Miss him :'(

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Mamita91
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I miss him 😭. It's been just over 2 weeks since he broke up with me and it hurts. Everything reminds me of him, like roast potatoes that we used to make together. I am hurt that he gave no warning that he doesn't love me, and came out of nowhere.

I've got to work from home now for at least a month because of coronavirus, and my housemates have all moved to their home but I have no home to go to. It feels terribly lonely here. I'm guessing he has not been able too find a job because of coronavorus, and will probably have to move to his parents in his hometown if he hasn't done so already. He is also depressed and with anxiety.. Should I reach out and see how he is?

Previous post here:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/pisces-boyfriend-left-me--13653541/
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Nah...go and roast some potatoes that won't remind you of him 😉.

You are not his nanny or his therapist. Don't pretend you are doing it for him!

Ah well, wait a few more days....

Wait a few more days to message him, or until this loneliness subsides?
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Oh...was it just loneliness? 😢

I thought you were in love with him. If it's just loneliness, go ahead, write him....
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Posted by Mamita91

I miss him 😭. It's been just over 2 weeks since he broke up with me and it hurts. Everything reminds me of him, like roast potatoes that we used to make together. I am hurt that he gave no warning that he doesn't love me, and came out of nowhere.

I've got to work from home now for at least a month because of coronavirus, and my housemates have all moved to their home but I have no home to go to. It feels terribly lonely here. I'm guessing he has not been able too find a job because of coronavorus, and will probably have to move to his parents in his hometown if he hasn't done so already. He is also depressed and with anxiety.. Should I reach out and see how he is?

Previous post here:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/pisces-boyfriend-left-me--13653541/


You must ask yourself on the deepest, truest, of levels one very important question:

Is it him, the memories created with him, the feelings had with him, or the imaginings of what could be with him that are genuinely being missed?

Many times the answer to that question is, in fact, not the person specifically.

Only you, and you alone, can find that answer. And, only once you find said answer will you be able to understand what needs to be done in order for you to move beyond your current situation.

You owe it to yourself to find the answer... whenever you're ready.
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Mamita91
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Nah...go and roast some potatoes that won't remind you of him 😉.

You are not his nanny or his therapist. Don't pretend you are doing it for him!

Ah well, wait a few more days....

Wait a few more days to message him, or until this loneliness subsides?

Oh...was it just loneliness? 😢

I thought you were in love with him. If it's just loneliness, go ahead, write him....
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I am in love with him :/
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Mamita91
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6 Years

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I miss him 😭. It's been just over 2 weeks since he broke up with me and it hurts. Everything reminds me of him, like roast potatoes that we used to make together. I am hurt that he gave no warning that he doesn't love me, and came out of nowhere.

I've got to work from home now for at least a month because of coronavirus, and my housemates have all moved to their home but I have no home to go to. It feels terribly lonely here. I'm guessing he has not been able too find a job because of coronavorus, and will probably have to move to his parents in his hometown if he hasn't done so already. He is also depressed and with anxiety.. Should I reach out and see how he is?

Previous post here:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/pisces-boyfriend-left-me--13653541/

You must ask yourself on the deepest, truest, of levels one very important question:

Is it him, the memories created with him, the feelings had with him, or the imaginings of what could be with him that are genuinely being missed?

Many times the answer to that question is, in fact, not the person specifically.

Only you, and you alone, can find that answer. And, only once you find said answer will you be able to understand what needs to be done in order for you to move beyond your current situation.

You owe it to yourself to find the answer... whenever you're ready.
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It was the feeling of having someone there by my side, someone who could confide in, how I felt around him, listening to him talk about his passions and nerding out together, and our dream and talks of living together elsewhere...
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Nah...go and roast some potatoes that won't remind you of him 😉.

You are not his nanny or his therapist. Don't pretend you are doing it for him!

Ah well, wait a few more days....

Wait a few more days to message him, or until this loneliness subsides?

Oh...was it just loneliness? 😢

I thought you were in love with him. If it's just loneliness, go ahead, write him....

I am in love with him :/
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I know :-). Then you have to write him less, because every time you do, the way he responds will remind you that your love is unrequited!
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Mamita91
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Is it him, the memories created with him, the feelings had with him, or the imaginings of what could be with him that are genuinely being missed?

One cannot miss memories or imaginary things.

They are in your brain for as long as you remember or imagine 😄


I think it's all of the above, it's evertime I'm doing something I picture him by my side doing It with me. I go to bed as if I'm still in his arms and then realise he's gone and never had feelings for me. It's realising that our talks of traveling together and even living together are never going to happen. And also how I felt so happy and we were so silly together, and would stay up talking låte into the night.
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Is it him, the memories created with him, the feelings had with him, or the imaginings of what could be with him that are genuinely being missed?

One cannot miss memories or imaginary things.

They are in your brain for as long as you remember or imagine 😄

I think it's all of the above, it's evertime I'm doing something I picture him by my side doing It with me. I go to bed as if I'm still in his arms and then realise he's gone and never had feelings for me. It's realising that our talks of traveling together and even living together are never going to happen. And also how I felt so happy and we were so silly together, and would stay up talking låte into the night.
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I know, it's heartbreaking. Make sure you look after yourself, and get some sleep too. Only time will heal it. Have you tried doing more things with your friends ? Was about to suggest a holiday, but reality caught up with me :-).

Imagine he is infected with Covid19 and lies in a hospital. His lungs are filling with pus. He's drowning! And some entity gives you the power to decide: 1) you'll never see him again, but he will recover and find love eventually; Or 2) he will love you till the day he dies...which is happen be tomorrow...What would you choose?
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Mamita91
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6 Years

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Posted by Undine
Posted by Mamita91
Posted by Undine

Is it him, the memories created with him, the feelings had with him, or the imaginings of what could be with him that are genuinely being missed?

One cannot miss memories or imaginary things.

They are in your brain for as long as you remember or imagine 😄

I think it's all of the above, it's evertime I'm doing something I picture him by my side doing It with me. I go to bed as if I'm still in his arms and then realise he's gone and never had feelings for me. It's realising that our talks of traveling together and even living together are never going to happen. And also how I felt so happy and we were so silly together, and would stay up talking låte into the night.

I know, it's heartbreaking. Make sure you look after yourself, and get some sleep too. Only time will heal it. Have you tried doing more things with your friends ? Was about to suggest a holiday, but reality caught up with me :-).

Imagine he is infected with Covid19 and lies in a hospital. His lungs are filling with pus. He's drowning! And some entity gives you the power to decide: 1) you'll never see him again, but he will recover and find love eventually; Or 2) he will love you till the day he dies...which is happen be tomorrow...What would you choose?
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Thank you Undine, this helped me sleep better despite my tears 🙂. I would rather he recover and find love definitely. Also right now I would rather he not be with me and find a good stable job, than be with me and have no job and be unhappy. This is where I realise I need to stop bring a therapist! He was definitely the kindest and sweetest boyfriend I've ever had, and he was not typical pisces with aqua moon, because he wanted to spend 24/7 with me for all those 8 months!
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What’s his zodiac sign?

He's a pisces with aqua moon and venus in aries. I'm taurus with aries moon, cancer venus and Mercury. Any insight?

Try being cold hearted with him.

Cold hearted because of his aqua moon?
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Yes, exactly. Be a lady and go cold hearted. When the piscis in him kicks in he’s gonna run towards your arms.