Bouncing back

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Sssupes on Friday, May 6, 2016 and has 27 replies.

Can Pisces Bounce Back Quickly from Emotional Turmoil

Pisces are sensitive and empathetic, often processing emotions deeply. While they may appear to recover quickly, they need time to heal internally. Their ability to bounce back varies individually but generally involves a period of reflection and emotional adjustment.

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Do you Pisces bounce back from emotional turmoil fairly quickly? There's a lady that works in the admin bldg and she just lost her husband of 22 years a month ago. Today, I clearly heard her flirting with another man. Seems quick to me but I don't know what the home life was like.

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I don't think her flirting with a man is indicative of her not mourning and being in grief still. I think after 22yrs, she has to feel pretty lonely and maybe, needs to feel something more than the emptiness she feels alone at night. That's just my guess, obviously, I don't know this person but sometimes we have to think a little more than what is on the surface to try to understand someone.

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@Sssupes
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Posted by WateryGem
I don't think her flirting with a man is indicative of her not mourning and being in grief still. I think after 22yrs, she has to feel pretty lonely and maybe, needs to feel something more than the emptiness she feels alone at night. That's just my guess, obviously, I don't know this person but sometimes we have to think a little more than what is on the surface to try to understand someone.

Oh, I have no doubts that why she's doing it. Taking her mind off of it has to feel great at this point. I'm not even knocking her for it either.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

You've made the assumption that this lady was in emotional turmoil.

And "yes" Pisces bounce back quickly with every emotional obstacle, whether turmoil was involved or not ... so long as the Fish doesn't have a Piscean moon.

Piscean mooners seem to never recover, and are cursed to spend the remainder of their lives in tatters

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@Sssupes
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Posted by P-Angel

You've made the assumption that this lady was in emotional turmoil.

And "yes" Pisces bounce back quickly with every emotional obstacle, whether turmoil was involved or not ... so long as the Fish doesn't have a Piscean moon.

Piscean mooners seem to never recover, and are cursed to spend the remainder of their lives in tatters

You are correct. I did make that assumption. Spending 20 something years with anyone (should) cause some type of turmoil, loving them or not.

Even a beaten dog still loves his owner, although he's glad to have a loving home elsewhere.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Not a Fish, my dear.

We are never fully ever there ... it's not uncommon for a Pisces to flip an emotional switch.

and just like the snap of a finger ... we are able to disassociate.

You can have any come back you want, trying to convince me that you know ..... I'll listen 🙂

But you're still wrong ... because you can only decide what puts you in emotional turmoil.

You aren't capable of knowing something you don't know.

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@Undine
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Posted by P-Angel

You've made the assumption that this lady was in emotional turmoil.

And "yes" Pisces bounce back quickly with every emotional obstacle, whether turmoil was involved or not ... so long as the Fish doesn't have a Piscean moon.

Piscean mooners seem to never recover, and are cursed to spend the remainder of their lives in tatters

Bwahahahaha!!!

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Posted by Sssupes
Do you Pisces bounce back from emotional turmoil fairly quickly? There's a lady that works in the admin bldg and she just lost her husband of 22 years a month ago. Today, I clearly heard her flirting with another man. Seems quick to me but I don't know what the home life was like.

I hope she didn't have to wait for 22 years to flirt again.

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Posted by Sssupes
Do you Pisces bounce back from emotional turmoil fairly quickly? There's a lady that works in the admin bldg and she just lost her husband of 22 years a month ago. Today, I clearly heard her flirting with another man. Seems quick to me but I don't know what the home life was like.

People respond to grief in different ways. Just because you wouldn't express grief by throwing yourself at another person doesn't make it invalid.

Oftentimes those with the biggest smiles are hiding the most pain...

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@Sssupes
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Posted by P-Angel

Not a Fish, my dear.

We are never fully ever there ... it's not uncommon for a Pisces to flip an emotional switch.

and just like the snap of a finger ... we are able to disassociate.

You can have any come back you want, trying to convince me that you know ..... I'll listen 🙂

But you're still wrong ... because you can only decide what puts you in emotional turmoil.

You aren't capable of knowing something you don't know.

Last attempt!

In order to "flip the switch" there needs to be a reason to flip it in the first place. 👅

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Good thing that is your last attempt ..... I now get the last word !!!

Nope, not even then ... the Fish is notorious for swimming away during the height of pleasant experiences in where everything is going just fine.

any person who is, or has, dating a Pisces will testify to that.

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@Sssupes
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Posted by P-Angel

Good thing that is your last attempt ..... I now get the last word !!!

Nope, not even then ... the Fish is notorious for swimming away during the height of pleasant experiences in where everything is going just fine.

any person who is, or has, dating a Pisces will testify to that.

That's twice I lost today! It shall not happen again!

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@malloryor
12 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

That's an individual thing, not a sign thing. It takes me some time to get over emotional trauma just because I can live in my head (and heart), instead of accept reality...not that I am ever naive or forgetful of the reality, but I do find myself stuck kin my feelings.

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@malloryor
12 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

That's an individual thing, not a sign thing. It takes me some time to get over emotional trauma just because I can live in my head (and heart), instead of accept reality...not that I am ever naive or forgetful of the reality, but I do find myself stuck kin my feelings.