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Truly loving and self-less Pisces?
For me, selfless actions are actually tied in with selfishness. I do selfless things because they bring joy to me. As far as hate, I understand that everyone has a good side and everyone has problems they deal with. It's easier to forgive when you can look outside the bad parts or actions and understand that. Some things go beyond that line, of course, to where I can't forgive, though.
Perhaps other Pisces are different, but this is how I relate to the topic.
I don't think I really experience the feeling of hate, for much time anyways.
For example, there were some girls who stabbed my good friend in the back, and so I felt hateful towards them for a short amount of time (we talked some shit about them for like half an hour), and then I felt guilty for my feelings afterwards.
I still don't like them, and am angry with them, but hateful? No. I don't like that strong of a negative emotion within me for too long.
Posted by jeannegrey
Ehhh they are not self-less, they just feel everyones emotions and soak them up, and are very sensitive. They are so sensitive and feel so deeply that they cannot stand the thought of inflicting the kind of pain they themselves have experienced a time or two onto others... so be kind to Pisces !! and don't make them give more than they can. They will feel obligated to do so--- and let you drain them dry because they feel they have to.Sometimes though...if pushed hard enough, they will retreat completely (swim away) or they will go away from you for good. This is them saying "enough is enough!" They will not lash out... only swim away. This is their version of "selfish" ... but even then it is KIND, because they do it in the most unhurtful way possible.
But because they are not direct or straightforward (because they don't wanna hurt you) sometimes they wind up getting accused of being two faced or "shady"... but this is not true either, it just comes back to them not wanting to hurt others. But self-less? IDK, I don't think anyone is TRULY. We all jsuy have different versions of what it means to be dignified, and "good people".. Pisces definition is about not hurting others, but sometimes at the expense of his won energy, space and time.
😢 So please be kind to all PISCEANS!! Be aware if you are draining them !!
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Posted by jeannegrey
Ehhh they are not self-less, they just feel everyones emotions and soak them up, and are very sensitive. They are so sensitive and feel so deeply that they cannot stand the thought of inflicting the kind of pain they themselves have experienced a time or two onto others... so be kind to Pisces !! and don't make them give more than they can. They will feel obligated to do so--- and let you drain them dry because they feel they have to.Sometimes though...if pushed hard enough, they will retreat completely (swim away) or they will go away from you for good. This is them saying "enough is enough!" They will not lash out... only swim away. This is their version of "selfish" ... but even then it is KIND, because they do it in the most unhurtful way possible.
But because they are not direct or straightforward (because they don't wanna hurt you) sometimes they wind up getting accused of being two faced or "shady"... but this is not true either, it just comes back to them not wanting to hurt others. But self-less? IDK, I don't think anyone is TRULY. We all jsuy have different versions of what it means to be dignified, and "good people".. Pisces definition is about not hurting others, but sometimes at the expense of his won energy, space and time.
😢 So please be kind to all PISCEANS!! Be aware if you are draining them !!
Can't say I agree with much that was said here, but it is a stereotypical Pisces description.
LOL ^ watch out fishinamaize all the loving self-less pisceans are going to love you to death
Posted by fishinamaize
lol well i'm mmmkay with pisces loving me to death, because pisces only love interesting things. that's why we love ourselves first and foremost 😄
lol
Strangely enough, that is exactly what we (everyone, that is) are supposed to do.
If you don't love yourself first and foremost, you will unable to love and care
for anyone else.
Posted by jeannegrey
Posted by Scenic
Posted by jeannegrey
Ehhh they are not self-less, they just feel everyones emotions and soak them up, and are very sensitive. They are so sensitive and feel so deeply that they cannot stand the thought of inflicting the kind of pain they themselves have experienced a time or two onto others... so be kind to Pisces !! and don't make them give more than they can. They will feel obligated to do so--- and let you drain them dry because they feel they have to.Sometimes though...if pushed hard enough, they will retreat completely (swim away) or they will go away from you for good. This is them saying "enough is enough!" They will not lash out... only swim away. This is their version of "selfish" ... but even then it is KIND, because they do it in the most unhurtful way possible.
But because they are not direct or straightforward (because they don't wanna hurt you) sometimes they wind up getting accused of being two faced or "shady"... but this is not true either, it just comes back to them not wanting to hurt others. But self-less? IDK, I don't think anyone is TRULY. We all jsuy have different versions of what it means to be dignified, and "good people".. Pisces definition is about not hurting others, but sometimes at the expense of his won energy, space and time.
😢 So please be kind to all PISCEANS!! Be aware if you are draining them !!
Can't say I agree with much that was said here, but it is a stereotypical Pisces description.
Well not all people are carbon copies Scenic, but I am sure everyone has their own word. I am not like EVERY scorp I know either, but some of the steretypical traits ring true for me .... also, I have like 10 Fish in my immediate circle, my Father included. All of which to some degree fit this. Its not a bad thing, Pisces are lovely people, my faves actually 🙂
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Obviously. I feel like the cliche stereotypes don't often fit pisces, though. At least, that's what I get from the responses around the board (from more knowledgeable users). You may see pisces that way but they might see themselves as completely different.
Posted by fishinamaize
lol well i'm mmmkay with pisces loving me to death, because pisces only love interesting things. that's why we love ourselves first and foremost 😄
😄
Pisces are ONLY true loving and selfless when it suits them ...
the fish swimming in opposite directions:
I care
I don't give a fuck
^^^ at the same time
So, people actually believe that that is selfless and true loving?
no, not even one bit
Posted by jeannegrey
How is school?
School is good, but not relevant to this topic at all. I would appreciate it if you refrained from mentioning it, unless relevant. There are plenty of ageists on this site and while I mention college when it's relevant, I don't like it being brought up much more than that. If you want to actually have a convo about stuff like that, then send a PM. My inbox feels neglected, anyway.
Posted by Scenic
Posted by jeannegrey
How is school?
School is good, but not relevant to this topic at all. I would appreciate it if you refrained from mentioning it, unless relevant. There are plenty of ageists on this site and while I mention college when it's relevant, I don't like it being brought up much more than that. If you want to actually have a convo about stuff like that, then send a PM. My inbox feels neglected, anyway.
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why couldn't you tell her this in a PM? just curious...
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by Scenic
Posted by jeannegrey
How is school?
School is good, but not relevant to this topic at all. I would appreciate it if you refrained from mentioning it, unless relevant. There are plenty of ageists on this site and while I mention college when it's relevant, I don't like it being brought up much more than that. If you want to actually have a convo about stuff like that, then send a PM. My inbox feels neglected, anyway.
why couldn't you tell her this in a PM? just curious...
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The reason doesn't matter.
Posted by Scenic
Posted by jeannegrey
Ehhh they are not self-less, they just feel everyones emotions and soak them up, and are very sensitive. They are so sensitive and feel so deeply that they cannot stand the thought of inflicting the kind of pain they themselves have experienced a time or two onto others... so be kind to Pisces !! and don't make them give more than they can. They will feel obligated to do so--- and let you drain them dry because they feel they have to.Sometimes though...if pushed hard enough, they will retreat completely (swim away) or they will go away from you for good. This is them saying "enough is enough!" They will not lash out... only swim away. This is their version of "selfish" ... but even then it is KIND, because they do it in the most unhurtful way possible.
But because they are not direct or straightforward (because they don't wanna hurt you) sometimes they wind up getting accused of being two faced or "shady"... but this is not true either, it just comes back to them not wanting to hurt others. But self-less? IDK, I don't think anyone is TRULY. We all jsuy have different versions of what it means to be dignified, and "good people".. Pisces definition is about not hurting others, but sometimes at the expense of his won energy, space and time.
😢 So please be kind to all PISCEANS!! Be aware if you are draining them !!
Can't say I agree with much that was said here, but it is a stereotypical Pisces description.
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sterotypal cat ladty pisces description is bullshit, hello are you new on the pisces board?
Posted by hydorah
sterotypal cat ladty pisces description is bullshit, hello are you new on the pisces board?
Hola! No, I've been here for about 3 years maybe? I took a little hiatus, though. I don't think we've ever talked, but I remember seeing you around. : )
this was just a joke question (I've only been here for like two months or sthg)
Posted by hydorah
this was just a joke question (I've only been here for like two months or sthg)
Are you sure this isn't the actual joke? (a year and a half is a good amount of time to be around!)
I'm bad at catching jokes online, though, tbh.
I don't really know how long I've been here tbh
Pisces moon here, if that counts. I just give that much of a damn. So many fucks, all inside this heart, you cannot even fathom LMAO
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If so, what gives them this quality or nature? I'd love to know. I tend to look up Pisces celebs (usually musicians) that I like and some of them seem to be so self-less, in a good way. One grew up with an abusive father, and wrote a song about forgiving him basically. Another is so kind to people, absolutely nonw of his songs are about people or anyone who's done him wrong. Like there is no ounce of hate in them. Anger, sure but hate, rarely. This boggles my mars in Scorpio and mars oppose north node in Taurus.