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Pisces women would you be flattered or creeped out if.....
Posted by LePetitFisk
Both. Mostly flattered, but low-key suspicious.lol suspicious
how so?
Personally, i might feel like it's an attempt to butter yourself out of the friendzone (which might or might not be effective). But that also depends on the context of the artwork...
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so you're saying i shouldn't do it?lol
i just get the urge to draw or paint my memories of some of the times we shared together
it's a curious thing
Depends on what the art peice is, I suppose
Posted by TheRabbit
"incorporate you in a piece of art they were working on"LOL
Locked in a cage..."performance art".
😂😂😂😂
Posted by LadyNeptune
Depends on what the art peice is, I supposeThis. Is it a painting of me being set on fire? Not flattered. But if it's something beautiful then yes, very flattered.
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Right. If it’s tasteful and non-invasive then we good.
No paper mache vag (@itsmeroman 😂) or creeper photos of me sleeping.
Posted by TheRabbit
"incorporate you in a piece of art they were working on"LOL
Locked in a cage..."performance art".
i'm not a scorpio
i just may or may not have a scorpio moon
Posted by LePetitFisk
Both. Mostly flattered, but low-key suspicious.lol suspicious
how so?
Personally, i might feel like it's an attempt to butter yourself out of the friendzone (which might or might not be effective). But that also depends on the context of the artwork...
so you're saying i shouldn't do it?lol
i just get the urge to draw or paint my memories of some of the times we shared together
it's a curious thing
Well, not necessarily. I mean, I obviously don't know her and I dont want to dissuade you if your feelings for her are platonic and just want to express it. She might just might find it endearing. Perhaps if you don't make the scene too intimate
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they are definitely not
i feel like if they were strictly platonic i wouldn't have these urges
i think i'm trying to come up with creative ways to channel that energy until these romantic feelings subside.
it's taking forever though.
it's been over a year.
I wouldn’t mind at all. Art is art and I am always happy to be someone’s muse.
objectively though it's also a way to document a meaningful experience at least on my end
it's like going a trip and experiencing a really beautiful view in nature
like one of the most beautiful things you've ever seen
you want to document it
having not read any of the previous posts except the first one...
the first thing that popped in my head is that sounds like something a scorpio would do...
but irregardless, that's creepy asf...
--Jack
Posted by yellow01gt
having not read any of the previous posts except the first one...the first thing that popped in my head is that sounds like something a scorpio would do...
but irregardless, that's creepy asf...
--Jack
i know it is
hence the internal battle
Posted by yellow01gt
having not read any of the previous posts except the first one...the first thing that popped in my head is that sounds like something a scorpio would do...
but irregardless, that's creepy asf...
--Jack
i know it is
hence the internal battle
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Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldn’t bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal 😊
Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldn’t bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal 😊
nah, while i'm generally pretty accepting and agreeable by nature...i have go against the flow with this one because it sounds to me like the beginning of one of those "you can never leave!" horror movies...
don't matter how artistic this particular person is, i ain't goin' lol...i got enough "artsy-ness" within myself, just like any pisces native would, to do my own funeral painting, or whatever bizarre "creative masterpiece" this nutjob is putting together 😛
the uncertainty in some of these responses blows my mind, though...it totally shows off how wonderfully willing a pisces is to look past something that could cause major issues to them...it's a great quality we're born with, but sometimes it's not necessary to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and this is one of those times...
seriously, when was the last time anyone following this post so far, felt it necessary and also deemed it as acceptable behaviour upon being friend-zoned (which is just a euphemism for being rejected), to like...use the person who turned you down as the subject for a piece of artwork?
no-f u k k n-body does that because it's just obsessive, creepy and borderline psychotic...what if someone did this very same thing, only like to one of your children or maybe a grandmother or something like that? i wouldn't just be like "oh well, how good of an artist is this person who is probably a sex offender?"...
this situation is so off-the-wall...lol i almost had trouble figuring out how to explain that it IS in fact a messed up situation...
in my opinion, this is no different than someone looking into your bedroom window while you're changing clothes...
not everyone is gonna agree with me but at least this post should fuel the fire a little bit...or maybe that was my intention to begin with...who knows when it comes to f u k k n' fishes sometimes 😉
--Jack
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😂 I think you are overreacting 😄 I don’t see the problem at all. If it was someone stocking me and then they do this I see your point but if I reject someone I take the responsibility of accepting their way to get over me. Art is a pretty nice way to go about it... I think 😄
Posted by LePetitFisk
Both. Mostly flattered, but low-key suspicious.lol suspicious
how so?
Personally, i might feel like it's an attempt to butter yourself out of the friendzone (which might or might not be effective). But that also depends on the context of the artwork...
so you're saying i shouldn't do it?lol
i just get the urge to draw or paint my memories of some of the times we shared together
it's a curious thing
Well, not necessarily. I mean, I obviously don't know her and I dont want to dissuade you if your feelings for her are platonic and just want to express it. She might just might find it endearing. Perhaps if you don't make the scene too intimate
they are definitely not
i feel like if they were strictly platonic i wouldn't have these urges
i think i'm trying to come up with creative ways to channel that energy until these romantic feelings subside.
it's taking forever though.
it's been over a year.
Does she have to see it? Maybe paint it, get it out of your system... then hide it in the closet.
Then 60 years from now you can show her when she's old, senile and living in a Home. Remind her of the good times. Like The Pisces lesbians version of The Notebook.
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she won't talk to me even rn.
i hope we get to that point even as friends.
i'd love to have her in my future.
i miss her all the time 😢
she makes me laugh
Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldn’t bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal 😊
nah, while i'm generally pretty accepting and agreeable by nature...i have go against the flow with this one because it sounds to me like the beginning of one of those "you can never leave!" horror movies...
don't matter how artistic this particular person is, i ain't goin' lol...i got enough "artsy-ness" within myself, just like any pisces native would, to do my own funeral painting, or whatever bizarre "creative masterpiece" this nutjob is putting together 😛
the uncertainty in some of these responses blows my mind, though...it totally shows off how wonderfully willing a pisces is to look past something that could cause major issues to them...it's a great quality we're born with, but sometimes it's not necessary to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and this is one of those times...
seriously, when was the last time anyone following this post so far, felt it necessary and also deemed it as acceptable behaviour upon being friend-zoned (which is just a euphemism for being rejected), to like...use the person who turned you down as the subject for a piece of artwork?
no-f u k k n-body does that because it's just obsessive, creepy and borderline psychotic...what if someone did this very same thing, only like to one of your children or maybe a grandmother or something like that? i wouldn't just be like "oh well, how good of an artist is this person who is probably a sex offender?"...
this situation is so off-the-wall...lol i almost had trouble figuring out how to explain that it IS in fact a messed up situation...
in my opinion, this is no different than someone looking into your bedroom window while you're changing clothes...
not everyone is gonna agree with me but at least this post should fuel the fire a little bit...or maybe that was my intention to begin with...who knows when it comes to f u k k n' fishes sometimes 😉
--Jack
😂 I think you are overreacting 😄 I don’t see the problem at all. If it was someone stocking me and then they do this I see your point but if I reject someone I take the responsibility of accepting their way to get over me. Art is a pretty nice way to go about it... I think 😄
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i saw that you hid your messages but i still wanted to respond to some of the points you made
i think there is a lot of truth to what you said
EXCEPT
things are little different between two women
especially when you are talking about the friend zone.
friendship does not equal rejection per se
it also does not equate to a non sexual relationship.
also i know that i am crazy but most pisces women find it endearing
my craziness is not scary because it's contained
i'd never actually stalk / harass someone i liked in real life
but i do obsesses when i start to fall for someone and because of my obsessive nature i need some type of outlet
going to the gym helps on some level..at least sexual energy wise
but in terms of expressing all of the intense romantic feelings that come when again i really start to get to know someone and fall for them
.... the only thing i have found to help when i am in some situation where i can't express them ( usually they are dating someone else and i'm too scared to actually tell them how i really feel)
is to find a creative outlet
since meeting this girl I have taken three guitar classes
i have traveled to a different country
i've upped my Mexican cuisine cooking game
and now thinking about taking some painting classes..and I know..that i'll want to use her in a least one piece of work when i'm good enough
Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldn’t bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal 😊
nah, while i'm generally pretty accepting and agreeable by nature...i have go against the flow with this one because it sounds to me like the beginning of one of those "you can never leave!" horror movies...
don't matter how artistic this particular person is, i ain't goin' lol...i got enough "artsy-ness" within myself, just like any pisces native would, to do my own funeral painting, or whatever bizarre "creative masterpiece" this nutjob is putting together 😛
the uncertainty in some of these responses blows my mind, though...it totally shows off how wonderfully willing a pisces is to look past something that could cause major issues to them...it's a great quality we're born with, but sometimes it's not necessary to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and this is one of those times...
seriously, when was the last time anyone following this post so far, felt it necessary and also deemed it as acceptable behaviour upon being friend-zoned (which is just a euphemism for being rejected), to like...use the person who turned you down as the subject for a piece of artwork?
no-f u k k n-body does that because it's just obsessive, creepy and borderline psychotic...what if someone did this very same thing, only like to one of your children or maybe a grandmother or something like that? i wouldn't just be like "oh well, how good of an artist is this person who is probably a sex offender?"...
this situation is so off-the-wall...lol i almost had trouble figuring out how to explain that it IS in fact a messed up situation...
in my opinion, this is no different than someone looking into your bedroom window while you're changing clothes...
not everyone is gonna agree with me but at least this post should fuel the fire a little bit...or maybe that was my intention to begin with...who knows when it comes to f u k k n' fishes sometimes 😉
--Jack
😂 I think you are overreacting 😄 I don’t see the problem at all. If it was someone stocking me and then they do this I see your point but if I reject someone I take the responsibility of accepting their way to get over me. Art is a pretty nice way to go about it... I think 😄
i saw that you hid your messages but i still wanted to respond to some of the points you made
i think there is a lot of truth to what you said
EXCEPT
things are little different between two women
especially when you are talking about the friend zone.
friendship does not equal rejection per se
it also does not equate to a non sexual relationship.
also i know that i am crazy but most pisces women find it endearing
my craziness is not scary because it's contained
i'd never actually stalk / harass someone i liked in real life
but i do obsesses when i start to fall for someone and because of my obsessive nature i need some type of outlet
going to the gym helps on some level..at least sexual energy wise
but in terms of expressing all of the intense romantic feelings that come when again i really start to get to know someone and fall for them
.... the only thing i have found to help when i am in some situation where i can't express them ( usually they are dating someone else and i'm too scared to actually tell them how i really feel)
is to find a creative outlet
since meeting this girl I have taken three guitar classes
i have traveled to a different country
i've upped my Mexican cuisine cooking game
and now thinking about taking some painting classes..and I know..that i'll want to use her in a least one piece of work when i'm good enough
click to expand
I agree with this...
Funny you say that you need a creative outlet 😄 my job is really creative so I get my share out that way... but right now I am going bananas with extra projects I need to do to get some extra energy out... 😂 Learning the guitar, new language, astrology, sport 🙈😂 No body will notice... but you know what I mean smh 🤦♀️
Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldn’t bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal 😊
nah, while i'm generally pretty accepting and agreeable by nature...i have go against the flow with this one because it sounds to me like the beginning of one of those "you can never leave!" horror movies...
don't matter how artistic this particular person is, i ain't goin' lol...i got enough "artsy-ness" within myself, just like any pisces native would, to do my own funeral painting, or whatever bizarre "creative masterpiece" this nutjob is putting together 😛
the uncertainty in some of these responses blows my mind, though...it totally shows off how wonderfully willing a pisces is to look past something that could cause major issues to them...it's a great quality we're born with, but sometimes it's not necessary to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and this is one of those times...
seriously, when was the last time anyone following this post so far, felt it necessary and also deemed it as acceptable behaviour upon being friend-zoned (which is just a euphemism for being rejected), to like...use the person who turned you down as the subject for a piece of artwork?
no-f u k k n-body does that because it's just obsessive, creepy and borderline psychotic...what if someone did this very same thing, only like to one of your children or maybe a grandmother or something like that? i wouldn't just be like "oh well, how good of an artist is this person who is probably a sex offender?"...
this situation is so off-the-wall...lol i almost had trouble figuring out how to explain that it IS in fact a messed up situation...
in my opinion, this is no different than someone looking into your bedroom window while you're changing clothes...
not everyone is gonna agree with me but at least this post should fuel the fire a little bit...or maybe that was my intention to begin with...who knows when it comes to f u k k n' fishes sometimes 😉
--Jack
😂 I think you are overreacting 😄 I don’t see the problem at all. If it was someone stocking me and then they do this I see your point but if I reject someone I take the responsibility of accepting their way to get over me. Art is a pretty nice way to go about it... I think 😄
i saw that you hid your messages but i still wanted to respond to some of the points you made
i think there is a lot of truth to what you said
EXCEPT
things are little different between two women
especially when you are talking about the friend zone.
friendship does not equal rejection per se
it also does not equate to a non sexual relationship.
also i know that i am crazy but most pisces women find it endearing
my craziness is not scary because it's contained
i'd never actually stalk / harass someone i liked in real life
but i do obsesses when i start to fall for someone and because of my obsessive nature i need some type of outlet
going to the gym helps on some level..at least sexual energy wise
but in terms of expressing all of the intense romantic feelings that come when again i really start to get to know someone and fall for them
.... the only thing i have found to help when i am in some situation where i can't express them ( usually they are dating someone else and i'm too scared to actually tell them how i really feel)
is to find a creative outlet
since meeting this girl I have taken three guitar classes
i have traveled to a different country
i've upped my Mexican cuisine cooking game
and now thinking about taking some painting classes..and I know..that i'll want to use her in a least one piece of work when i'm good enough
I agree with this...
Funny you say that you need a creative outlet 😄 my job is really creative so I get my share out that way... but right now I am going bananas with extra projects I need to do to get some extra energy out... 😂 Learning the guitar, new language, astrology, sport 🙈😂 No body will notice... but you know what I mean smh 🤦♀️
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a lot of the stuff i did wasn't 100% because of her too btw
it was more that she inspired me to carry out things i've always wanted to do and thus helping me grow as a person.
i'm glad you have a really creative job 🙂
pisces needs that.
Posted by LePetitFisk
Both. Mostly flattered, but low-key suspicious.lol suspicious
how so?
Personally, i might feel like it's an attempt to butter yourself out of the friendzone (which might or might not be effective). But that also depends on the context of the artwork...
so you're saying i shouldn't do it?lol
i just get the urge to draw or paint my memories of some of the times we shared together
it's a curious thing
Well, not necessarily. I mean, I obviously don't know her and I dont want to dissuade you if your feelings for her are platonic and just want to express it. She might just might find it endearing. Perhaps if you don't make the scene too intimate
they are definitely not
i feel like if they were strictly platonic i wouldn't have these urges
i think i'm trying to come up with creative ways to channel that energy until these romantic feelings subside.
it's taking forever though.
it's been over a year.
Does she have to see it? Maybe paint it, get it out of your system... then hide it in the closet.
Then 60 years from now you can show her when she's old, senile and living in a Home. Remind her of the good times. Like The Pisces lesbians version of The Notebook.
she won't talk to me even rn.
i hope we get to that point even as friends.
i'd love to have her in my future.
i miss her all the time 😢
she makes me laugh
What's a little heartache to remind us that at least the heart is still alive and well...
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exactly
Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldn’t bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal 😊
nah, while i'm generally pretty accepting and agreeable by nature...i have go against the flow with this one because it sounds to me like the beginning of one of those "you can never leave!" horror movies...
don't matter how artistic this particular person is, i ain't goin' lol...i got enough "artsy-ness" within myself, just like any pisces native would, to do my own funeral painting, or whatever bizarre "creative masterpiece" this nutjob is putting together 😛
the uncertainty in some of these responses blows my mind, though...it totally shows off how wonderfully willing a pisces is to look past something that could cause major issues to them...it's a great quality we're born with, but sometimes it's not necessary to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and this is one of those times...
seriously, when was the last time anyone following this post so far, felt it necessary and also deemed it as acceptable behaviour upon being friend-zoned (which is just a euphemism for being rejected), to like...use the person who turned you down as the subject for a piece of artwork?
no-f u k k n-body does that because it's just obsessive, creepy and borderline psychotic...what if someone did this very same thing, only like to one of your children or maybe a grandmother or something like that? i wouldn't just be like "oh well, how good of an artist is this person who is probably a sex offender?"...
this situation is so off-the-wall...lol i almost had trouble figuring out how to explain that it IS in fact a messed up situation...
in my opinion, this is no different than someone looking into your bedroom window while you're changing clothes...
not everyone is gonna agree with me but at least this post should fuel the fire a little bit...or maybe that was my intention to begin with...who knows when it comes to f u k k n' fishes sometimes 😉
--Jack
😂 I think you are overreacting 😄 I don’t see the problem at all. If it was someone stocking me and then they do this I see your point but if I reject someone I take the responsibility of accepting their way to get over me. Art is a pretty nice way to go about it... I think 😄
i saw that you hid your messages but i still wanted to respond to some of the points you made
i think there is a lot of truth to what you said
EXCEPT
things are little different between two women
especially when you are talking about the friend zone.
friendship does not equal rejection per se
it also does not equate to a non sexual relationship.
also i know that i am crazy but most pisces women find it endearing
my craziness is not scary because it's contained
i'd never actually stalk / harass someone i liked in real life
but i do obsesses when i start to fall for someone and because of my obsessive nature i need some type of outlet
going to the gym helps on some level..at least sexual energy wise
but in terms of expressing all of the intense romantic feelings that come when again i really start to get to know someone and fall for them
.... the only thing i have found to help when i am in some situation where i can't express them ( usually they are dating someone else and i'm too scared to actually tell them how i really feel)
is to find a creative outlet
since meeting this girl I have taken three guitar classes
i have traveled to a different country
i've upped my Mexican cuisine cooking game
and now thinking about taking some painting classes..and I know..that i'll want to use her in a least one piece of work when i'm good enough
I agree with this...
Funny you say that you need a creative outlet 😄 my job is really creative so I get my share out that way... but right now I am going bananas with extra projects I need to do to get some extra energy out... 😂 Learning the guitar, new language, astrology, sport 🙈😂 No body will notice... but you know what I mean smh 🤦♀️
a lot of the stuff i did wasn't 100% because of her too btw
it was more that she inspired me to carry out things i've always wanted to do and thus helping me grow as a person.
i'm glad you have a really creative job 🙂
pisces needs that.
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Yes, I love my job... I am super lucky.
It is always good when someone inspires you and makes you grow... it’s like the are here for a reason even if’s sometimes it’s not an easy one 😊
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someone you friend zoned decided to incorporate you in a piece of art they were working on