Let me go ahead & say this...I DO NOT expect for everyone (whether you're a Pisces yourself or know alot of Pisces) to agree with me. This is my personal opinion from an Aquarian point of view about the Pisces I've personally observed. I'm in NO way labeling all Pisces or saying that how I feel about this topic will be the same way others feel or the same thing others have observed. But, I am doing what this site allows me to do & that's to state my opinion.
DON'T -Rely on your Pisces to be the financially astute one in the relationship. A Pisces would often rather leave financial matters up to others; their mind is in a different place. Yes, Pisces know how to carry their own loads but when in relationships wouldn't mind being the one taken care of.
-Ever knock old-fashioned, hearts-and-flowers true love. Pisces believe that it exists, and are not going to be satisfied with a casual affair instead. Pisces are content with who they are & expect for their partners to be the same way. They don't mind being put back into reality every once in a while but if they can sense that their partners cannot adapt to who they are & how they are, they will easily be turned off
-Put down your Pisces by accident; you may injure their feelings without even noticing. A Pisces might not yell or throw things when they get hurt, but they feel it very deeply all the same. Pisces don't mind constructive criticism every once in a while, but despise someone who always finds their feelings, actions or motives to be wrong. Pisces are attracted to those who not only notice, BUT accept their sensitivity, not those who are constantly battling it.
-Treat your Pisces too casually; don't toy with them or let them see you play the field. A Pisces does not like this behavior, as it goes against their ideas about true love and spiritual connection. They want to see the real you & don't want to play games once the commitment has started. They wouldn't have commited to you or invested their time in you had they known you weren't going to step things up a notch
-Pisces is a silent sign, not a talker. You will not seduce Pisces by questioning them about every single thing they feel, do or say. They don't mind a deep conversation every once in a while if it's for the sake of maintaining the relationship, but keep the "you're doing this wrong" talks to a minimum.
-Don't dress too plainly (If you've got it, flaunt it). Pisces are attracted to those who are not afraid to exhibit what they've been blessed with. They don't necessarily want someone who over-does everything, but because they like to show the world what they have to offer, it makes things easier for them if their partners are the same way.
-People who talk about sex in public (they like to save it for private, especially with what they have in mind. If your Pisces finds out that you've talked about their sexual abilities or private & personal life with others (especially with the intention of making yourself look better, at their expense), they will immediately feel betrayed & feel that they have been violated. How they are in the bedroom should stay between you & your Pisces.
-Foul mouths in public. Sure some Pisces cuss & have foul mouths themselves, but they are easily turned off by those who cannot keep their composure in public. It embarrasses them & turns them off. Pisces does not want to play the role as "parent." They'd rather be "girlfriend" or "wife"
Don't take your Pisces to a noisy or crowded place. Pisces love romantic settings & would prefer one on one time with their partners. Sure, they like crowds, concerts & everything else the average human likes, but when it comes to their own relationships, they don't like for others to be exposed or have access to their partners all the time. Pisces may not mind crowded places when they are with their friends, but when they're with thier partners, they need privacy
Exactly. If you chose to skim through it then, hey that's your decision. But to purposely click on my post (knowing my writing style ) just to complain all over again makes you look worse than me. This post was only intended for those who really want some insight or have the time to read through it all.
1. False - I actually have a very good hold on my money and am very involved with my financials. Now if I had a really good job, I might be a bit loose with it. Or I could just be as cheap as Ive always been. 😄
2. True.
3. True.
4. True.
5. True and False - I dont mind discussing things or talking about anything, but I do mind being told Im wrong all of the time. That's annoying. Why bother going out with me then?
6. True and False. Im not a flaunter, I dress nice, but I dont purposely flaunt what I have. I dont mind a guy however flaunting things as long as he isnt flaunting it for every other woman too.
7. True...unless its for good reasons, then I dont care.
8. True. I dont care unless its extremely noticible, like heads just turned or people are staring. That's embaressing. My last one was ADD. *sigh* He was quite embaressing, loved him to death, but you could tell when he was off his meds.
I think Pisces are good at handling money. I really do. What I meant was that a Pisces won't mind being taken care of. I don't think the average Pisces would demand to be the money maker & bread winner of the family like some other signs. Some signs have to be the ones making the most money & see not being the breadwinner as being too dependent on their parnters. Versus, Pisces doesn't see it that way. Pisces like to make their own money, sure but at the same time they won't be deeply hurt or feel less of a man/woman either if their partners want them to be "stay at home" moms or dads. And I actually admire this about Pisces
"I don't mind, however, if my partner talks about our sexlife (in a positive way) to her frineds. I really have nothing to hide or be ashamed of."
True lol. But the problem is half of the time, we shouldn't even find out if our partners are bragging OR complaining about us to other people. If my man trusted his friend with telling him information about our sex life, I'd be highly surpised & suspicious of his friend if I found out...unless of course I just straight out asked. I think we all like to know we got a good report card in the sex department, but from what I've observed about Pisces, they are just overall "private" people when in relationships in general. Sure, they probably don't mind a few people (outsiders) knowing that their partner thinks the sex is good but if a Pisces keeps on hearing about it being discussed with other people, over & over again, I can understand why Pisces are so private in general.
You know how it is. When you tell your best friend how good in bed your man/woman is & instead of being happy for you, she'll try to go after your man/woman & get her own piece of the pie! And this happens more often than not. So I make it a point to make sure my partner knows that whatever we do intimate, needs to stay between us. Sure, I'd feel good knowing that my man told his boys how good in bed I was but after a while, if I keep hearing about him discussing my "skills" with everyone, I'll get suspicous & start to wonder what his motive is.
i'm good with money too, but i think we don't like the analytical, accounting, boring part of finances, though it's necessary. Let someone else take care or keep the books if at all possible..lol
..sort of that contrast between that virgoan organization and the piscean desire to see/enjoy the bigger picture and not be mired down too much by the nit-pikity..
"Rely on your Pisces to be the financially astute one in the relationship. A Pisces would often rather leave financial matters up to others" -------so true, I'm terrible with finances and would love to have someone do it for me.
"Pisces believe that it exists, and are not going to be satisfied with a casual affair instead." -------yes and no. it starts casual, and we can handle it......but then we start dreaming of making it something more......
"but pisces is a particularly thick skinned sign" --------uh what? I have to disagree with this all the way. Pisces are super sensitive, as are all water signs. I can't tell you the amount of times that I have been inadvertently bothered by an er comment that I took personally. Its one of the suckiest Piscean traits.
"-Pisces is a silent sign, not a talker." --------We can sit back and take it all in, but we can definitely run our mouths, especially if we are confident in the topic of discussion. That's probably annoying to people too.
"Foul mouths in public. Sure some Pisces cuss & have foul mouths themselves, but they are easily turned off by those who cannot keep their composure in public" --------WOW!!!! I never even knew this. It is super true for me, but I always assumed it was because my dad is a trucker!!!!
DON'T
-Rely on your Pisces to be the financially astute one in the relationship. A Pisces would often rather leave financial matters up to others; their mind is in a different place. Yes, Pisces know how to carry their own loads but when in relationships wouldn't mind being the one taken care of.
-Ever knock old-fashioned, hearts-and-flowers true love. Pisces believe that it exists, and are not going to be satisfied with a casual affair instead. Pisces are content with who they are & expect for their partners to be the same way. They don't mind being put back into reality every once in a while but if they can sense that their partners cannot adapt to who they are & how they are, they will easily be turned off
-Put down your Pisces by accident; you may injure their feelings without even noticing. A Pisces might not yell or throw things when they get hurt, but they feel it very deeply all the same. Pisces don't mind constructive criticism every once in a while, but despise someone who always finds their feelings, actions or motives to be wrong. Pisces are attracted to those who not only notice, BUT accept their sensitivity, not those who are constantly battling it.