me and my pisces friend had a fight and i sent flowers anonymously. What would you think?

We had made up since the fight, but we arn't really talking. I wanted to send her flowers not as an apology. Because I had already apologized. I just wanted to make her smile. But I decided not to put my name on the card because it would defeat the purpose of being a selfless gesture. I asked the florists not to make it a "romantic arrangement" but just something to brighten someone's day. Like sunflowers (she loves sunflowers). I just dont want to creep her out so im wondering if I should just fess up. I just want her to smile in the end of the day.. and feel good about that. I had the florist write "have a good day". She put it on a "just because" card. Thoughts?

Posted by nano
It depends on what the fight was over.

Are you sure 100% that you made up? Asking because you said you still aren't talking with each other.

Some transgressions cannot be forgiven/forgotten with mere flowers.

She forgave me. We are still friends. Its a long story but in a nut shell I know she forgave me. Its just complicated because I yelled at her for breaking my boundary. We took a break and she broke my boundary by reaching out over something unimportant and I yelled her. Than made an excuse that I am "going through things". I had written out a well thought out apology. And she accepted but stated she wasnt sure if she wanted to keep talking to me. I told her whatever she decides no hard feelings. 2 weeks later she reached out through text. Like a baby step. we back and forthed through text a couple times a day for about a week. I asked her to hang out at some point but she said she couldnt two days after that text. I think she's still hurt by me and unsure. Which I understand. Just want her to smile. Not stress her out. Wondering if I should reveal my self though.... they were received about an hour ago according to the florist.

Posted by nano
It depends on what the fight was over.

Are you sure 100% that you made up? Asking because you said you still aren't talking with each other.

Some transgressions cannot be forgiven/forgotten with mere flowers.

Honestly i don't care if she knows its from me. I want her to think it's one of her admirers (she has a lot). But only if she finds it sweet and not creepy. I just want her to have one of her happy day dreams. because they make her smile. And because I love her.

Posted by WaterDevil
We took a break and she broke my boundary by reaching out over something unimportant and I yelled her. Than made an excuse that I am "going through things". I had written out a well thought out apology. And she accepted but stated she wasnt sure if she wanted to keep talking to me.

If this isn’t the first time she may be over being your emotional punching bag.

We Pisces forgive, but we don’t forget.

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We took a break and she broke my boundary by reaching out over something unimportant and I yelled her. Than made an excuse that I am "going through things". I had written out a well thought out apology. And she accepted but stated she wasnt sure if she wanted to keep talking to me.

If this isn’t the first time she may be over being your emotional punching bag.

We Pisces forgive, but we don’t forget.

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It was the first time. And she used the words “emotional punching bag” 😢 I have issues I’m working through. Seeing a therapist after that argument. She definitely forgives me. But I recognize none the less she may never forget. We never fought like that before. Ever. She had reached out to me weeks later and chatted and asked me how I was and all that. And I don’t really tell her I’m hurting. I am. But I don’t want to make her feel used by me ever again. Just wondering if I should leave this anonymous. In your opinion...

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We took a break and she broke my boundary by reaching out over something unimportant and I yelled her. Than made an excuse that I am "going through things". I had written out a well thought out apology. And she accepted but stated she wasnt sure if she wanted to keep talking to me.

If this isn’t the first time she may be over being your emotional punching bag.

We Pisces forgive, but we don’t forget.

It was the first time. And she used the words “emotional punching bag” 😢 I have issues I’m working through. Seeing a therapist after that argument. She definitely forgives me. But I recognize none the less she may never forget. We never fought like that before. Ever. She had reached out to me weeks later and chatted and asked me how I was and all that. And I don’t really tell her I’m hurting. I am. But I don’t want to make her feel used by me ever again. Just wondering if I should leave this anonymous. In your opinion...

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Yes keep it anonymous. Stay the course.

When/if she opens up about it/tells you about the flowers she got THEN tell her...”I have to admit something...I was the one who sent them to you.”

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We took a break and she broke my boundary by reaching out over something unimportant and I yelled her. Than made an excuse that I am "going through things". I had written out a well thought out apology. And she accepted but stated she wasnt sure if she wanted to keep talking to me.

If this isn’t the first time she may be over being your emotional punching bag.

We Pisces forgive, but we don’t forget.

It was the first time. And she used the words “emotional punching bag” 😢 I have issues I’m working through. Seeing a therapist after that argument. She definitely forgives me. But I recognize none the less she may never forget. We never fought like that before. Ever. She had reached out to me weeks later and chatted and asked me how I was and all that. And I don’t really tell her I’m hurting. I am. But I don’t want to make her feel used by me ever again. Just wondering if I should leave this anonymous. In your opinion...

Yes keep it anonymous. Stay the course.

When/if she opens up about it/tells you about the flowers she got THEN tell her...”I have to admit something...I was the one who sent them to you.”

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ok. sounds like a plan. Thank you. would you like receiving flowers anonymously? If there was no romantic undertone. would you find it a sweet gesture that made you feel good?

Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Why do that shit for. My Venus and mars are in Pisces and no way would I even entertain flowers after having my head chewed off for reaching out—

I mean she was reaching out not actually creeping you on socials or being a some juvenile pos.

Pisces are very intuitive. Most likely she picked up on your drama and wanted to assure you she was available as a shoulder to cry or lean on.



The gesture although lovely is not in my opinion enough. If she’s true Pisces you won’t be getting in her graces any time soon. Hell no.

thats not the point og the flowers. hence why i chose to stay anonymous. i dont deserve forgiveness. i just wanted to make her smile today. im just dealing with uncertainty if that waas selfish or selfless of me.

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Posted by nano
It depends on what the fight was over.

Are you sure 100% that you made up? Asking because you said you still aren't talking with each other.

Some transgressions cannot be forgiven/forgotten with mere flowers.

Honestly i don't care if she knows its from me. I want her to think it's one of her admirers (she has a lot). But only if she finds it sweet and not creepy. I just want her to have one of her happy day dreams. because they make her smile. And because I love her.

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We are always happy to receive flowers.

I am sure it made her happy 😊

She loved the flowers. Her Roomate guessed it was me and asked about them the very next day. I owned up to it that they were from me and said pisces reached out right away overwhelmed with joy. she even posted them on her instagram. Not saying anything but "look at all this beauty in my room" she has them on her window. I guess I know her better than I thought... @ladyneptune thanks again, helped me keep it smooth once I got called out. we aren't talking. but I made her smile at least. Im gonna give her space in time. But at least now she knows we are cool. She asked if I was ever gonna tell her, so I expressed "at first I thought t would be cool not to but I was thinking about it later and that you may want to know". Things are still uncertain between us. so many variables. But it seemed as if some ice was broken.

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Posted by nano
It depends on what the fight was over.

Are you sure 100% that you made up? Asking because you said you still aren't talking with each other.

Some transgressions cannot be forgiven/forgotten with mere flowers.

Honestly i don't care if she knows its from me. I want her to think it's one of her admirers (she has a lot). But only if she finds it sweet and not creepy. I just want her to have one of her happy day dreams. because they make her smile. And because I love her.

We are always happy to receive flowers.

I am sure it made her happy 😊

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You were right

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Posted by nano
It depends on what the fight was over.

Are you sure 100% that you made up? Asking because you said you still aren't talking with each other.

Some transgressions cannot be forgiven/forgotten with mere flowers.

Honestly i don't care if she knows its from me. I want her to think it's one of her admirers (she has a lot). But only if she finds it sweet and not creepy. I just want her to have one of her happy day dreams. because they make her smile. And because I love her.

We are always happy to receive flowers.

I am sure it made her happy 😊

You were right

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Nice 👍😄