Pisces games?

I met a really cute pisces last year, we went on a dinner date and talked for a really long time (like hours). We ended the date saying we'd get together again that week and he asked if I was busy. No kiss or anything bc I'm old fashioned, but we hugged at my door and he left. He texted me later the same night saying he had fun and asked me out for the next night. I couldn't because of school and work, so I said another night would be better and asked if he wanted to reschedule for another time. No response, so I just let it go. Then a few weeks later, I texted him out of the blue just saying hi, and we made plans to go out again. I was excited, but then he ended up canceling on me the day of our plans, with no real reason. He said we would reschedule, so I just left it and figured I'd hear from him if he was interested. He never ended up getting back to me. Then like a year later (literally), he texts me asking what I'm up to and if I want to go out and catch up. I said sure and to let me know when he's free. He read my text but didn't reply. Wth is this guy doing? I felt like we had a connection simply because of how he opened up and how long we were at the restaurant talking. But there doesn't seem to be any actual effort to see me, follow up, or reschedule plans. Then he texts me a full year later for no reason, only to not reply when I responded to him. To be honest, it was weird that he still even had my phone number saved. I'm not holding my breath because I don't like indecisive people, but I'm curious to know what the point of that was? I've heard Pisces like you to make an effort for them (was he hoping I would be the one following up with him and making the plans?) but I've also heard they just play games for no reason. Does this sound like games or...? I'm a scorpio so I like to evaluate things and this was all just very perplexing to me lol

You asked him to let you know when he's free but he didn't reply anything—
Oh honey this sounds really bad 😢
It really feels like he has some interest in you but doesn't want to get more serious.

I personally would not hope on him and try to find someone who is REALLY interested in meeting you!

I know that Pisces-Scorpio dynamic can be super special from the first second but you know there are probably some circumstances why he doesn't want to get involved now. So, don't think too much about him.

Right?? So rude. I'm not going to pursue it and honestly, I'd kind of forgotten about him until he texted me out of the blue a year later. I don't get what the point of it was. I guess I'm just very direct in my interactions with others, so I don't really understand what someone gets out of doing that, like why even contact me at all? lol.

You seem eager to jump whenever he says bark ... a year later, you still dropped what you were doing to say "yes"


He just checked again a year later to see if you were still easy.


He most likely had no real interest in you ... only an interest in seeing if you still respond to him snapping his fingers.

You seem eager to jump whenever he says bark ... a year later, you still dropped what you were doing to say "yes"


He just checked again a year later to see if you were still easy.


He most likely had no real interest in you ... only an interest in seeing if you still respond to him snapping his fingers.


That I have to disagree with, I didn't drop what I was doing and never jumped to his requests. I was the one who said I wasn't available that week when he asked me on the second date, because I had other commitments. We planned on "rescheduling", he didn't respond, so I let it go. Doesn't exactly scream of desperation. I figured he was probably not very interested, or seeing someone else at the time. He texted me a year later, I thought it was interesting, and said I wouldn't mind catching up. If anyone else from my past texted me and wanted to catch up, unless I absolutely hate them for some reason, I'd say the same thing. I don't exactly equate that with being "easy" lol.

He was more than likely entertaining others, not just you... which not unusual if you just met him and have only went out on a date or 2. Fast forward to 1 year later. Either his other prospectives werent what he expected, or he got bored with them. Kept your number in the backburner.

Thanks, I think you nailed it.

She is right tho.

You did reply back after all that disrespect he showed towards you. He lost interest the moment you replied again.
If you had taken your time in not replying in days or weeks, he would have been more curious and would have thought twice in not ignoring you again.

As hard as it sounds He was never interested and the next day invite was because he most likely had nothing to do or was bored.

At this point your number was saved again and he knows you will respond when it is most convenient for him. And if you answer good and if you don't good. your best bet is to delete his number and never respond. Teach a man to respect you, by respecting yourself.

When a man is interested in a woman, you will get a response for sure.


Thanks, I feel like you explained it better. I guess that was the point of my question, I didn't really get "what" specifically he was getting out of it. Like congratulations, I replied to him? All that would've happened is he would've bought me dinner again. I could understand it being a game or trying to get me respond if we had hooked up or something and he was looking for that, but we never moved beyond the friendship stage (he's very religious and I'm not), which is why I was confused. I'm just a very straight forward person, I respond to my texts and if someone wants to catch up, I'll usually go. I have a large social circle. I honestly didn't think of it from the perspective of someone playing games around me responding to them or not. I guess I still don't get what he gets out of the response... like self assurance or something? To me, responding is just me being nice and being open to catching up/having a nice conversation. But I guess maybe to him a response means I'm waiting around for him or something weird. That's honestly just a bizarre concept to me. But it makes more sense now.

If we are interested you will be showed with communications and we will be all for seeing you.

A year later?!!! Does he have Taurus or cancer in him? Doesn't matter. I would say tell him to fuck off, but back his ass and move on. Be happy you didn't engage with that guy.