seaclovers
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pisces men and breakups...
"my question: are pisces not able to let go of ex's?"
We are able to let go of exes, in fact, we regurlarly exercise our ability to completely detach when a relationship is over with ease ... it's called, "Swimming away".
What you have here isn't a problem of the Fish not being to let go .. you have a situation where you are attempting to secure to you a man to whom hasn't completely decided to be done with this prior relationship yet, and because you want him ... you believe he has broken up with her.
"ok hes been dating this girl for the past 3 years, recently theyve been haveing alot of problems and basically broke up. and him and i have been hanging out for the past month-2 months."
To "basically" break up means .... this is the intention, but, has been side-stepped, avoided. To basically do something isn't to literally do it. If he basically broke up with her then he means that he voiced his desire that maybe this isn't working out because we are having tough times right now.
Basically isn't concrete.
In the meantime, you have been hanging out with him, while not giving of yourself to him, nor him giving himself to you, because if you two have become one, as in a relationship of committment then this below quote of yours wouldn't exist ..
"hes already says to me several times that he wants to be with me(i said its cause his ex is literally crazy!! that i cant have him without her)"
That ^^^^^ means you two don't have each other.
So to sum this is ..... basically >>>> you are being jealous of a man to whom belongs to another woman and his heart will continue to belong to her until he moves from basically not with her >>>> not with her.
We are able to let go of exes, in fact, we regurlarly exercise our ability to completely detach when a relationship is over with ease ... it's called, "Swimming away".
What you have here isn't a problem of the Fish not being to let go .. you have a situation where you are attempting to secure to you a man to whom hasn't completely decided to be done with this prior relationship yet, and because you want him ... you believe he has broken up with her.
"ok hes been dating this girl for the past 3 years, recently theyve been haveing alot of problems and basically broke up. and him and i have been hanging out for the past month-2 months."
To "basically" break up means .... this is the intention, but, has been side-stepped, avoided. To basically do something isn't to literally do it. If he basically broke up with her then he means that he voiced his desire that maybe this isn't working out because we are having tough times right now.
Basically isn't concrete.
In the meantime, you have been hanging out with him, while not giving of yourself to him, nor him giving himself to you, because if you two have become one, as in a relationship of committment then this below quote of yours wouldn't exist ..
"hes already says to me several times that he wants to be with me(i said its cause his ex is literally crazy!! that i cant have him without her)"
That ^^^^^ means you two don't have each other.
So to sum this is ..... basically >>>> you are being jealous of a man to whom belongs to another woman and his heart will continue to belong to her until he moves from basically not with her >>>> not with her.
"proclqaiming he wants to be with me"
Proclaiming to have the desire to want to be with you .... isn't the same thing as having you.
Hopefully, you will come to realize what I'm telling you here.
Because he tells you he wants you, and because you want have him .... you have yourself believing that he's yours already .. and he's not .. it is merely a desire in place.
Seaclovers .. this Pisces man you are hanging out with ... his heart is with another woman, and you are his diversion, you are his distraction from his pain he is experiencing with his woman (her).
You need to comprehend that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ so you can protect yourself from emotional injury.
Proclaiming to have the desire to want to be with you .... isn't the same thing as having you.
Hopefully, you will come to realize what I'm telling you here.
Because he tells you he wants you, and because you want have him .... you have yourself believing that he's yours already .. and he's not .. it is merely a desire in place.
Seaclovers .. this Pisces man you are hanging out with ... his heart is with another woman, and you are his diversion, you are his distraction from his pain he is experiencing with his woman (her).
You need to comprehend that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ so you can protect yourself from emotional injury.
yeah i kinda figured that.
thank you p-angel.
but its not that he quote un quote broke up with her.
he actually did.
maybe my wording was a little off
at any case, i do have this feeling that im the other woman, but not his.
he always refers me to being his coworker or a friend, and not anything else.
we have been intimate once
and my thinking is that he refers me to his coworker because they didnt break up too long ago, and hes afraid that she might hear from someone he or we ran into that hes already dating someone else.
and because shes literally psycho its a possibility that hes trying to avoid confrontation with her for it being so soon.
i dunno.
i do agree with you, and im going to ask him about it tonight.
thank you p-angel.
but its not that he quote un quote broke up with her.
he actually did.
maybe my wording was a little off
at any case, i do have this feeling that im the other woman, but not his.
he always refers me to being his coworker or a friend, and not anything else.
we have been intimate once
and my thinking is that he refers me to his coworker because they didnt break up too long ago, and hes afraid that she might hear from someone he or we ran into that hes already dating someone else.
and because shes literally psycho its a possibility that hes trying to avoid confrontation with her for it being so soon.
i dunno.
i do agree with you, and im going to ask him about it tonight.
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ok hes been dating this girl for the past 3 years, recently theyve been haveing alot of problems and basically broke up. and him and i have been hanging out for the past month-2 months. and hes already says to me several times that he wants to be with me(i said its cause his ex is literally crazy!! that i cant have him without her)
anyways, the other night when i was hanging out with him and our other close friend,
another mutual friend stopped by, whom i didnt know, but both of them did, and he asked the fish about his ex, as if they were still dating and he responds saying that they are going through some rough times.
wtf!?
why couldnt he just say they broke up?!
and i was sitting right next to him...
my question: are pisces not able to let go of ex's? cause i really dislike his ex and i seriously dont want him to keep telling people that hes going through rough times with her, while hes hanging out with me and proclqaiming he wants to be with me and blah blah. and i notice that whenever she gets under his skin he gives in, and that pisses me off!!!
i just wanna be like: you need to grow some balls and admit that your not with her anymore and im the one your seeing, but my big saggie mouth doesnt want to hurt his feelings too much.