CancerianGoddess
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Pisces: Do's & Dont's
I disagree with this DO "Learn to let tragic movies or dramatic pieces of music bring a tear to your eye. Your Pisces will appreciate your sensitivity - and will kiss your tears away. " You must be referring to a pisces man liking this about a woman, because a man crying in my presence over a movie or a song would be a HUGE turnoff.
Don't know about "Get in touch with your compassion and inner love for every being in the universe. Your Pisces can help you to empathise with all the forces out there, and help you understand why he deserves your love." Not that I want my guy to be a racist or cold-hearted but I really don't care that much about this. What I do care about is if he's showing a bit too much compassion and inner love for another woman!
I agree with all of the DON'TS.
Ladybug, I'm almost inclined to agree with you. I dated two pisces and I'll never do it again! Not quite ready to be bitter towards all men. Been there, done that. There's a lot of crap out there, yes, but it's a numbers game. I believe there are still some good guys left!
Don't know about "Get in touch with your compassion and inner love for every being in the universe. Your Pisces can help you to empathise with all the forces out there, and help you understand why he deserves your love." Not that I want my guy to be a racist or cold-hearted but I really don't care that much about this. What I do care about is if he's showing a bit too much compassion and inner love for another woman!
I agree with all of the DON'TS.
Ladybug, I'm almost inclined to agree with you. I dated two pisces and I'll never do it again! Not quite ready to be bitter towards all men. Been there, done that. There's a lot of crap out there, yes, but it's a numbers game. I believe there are still some good guys left!
Uhm wow, Bahing men over the few you dated? Thats sad. I Have a few pisces guy friends and my moms a pisces. I Think they are sweet! GO PISCES!
Bashing^^
^^^ props
Posted by CancerianGoddess
Do...
Learn to let tragic movies or dramatic pieces of music bring a tear to your eye. Your Pisces will appreciate your sensitivity - and will kiss your tears away.
Get in touch with your compassion and inner love for every being in the universe. Your Pisces can help you to empathise with all the forces out there, and help you understand why he deserves your love.
Learn how to communicate a thousand expressions of love - all without saying a word. Your Pisces will be able to read your soul by looking into your eyes.
Offer support to your Pisces; learn how to ground him without dragging him too far down to earth. Your Pisces will teach you how to notice shooting stars and pictures in the clouds.
Think of ways to show your Pisces that a true love story of the classic variety can exist between the two of you today. He will, in turn, show you how this love story can last forever.
Enjoy good art and fine wine - your Pisces will love you for it.
Don't...
Rely on your Pisces to be the financially astute one in the relationship. A Pisces would often rather leave financial matters up to others; his mind is in a different place.
Reproach a Pisces too harshly for being a daydreamer instead of a doer. The Fish are known for being in tune with the spiritual, not the material.
Ever dismiss old-fashioned, hearts-and-flowers true love. Pisces believe that it exists, and are not going to be satisfied with a casual affair instead.
Put down your Pisces by accident; you may injure his feelings without even noticing. A Pisces might not yell or throw things when he gets hurt, but he feels it very deeply all the same.
Treat your Pisces too casually; don't toy with him or let him see you play the field. A Pisces does not like this behaviour, as it goes against his ideas about true love and spiritual connection.
Subjugate his artistic impulses - this is a truly creative Sign, and you may be standing in the way of his happiness and a fine piece of art.
I can say that this truly fits me! The do's and the don'ts! A man would be so in if they followed these....lol. I actually was feeling like Ladybug not too many months ago but now I am giving men a chance again. I have met a really wonderful guy just to prove that there are still good men out there. I needed that proof!!! It's hard though when you have had some bad apples
every sign has its fualts every man/woman does as well the thing that can make any sign work with any sign is to talk and let each other bare their soul to you if ur the one they will and if they r then you will i have had bane relations and i believe im in a good one so my hearts on my sleave some days its good some dayz it could have been better some dayz well i hope the duck tape holds the heat togather
i guess im sayin TALK and ye shal see
MrCeribdis
i guess im sayin TALK and ye shal see
MrCeribdis
Every pisces man i knew was shy as hell! lol.. They are like Cancer, you have to make the FIRST move. I Dated a pisces once. e threw looks across the room at each other at a cafe we went to alot. There was actually 4 months of that before he said Hi! My leo moon had to come out so i could approach him...........LOL
Posted by ladybug162
That is awesome SP!! I'm really happy for you! 🙂
Don't mind me....I'm just in a very low place right now and very bitter.
Why thank you dahling! Your man is coming...be patient.
Oh honey, I truly do know how you feel. I lived with a man for 5 years after dating for 3 already and it was not good. He made me lose faith in men (as well as my children's father being a dead beat dad in and out of prison and a drug addict). It's not always the men but it's also the women with "bad pickers" in my opinion. It is said that we tend to attract to us certain type of men so I have purposely changed the "type" of men I will talk to now. I do agree with Ian even though hard habits are hard to break, as far as just being you and communicating. I still need advice and encouragement from people as I have received great advice on here as well but we also have to be "ourselves".
I have had more communication with the new one of where I stand and asking him where he's at as well and the response has been positive.
Good luck honey and remember thare is so much more to life than just men! 😄
Awww Ladybug I'm sorry for what you are going through! What I did the first time(and there have been several times) when my Pisces swam, is get back out there. You may not have your heart in it, but it will help you build that self confidence back up. Get back on that dating site! Funny, when I did get out there just a few weeks later who should come back... my Pisces. Even now he says he doesn't want a relationship, but I'm trying my best to be patient which is extremely hard for a Virgo! Pisces are kinda hard because there are times when chasing them feels needy, I think and you have to pull back a tad, but just not too far. Its a fine line, but I'm learning🙂 When you move on is when he will show up!
Oh and thanks to the wonderful advice of a few Pisces on here, I am getting a life! Taking a couple of fun classes and going to the gym more! Get your mind on yourself!
Posted by curleymom3
Oh and thanks to the wonderful advice of a few Pisces on here, I am getting a life! Taking a couple of fun classes and going to the gym more! Get your mind on yourself!
That's the way to do it! I was sooo happy to be single that I just started hanging out with friends, going to places and doing things I denied myself in my marriage. I started focusing on ME! That's when Mr. Virgo contacted me and I wasn't even going to talk to him until a friend urged me to at least email him. Then we started slowly getting to know eachother that way then texting. I wasn't actively seeking a man out instead I was taking care of ME and HE came along. It really is a healthy and fulfilling way to do it. I used to always SEEK after a man and then at times I would SETTLE for the first one who came along that I was attracted to. Now I am PICKY!!! 😉 (FINALLY learned my lesson...lol)
You're not sorry .. you always make everything about you, so that means it's deliberate.
That's what self absorbed and selfish people do .... they steal everybody elses glory and thunder and make the world revolve around them instead.
That's what self absorbed and selfish people do .... they steal everybody elses glory and thunder and make the world revolve around them instead.
Woohoo! I'm so glad he called! Now see, you can relax and know that he was just busy and next time don't do all this ranting!! lol, youre not selfish you are just a worrier like me and it got the best of you🙂
Hallo ALL! Help help!!!!!!!!!! Canercian Goddess, need tips from u in particular!!
Ok so, im dating this pisces man, its been a month, last night we were texting, and i think ive done one BIG NO NO when it comes to a pices, plz let me know what u think:
I realized that pisces hate to be asked too many questions, being mysterious is preferred for a pisces rather than expressing oneself a lot. Apparently i did a big mistake yesterday. we were texting back and forth, all was nice and sweet, untill i asked him a question and told me him plz to be honest, asked him whether he has closure from his past relationship(s)? He replied that he does, that hes friends with most of them, but that WHY am asking. Why, a typical pisces question.
So i answered. I told him Im asking bcoz am a careful person. I go with the flow, yet i still like to be careful. I wudnt be involved with sum1 if i still needed closure from an ex, which is why ive been single for around 2 years until i was ready to start dating again, and that i dont wana like sum 1 who is still needing close from an ex, i asked hm if that made sense, he never replied back 😢, later i texted him and told him not to think too much, that im not a planner and like i said, i go with the flow, i dont think of tomorrow, but atleast i want today to be healthy, and sweet, he still didnt reply 😢.
You think i said too much? Did the word careful scare him off? Since a pisces are careful as well and dont like to hurt anyone? Plz help me out in this one, i havent and will not initiate with a text or a call again until u tell me what u think. Frankly, im glad i said what i wanted to say to him, if that scared him off then maybe its better that hes scared off!
What to do/say now?!?!
Ok so, im dating this pisces man, its been a month, last night we were texting, and i think ive done one BIG NO NO when it comes to a pices, plz let me know what u think:
I realized that pisces hate to be asked too many questions, being mysterious is preferred for a pisces rather than expressing oneself a lot. Apparently i did a big mistake yesterday. we were texting back and forth, all was nice and sweet, untill i asked him a question and told me him plz to be honest, asked him whether he has closure from his past relationship(s)? He replied that he does, that hes friends with most of them, but that WHY am asking. Why, a typical pisces question.
So i answered. I told him Im asking bcoz am a careful person. I go with the flow, yet i still like to be careful. I wudnt be involved with sum1 if i still needed closure from an ex, which is why ive been single for around 2 years until i was ready to start dating again, and that i dont wana like sum 1 who is still needing close from an ex, i asked hm if that made sense, he never replied back 😢, later i texted him and told him not to think too much, that im not a planner and like i said, i go with the flow, i dont think of tomorrow, but atleast i want today to be healthy, and sweet, he still didnt reply 😢.
You think i said too much? Did the word careful scare him off? Since a pisces are careful as well and dont like to hurt anyone? Plz help me out in this one, i havent and will not initiate with a text or a call again until u tell me what u think. Frankly, im glad i said what i wanted to say to him, if that scared him off then maybe its better that hes scared off!
What to do/say now?!?!
i'm sorry m'am but i have to dissagree with you on two issues , actually a couple, please just hear me out why.
Rely on your Pisces to be the financially astute one in the relationship. A Pisces would often rather leave financial matters up to others; his mind is in a different place. - my reason is, because hes REALLY good with math, and I am horrible, I am an Arian and a advid spender, and I really can't keep track of money ,together we waste money constantly :X but hes the one who offered to help me manage it anyway, also, I am disgraphic, and litterally can't remember my times tables no matter how hard i've tried, this dosn't mean im stupid, I have a literal math learning dissability. And we both seem to lack common sense on this matter.
Reproach a Pisces too harshly for being a daydreamer instead of a doer. The Fish are known for being in tune with the spiritual, not the material.
That is very true, however, He pushes HIMSELF to do instead of dream, infact o.o he dosn't seem to dream very much during the day, just at night when hes sleeping, as much as I love his imagination to go wild, he also hides his creative side : / he wants to 'start' getting into art, but hes still very technologic, and before he met me he was very scientific, atheist and factual, hes changed that now though, but still...could this be because he was born on the cusp of Aries?
Ever dismiss old-fashioned, hearts-and-flowers true love. Pisces believe that it exists, and are not going to be satisfied with a casual affair instead.
hmm, no I never dismiss it, but, he hasn't exactly shown his love for me like that... I wish he would sometimes though, because Im always doing things for him, and buying him stuff and trying to make him happy.
Put down your Pisces by accident; you may injure his feelings without even noticing. A Pisces might not yell or throw things when he gets hurt, but he feels it very deeply all the same.I can agree on this, but, whenever he dose get hurt, he dose something very scary like punch me or smash my 400 dollar phone :x
Treat your Pisces too casually; don't toy with him or let him see you play the field. A Pisces does not like this behaviour, as it goes against his ideas about true love and spiritual connection.
yeah, its against mine too ^^ the only thing is, the roleplay, but thats for writing, and he told me he was fine with it, but still gets upset -.-; i dont care for those ppl that way, neither they to me.
Rely on your Pisces to be the financially astute one in the relationship. A Pisces would often rather leave financial matters up to others; his mind is in a different place. - my reason is, because hes REALLY good with math, and I am horrible, I am an Arian and a advid spender, and I really can't keep track of money ,together we waste money constantly :X but hes the one who offered to help me manage it anyway, also, I am disgraphic, and litterally can't remember my times tables no matter how hard i've tried, this dosn't mean im stupid, I have a literal math learning dissability. And we both seem to lack common sense on this matter.
Reproach a Pisces too harshly for being a daydreamer instead of a doer. The Fish are known for being in tune with the spiritual, not the material.
That is very true, however, He pushes HIMSELF to do instead of dream, infact o.o he dosn't seem to dream very much during the day, just at night when hes sleeping, as much as I love his imagination to go wild, he also hides his creative side : / he wants to 'start' getting into art, but hes still very technologic, and before he met me he was very scientific, atheist and factual, hes changed that now though, but still...could this be because he was born on the cusp of Aries?
Ever dismiss old-fashioned, hearts-and-flowers true love. Pisces believe that it exists, and are not going to be satisfied with a casual affair instead.
hmm, no I never dismiss it, but, he hasn't exactly shown his love for me like that... I wish he would sometimes though, because Im always doing things for him, and buying him stuff and trying to make him happy.
Put down your Pisces by accident; you may injure his feelings without even noticing. A Pisces might not yell or throw things when he gets hurt, but he feels it very deeply all the same.I can agree on this, but, whenever he dose get hurt, he dose something very scary like punch me or smash my 400 dollar phone :x
Treat your Pisces too casually; don't toy with him or let him see you play the field. A Pisces does not like this behaviour, as it goes against his ideas about true love and spiritual connection.
yeah, its against mine too ^^ the only thing is, the roleplay, but thats for writing, and he told me he was fine with it, but still gets upset -.-; i dont care for those ppl that way, neither they to me.
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Get in touch with your compassion and inner love for every being in the universe. Your Pisces can help you to empathise with all the forces out there, and help you understand why he deserves your love.
Learn how to communicate a thousand expressions of love - all without saying a word. Your Pisces will be able to read your soul by looking into your eyes.
Offer support to your Pisces; learn how to ground him without dragging him too far down to earth. Your Pisces will teach you how to notice shooting stars and pictures in the clouds.
Think of ways to show your Pisces that a true love story of the classic variety can exist between the two of you today. He will, in turn, show you how this love story can last forever.
Enjoy good art and fine wine - your Pisces will love you for it.
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Rely on your Pisces to be the financially astute one in the relationship. A Pisces would often rather leave financial matters up to others; his mind is in a different place.
Reproach a Pisces too harshly for being a daydreamer instead of a doer. The Fish are known for being in tune with the spiritual, not the material.
Ever dismiss old-fashioned, hearts-and-flowers true love. Pisces believe that it exists, and are not going to be satisfied with a casual affair instead.
Put down your Pisces by accident; you may injure his feelings without even noticing. A Pisces might not yell or throw things when he gets hurt, but he feels it very deeply all the same.
Treat your Pisces too casually; don't toy with him or let him see you play the field. A Pisces does not like this behaviour, as it goes against his ideas about true love and spiritual connection.
Subjugate his artistic impulses - this is a truly creative Sign, and you may be standing in the way of his happiness and a fine piece of art.