Pisces and Cancer

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What is it you want a Fish to be trustworthy with/about?

Are you considering trying to date one, and so want to know if you can trust giving him/her your heart?


I'm considering dating one I met online. He seems a little too good to be true!! He's good looking and appears to have a good job. We've talked a lot about many things. I just get the feeling like he has a lot of options, but seems super interested in meeting me...Even today when I'm home sick with the flu. I asked him a few questions about dating, trust, etc. and his answers were all good. Too good?? The truth or just what I want to hear?
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What is it you want a Fish to be trustworthy with/about?

Are you considering trying to date one, and so want to know if you can trust giving him/her your heart?


I'm considering dating one I met online. He seems a little too good to be true!! He's good looking and appears to have a good job. We've talked a lot about many things. I just get the feeling like he has a lot of options, but seems super interested in meeting me...Even today when I'm home sick with the flu. I asked him a few questions about dating, trust, etc. and his answers were all good. Too good?? The truth or just what I want to hear?


Fellow Cancerian, we know what is real, you don't need to ask us, follow your heart and gut feeling 🙂

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It's hard to come to a conclusion without meeting him. Plus, I know for a fact I do have trust issues.
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What is it you want a Fish to be trustworthy with/about?

Are you considering trying to date one, and so want to know if you can trust giving him/her your heart?


I'm considering dating one I met online. He seems a little too good to be true!! He's good looking and appears to have a good job. We've talked a lot about many things. I just get the feeling like he has a lot of options, but seems super interested in meeting me...Even today when I'm home sick with the flu. I asked him a few questions about dating, trust, etc. and his answers were all good. Too good?? The truth or just what I want to hear?


Fellow Cancerian, we know what is real, you don't need to ask us, follow your heart and gut feeling 🙂


It's hard to come to a conclusion without meeting him. Plus, I know for a fact I do have trust issues.

I can level with you and understand the trust part.

Sometimes it's better for us Cancers to just take a deep breath and go for it.

I know your biggest fear is rejection or pouring your love into him and it turns out sour, but i believe this makes us stronger, helps us evolve.

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Exactly. I'm actually getting over someone now so my guard is up!
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...... or just what I want to hear?




With all people, beit a Pisces or should we say "Aquarius" ..... it's always what you want to hear, at the beginning.



When people first become smitten with each other, they will always ONLY present the better sides of themselves for impression purposes. The goal is to get the other person, right? Well, you aren't going to do that unless your only display of yourself to them is perfect.

For any person you want to try and date, you should always have your mind realizing that what you are seeing .. you are only getting temporarily. Once the honeymoon stage is over, then the real person emerges.



Everyone should know this, right?

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...... or just what I want to hear?




With all people, beit a Pisces or should we say "Aquarius" ..... it's always what you want to hear, at the beginning.



When people first become smitten with each other, they will always ONLY present the better sides of themselves for impression purposes. The goal is to get the other person, right? Well, you aren't going to do that unless your only display of yourself to them is perfect.

For any person you want to try and date, you should always have your mind realizing that what you are seeing .. you are only getting temporarily. Once the honeymoon stage is over, then the real person emerges.



Everyone should know this, right?

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Yes, absolutely. Guess i won't know until I try!!
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I had a Pisces friend once. We were childhood friends, grew up in the same street and knew each other since the age of four, then at 19 she met her first boyfriend. I understand that sometimes when you meet a new partner, sometimes your friends fall by the wayside however, the night she met him for the furst time, the night all contanct ended between us. I have not seen or heard a word out of her since that day, for all I know she could have been sex trafficked!
I'm guessing her current boyfriend was controlling. Or maybe she died? Have u ever tried to google her name?
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What is it you want a Fish to be trustworthy with/about?

Are you considering trying to date one, and so want to know if you can trust giving him/her your heart?


I'm considering dating one I met online. He seems a little too good to be true!! He's good looking and appears to have a good job. We've talked a lot about many things. I just get the feeling like he has a lot of options, but seems super interested in meeting me...Even today when I'm home sick with the flu. I asked him a few questions about dating, trust, etc. and his answers were all good. Too good?? The truth or just what I want to hear?
That's diff ..trust your gut. You don't sound like you do trust him. So I would say your gut is protecting you.

Trust your gut.
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I have mixed feelings.
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I had a Pisces friend once. We were childhood friends, grew up in the same street and knew each other since the age of four, then at 19 she met her first boyfriend. I understand that sometimes when you meet a new partner, sometimes your friends fall by the wayside however, the night she met him for the furst time, the night all contanct ended between us. I have not seen or heard a word out of her since that day, for all I know she could have been sex trafficked!
That's very strange. You should try to look for her and find out what happened. Sex trafficking is a serious problem and shouldn't be taken lightly. Do you know her parents or any other relatives? Is anyone at least trying to find her?
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Haha. That was cute that he thought he was a Pisces.

Aquarius/Pisces/Cancer, whatever have you, don't focus on the astrology. Meet him, see where things go. I'm sure you'll know how you feel about each other after that initial meeting.


Yea. I think I'm going to meet him soon and see how it goes. That's definitely the only way to know. He asks me every other day to do something - local concerts, dinner, etc. I have the flu and he wanted to come over to take care of me. Part of me thinks that's cute. The other part thinks he's crazy.

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...... or just what I want to hear?




With all people, beit a Pisces or should we say "Aquarius" ..... it's always what you want to hear, at the beginning.



When people first become smitten with each other, they will always ONLY present the better sides of themselves for impression purposes. The goal is to get the other person, right? Well, you aren't going to do that unless your only display of yourself to them is perfect.

For any person you want to try and date, you should always have your mind realizing that what you are seeing .. you are only getting temporarily. Once the honeymoon stage is over, then the real person emerges.



Everyone should know this, right?



Yes. This is exactly why I never liked dating people I didn't know.

Observing them in their environment for a period of time is much better analysis of character and even then you don't always know everything.

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Oh I feel like a detective trying to figure men out!!