Pisces lady - what do u think

I’m a virgo and she’s a Pisces. We met at a work meeting and were immediately attracted to one another. After we initially met, I didn’t reach out to her until like 3 months later lol. When I did she was like “finally”. Hahah. So I’m slow. Anyways. We started getting coffee together, then that turned into lunches. I told her I was into her one day and that I wanted to take her on a date. She told me she liked me too but would rather wait to get to know me more since we work together and we didn’t want to rock boat. So basically we started dating and hanging out. We kissed intensely and would cuddle and hold hands. Ughh it was so beautiful. We never made love. Well, we continued talking and I became a little distant because I felt like communication between us was different. Not sure if it was my fault or who’s fault it was. However, she asked me why I was being distant and I pointed out something she did that kind of bothered me about her (hanging the phone up on me when her dad walked in the room) so she got really upset and she wanted to discontinue talking and just be friends. I felt like I loved her so I told her I did, I thought we were never going to speak again and I had to let her know how I felt- so dramatic I know.. anyways, she’s perfect and she has been ignoring me for 4 months now until last week. We made eye contact in work break room and her eyes told me that she is still interested. The sexual tension I feel between us is unreal. When I see her walking or about to turn towards me my heart starts to beat fast as hell and I feel weird in my stomach. I don’t know what this is but it’s crazy. Anyways, after we made eye contact and after talking with a friend. He urged me to reach out to her and I did but thru work messenger- Skype business. She responded to me and I feel as if we never stopped talking for a day. Like I can tell her anything and she’s genuinely interested in what I have to say. She’s laughed like I’ve never seen before, she is the same sweet girl as before and I can’t help it but I love this amazing pisces lady. Idk what to do and I’m confused. But I don’t want to ask her what she thinks or how she feels. Like what should I do. If I continue this friendship I’m gonna start getting attached again and Idk if that’s healthy for me. On the other hand, I wish I knew exactly how she felt. I want to show her that I love her but I’m not sure what to do or how to approach. I know I’m overthinking everything but idk what to do lol. My friends are sick of hearing about this, so I turn to here for advice. Help.

"After we initially met, I didn’t reach out to her until like 3 months later"

Your action screams that you didn't like her at all, that's what I would think. Let's see what the rest of your text says.

Hmm I can tell you are confused and scared to death lmao

Nothing to worry about, we aren't sweeties towards everyone, I feel like she's expecting you to make a move. So go ahead. By the way you are lucky she still likes you, if I was her you wouldn't stand a chance, just because I hate cowards and pretty much anyone who has no balls to be straightforward. You've wasted time

ANOTHER Virgo male on the water boards?

What’s been in the air lately 🤔

I think your assuming a lot of things. But don’t know any real facts. Like what she’s actually thinking and feeling. Stop assuming

how old are you guys just out of curiosity? i sense you may not have much experience when it comes to relationships so its good you are reaching out. first of all, pisces are sensitive so consider her feelings as much as if not more than your own. i can see that you are trying to protect your heart by your actions however as someone pointed out, this could be misread. my suggestion is just be real. pisces wants to be accepted as they are but they also want you as you are, flaws and all. be open with her about your feelings and apprehension but dont let them control you. be the navigator of your feelings. take that nervousness and turn it into excitement and boldness. she will appreciate a man who knows and goes for what he wants. go with the flow with her whatever pace that is. she's not rushing you. i dont see why this couldnt be really good for you both.

Pisces are very rarely the initiators because they don't like to take initiative. They are most comfortable if the other person takes the initiative and makes a move. But please be careful with her feelings, Pisces are very sensitive.

Sounds like she likes you. First and foremost pisces like to be courted and wooed, so take your time and just pamper her. She’ll slowly but surely will be more open with you, just as you should be with her. But know both pisces and virgos are shy about making the first move, you really have to actively try to express yourself.

I think you need to take a cold shower more than one time.

Posted by Allthegoodnamesaretaken
...she’s perfect and she has been ignoring me for 4 months now until last week.

Like..what?

Get back from Lalaland man and relate to this person as a human first. You read into a LOT of what she does through your own emotions but you glance over actions of her distancing herself that should tell you you've either spooked her and you need to take it slow or she isn't into you.

Posted by Allthegoodnamesaretaken
She told me she liked me too but would rather wait to get to know me

She told you straight up where she's standing and instead of taking it as ok she's interested, let's get to know each other better you're building this fantasy world and are confused as to why she won't play this role you have envisioned in your head.

Posted by Allthegoodnamesaretaken
I want to show her that I love her

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Hello? You're borderling coming across obsessive and not listening to what she's saying. She'll bail if you start again with the love part.

I know I’m overthinking everything but idk what to do lol. My friends are sick of hearing about this, so I turn to here for advice. Help.



You sound "young" since you keep using the word ANYWAYS (no such animal; yeah, anyway does). I'm Piscean. We (women) don't approach a man, we've done it before and it just backfires (I asked a cowboy for a dance and he turned me down. I got SO pissed off, I left the club without informing my girlfriends I was leaving {birthday party}. I dissed the club for about three months and hit the gym instead). I was kinda confused on how you pissed her off since I got lost in your words. She hung up on you when her dad walked in the room. You must have called or texted her back numerous times that I THINK that is what pissed her off. Trust. Piscean women will NOT tell you to trust her; she just wants you to "trust her". Guess when you FINALLY talked to her it lead to a miscommunication and she "swam" away (you have to visualize the two fishes swimming in opposite directions with a cord attached to their mouths). She gave you a SLAP on the face with her wet fin...I can tell it hurt you because you are here asking for advice. Okay, so she gave you that look after four months of ignoring you. Pisces are a sign that DOES come back after a while when you've pissed her off. Since she gave you that look, you feel as if the door is wide open for you to come in. I keep telling y'all instead of posting your story here with questions and advice, to look up on the zodiac sun sign, in this case, for Pisces (woman). Go to Google and read up on the description, how to date, what to wear, gifts to buy, and how a Pisces woman acts when she is pissed off, etc, etc, etc.

Do your homework...we can only give you so much advice, but it's up to you to adhere after you've read up on her zodiac sign.



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva