians communicate sometimes doesn't make sense to anyone else but them.. I also see how I need to decided on what i want so i can move forward with it. you're right, thank you for pointing that out to me... it's something that's been knocking at me for some time. I want him to be honest with me about his feelings. And if he does feel the same i'd want us to see where we can take things.
Brilliant, I hope you both want the same and it works out well for you hun, I really do x
Good luck.
Posted by P-Angellol! I see what you mean..
I don't really understand the situation as you described it.
You share your soul with him at a time when he cannot respond to you ..... which only leaves him to respond to you later ... but, when he does later, it hurts your feelings because he should have been more sensitive that to just blurt it out when you cannot respond well.
then it still hurts your feelings, so you wait a very long time to respond back to him, and then when he takes a little while to respond back ... that also hurts your feelings.
It hurts your feelings when he tells you he misses you ... and it hurts your feelings because you miss him and want him to rectify that by being more direct than him saying, "I miss you"
and now your feelings are hurt because he hasn't addressed your pouring out of your heart to him
So, what I got out of this is that your feelings are hurt, regardless of what he says or does .... so, that makes me not quite grasp what the situation is that has brought you to make this testimony.
lets see if i can clarify: I shared my heart with him and he didn't respond the way i thought he would... which hurt
i was hurting so i needed time. then i felt good enough to be back in contact with him.
he told me he missed me and it made me feel good but being a scorpio i am quite suspicious of peoples behavior at times and turned that over real quick from gushy heart feels to "what are your motives" . I was bothered because i thought he would know that that would be a tender subject so i wasnt understanding why he would say that at that time. and i took it as he was trying to fuck with my head.. (he would never. but i've been in shitty relationships where thats all that happened. i was triggered.)
-he did address me pouring my heart out to him, we talked about it (intuition or delusion post)
-my feelings are confused because he said he didn't feel the same but everything he's doing says otherwise
Thanks for responding ... sounds to me like there is a lot of expectations on your part for him to know what you are thinking, without you actually telling him.
You say things like, "I thought he would" and "the way I thought" and then expect him to be able to interact with you, while you're not verbalizing what you want or think.
And he seems vague, also ..... you have to realize the people are responding off of each other. Of course, he doesn't know any more than you do about where you stand ... since you two aren't communicating.
It seems like you just blurted this out to him, and then ran and hide ... that's not really honest communication back and forth. And he's not really trying either, from the sounds of it.
And you have to stop putting (love) definition on what he says and does .. unless he is actually telling you. Like the very last sentence in where you believe he cares more than he's telling you .. and then banking on this suspicion enough to have expectations on him to perform accordingly.
The only real issue I see here that would likely fix everything ...... things aren't being discussed, rather operating off of suspicions that have no factual basis.
Good luck to you both.
Posted by P-Angeli had a feeling you'd say exactly this! makes sense.
Thanks for responding ... sounds to me like there is a lot of expectations on your part for him to know what you are thinking, without you actually telling him.
You say things like, "I thought he would" and "the way I thought" and then expect him to be able to interact with you, while you're not verbalizing what you want or think.
And he seems vague, also ..... you have to realize the people are responding off of each other. Of course, he doesn't know any more than you do about where you stand ... since you two aren't communicating.
It seems like you just blurted this out to him, and then ran and hide ... that's not really honest communication back and forth. And he's not really trying either, from the sounds of it.
And you have to stop putting (love) definition on what he says and does .. unless he is actually telling you. Like the very last sentence in where you believe he cares more than he's telling you .. and then banking on this suspicion enough to have expectations on him to perform accordingly.
The only real issue I see here that would likely fix everything ...... things aren't being discussed, rather operating off of suspicions that have no factual basis.
Good luck to you both.
Well... i needed to process more, so i kinda just went ghost on him... not in spite of him but.. honestly that threw me.. I finally responded a week later (this weekend) And kept it casual and friendly. Saying that i knew what he meant and that i wished we had some time to spend together.. then i just changed the subject..
Uhm.. he hasn't responded to me.. and it's been 2 days.. It doesn't upset me.. but he's never taken this long to get back to me. I was getting the feeling that he didn't like that i didn't answer for a week after he said he missed me so much..
Apparently pisces are indirect.. something i'm just noticing (l o l) and they also swim away when they feel insecure or are just in their feelings?
Could he have been trying to tell me something? Maybe that he's realized his feelings for me?
So you went "ghost" on him (you can do that, but not him, right?) for a week and you haven't heard from him in two days. Poor baby. Again, you can do this to him, but he cannot do this to you? Sorry, Pisceans do that. SOME of us don't play tit for tat while some of us do. He's the latter.
He felt like he had reeled you (just keep thinking "fishing, rods, bait, reeling in, casting out, etc." all these things associated with fishing "Pisces" and he fought so hard he's tired right now (took you a week to text him). As Pisceans we don't like to be ignored. We don't play games like "we'll see how long I hear from her and that long distance shows me she cares". NOT! A lot of the posts I read here are NOT associated with Pisces. I should know. I've been one for 51 years.
Like I mentioned, we love the thrill of talking and grabbing someone's attention; you. And only you. We don't give our affection to a line of people just waiting outside our doorstep. He was interested in you and you felt the same way. That span of time had him "thinking". If you want to maintain that line of communication; keep doing it. The longer you take in communicating with him shows him you're not really that into him....seen the movie? (flip flop the title). 🤗 cyber hug
Keep us posted.
Love,
Eva
Uhm.. he hasn't responded to me.. and it's been 2 days.. It doesn't upset me.. but he's never taken this long to get back to me. I was getting the feeling that he didn't like that i didn't answer for a week after he said he missed me so much..
Apparently pisces are indirect.. something i'm just noticing (l o l) and they also swim away when they feel insecure or are just in their feelings?
Could he have been trying to tell me something? Maybe that he's realized his feelings for me?
So you went "ghost" on him (you can do that, but not him, right?) for a week and you haven't heard from him in two days. Poor baby. Again, you can do this to him, but he cannot do this to you? Sorry, Pisceans do that. SOME of us don't play tit for tat while some of us do. He's the latter.
He felt like he had reeled you (just keep thinking "fishing, rods, bait, reeling in, casting out, etc." all these things associated with fishing "Pisces" and he fought so hard he's tired right now (took you a week to text him). As Pisceans we don't like to be ignored. We don't play games like "we'll see how long I hear from her and that long distance shows me she cares". NOT! A lot of the posts I read here are NOT associated with Pisces. I should know. I've been one for 51 years.
Like I mentioned, we love the thrill of talking and grabbing someone's attention; you. And only you. We don't give our affection to a line of people just waiting outside our doorstep. He was interested in you and you felt the same way. That span of time had him "thinking". If you want to maintain that line of communication; keep doing it. The longer you take in communicating with him shows him you're not really that into him....seen the movie? (flip flop the title). 🤗 cyber hug
Keep us posted.
Love,
Eva
Posted by EvatheDivaSo you went "ghost" on him (you can do that, but not him, right?) for a week and you haven't heard from him in two days. Poor baby. Again, you can do this to him, but he cannot do this to you? Sorry, Pisceans do that. SOME of us don't play tit for tat while some of us do. He's the latter.
Well... i needed to process more, so i kinda just went ghost on him... not in spite of him but.. honestly that threw me.. I finally responded a week later (this weekend) And kept it casual and friendly. Saying that i knew what he meant and that i wished we had some time to spend together.. then i just changed the subject..
Uhm.. he hasn't responded to me.. and it's been 2 days.. It doesn't upset me.. but he's never taken this long to get back to me. I was getting the feeling that he didn't like that i didn't answer for a week after he said he missed me so much..
Apparently pisces are indirect.. something i'm just noticing (l o l) and they also swim away when they feel insecure or are just in their feelings?
Could he have been trying to tell me something? Maybe that he's realized his feelings for me?
He felt like he had reeled you (just keep thinking "fishing, rods, bait, reeling in, casting out, etc." all these things associated with fishing "Pisces" and he fought so hard he's tired right now (took you a week to text him). As Pisceans we don't like to be ignored. We don't play games like "we'll see how long I hear from her and that long distance shows me she cares". NOT! A lot of the posts I read here are NOT associated with Pisces. I should know. I've been one for 51 years.
Like I mentioned, we love the thrill of talking and grabbing someone's attention; you. And only you. We don't give our affection to a line of people just waiting outside our doorstep. He was interested in you and you felt the same way. That span of time had him "thinking". If you want to maintain that line of communication; keep doing it. The longer you take in communicating with him shows him you're not really that into him....seen the movie? (flip flop the title). 🤗 cyber hug
Keep us posted.
Love,
Eva
No, i get why he would do it. especially if i was doing it, which is why i'm not upset about it... im more curious and wondering. did my lack of timely response make him feel rejected? was that what happened? he got to thinking?
Should i just send him a message telling him i hope hes doing well or something nice like that? or should I wait for him to reach out to me?
I will keep you posted for sure ^-^
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No, i get why he would do it. especially if i was doing it, which is why i'm not upset about it... im more curious and wondering. did my lack of timely response make him feel rejected? was that what happened? he got to thinking?
Should i just send him a message telling him i hope hes doing well or something nice like that? or should I wait for him to reach out to me?
The latter. 🤗 Cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
No, i get why he would do it. especially if i was doing it, which is why i'm not upset about it... im more curious and wondering. did my lack of timely response make him feel rejected? was that what happened? he got to thinking?
Should i just send him a message telling him i hope hes doing well or something nice like that? or should I wait for him to reach out to me?
The latter. 🤗 Cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
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