Pisces guy + Capricorn girl = ?

What do you guys think about the Pisces + Capricorn match?

There's a Capricorn girl that I met online about a month ago (we live in neighboring countries), and I started developing a bit of a crush on her.

She doesn't message me much and seems busy most of the time, but every few days she initiates chat and asks me if I want to talk. Our conversations are always very pleasant and they seem to have such a smooth and natural flow. We often find ourselves spontaneously diving into deep and meaningful conversations.

Problem is, she's taken, she's been in a long distance relationship for over a year with a guy from another country. But she often shares relationship problems with me and asks me for advice. She even told me that their relationship is sort of hanging by a strand.

She seems to quite enjoy talking with me, and I enjoy talking with her as well but...

I'm still unsure about all that, I mean I do like her and I think we would be compatible but after the failure of my last long distance relationship which lasted 9 months, I'm not so sure about LDRs, I just want a normal relationship like everybody else.

It feels like 2 sides pulling me in opposite directions.

What should I do?

Can't say because I never been with a cap girl.

Also, for some reason it feels like I only have a tough time attracting Caps. So far, attracting Cancers and Scorpios wasn't a problem for me, it was always natural, not to mention Tauruses, I get most attention from Tauruses, but I always seem to get friendzoned by Capricorns...

Posted by alexa566
Also, for some reason it feels like I only have a tough time attracting Caps. So far, attracting Cancers and Scorpios wasn't a problem for me, it was always natural, not to mention Tauruses, I get most attention from Tauruses, but I always seem to get friendzoned by Capricorns...

Try a virgo then.

Hmmmm I've actually never dated a virgo

Posted by FishyDude
I'm a Pisces dude who is married to a Capricorn woman. I can't say it's the best relationship in the world, we have our ups and downs. Sometimes I wish I could have met a Virgo or Cancer girl, but, my wife and I have a harmonious relationship quite a bit of the time.

OP, I would say try a Virgo woman before you pursue anything with this Cap lady and just see how it goes, plus, she's already in a relationship even though it's long distance. I know that I wouldn't want to be the reason why a woman broke up with her man.

Yeah I definitely don't want her to break up with him because of me.

Now all that's left is spontaneously stumbling upon a gorgeous Virgo girl and fall madly in love with her. No pressure. 🙂

I dated a few Pisces guys. Even if we never verbally expressed it, there was an instant love/ fondness that effortlessly blossomed from just being in each other’s company. I can see myself dating a Pisces long term. Just need a lot a patience and acceptance to see it through.

Posted by CreativeCap
I dated a few Pisces guys. Even if we never verbally expressed it, there was an instant love/ fondness that effortlessly blossomed from just being in each other’s company. I can see myself dating a Pisces long term. Just need a lot a patience and acceptance to see it through.

Yes exactly, that's what I feel with this girl as well, fondness and closeness naturally flows just from spending time together and hanging out.

Posted by ValleysofNeptune
I love Cap women. There's a strong Pisces/Capricorn connection imo, especially physically. I haven't hooked up with one yet but I've had some Cap women friends including one who was as into me as I was into her. But for reasons outside our control it never happened between us We got touchy feely a few times though and there were some serious sparks. It's awesome when Cap women let you in past their usual defenses. They can be much more fun and goofy than most people would think. I think these two signs also click because they can share a dark sense of humor and sometimes gloomy outlook on life. I love earth sign women in general and the only sign in the zodiac I generally prefer more in romantic pairings personally, is Taurus

As for your situation OP, Idk what to tell you. I guess just keep talking to her and stay in touch. Maybe something will happen down the road

Yeah well I'm not expecting anything right now, but she is very cool and fun to be around and I would definitely love having her as a friend. If in the future that escalates into something more, I don't mind. 🙂

I also like Tauruses but I just had a 9-month relationship with a Taurus end badly so I'm a bit tired of Tauruses for now.. She's a real couch potato and it started really bothering me how lazy she was and didn't want to do ANYTHING productive at all, just wanted to lay in bed all day and be on the computer and eat unhealthy food. I felt like I had to put 200% effort to motivate both myself and her at the same time and I tried so hard to inspire her by starting to do some productive stuff for myself like going to the gym, learning to play guitar, studying for university, etc, in hopes that it will inspire her to try to do the same, but she hadn't even moved a finger. That's when I started feeling like she's dragging me down.

I need someone with strong willpower, someone who lives a healthy life style (or at least tries their best to achieve that) because that has such a strong influence on me, when I'm with such a person, I get immensely inspired to try to keep up with all of the things the other person is doing.

And my Taurus ex didn't seem to care at all about her own health and productivity, which was affecting me very negatively too.

My aunt and uncle are this combo been married god for ages their old like in their 80s lol.

@Shadowcat My Mars is in Libra. I don't really know her placements, I think her Ascendant is Aquarius but I'm not sure, I'll ask her for exact birth details. She's into Zodiac too so it won't be awkward if I ask that 😄

I know water signs are compatible with each other, but there's just something so alluring in the humor and goofyness of Capricorns and I find the Capricorn stability and groundedness sexy..

For me relationships with Pisces moon work way better than with Pisces Sun (Sun-Moon connections).

I'd say though, if you have similar modalities/elements in your chart, it can work.

Keep in mind Capricorn women need just the right amount of attention and alone time, otherwise they get irritated and won't tell you about it unless they rich breaking point.

If you're too friendly and not flirting while she's into you, she'll think you're not into her/putting her in the friendzone.

By the way, she's still in a relationship and emotionally invested, esp. since she's asking you for advice and confiding in you with relationship problems. Additionally, she's too busy to reach out to you - not that into you.

Don't waste your time, move on. At best you'll be her rebound.

Posted by Liriell
For me relationships with Pisces moon work way better than with Pisces Sun (Sun-Moon connections).

Oh cool, luckily I have Pisces in both 😉

Posted by alexa566

Posted by Liriell
For me relationships with Pisces moon work way better than with Pisces Sun (Sun-Moon connections).

Oh cool, luckily I have Pisces in both click to expand

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Cool 🙂