So Pisces wants me to meet her mom

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by WaterDevil on Monday, December 4, 2017 and has 38 replies.

Interpreting a Pisces's Family Introduction

Meeting her mom suggests a deeper level of trust and connection. For Pisces, family is often private and meaningful, so this gesture may indicate genuine interest or a step toward something more serious. Consider her personality and the context of your relationship to understand if it signifies a bond beyond friendship.

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I’m honored of course. Her mom lives VERY far away, so I feel extra special about her asking me to go dancing with her and her mom next Saturday.

BUT we are still “friends” with some benefits. Should I be reading in to this a little more as a sign of some sort? I mean. I did mention a few months ago I’d like to meet her mom casually when she brought up she’d be coming to visit at some point. But I have a feeling that this is sacred to her. And that she wouldn’t introduce just anyone. Even on a friendship level. She’s very private. How do you guys view introducing family? Is it sacred to you? Or casual? Looking for some input because this seemes like a big deal and I intend to treat it as such.

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If a woman asks you to meet her parents then she plans on makin you her man, there is nothin casual about it. Even if the [erson you interactin with don't see it like that her parents or parents will cause everybody is a potential mate for their child in the eye of a parent.

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Posted by InnovationQey
If a woman asks you to meet her parents then she plans on makin you her man, there is nothin casual about it. Even if the [erson you interactin with don't see it like that her parents or parents will cause everybody is a potential mate for their child in the eye of a parent.

Are you a Piscean female? Well, I am. I was dating a Cappy (no sex, no kisses/hugs, no telecons, no texts, etc., for four months). I INVITED him over for Thanksgiving; just as friends. He reciprocated. I CANNOT remember what month I FINALLY had enough since I felt this wasn't going anywhere (I felt as if he were my "brother"). To this day we are still FB friends. He did ask me out for my b-day (March this year); and I declined.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: y'all FORGET Pisceans "go with the flow"

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She probably wants to introduce you as a friend and see what her mom thinks about you. She is just trying you. If you were exclusive then it would mean more.

Got you. Also I don’t see her introducing anyone else she’s seeing to her mom... ahum. But I get what your saying. I’ll treat it casually. And just be my sweet charming self and hope for the best lol

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Posted by InnovationQey
If a woman asks you to meet her parents then she plans on makin you her man, there is nothin casual about it. Even if the [erson you interactin with don't see it like that her parents or parents will cause everybody is a potential mate for their child in the eye of a parent.

Are you a Piscean female? Well, I am. I was dating a Cappy (no sex, no kisses/hugs, no telecons, no texts, etc., for four months). I INVITED him over for Thanksgiving; just as friends. He reciprocated. I CANNOT remember what month I FINALLY had enough since I felt this wasn't going anywhere (I felt as if he were my "brother"). To this day we are still FB friends. He did ask me out for my b-day (March this year); and I declined.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: y'all FORGET Pisceans "go with the flow"

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Yeah but me and her DO kiss and hug and give affection

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She probably wants to introduce you as a friend and see what her mom thinks about you. She is just trying you. If you were exclusive then it would mean more.

Got you. Also I don’t see her introducing anyone else she’s seeing to her mom... ahum. But I get what your saying. I’ll treat it casually. And just be my sweet charming self and hope for the best lol

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Yes, obviously she likes you and think it will be fun to have you there. But I don’t think she is planning a wedding jet 😄

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Posted by InnovationQey
If a woman asks you to meet her parents then she plans on makin you her man, there is nothin casual about it. Even if the [erson you interactin with don't see it like that her parents or parents will cause everybody is a potential mate for their child in the eye of a parent.

Are you a Piscean female? Well, I am. I was dating a Cappy (no sex, no kisses/hugs, no telecons, no texts, etc., for four months). I INVITED him over for Thanksgiving; just as friends. He reciprocated. I CANNOT remember what month I FINALLY had enough since I felt this wasn't going anywhere (I felt as if he were my "brother"). To this day we are still FB friends. He did ask me out for my b-day (March this year); and I declined.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: y'all FORGET Pisceans "go with the flow"

Yeah but me and her DO kiss and hug and give affection

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Yeah, we know, but with "no title".

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by EvatheDiva

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Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by InnovationQey
If a woman asks you to meet her parents then she plans on makin you her man, there is nothin casual about it. Even if the [erson you interactin with don't see it like that her parents or parents will cause everybody is a potential mate for their child in the eye of a parent.

Are you a Piscean female? Well, I am. I was dating a Cappy (no sex, no kisses/hugs, no telecons, no texts, etc., for four months). I INVITED him over for Thanksgiving; just as friends. He reciprocated. I CANNOT remember what month I FINALLY had enough since I felt this wasn't going anywhere (I felt as if he were my "brother"). To this day we are still FB friends. He did ask me out for my b-day (March this year); and I declined.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: y'all FORGET Pisceans "go with the flow"

Yeah but me and her DO kiss and hug and give affection

Yeah, we know, but with "no title".

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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I think my “title” is cute androgynous girl toy. At least rn smh lol

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We Pisces don't take invitations so seriously, so do not be so scared please.

We usually go for fun, so relax.. it is supposed to be a nice time!

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I'm a Cancer male actually, sorry to hear that guy did you like that. Some guys start getting flighty when the woman makes the meet my parents move cause they know where it's leadin to, that big c word dun dun dun....... commitment lol.

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Posted by InnovationQey
I'm a Cancer male actually, sorry to hear that guy did you like that. Some guys start getting flighty when the woman makes the meet my parents move cause they know where it's leadin to, that big c word dun dun dun....... commitment lol.

What guy did me like what? What are you referring to?

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'm a Cancer male actually, sorry to hear that guy did you like that. Some guys start getting flighty when the woman makes the meet my parents move cause they know where it's leadin to, that big c word dun dun dun....... commitment lol.

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Posted by WaterDevil

Since we friends now. Input?

just be yourself, i'd imagine that's sorta what she's expecting from you...

don't overthink anything, or get overwhelmed or the high-anxiety...even though it's nearly impossible not to...

sometimes excitement and nervousness can be hard to distinguish from each other, though lol

it seems like this is pretty important to her, and from what i can tell, it's important to you also...

so, just go have a good time...the last thing anyone is going to want wold be rigidity or an uncomfortable vibe...hope you can dance well because, you're about to be lol

you'll be fine, my friend...who knows, you may just end up having a fukkn killer time...lol

cheers!

--Jack

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If she's not living at home, she's looking to get serious. if living at home, I did it just to give my mother peace of mind of who her daughter is spending casual time with. She got the idea.

Doesn't have to mean next step anything. Pisces sun, Cap Venus.

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Posted by yellow01gt

Posted by WaterDevil

Since we friends now. Input?

just be yourself, i'd imagine that's sorta what she's expecting from you...

don't overthink anything, or get overwhelmed or the high-anxiety...even though it's nearly impossible not to...

sometimes excitement and nervousness can be hard to distinguish from each other, though lol

it seems like this is pretty important to her, and from what i can tell, it's important to you also...

so, just go have a good time...the last thing anyone is going to want wold be rigidity or an uncomfortable vibe...hope you can dance well because, you're about to be lol

you'll be fine, my friend...who knows, you may just end up having a fukkn killer time...lol

cheers!

--Jack

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Thanks! I have a good feeling. Just taking it one day at a time. And as for dancing. She knows I can dance. She LOVES dancing with me. I know this because each time we go out she ends up cozying up real real close to me on the dance floor. I’m assuming this had something to do with the invite. Ha. I also am in my element when I’m out. But we’ll see. Smh I’m hella excited/nervous. Keeping it extra cool. We spoke last night on the phone she asked me for a recipe for a dish I make. I gave to her and she started asking me how I was, I briefly told her and asked her to let me go because I had to get back to work. I felt bad for hanging up the phone so early without asking how she was, but I don’t like to ask such questions if I’m not attentive to the answe and with mercury in retrograde I’m petrified of communication right now. Hope she didn’t think me rude. I just really get spooked from communicating during a retrograde. I’m WAY better with body language at these times lol

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Posted by mariaxvee
If she's not living at home, she's looking to get serious. if living at home, I did it just to give my mother peace of mind of who her daughter is spending casual time with. She got the idea.

Doesn't have to mean next step anything. Pisces sun, Cap Venus.

Her mom is a four hour flight away. So yes she lives alone.

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Thanks! I have a good feeling. Just taking it one day at a time. And as for dancing. She knows I can dance. She LOVES dancing with me. I know this because each time we go out she ends up cozying up real real close to me on the dance floor. I’m assuming this had something to do with the invite. Ha. I also am in my element when I’m out. But we’ll see. Smh I’m hella excited/nervous. Keeping it extra cool. We spoke last night on the phone she asked me for a recipe for a dish I make. I gave to her and she started asking me how I was, I briefly told her and asked her to let me go because I had to get back to work. I felt bad for hanging up the phone so early without asking how she was, but I don’t like to ask such questions if I’m not attentive to the answe and with mercury in retrograde I’m petrified of communication right now. Hope she didn’t think me rude. I just really get spooked from communicating during a retrograde. I’m WAY better with body language at these times lol

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it's normal to be excited and a little nervous man...lol unless you're a robot, which obviously isn't the case...the fact that you're this concerned about it going well speaks volumes in its own right...just be sure you spin that excess "excited/nervous" energy into something positive, ya know?

as far as the whole hanging up thing goes, as long as you weren't a d i c k about it, i don't think she will have gave it a second thought. just mention it to her next time you see her face-to-face that you were were covered up and that you're sorry if it's bothering you that much. she'll appreciate it. but either way, i doubt it's crucial...

and yeah, mercury in retrograde...yaayy! as if this wasn't hard enough already lol

later, im off to work!

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Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by yellow01gt

Posted by WaterDevil

Since we friends now. Input?

just be yourself, i'd imagine that's sorta what she's expecting from you...

don't overthink anything, or get overwhelmed or the high-anxiety...even though it's nearly impossible not to...

sometimes excitement and nervousness can be hard to distinguish from each other, though lol

it seems like this is pretty important to her, and from what i can tell, it's important to you also...

so, just go have a good time...the last thing anyone is going to want wold be rigidity or an uncomfortable vibe...hope you can dance well because, you're about to be lol

you'll be fine, my friend...who knows, you may just end up having a fukkn killer time...lol

cheers!

--Jack

Thanks! I have a good feeling. Just taking it one day at a time. And as for dancing. She knows I can dance. She LOVES dancing with me. I know this because each time we go out she ends up cozying up real real close to me on the dance floor. I’m assuming this had something to do with the invite. Ha. I also am in my element when I’m out. But we’ll see. Smh I’m hella excited/nervous. Keeping it extra cool. We spoke last night on the phone she asked me for a recipe for a dish I make. I gave to her and she started asking me how I was, I briefly told her and asked her to let me go because I had to get back to work. I felt bad for hanging up the phone so early without asking how she was, but I don’t like to ask such questions if I’m not attentive to the answe and with mercury in retrograde I’m petrified of communication right now. Hope she didn’t think me rude. I just really get spooked from communicating during a retrograde. I’m WAY better with body language at these times lol

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Relax 😄 She really likes you. We only dance like that with the one we really like 😜 Don’t worry, everything seems like it is going well.

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Posted by pisceswoman123
Relax 😄 She really likes you. We only dance like that with the one we really like 😜 Don’t worry, everything seems like it is going well.

so you're totally seeing it too then? lol i think it's gonna turn out just fine for him...prob already knew that too, but a little reassurance never hurt anyone...and once this first time is out the way, all that pressure will be gone faster than it came about...

hell i wish someone would take me away for a few days like that, i sure could use an escape...talk about lucky, if you look at it that way...got no reason at all to worry...

--Jack

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Posted by pisceswoman123
Relax 😄 She really likes you. We only dance like that with the one we really like 😜 Don’t worry, everything seems like it is going well.

so you're totally seeing it too then? lol i think it's gonna turn out just fine for him...prob already knew that too, but a little reassurance never hurt anyone...and once this first time is out the way, all that pressure will be gone faster than it came about...

hell i wish someone would take me away for a few days like that, i sure could use an escape...talk about lucky, if you look at it that way...got no reason at all to worry...

--Jack

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Thanks Luz just a reminder though I’m a female! You said “him” I get the confusion tho.

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Relax 😄 She really likes you. We only dance like that with the one we really like 😜 Don’t worry, everything seems like it is going well.

so you're totally seeing it too then? lol i think it's gonna turn out just fine for him...prob already knew that too, but a little reassurance never hurt anyone...and once this first time is out the way, all that pressure will be gone faster than it came about...

hell i wish someone would take me away for a few days like that, i sure could use an escape...talk about lucky, if you look at it that way...got no reason at all to worry...

--Jack

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Yes, I do see it. I think he is in a very good place 😄

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Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by yellow01gt

Posted by WaterDevil

Since we friends now. Input?

just be yourself, i'd imagine that's sorta what she's expecting from you...

don't overthink anything, or get overwhelmed or the high-anxiety...even though it's nearly impossible not to...

sometimes excitement and nervousness can be hard to distinguish from each other, though lol

it seems like this is pretty important to her, and from what i can tell, it's important to you also...

so, just go have a good time...the last thing anyone is going to want wold be rigidity or an uncomfortable vibe...hope you can dance well because, you're about to be lol

you'll be fine, my friend...who knows, you may just end up having a fukkn killer time...lol

cheers!

--Jack

Thanks! I have a good feeling. Just taking it one day at a time. And as for dancing. She knows I can dance. She LOVES dancing with me. I know this because each time we go out she ends up cozying up real real close to me on the dance floor. I’m assuming this had something to do with the invite. Ha. I also am in my element when I’m out. But we’ll see. Smh I’m hella excited/nervous. Keeping it extra cool. We spoke last night on the phone she asked me for a recipe for a dish I make. I gave to her and she started asking me how I was, I briefly told her and asked her to let me go because I had to get back to work. I felt bad for hanging up the phone so early without asking how she was, but I don’t like to ask such questions if I’m not attentive to the answe and with mercury in retrograde I’m petrified of communication right now. Hope she didn’t think me rude. I just really get spooked from communicating during a retrograde. I’m WAY better with body language at these times lol

Relax 😄 She really likes you. We only dance like that with the one we really like 😜 Don’t worry, everything seems like it is going well.

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Ahum I see what you did there now. Sheesh you Pisces and your sarcasm smh.

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Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by yellow01gt

Posted by WaterDevil

Since we friends now. Input?

just be yourself, i'd imagine that's sorta what she's expecting from you...

don't overthink anything, or get overwhelmed or the high-anxiety...even though it's nearly impossible not to...

sometimes excitement and nervousness can be hard to distinguish from each other, though lol

it seems like this is pretty important to her, and from what i can tell, it's important to you also...

so, just go have a good time...the last thing anyone is going to want wold be rigidity or an uncomfortable vibe...hope you can dance well because, you're about to be lol

you'll be fine, my friend...who knows, you may just end up having a fukkn killer time...lol

cheers!

--Jack

Thanks! I have a good feeling. Just taking it one day at a time. And as for dancing. She knows I can dance. She LOVES dancing with me. I know this because each time we go out she ends up cozying up real real close to me on the dance floor. I’m assuming this had something to do with the invite. Ha. I also am in my element when I’m out. But we’ll see. Smh I’m hella excited/nervous. Keeping it extra cool. We spoke last night on the phone she asked me for a recipe for a dish I make. I gave to her and she started asking me how I was, I briefly told her and asked her to let me go because I had to get back to work. I felt bad for hanging up the phone so early without asking how she was, but I don’t like to ask such questions if I’m not attentive to the answe and with mercury in retrograde I’m petrified of communication right now. Hope she didn’t think me rude. I just really get spooked from communicating during a retrograde. I’m WAY better with body language at these times lol

Relax 😄 She really likes you. We only dance like that with the one we really like 😜 Don’t worry, everything seems like it is going well.

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Ahum I see what you did there now. Sheesh you Pisces and your sarcasm smh.

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Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by yellow01gt

Posted by WaterDevil

Since we friends now. Input?

just be yourself, i'd imagine that's sorta what she's expecting from you...

don't overthink anything, or get overwhelmed or the high-anxiety...even though it's nearly impossible not to...

sometimes excitement and nervousness can be hard to distinguish from each other, though lol

it seems like this is pretty important to her, and from what i can tell, it's important to you also...

so, just go have a good time...the last thing anyone is going to want wold be rigidity or an uncomfortable vibe...hope you can dance well because, you're about to be lol

you'll be fine, my friend...who knows, you may just end up having a fukkn killer time...lol

cheers!

--Jack

Thanks! I have a good feeling. Just taking it one day at a time. And as for dancing. She knows I can dance. She LOVES dancing with me. I know this because each time we go out she ends up cozying up real real close to me on the dance floor. I’m assuming this had something to do with the invite. Ha. I also am in my element when I’m out. But we’ll see. Smh I’m hella excited/nervous. Keeping it extra cool. We spoke last night on the phone she asked me for a recipe for a dish I make. I gave to her and she started asking me how I was, I briefly told her and asked her to let me go because I had to get back to work. I felt bad for hanging up the phone so early without asking how she was, but I don’t like to ask such questions if I’m not attentive to the answe and with mercury in retrograde I’m petrified of communication right now. Hope she didn’t think me rude. I just really get spooked from communicating during a retrograde. I’m WAY better with body language at these times lol

Relax 😄 She really likes you. We only dance like that with the one we really like 😜 Don’t worry, everything seems like it is going well.

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Ahum I see what you did there now. Sheesh you Pisces and your sarcasm smh.

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Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by yellow01gt

Posted by WaterDevil

Since we friends now. Input?

just be yourself, i'd imagine that's sorta what she's expecting from you...

don't overthink anything, or get overwhelmed or the high-anxiety...even though it's nearly impossible not to...

sometimes excitement and nervousness can be hard to distinguish from each other, though lol

it seems like this is pretty important to her, and from what i can tell, it's important to you also...

so, just go have a good time...the last thing anyone is going to want wold be rigidity or an uncomfortable vibe...hope you can dance well because, you're about to be lol

you'll be fine, my friend...who knows, you may just end up having a fukkn killer time...lol

cheers!

--Jack

Thanks! I have a good feeling. Just taking it one day at a time. And as for dancing. She knows I can dance. She LOVES dancing with me. I know this because each time we go out she ends up cozying up real real close to me on the dance floor. I’m assuming this had something to do with the invite. Ha. I also am in my element when I’m out. But we’ll see. Smh I’m hella excited/nervous. Keeping it extra cool. We spoke last night on the phone she asked me for a recipe for a dish I make. I gave to her and she started asking me how I was, I briefly told her and asked her to let me go because I had to get back to work. I felt bad for hanging up the phone so early without asking how she was, but I don’t like to ask such questions if I’m not attentive to the answe and with mercury in retrograde I’m petrified of communication right now. Hope she didn’t think me rude. I just really get spooked from communicating during a retrograde. I’m WAY better with body language at these times lol

Relax 😄 She really likes you. We only dance like that with the one we really like 😜 Don’t worry, everything seems like it is going well.

click to expand

Ahum I see what you did there now. Sheesh you Pisces and your sarcasm smh.

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Posted by WaterDevil

Since we friends now. Input?

just be yourself, i'd imagine that's sorta what she's expecting from you...

don't overthink anything, or get overwhelmed or the high-anxiety...even though it's nearly impossible not to...

sometimes excitement and nervousness can be hard to distinguish from each other, though lol

it seems like this is pretty important to her, and from what i can tell, it's important to you also...

so, just go have a good time...the last thing anyone is going to want wold be rigidity or an uncomfortable vibe...hope you can dance well because, you're about to be lol

you'll be fine, my friend...who knows, you may just end up having a fukkn killer time...lol

cheers!

--Jack

Thanks! I have a good feeling. Just taking it one day at a time. And as for dancing. She knows I can dance. She LOVES dancing with me. I know this because each time we go out she ends up cozying up real real close to me on the dance floor. I’m assuming this had something to do with the invite. Ha. I also am in my element when I’m out. But we’ll see. Smh I’m hella excited/nervous. Keeping it extra cool. We spoke last night on the phone she asked me for a recipe for a dish I make. I gave to her and she started asking me how I was, I briefly told her and asked her to let me go because I had to get back to work. I felt bad for hanging up the phone so early without asking how she was, but I don’t like to ask such questions if I’m not attentive to the answe and with mercury in retrograde I’m petrified of communication right now. Hope she didn’t think me rude. I just really get spooked from communicating during a retrograde. I’m WAY better with body language at these times lol

Relax 😄 She really likes you. We only dance like that with the one we really like 😜 Don’t worry, everything seems like it is going well.

Ahum I see what you did there now. Sheesh you Pisces and your sarcasm smh.

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I am only joking 🙃You are in a good place with her. Really. I really think she likes you and you are doing well. 😊