Hemispheres
@Hemispheres
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Question about my Pisces...
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Me as well...
I will add she is good friends with all the performers. She knows most of them by name and introduced me to a few of em.
But the age thing has me thinking I'm just a boytoy based on her actions.
Posted by BonesMaloneI was thinking that aswell, maybe she doesn't want anyone to know she dating a younger guy. She now claims it's "nexus" and her friends are his friends.
Maybe she's insecure about the age difference & doesn't want anyone judging her. I can be very secretive about my relationships. But that roommate situation sounds like pure unadulterated bullshit! Don't trust her...
According to her he's a very skiddish and passive aggressive guy. He doesn't talk much and expects everyone to initiate conversation with him, if you don't talk to him much he gets upset and doesn't want anything more to do with you. She also claims he's a "puppy dog" and wants to be around her all the time but has told him he's on his own on days we spend together. I've got him on FB and there isn't any relationship info between the two of them nor do they post pics of each other. We met on a local meetup site and she has pretty much has stopped posting online or logging in as have I, and I do remember a while back she jokingly texted me asking to borrow my gun because she was going to shoot him for going off on her after she told him she wanted to be able to go out on her own. She said "I'm not bowing down to this asshole".
Either way I told her I need to meet him and get to know him so we can get past this rut, if she resists and doesn't want us to get to know each other I'm calling it off.
That's also valid, I've been taking it slower than usual following the last relationship. I made her aware that I had been single for about 2 months prior to us meeting due to the ex screwing a co-worker. She seems to understand where I'm coming from and despite me not caring or asking about it she shows me texts she gets from guy friends.
The latest change of plans just had me wondering.
The latest change of plans just had me wondering.
^^^ What MagicPowas says. Maybe you need to have the "official" talk. I will say this much regardless of the signs if there is no mutual trust that is not off to a great start. If you can't trust her maybe you need to question if you want to be "official". I think most pisces like to be in relationship. I know I keep my relations private until we are both on the same page.
Posted by BonesMaloneI haven't asked but to me it seems he's only around
Her roommate sounds like he's off his meds! She should be able to go out whenever she wants & with whoever she wants without hearing his whining. Her description of him doesn't sound like a normal well adjusted person. Does she have any plans of moving out?
because its saving her money and she is having financial issues. She just recently took a side job to help pay bills.
Just about 3 months now.
And yes we have a blast whenever we hang out.
Oh goodness. That pluto opposite venus crazy is in there.
Posted by 88akkaYes we're official, asked me my opinion on where we stand a month ago and I said we're a item. Take the condescending bitch attitude and shove it up your ass.Posted by HemispheresQuestion? Is she your girlfriend?, have you made it official with her so she can call you her boyfriend in public and in private?
Just about 3 months now.
If not why would she call you her boyfriend in public if you have not made it official.
You are part of her private life and private means private. Why should the whole world need to know you guys are having something going on between you two? Women and men at her age are more careful and prefer to keep her private life where it belongs, as private.
It's her choice if she wants to share that she is seeing you or anyone else. If you are in fact her boyfriend and have made it official with her and she is calling you her friend then I should be worrying about it. But if you are not her boyfriend, she is saying the truth..
I as a Pisces like to keep my private life private.. Till I call a man the one, is when people will know he is part of my life, not just any man I start to date.
She is perfectly fine. You want her to call you her boyfriend in public, ask her to be your girlfriend. simple as that. The roomate has no business knowing she is involved with you or any other man, nothing wrong with that.
Your trust issues are your issues, not hers.click to expand
Posted by tizianiRead the rest of the thread in question. She contacted me apologizing for standing me up twice and said she felt bad and was still interested. She's put much more effort into keeping her word when we make plans & not bailing like she did the first two times. She'll contact me a day or so ahead of time until waiting until the last minute like she was doing.
I can't really see how that would be grounds for suspicion. Some people are just naturally like that at the beginning of any relationship.
If this is the same Pisces woman you said you were done with, then I'm not reproaching you for keeping on seeing her. But you're better off acknowledging that you told her (unless I'm mistaken and you only told the boards) you were done with her and even outright told her she was a catfish before you met? The point is you've set about a lot of inconsistency on your part and any woman is going to wonder herself, where you're really coming from.
I don't care what anyone had to say, introducing someone you're dating as a friend, after you've already called them your boyfriend is good reason for suspicion.
Posted by deezieCan you elaborate please, I knew nothing of natal charts up until a few months back and haven't the slightest cluein interpreting them.
Oh goodness. That pluto opposite venus crazy is in there.
Posted by tizianiI'm a Taurus, I'm faithful to the end, old fashioned and traditional. She's old fashioned and values love and relationships as well.
It's far more likely to be a question of different values rather than suspicion.
From what I've gathered, she's not into casual sex or any of that nasty shit. A good woman. She has baggage of her own, I recall her telling me about her parents putting her up for adoption at a young age and how if she had the time or funds she'd go looking for them. I also recall shortly after we began dating her asking what I thought of her. I told her she had most of not all of the qualities I look for in a woman and how rare it was to find that, especially in the area I live in. She then asked me in some sad tone of voice if she was so great then why has she been single for an entire year.
Are you unattractive? Is your dick little?
Posted by KaptainKhaosAsk your mom, when I was done with her the walls on the other side of your bedroom were soaked.
Are you unattractive? Is your dick little?
You're not good enough for a Pisces. go get a cap or a virgo.
Posted by HemispheresOkay I just did. She says your dick was really little and your a minute man. She plans to never speak to you again (:Posted by KaptainKhaosAsk your mom, when I was done with her the walls on the other side of your bedroom were soaked.
Are you unattractive? Is your dick little?click to expand
Posted by HemispheresClearly you're not good enough. We've all been backburner bitches before. Isokay 🙂Posted by tizianiI'm a Taurus, I'm faithful to the end, old fashioned and traditional. She's old fashioned and values love and relationships as well.
It's far more likely to be a question of different values rather than suspicion.click to expand
Kap, go sit in the corner and put on your dunce cap until you've learned to properly troll.
Posted by HemispheresI'm not troll so noooooooooooooooooo.
Kap, go sit in the corner and put on your dunce cap until you've learned to properly troll.
She claims once I get to meet the roommate and he takes to me she won't have any issue with it.
And for some reason I'm not seeing some of the replies. Are the servers about to crash again?
Posted by KaptainKhaosLMAO...Posted by HemispheresOkay I just did. She says your dick was really little and your a minute man. She plans to never speak to you again (:Posted by KaptainKhaosAsk your mom, when I was done with her the walls on the other side of your bedroom were soaked.
Are you unattractive? Is your dick little?click to expand
Posted by PV&JellayWelp that took care of it.Posted by HemispheresDo you have anyone on your blocklist? There is a bug in the system, if you jave anyone on your blocklist dxp will randomly hide posts...even of people you don't have blocked.
And for some reason I'm not seeing some of the replies. Are the servers about to crash again?click to expand
Posted by PV&JellayPosted by HemispheresWhat's her history with this guy? How long does she want to delay you meetings him?
She claims once I get to meet the roommate and he takes to me she won't have any issue with it.
Perhaps her roommate has feelings for her in some way, and she shot him down. She may be trying to pacify his feelings by not introducing you right away, but she's only delaying the inevitable. Also, if she trusts his opinion, she may be waiting til she is secure how she feels about you before introducing you to her roommate who disapproves of EVERYONE she dates. He'll put doubts in her head and make her question herself, especially if she is prone to dating the wrong guys.click to expand
Like I said she's known him for 15 years, following the divorce he turned into a little bitch. She says he's 38 and creeps on 20 somethings at the park.
I'm a Pisces who dates younger men...on average 8-12 years younger than me. I think....she has a secure relationship/friendship with the roommate and doesn't want to threaten that. She needs to know that if he chooses to abandon her, that you'll be there. I'm flocked by male friendships and some of those used to be these powerfully binding flirtationships. I'm a woman that needs that male energy anchor in my life. I love my female friends to DEATH, but I just can't do the girls club 24/7. Sorry...well, no...I'm not sorry. I LOVE MEN...period.
So, if you're going to step in and step up to fill the gap that not having the security of her male roomie would leave in her life, then let her know that you want to be that anchor. The last man who told me that is still around. We don't kick it and talk like we used to...we definitely no longer have make out sessions, but he's there...in the shadows. He'll be there until I get married. He has a girlfriend with two kids and I'm very respectful of their relationship, but for real...if and when I need him...he's going to be there. He even says til this day....she knows what it is and has known since day one.
So, if you're going to step in and step up to fill the gap that not having the security of her male roomie would leave in her life, then let her know that you want to be that anchor. The last man who told me that is still around. We don't kick it and talk like we used to...we definitely no longer have make out sessions, but he's there...in the shadows. He'll be there until I get married. He has a girlfriend with two kids and I'm very respectful of their relationship, but for real...if and when I need him...he's going to be there. He even says til this day....she knows what it is and has known since day one.
Posted by HemispheresBingo...she and I have something in common. Abandonment issues. I could sense it by how she acts as if she despises the protective dedication of her roomie. She might find it annoying, but she NEEDS it.
From what I've gathered, she's not into casual sex or any of that nasty shit. A good woman. She has baggage of her own, I recall her telling me about her parents putting her up for adoption at a young age and how if she had the time or funds she'd go looking for them. I also recall shortly after we began dating her asking what I thought of her. I told her she had most of not all of the qualities I look for in a woman and how rare it was to find that, especially in the area I live in. She then asked me in some sad tone of voice if she was so great then why has she been single for an entire year.
Posted by KsamCancerI dug through all my comments from two weeks ago and nowhere did I say it she was perfect. And asking someone out and actually dating them is two different things. I'm dating her, I asked her out months ago.
Wasnt this the girl you thought was perfect 2 weeks ago? And declaring that you're an item isn't asking a girl out.
Alright, she called me baby. I'm feeling better. 🙂
Posted by HemispheresSilly moo-moo.
Alright, she called me baby. I'm feeling better. 🙂
Posted by HemispheresLMBO!!! Taurus men. Smh...I genuinely like y'all, but you guys are confusing to me.
Alright, she called me baby. I'm feeling better. 🙂
Posted by BonesMalonePosted by HemispheresLmfaooo!!!
Please think of deez nutz roasting on an open fire.click to expand
I'm a bit tipsy right now so the sillyness i bound to come flying out.
Posted by MsTeeq1974Well us Taurus's can be stubborn and possessive soooo....Posted by HemispheresLMBO!!! Taurus men. Smh...I genuinely like y'all, but you guys are confusing to me.
Alright, she called me baby. I'm feeling better. 🙂click to expand
In any case next date is all planned out, she asked for details and she loves the beach we're going too and is excited. I'm damn good 😄
No offense but I find Aires to be extremely arrogant and self serving individuals, so well agree to disagree.
Placements in aries can give aires like personality traits. My gemini moon and merc give me my take it or leave it attitude, and my cap outer planets explain why working conditions effect me emotionally more than others.
Call it whatever you like, I believe communication is key in a relationship so I asked some other pisces what they thought and made sure this woman and I were on the same page.
Danka.
Posted by 88akkaThis...and beware that there are a few members here who may seem like they're giving good advice, but in almost every single relationship difficulty post they're quick to tell you to leave your partner. Lol ha ha ha...eff that. I'm just warning you. I've seen it from those same people so many times that it's hilarious. They actually don't mind broken relationships as a result of a minor rocky road. Just make it clear that you're NOT leaving your woman and just looking for insights and they'll leave you alone...if any of you bitter Betty's are reading this post...y'all need to stop that shit. LMBO!!!Posted by HemispheresNo one knows her like you do, don't rely on responses from strangers unless they know you inside out and know her as well. If you let people from here guide you, you may regret it. I'm telling you this is why she guards your relationship with her so well because people can be very annoying and put negative thoughts in your head that weren't even necessary.
Call it whatever you like, I believe communication is key in a relationship so I asked some other pisces what they thought and made sure this woman and I were on the same page.
Take care and good luck with the Pisces -click to expand
Welp I'm probably done with this Pisces.
I had planned tonight's date out for weeks now, fought with my manager to get tonight off which included working doubles out the fucking ass, covering someone else's shifts they could cover one of mine.
Yesterday she tells me she's all excited but didn't know what time she'd make it, now she's sick and cancelled on me after all the fucking effort I put into this.
Given she's cancelled on me last minute a couple of times before with some random excuses I'm contemplating dropping her and moving on.
I had planned tonight's date out for weeks now, fought with my manager to get tonight off which included working doubles out the fucking ass, covering someone else's shifts they could cover one of mine.
Yesterday she tells me she's all excited but didn't know what time she'd make it, now she's sick and cancelled on me after all the fucking effort I put into this.
Given she's cancelled on me last minute a couple of times before with some random excuses I'm contemplating dropping her and moving on.
Wow... and she disappeared off my facebook page. Yep, I'm done.
Yeahhhh gtfo from that. Just the thought of flakiness while dating makes me cringe.
The sad part is I could sense this coming a few days ago. She starts becoming distant and ignoring my texts or doesn't reply for hours when she becomes moody and starts pmsing. After she cancelled on me I told my boss Id work next Friday since I only have 3 days at my night job this week and after today I didnt feel like meeting her next Friday either. She became all defensive and mean then turned arounf and blocked me on facebook like a spiteful child.
I'm done with her after this. If my boss found out I didn't go on the date after all the shit I put her through to get tonight off Id probably get fired
She tried claiming as soon as she cancelled that's she's sick and that she told me so last night, however she did no such thing. She said she can't wait until tonight and then first text of the day is I can't make it.
Called her out on the bs and she threw a fucking tantrum
Called her out on the bs and she threw a fucking tantrum
Obviously dealing with an emotionally unstable woman which isn't surprising given things I just recently found out about her. Got married in 2013 and divorced sometime in 2014 and claims she's been single for a year despite telling me her ex bf cheated and got a girl pregnant. So either it was her ex husband or shes been through a lot of men here recently and is trying to hide it.
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She claims her ex cheated on her and knocked someone up which is what keeps me from from just out and saying she's seeing someone else. She claims her roommate and her have been friends for 15 years and following a divorce he has shown he has a crush on her and gets upset from time to time, claiming all she ever dates is guys who treat her like shit which is why she doesn't want him to know we're dating.
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