I met this man 2 years ago. He chased me until I said yes. He poured his heart and soul into me. I had his twin boys jam 2015. Now a days he seems disconnected and withdrawn. When he isn't at work ( in the military ) he is playing a game on his computer all day and night it seems a lot since he has been on his vacation . I try to talk to him about if something is bothering him he shuts down. Before he would be quick to fix whatever it was causing us to be disconnected. When I pull away he pushes into me. When I push into him he pulls away. Totally confusing we had an argument that caused me to be in tears and crying he didn't comfort me instead he went and laid in a ball I asked him tonight if he wants me to take the boys and leave for awhile he said nothing and crawled into a ball acted as tho he was crying a little and buried his head in the pillow. He says he loves me but his actions are the opposite at times. He will say hurtful things and act as though he doesn't want to carry on a conversation now rewind a week ago I pulled away and mimicked him. He in return came to started loving loving on me sending sweet texts when he left for work I'm sorry but wtf ?? What am I to do ?? I am so freaking lost and confused
