Hi, I had an account here years ago but can't remember the login/password. Well, my current dilemma is with this Pisces guy I met on a serious dating site. We are a high match and I thought his profile/picture looked fine, so when he messaged me we started talking. At first he was a little flirty and we spoke for over a day on the site about various shared interests, then I gave him my number so we could carry on the conversation and meet up. But after I gave him my number, and as we texted on everyday throughout the week, the messages he sent me became more sparse and noncommittal. I asked if he wanted to meet for coffee on Sunday and he acted like I never even sent the text. He only responded when I sent another text after that asking about something else. Anyway, is this normal? Is he still interested or trying to let me off gently? I honestly can't tell.
Mixed messages from male Pisces

People suck...they're afraid of attachment, or they don't want it...maybe they have it too good with their parents...don't need extra company in their lives....

Ask him if he saw the text about meeting up.
Do not read much into texts. The question should be: is he asking you on a date, at least once a week, with plenty of time in advance? If not, you two ARE NOT even dating.
Do not read much into texts. The question should be: is he asking you on a date, at least once a week, with plenty of time in advance? If not, you two ARE NOT even dating.
Posted by d0s3rIt's not that I'm attached, I'd just like to know one way or the other whether or not he wants to go out. He initially started talking to me about meeting but then when I try to get an actual day time he doesn't respond.
it's *online* dating. don't get so attached

Mirror his behavior. Keep talking to other guys.
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