Pisces, do you feel more attraction and connection through giving or receiving?

Pisces are very compassionate and loves taking care of others. He enjoys doing things for me and I noticed he felt disappointed when I didn't let him help out.

He enjoys receiving massages and my cooking. However if I tell him I'm bringing stuff to his place to cook, he would tell him not to as he is the host and he should be responsible.

Should I let him do more giving?

I agree with SMarievalles. As a Piscean (doesn't matter the gender) we LOVE to do things for others that we are in love with (or are interested in). It's kinda rude (in our eyes) if we are providing the home, dishes, silverware, etc., and you bring the food with you. We HATE to hear that you forgot to get an herb and we don't have that in our pantry. Best thing to do is to provide the food you need to make us dinner. Just ask us for the list of ingredients and we'll be happy to oblige. Heck! As a female Piscean if I have a coupon for that item I'll use it while shopping for what you need. We may even buy a bouquet of flowers or look up what "wine" to serve with what you are cooking.

Good luck. You have a GEM on your hands. Take care of what God gave you.

Love,
Eva

Posted by Poppyseeds

He enjoys doing things for me and I noticed he felt disappointed when I didn't let him help out.

Well, that's fucked up.

Let's wait until the tables are turned on you, and we'll see how you feel when he doesn't "let" you do what you want.

Most likely this Fish will be swimming along soon down another stream .... you seem to into control, rather than natural flow.

Posted by EvatheDiva
I agree with SMarievalles. As a Piscean (doesn't matter the gender) we LOVE to do things for others that we are in love with (or are interested in). It's kinda rude (in our eyes) if we are providing the home, dishes, silverware, etc., and you bring the food with you. We HATE to hear that you forgot to get an herb and we don't have that in our pantry. Best thing to do is to provide the food you need to make us dinner. Just ask us for the list of ingredients and we'll be happy to oblige. Heck! As a female Piscean if I have a coupon for that item I'll use it while shopping for what you need. We may even buy a bouquet of flowers or look up what "wine" to serve with what you are cooking.

Good luck. You have a GEM on your hands. Take care of what God gave you.

Love,
Eva

OMG! That is so him! I can now see what was going through his head!

He usually either cooks or orders delivery as he doesn't want me to go through the trouble.

I will try your way of communicating with him next time

Posted by SMarievalles
I feel it with both I love giving but I also love receiving. But I think for Pisces Males when they love you they love to give more. Their way of being a Man and providing for you. At the end of the day I always give more than I get back. Just in my nature and it's that way for most Pisces.

He really does enjoy being the provider.

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Posted by Poppyseeds

He enjoys doing things for me and I noticed he felt disappointed when I didn't let him help out.

Well, that's fucked up.

Let's wait until the tables are turned on you, and we'll see how you feel when he doesn't "let" you do what you want.

Most likely this Fish will be swimming along soon down another stream .... you seem to into control, rather than natural flow.

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oh it was nothing major. I was getting up from the floor after I finished push up. he was offering help. I instinctively said I can get up as I usually jump up right after push up. He pouted and said "fine don't let me help you" I gave him hugs and kiss and tell him next time

He sounds like a Pain in the ass.

Like those asshole dickwads that assume you're too stupid to do things on your n only help you out to look like a good guy.

I mean its nice to help but damn. What are his views on women? Is he one of those regressive traditionalist?

Never heard him dissing women, the worst I've heard him saying is his mom frustrates him a lot and he will never be with someone similar to her.

Not sure about being regressive traditionalist as he never restrict me on my choice of clothing and such.

He's got European heritage may be that makes him feel like he has to be provider?

Posted by Poppyseeds
Never heard him dissing women, the worst I've heard him saying is his mom frustrates him a lot and he will never be with someone similar to her.

Not sure about being regressive traditionalist as he never restrict me on my choice of clothing and such.

He's got European heritage may be that makes him feel like he has to be provider?

Don't worry what other's comments are; esp from a man that is a already judging your Piscean as being a regressive traditionalist and it doesn't matter his heritage....he's Pisces! 😉

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by Poppyseeds
Never heard him dissing women, the worst I've heard him saying is his mom frustrates him a lot and he will never be with someone similar to her.

Not sure about being regressive traditionalist as he never restrict me on my choice of clothing and such.

He's got European heritage may be that makes him feel like he has to be provider?

Don't worry what other's comments are; esp from a man that is a already judging your Piscean as being a regressive traditionalist and it doesn't matter his heritage....he's Pisces! 😉

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European Fish is sweet 😉

Posted by Vixen2
balance...that's all it takes.

Pisces is very perceptive and observant, we may be resistant to have you do things for us, but we secretly adore it. We love to feel cared for, nurtured , and comforted. And yes...we will absolutely fawn over our lover /partner...taking care of his/her every whim to be the best of our ability (within reason, mind you ) is very very important to us. We need to feel/know that YOU THINK we are the prettiest, handsomest, the best cook, the best foot massager etc...and it be sincere and genuine. He will notice the things you do or attempt to do for him and in return...it with fan his flames to return the favor or go out of his way to reciprocate.

Hi Vixen!

Just want to let you know the love song trick you taught me worked.

What you said explains a lot! He always says no for me to cook, but when I do he would be watching me from the living room with a BIG smile on his face.

He really tries to cater to me without me asking for any favors. I guess fish are very intuitive to know who's using them and who's not.

He definitely wants to know that I FIND him to be the best with things he does, even he always says "i don't care"

. Same goes for me, I also want him to think I'm the prettiest 😉

My guy is not very articulated, he is into feeling things and have difficulty expressing himself.

Sure I will only bring stuff to cook once in awhile. Let him enjoy being prince charming 🙂

We are not getting into bedroom until things are official again. Before we broke up he was very vanilla but definitely would do things to please me as much as I did to please him.

This might be a bit off topic, a lot says that don't listen to a Pisces guy's word as they often lie but judge him by his actions.

He would always pick me up from my place and drop me off, even after we broke up he came to airport to pick me up. We are dating again but we are not yet official as he has to finish reading the self help book first.

He changed plans for next meeting to shorten the time we spend together, his reason is he wouldn't leave his folk's house until later.

I just have a gut feeling that he might have lie as he is unsure of his feelings, yet his actions tells me he is not cancelling the entire date and still coming to pick me up and drop me off means he really cares?