love really does happen when you least expect...

I guess love really does happen when you least expect.
12 days ago, I didn't even know him... and now, well now I feel so changed.

He makes me feel so beautiful, and the way he touches me... it speaks to me.
we have so much physical/emotional chemistry its insane. We can be ourselves with each other.

He's made me forget all the hurt from the past guys. He doesn't make me feel any hint of doubt or worry or anxiousness...

He says he wasn't looking for it either. He says I've broken down his defenses and hes melted my icy chilled heart. How'd this happen?

heres our charts.

mine:
Sun 9?? Pisces
Moon 1?? Sagittarius
Mercury 14?? Aquarius
Venus 0?? Pisces
Mars 23?? Taurus
Jupiter 28?? Taurus
Saturn 11?? Capricorn
Uranus 4?? Capricorn
Neptune 11?? Capricorn
Pluto 15?? Scorpio
Ascendant 7?? Libra
Midheaven 7?? Cancer

his: (some of it... idk his birth time.)
Sun 26?? Aries
Mercury 15?? Taurus
Venus 10?? Pisces
Mars 26?? Aquarius
Jupiter 4?? Cancer
Saturn 25?? Capricorn
Uranus 9?? Capricorn
Neptune 14?? Capricorn
Pluto 16?? Scorpio

12

Days

Ago




*shakes head*

thanks guys... trust me, I'm shaking my head too. This is NOT my usual pace, and its just out of my control at this point. I'm hoping that theres no crashing and burning. But whatever, I'll take this for what it is. Cause right now i'm enjoying it 🙂

aPiscesPrincess,very true... I've just held my heart guarded for so long and before i know it this happens... I'll try and be careful 🙂

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Posted by dreamingpisces
aPiscesPrincess,very true... I've just held my heart guarded for so long and before i know it this happens... I'll try and be careful 🙂

I know how you feel, I'm also always guarding my heart and never giving guys chances. Because I'm afraid of getting hurt again.

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yeah,thats definitely how I am also... and now that I've found this great (so far) guy I feel bad because hes noticing my distance at times and mistakes my fear for disinterest.

Posted by Lena282
You both have Pisces Venus and his is conj your Sun! Aries with Pisces Venus are awesome.

I also never let my guard down but it's so nice to finally find someone you can feel comfortable with, best of luck!

I actually dont know much about charts... is that a good thing??

Posted by PeriThePiscesKing
Love? It's nothing but an illusion to keep us reproducing.

When you give love, it's not reciprocated...

When it's given to you, it goes unappreciated...

😢

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Posted by PeriThePiscesKing
Love? It's nothing but an illusion to keep us reproducing.

When you give love, it's not reciprocated...

When it's given to you, it goes unappreciated...

😢

Love comes later, through experience, through the years.

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very very true... I know it seems with each relationship experience I realize in the end how naive I was. I'm finally realizing my worth and am not settling for less than what I deserve.

Chill. It isn't really love until after the honeymoon period and you have learned to accept them, and their flaws, completely. Right now it's all hearts and rose-tinted glasses. You are nicely infatuated 🙂

If love finds you when you least expect it,well then stop expecting it and it will find you.🙂

ok so i feel like such a fool. but i'm just gonna get it out.... this guy turned out to be psychotic and abusive both mentally and physically.

I was entirely too trusting, and naive... please,, no one say "I told you so" I know I was stupid and got myself into this.

He took my virginity... I cant have that back. and now I feel disgusting.. I let all his pretty words consume me.

I was so desperate to know what love felt like, that I mistook this for love.

I don't even know why i'm writing this. I just need to get it out somewhere

and hope some sweet little pisces doesnt get caught in the same net i did.

I'm out though. before anything worse happened.

I've learned one hell of a lesson.

Learning the difference between love and infatuation isn't an easy lesson to learn ... and some people are up in their 40's and STILL getting caught up in this error .... because the line that seperates the two is very thin, nearly invisible.


for this reason .. it is always recommended for people to date a while before letting their hears consume their senses. It's ok to share the physical part of it, it's ok to share all parts of the coupling ... just so long as you keep in mind that you are still trying to find out if this is love, or infatuation.


You know, losing your virgnity to someone you don't love isn't a big deal. Sex the first time is far from making love anyway, it's awkward, it's painful, it's confusing .. instead of making yourself upset about it, why don't you try changing your perspective into thinking that you want to be sexually experienced for when you find your man, so you will know how to please him?

Doesnt' mean you hve to be a whore .. jsut means that it's ok to explore that side of you, and it means that when you do find your man, how are you suppose to let him know how to love you, if you don't know how?

You also need to learn from this experience that a man will tell you just about anything to have sex with you if he doesn't respect you .... so, you will always have to keep this in mind.


Unfortunately, being a female, once feelings become involved on her end for another, she can no longer determine his intentions with her.

Wow, what a supportive thread. dreaming, there is GREAT advice given here. You'll be ok. When some guys find out a woman is a virgin, they get REALLY determined to be her FIRST. As P-Angel said, turn this experience into something for your good.

Thank you guys for the replies they've all helped a lot.. and P-Angel, you're right I guess its good I got it out of the way, and I need to not let my emotions get the better of me anymore. This situation is just going to help me grow and be a stronger person, so even if i'm hurt right now I know I'll be ok.

(((HUGZ)))