RoosterSpade
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Pisces girl - seemed interested but flaked?
she probably really is ill. Wait a few days and text her if shes feeling better, if she is then start a convo, see where it goes from there, maybe you can hook up again or hang out.
don't wait too long though.. 2 days is good.
The D was weak. ‚‚‚‚‚‚ did she delete you off Snapchat too lmfao
I ain't shit.
Posted by CocoKatBut I feel like it isn't my place to text her now. I don't want to get rejected again... I think if she was interested she would have asked to hang out some other time but she just said thank you to my get well soon message
don't wait too long though.. 2 days is good.
😢
Posted by Magenta_AzureNo she added me on literally every social media I had and gave me her number. This is why it's confusing, if she didn't do that I wouldn't have texted her or done anything tbh.
I ain't shit.
Posted by RoosterSpadeOh. Well then go on living. There's this Cancer that always reaches out to me when I post a cute pic on social media. I've made it clear many times that I am not interested. He isn't persistent enough for me to block him. I just know he's there.Posted by Magenta_AzureNo she added me on literally every social media I had and gave me her number. This is why it's confusing, if she didn't do that I wouldn't have texted her or done anything tbh.
I ain't shit.click to expand
Go on living. If she comes back, GOOD but don't hold your breath. She might do like me n only hit you when she's stupid, ridiculous, ca-ray-zee DESPERATE.
Posted by Magenta_AzureI think that's a little different though... I'm not hitting her up randomly every now and then. This was the first time I asked her to hang out and she straight up flaked right at the last min (which is kind of cowardly) I'm not doing anything that will make her want to block me lmao, she was obviously interested at the beginning but that's suddenly changed and I wanna know if that's common with Pisces womenPosted by RoosterSpadeOh. Well then go on living. There's this Cancer that always reaches out to me when I post a cute pic on social media. I've made it clear many times that I am not interested. He isn't persistent enough for me to block him. I just know he's there.Posted by Magenta_AzureNo she added me on literally every social media I had and gave me her number. This is why it's confusing, if she didn't do that I wouldn't have texted her or done anything tbh.
I ain't shit.
Go on living. If she comes back, GOOD but don't hold your breath. She might do like me n only hit you when she's stupid, ridiculous, ca-ray-zee DESPERATE.click to expand
Smh
Yes it's normal for sick Pisces women to not go to a party when they don't feel well, homie.
Yes it's normal for sick Pisces women to not go to a party when they don't feel well, homie.
Posted by Magenta_AzureLol my point was that I don't think she's sick. It was just an excuse to not go to the party but idk why she wouldn't want to :/
Smh
Yes it's normal for sick Pisces women to not go to a party when they don't feel well, homie.
Posted by RoosterSpadeAnd I'm telling you she was probably sick. Why do you think she would lie?Posted by Magenta_AzureLol my point was that I don't think she's sick. It was just an excuse to not go to the party but idk why she wouldn't want to :/
Smh
Yes it's normal for sick Pisces women to not go to a party when they don't feel well, homie.click to expand
she said she didn't want to have sex but you guys got drunk and had sex sooo she might be embarrassed and disappointed that that happened when she didn't intend for that to happen so i would just give her some space and let her come to you
Posted by Magenta_AzureMy predisposition to believe the worst case scenario (for me) I guess. I'm always way more sensitive when it comes to romantic interests giving mixed signals and stuff which is why even the smallest thing can make me feel sad. You might be right but I usually have a good instinct and I think it was a lie. Maybe she got nervous? Thought it was a bad idea? Doesn't like at all?Posted by RoosterSpadeAnd I'm telling you she was probably sick. Why do you think she would lie?Posted by Magenta_AzureLol my point was that I don't think she's sick. It was just an excuse to not go to the party but idk why she wouldn't want to :/
Smh
Yes it's normal for sick Pisces women to not go to a party when they don't feel well, homie.click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoNo that's definitely not the case. She said she didn't want to do anything when we left which was like 30 mins before we got home. I guess she could be embarrassed but I don't think she was because in the morning after she didn't try to leave early without saying bye. From what I know about Pisces women my Pisces girl also seems the passive type so I don't think she'd ever contact me first 😢
she said she didn't want to have sex but you guys got drunk and had sex sooo she might be embarrassed and disappointed that that happened when she didn't intend for that to happen so i would just give her some space and let her come to you
Posted by RoosterSpadeDon't project your insecurities on her. If she didn't do anything to make you think she's a liar don't treat her like one. I HATE paying for the last broads mistakes. I know you don't wanna get hurt, but that comes with life. Treating people like the enemy because you're afraid to get hurt is a form of COWARDICE. Take a deep breath and breathe.Posted by Magenta_AzureMy predisposition to believe the worst case scenario (for me) I guess. I'm always way more sensitive when it comes to romantic interests giving mixed signals and stuff which is why even the smallest thing can make me feel sad. You might be right but I usually have a good instinct and I think it was a lie. Maybe she got nervous? Thought it was a bad idea? Doesn't like at all?Posted by RoosterSpadeAnd I'm telling you she was probably sick. Why do you think she would lie?Posted by Magenta_AzureLol my point was that I don't think she's sick. It was just an excuse to not go to the party but idk why she wouldn't want to :/
Smh
Yes it's normal for sick Pisces women to not go to a party when they don't feel well, homie.click to expand
Posted by LadyOfRebirthWell she did most of the initiating when we first hooked up but I did most of the initiation after (asked her how she was/asked her to hang out, etc).
Maybe she backed out because she's seemingly doing majority of the initiating.
Can't speak for all Pisces ladies but I like a man that can take the lead. I don't mind initiating at all but there has to be reciprocation from the other party too.
I think I used that word right. >_>
I don't know maybe you're right I have that feeling she lied too :/ just ask her or move on to the next one because I wouldn't lie over something so petty as that if I don't want to go anywhere then I don't no-one can make me do something I don't want to do.
Posted by Vixen2The first time anyone has ever said "thank for last night" to me after a ons
Lmao...."followed me on instagram and thanked me for lastnight"
I didn't know how to respond
I'm a pisces and it looks as if she might actually be sick. I sometimes flake on people I like just because I'm feeling lazy or lack the motivation to get ready. You need to check-in on her or wait till she texts. If a pisces likes you, she will eventually break down and initiate the conversation.
Posted by Magenta_AzurePosted by RoosterSpadePosted by Magenta_AzurePosted by RoosterSpadePosted by Magenta_AzureYou're right, I shouldn't just assume she lied. I guess I'm kind of a coward sometimes with these things and I think that if I wanted to get out of a date or something I'd say yes and then cancel by using a bad excuse hoping they'd get the message and move on. I guess that's just a Cancer thing though ha
Smh
Don't project your insecurities on her. If she didn't do anything to make you think she's a liar don't treat her like one. I HATE paying for the last broads mistakes. I know you don't wanna get hurt, but that comes with life. Treating people like the enemy because you're afraid to get hurt is a form of COWARDICE. Take a deep breath and breathe.click to expand
Did she tell you how she got sick?
Posted by killerwhalemoonI hope she does come around but I think she's a little shy like me too
I promise she will come around.
Posted by BlueQueenNo she didn't. She said "I've been feeling ill all day"
Did she tell you how she got sick?
She may have a bf
Posted by takemeawayI really do hope she does and yeah I guess she could really be sick or unwell. I guess I'll have to wait and see.
I'm a pisces and it looks as if she might actually be sick. I sometimes flake on people I like just because I'm feeling lazy or lack the motivation to get ready. You need to check-in on her or wait till she texts. If a pisces likes you, she will eventually break down and initiate the conversation.
Posted by LadyOfRebirthI haven't said anything about the night or her because I was planning to do that at the party when I'm able to get her alone. I was actually going to ask her on a proper date too. I am retrieving but I really did put myself out there by texting her and asking her to hang out :/Posted by RoosterSpadeI still stand by my point.Posted by LadyOfRebirthWell she did most of the initiating when we first hooked up but I did most of the initiation after (asked her how she was/asked her to hang out, etc).
Maybe she backed out because she's seemingly doing majority of the initiating.
Can't speak for all Pisces ladies but I like a man that can take the lead. I don't mind initiating at all but there has to be reciprocation from the other party too.
You are obviously retrieving into your shell, and are afraid to put yourself out there. She can probably tell.
Have you communicated how you felt about the night or her in general?click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimShe doesn't (found out from mutual friends)
She may have a bf
Posted by NemiliciousPosted by MiZLeomaybe you of all people should not give relationship advice in light of your messed up situation. dumbass.Posted by Magenta_AzureHe's a cancer, that's why.Posted by RoosterSpadeAnd I'm telling you she was probably sick. Why do you think she would lie?Posted by Magenta_AzureLol my point was that I don't think she's sick. It was just an excuse to not go to the party but idk why she wouldn't want to :/
Smh
Yes it's normal for sick Pisces women to not go to a party when they don't feel well, homie.click to expand
she's the last person to listen to
I'm quite amused at how you described her as clingy ... yet, she's far from clingy, while you are clinging heavily
If you decided to contact her again, call instead of sending a message.
I would see it as a red flag because:
a) she didn't tell you why she was sick
b) she didn't offer to meet up another day to make up for her cancelling on you
c) she has sex with you whilst drunk even though she said she didn't want to. seems like she doesn't know how to impose her boundaries or control her drinking. she seems messed up right now…and why did she ask about other friends coming to the party too? and didn't even reply to you to let you know if she would bring her own friends as you suggested…sounds like a bad communicator.
d) or maybe she is embarrassed because she had drunk sex with you and was worried that you just wanted sex since you invited her to a party…invite to a coffee during the day if you decide to go ahead..
I would see it as a red flag because:
a) she didn't tell you why she was sick
b) she didn't offer to meet up another day to make up for her cancelling on you
c) she has sex with you whilst drunk even though she said she didn't want to. seems like she doesn't know how to impose her boundaries or control her drinking. she seems messed up right now…and why did she ask about other friends coming to the party too? and didn't even reply to you to let you know if she would bring her own friends as you suggested…sounds like a bad communicator.
d) or maybe she is embarrassed because she had drunk sex with you and was worried that you just wanted sex since you invited her to a party…invite to a coffee during the day if you decide to go ahead..
I'm a Pisces and you Cancer boys bug me lol. I dated a Cancer for 5 years then recently had an obnoxious experience with another one haha. I scared him, that I know. He wouldn't make plans with me and after a mere week I sent him a nice (for real it wasn't mean) message about how I wasn't used to not being pursued. I was confused bc he would message me but then didn't make plans.... Turd.
So we Pisces can get caught up in the moment - like going home with someone we don't know. Then it's like a catch 22...
She went home with you because she felt something, since she gave you her number - I can attest. But then you didn't ask her on a 1x1 date where you two could just sit and get to know each other.
I lose interest in people before the hat drops. But that's more to do with my earth placements... You don't know where her placements are so If you like her you are running out of time.
Call her. Ask her how she is, don't talk about the party - Ask her to a movie, a walk something - whenever she wants. But don't NOT text her in the meantime. Even though I have fire/earth in my chart which makes me very independent - I still desire a man who will be able to protect me and pursue me. If she's not interested she will either just ignore you entirely or tell you in some way that is intended NOT to hurt your feelings. Pisces are romantic, do something sweet (small gestures are nice). You can't be a shy Cancer and expect to get anywhere 🙂
You asking her to a party where there is booze is insinuating that you're only interested in hooking up. Ask her do something where you can talk 1x1 and take things slow - if she wants to bang, she'll initiate it lol.
So we Pisces can get caught up in the moment - like going home with someone we don't know. Then it's like a catch 22...
She went home with you because she felt something, since she gave you her number - I can attest. But then you didn't ask her on a 1x1 date where you two could just sit and get to know each other.
I lose interest in people before the hat drops. But that's more to do with my earth placements... You don't know where her placements are so If you like her you are running out of time.
Call her. Ask her how she is, don't talk about the party - Ask her to a movie, a walk something - whenever she wants. But don't NOT text her in the meantime. Even though I have fire/earth in my chart which makes me very independent - I still desire a man who will be able to protect me and pursue me. If she's not interested she will either just ignore you entirely or tell you in some way that is intended NOT to hurt your feelings. Pisces are romantic, do something sweet (small gestures are nice). You can't be a shy Cancer and expect to get anywhere 🙂
You asking her to a party where there is booze is insinuating that you're only interested in hooking up. Ask her do something where you can talk 1x1 and take things slow - if she wants to bang, she'll initiate it lol.
For me, I can only say that if I was the girl in the situation... and I flaked out on the party. It's because I've had second thoughts especially in light of the one night stand and getting cold feet due to feeling overwhelmed like it's moving too fast...
I've read all the comments and after seeing her again a few days ago I can definitely say that she's into me. I'm not sure to what degree (if she wants something casual or a relationship) but she was definitely flirting with me. I followed some of your guys' advice and messaged her again and her replies were very boring and it seemed like she wasn't putting in any effort. Normally with girls if they like me I can get a fun conversation going through text but with her it's almost impossible. This is an extract of our conversation:
Me: btw your cat is adorable!
Her: she's evil and she bites haha
Me: all cats are kind of evil though. My neighbour's cat loves to sh*t in my garden lol
Her: Oh god haha
Me: yeah it's funny until you have to clean it up, then it's just awful
Her: (she sent the emoji with the white mask)
I then stopped responding because she obviously wasn't into it lol. I'm getting super confused with the mixed signals.
Am I reading too much into this? I think about what I'd do if I was in her position and I can always think of so many different ways to continue the conversation.
Me: btw your cat is adorable!
Her: she's evil and she bites haha
Me: all cats are kind of evil though. My neighbour's cat loves to sh*t in my garden lol
Her: Oh god haha
Me: yeah it's funny until you have to clean it up, then it's just awful
Her: (she sent the emoji with the white mask)
I then stopped responding because she obviously wasn't into it lol. I'm getting super confused with the mixed signals.
Am I reading too much into this? I think about what I'd do if I was in her position and I can always think of so many different ways to continue the conversation.
Posted by CruellaWhiteBut I'm a water sign too and I'm a very direct person. If I like someone I tend to go for it (although I always overthink and get myself too invested). I was thinking that may be the case... she may just be flirting with me because she enjoys it but doesn't want anything more :/
The clingy / flake thing....very water sign.. :-/
She likes you when you are around but is lazy. :-P
Posted by CruellaWhiteI think asking her may be too direct for the type of person she is. I wouldn't want to make her uncomfortable or anything because she's kind of shy.
Ask her.
I feel like as a Pisces female also, you may need to give her sometime to actually figure out what it is she likes about you. I tend to struggle with finding interests in people and not becoming bored so easily. I've had a cancer friend that seems just like you, and tbh he was such a sweetheart, but I needed to get to know him more, I needed to find out what I liked about him and if he could excite me in ways so I don't become bored with him. This was a month ago, but at the same time I was already checking out another cancer that's completely different from this one. This other cancer was about mind games and very challenging which made me a little more interested then the sweetheart. But that's not your case lol. I'd say be casual, not too serious, and of course be friendly. I need some advice about this particular cancer as well, he drives me insane with the mind games, smh. Hopefully you can help me out as well.
Posted by takemeawayThis!!!!
I'm a pisces and it looks as if she might actually be sick. I sometimes flake on people I like just because I'm feeling lazy or lack the motivation to get ready. You need to check-in on her or wait till she texts. If a pisces likes you, she will eventually break down and initiate the conversation.
I'm a Venus/Rising in Pisces... I do this lol no energy for the day = not wanting to be around anyone.
Pisces need to recharge their batteries and even if we REALLY like you or in love with you, we'll need serious down time before we hangout again.
Posted by AriScoPisGrlSee I am different. I never feel claustrophobic or suffocated by a partner or potential lover. I get pure giddy with glee when someone I am interested texts me. I also like to be the ultimate feminine energy so I wouldn't initiate a text. I believe in letting the man embrace his full masculine energy and pursue me, the woman. So that is another OP, you just don't know. Maybe she is just being lazy and sick or maybe she won't reach out to you because she is not interested or wants you to pursue her.Posted by takemeawayThis!!!!
I'm a pisces and it looks as if she might actually be sick. I sometimes flake on people I like just because I'm feeling lazy or lack the motivation to get ready. You need to check-in on her or wait till she texts. If a pisces likes you, she will eventually break down and initiate the conversation.
I'm a Venus/Rising in Pisces... I do this lol no energy for the day = not wanting to be around anyone.
Pisces need to recharge their batteries and even if we REALLY like you or in love with you, we'll need serious down time before we hangout again.click to expand
I will say this though, I am absolutely lazy in relationships that are not inspiring. Meaning, I rather be single and alone than stuck dating someone that I feel no "spark" or connection to.
I read everything and it seems like you haven't talked to her since that text where she cancelled.
I think you are giving up too soon. If she is a Pisces like me, she will not text you first and initiate another time to hang out. As a Pisces, I would not ever initiate trying to hang out with a man and to be honest, why would she text you?
What is she suppose to say? "Hey I'm feeling better now, why don't you take me out on xyz?"
Ughh what >.< just no...That just goes against our feminine energy and romantic nature. And if she is shy like you say, she is probably not going to risk putting her emotions out there to possibly get rejected.
The point is, you haven't tried to pursue her. Text her and start with a casual conversation. See how that goes, (is she engaging, responsive [in a timely manner]) and if it seems okay, ask her out on a proper date. If she says yes, then follow up immediately with suggestions for times and days, and then ask her how she would like to meet: you pick her up, or she meet you?
I think you are giving up too soon. If she is a Pisces like me, she will not text you first and initiate another time to hang out. As a Pisces, I would not ever initiate trying to hang out with a man and to be honest, why would she text you?
What is she suppose to say? "Hey I'm feeling better now, why don't you take me out on xyz?"
Ughh what >.< just no...That just goes against our feminine energy and romantic nature. And if she is shy like you say, she is probably not going to risk putting her emotions out there to possibly get rejected.
The point is, you haven't tried to pursue her. Text her and start with a casual conversation. See how that goes, (is she engaging, responsive [in a timely manner]) and if it seems okay, ask her out on a proper date. If she says yes, then follow up immediately with suggestions for times and days, and then ask her how she would like to meet: you pick her up, or she meet you?
Posted by malloryorI would agree to this as well in the sense that yes if I am really interested in someone I would pursue them. I definitely get that giddy feeling. But in the same instance if I am super busy at work or something makes me lack the motivation to see that 'special' person, I will cancel. I've done it before to a guy I REALLY liked. Simply because I had too much going on around me and I didn't feel ready that day to see him or have the energy to be fully with him. I always want to be my best if I see a guy I really like.Posted by AriScoPisGrlSee I am different. I never feel claustrophobic or suffocated by a partner or potential lover. I get pure giddy with glee when someone I am interested texts me. I also like to be the ultimate feminine energy so I wouldn't initiate a text. I believe in letting the man embrace his full masculine energy and pursue me, the woman. So that is another OP, you just don't know. Maybe she is just being lazy and sick or maybe she won't reach out to you because she is not interested or wants you to pursue her.Posted by takemeawayThis!!!!
I'm a pisces and it looks as if she might actually be sick. I sometimes flake on people I like just because I'm feeling lazy or lack the motivation to get ready. You need to check-in on her or wait till she texts. If a pisces likes you, she will eventually break down and initiate the conversation.
I'm a Venus/Rising in Pisces... I do this lol no energy for the day = not wanting to be around anyone.
Pisces need to recharge their batteries and even if we REALLY like you or in love with you, we'll need serious down time before we hangout again.
I will say this though, I am absolutely lazy in relationships that are not inspiring. Meaning, I rather be single and alone than stuck dating someone that I feel no "spark" or connection to.click to expand
I am also lazy in relationships that don't go anywhere and I love being alone in that case.
Im probablyate with this but i think that you should keep showing your interested. Dont stop until you know its enough. Im pretty sure she like that a lot. At least for me i love when people try a lot to get to be with me. It shows how much they want to be with you and wont stop. So thats my poiny of view of this.
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The morning after we were both very hungover and she gave me her number, followed me on instagram etc and before she left she said "thank you for last night" and told me to text her.
I texted her the next day and her replies were kind of blunt but she seemed to make an effort to carry on the conversation so I assumed it was just her texting habit. I ended up asking her to come with me to a party in a few days time and mentioned that some our mutual friends might be there, she said yes and I left it at that. The day before the party I texted her about the details such as where to meet her and she asked me if any of our mutual friends were definitely going. I said I wasn't sure and told her it would be okay for her to bring her own friends if she would like and the conversation ended there.
The day of the party (about an hour before we were supposed to meet) she texted me saying she had been feeling ill all day and would not be able to make it even though she was looking forward to it. I replied saying it's all okay and that I hope she feels better soon.
I already know that as a cancer I'm probably going to get made fun of for reading too into it or being so emotional but I honestly was really looking forward to spending some time with her and I feel really devastated that she cancelled very last minute. I only chose to ask her to hang out because she still seemed interested after we hooked up but after flaking on me I don't really know what to think.
I'd really appreciate some advice from Pisces women or people who have had experience with Pisces women. I like her but I also want to get to know her but if she's not interested I'd rather move on than waste my time pursuing someone who doesn't like me.