Pisces says he's in Love but then disappears

Hello guys. I'm reaching out to ask for advice or clarification about this pisces male behavior.

So we met on a social network. We are in 2 different towns. We got along well together. Then he disappeared. After a couple of weeks, he contacted me and told me that he had hard times in his job and things were going downhill for him.

We continued talking and we phoned. At that time, he was feeling down and told me that he might lose his job. I stood beside him and tried my best to lift his spirits up. Then again he disappeared. I contacted him but he didn't respond. Then, he started talking to me and apologized saying that he didn't want me to see him weak. He promised not to repeat this.

We met last week. During the first date, it seemed that we have lots of things in common. We had fun together and we kissed. He told me several times that he's in love, which I found weird because love takes time to develop. He overwhelmed me with his feelings and I had to explain to him that my feelings take time to develop.

We met few more times after and we made out and everything was amazing. We didn't have sex. He told me that he loves kissing me and that he won't pressure me.

He told me that he wants a long-term relationship and that being in 2 different cities doesnt bother him. He even asked me not to leave him.

We stayed in touch via texts but then he disappeared. I sent him 2 texts which he saw but didn't reply to.

I have few questions I'd like pisces males to help me understand.

1. Did he actually have feelings for me?

2. Is he just after sex and because I didn't consent he pulled away?

3. Do pisces males keep their promises?

Please give me your feedback about this and how I should handle this situation. I decided not to talk to him again, but I'm thinking of him because I like him so much.

Another thing is that I left my earrings at his place. they were a gift from a very dear friend and I want them back. I just don't know whether I should ask him to send them to me or just not talk to him at all.

thanks

Posted by librafemale
He told me several times that he's in love, which I found weird because love takes time to develop.

I'd be cautious in investing too much emotionally. Cause your absolutely right, it's weird that he's saying he loves you. He doesn't even know you.

1. Did he actually have feelings for me?

Could be, based on my limited experience (had 1 Pisces bf in college and dated a couple more here and there), Pisces men can fall for someone quickly.

2. Is he just after sex and because I didn't consent he pulled away?

No. I have not yet met a Pisces man who left because of that. Please do not think like this.

3. Do pisces males keep their promises?

Not always.

You barely know this guy and here you are overanalyzing his every word and move .... sounds like you have a lot of expectations and moving fast considering how you emphasized that you need a lot of time to develop feelings. You might want to check yourself to make sure you aren't being a hypocrite.

3. Do pisces males keep their promises?



idk, do Libra females keep their word to themselves when they tell themselves, "I decided not to talk to him again"?

I guess they don't keep that promise, considering your next breath said, "but ..... I like him so much"

Liking someone very much that you have just met is having strong feelings for this person .. liking very much isn't possible for you, according to you, since you require time to develop feelings.

You don't really hold true to your own words.



So, my point here is ... you do the very things you say you don't do. It's apparent to me that you have no clue that you're not the only human involved here.

That's the problem with you kids, and having virtual relations ... you think you're the only ones who are people, and everyone you talk to are nothing more than words on the screen.

Posted by P-Angel
You barely know this guy and here you are overanalyzing his every word and move .... sounds like you have a lot of expectations and moving fast considering how you emphasized that you need a lot of time to develop feelings. You might want to check yourself to make sure you aren't being a hypocrite.

3. Do pisces males keep their promises?



idk, do Libra females keep their word to themselves when they tell themselves, "I decided not to talk to him again"?

I guess they don't keep that promise, considering your next breath said, "but ..... I like him so much"

Liking someone very much that you have just met is having strong feelings for this person .. liking very much isn't possible for you, according to you, since you require time to develop feelings.

You don't really hold true to your own words.



So, my point here is ... you do the very things you say you don't do. It's apparent to me that you have no clue that you're not the only human involved here.

That's the problem with you kids, and having virtual relations ... you think you're the only ones who are people, and everyone you talk to are nothing more than words on the screen.

Take it easy P - Angel.. Someone is having a bad day here..

I posted this as a case. I didn't provide lots of details. I wanted to get some understanding of his dealings and why not this would help me understand such a character in the future.. So it doesn't make sense that you leave the main point and start criticizing me.. If you have something healthy to add, please go ahead. If not, spare us all the trouble.

AND

If you have a problem with Libras, please go and fix it somewhere else please.

FYI, liking (so much or not) is based on observable facts and doesn't necessarily mean strong feelings.. Love is when strong feeling get involved, when you get to know the person deeper and when things get more intense and little less rational... You might like someone in the beginning but then you either dislike them or the liking develops into love..

Of course, since I'm talking about a thing that happened to me, my post should be subjective. Or else why am I writing it here.

And yes, I won't talk to him.. I put my self-esteem on top.