Pisces Venus in 11th House.

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Natal Venus in the 11th House
With your natal Venus in your 11th house, you like to be friends with someone first before getting involved with them romantically. You can stay friends with them after you break up, and it's important for you to have an intellectual connection with someone. You want someone who??s an individual, who??s original, and who??s unusual. Quirky types are right up your alley. You value your friends and are highly sociable. You may belong to many groups because you like the feeling of belonging. You may be a humanitarian, and like doing work that helps people or the planet.

11th House in Pisces
You??ll do anything for your friends, but need to make sure that you see them for who they really are, and accept them as such. You??re very charitable, and will give far more than you have. Your dreams tend to involve helping others, or are wildly fantastical.

http://www.thedarkpixieastrology.com/the-11th-house.html
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And I have only just recently begun to see how my behavior (not my ideas, motives, or words) tends to encourage this.

I'd been legitimately oblivious.



Oh yeah, I can relate. Though I'm not a Pisces Venus, but any 11th house placement can easily have problems with boundaries, mainly allowing people too much, fme. I can get myslef into very uncomfortable situations with male friends or people in general (11th house Sun too) by not being aware of how I come across or not setting clear enough boundaries. And much like you, I was completely oblivious, I only started being aware when a few people pointed it out to me. I keep convincing myself that the situation is "normal" (non-romantic/sexual - purely friendly) when from the sidelines it's obvious that it's not. Sometimes I just can't help it, I could easily say "stop doing/saying that" but it won't come out. I don't know why.

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What do you mean only boyfriends/girlfriends support their friends dreams and help them deal with their sexual frustrations with their own bodies? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

Next you'll tell me allowing them to cuddle you, share food and buying them presents is also dating territory.

...oh.

What about flirting with them playfully with no intention to marry them all?

...Oh, okay.

...there isn't anything wrong with watching romantic movies and having candle lit dinners is there?
Oh. ๐Ÿ˜

Gawd what CAN you do with friends that don't send "I wanna keep you for myself" vibe? GAWD.