Pisces,What kind of men do you prefer.Im confused?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by shyleo92 on Tuesday, May 5, 2015 and has 16 replies.

What Kind of Men Do Pisces Women Prefer?

Pisces women are attracted to genuine, caring men who show emotional depth. They may be drawn to sensitive and complex partners but also appreciate confidence and strength. Preferences vary, but authenticity and kindness are key traits that appeal to Pisces women.

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@shyleo92
11 Years

I've read & heard a lot that Pisces women like men who are depressed/complicated/aloof whom they can basically mother & look after in a babyish way.

Then I've read other Pisces saying they like manly men who are confident and take charge.

So which one is it?

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@Magenta_Azure
17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by shyleo92
I've read & heard a lot that Pisces women like men who are depressed/complicated/aloof whom they can basically mother & look after in a babyish way.

Im afraid youve gotten us mixed up with Cancers. We're not into man-children.

We like people that know how to give us space, inspire us, sex us good, can teach us something. Id imagine we also like intelligence, patience, maturity, and a person that is open to deep, passionate emotions and transcending love.

Or maybe thats just me 🙂

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@estellajones
15 Years

I personally don't really like to mother my man, but to an extent I do want to take care of him

I prefer a man, a real man who takes care of himself and his family who is confident and in charge and someone I know who can protect me..

I'm an Aries Venus though so I think most of what I look for is a fire sign, my exes have either been a fire sign or if an earth sign was dominated by a fire sign somewhere lol

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@AL4813
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by estellajones
I personally don't really like to mother my man, but to an extent I do want to take care of him

I prefer a man, a real man who takes care of himself and his family who is confident and in charge and someone I know who can protect me..

I'm an Aries Venus though so I think most of what I look for is a fire sign, my exes have either been a fire sign or if an earth sign was dominated by a fire sign somewhere lol

hmmm...

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@BullFish
11 Years

Taurus Moon, Venus in Aries

I like men who know themselves. I like confident aggressive go-getter types that can kick my typical go with the flow mind frame in the butt. I also like men who are open minded and not typical. In bed I like sensual yet dominating types.

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Intelligent. Empathetic.Financially Responsible.Strong.Always striving for self Improvement.Passionate.Different than most men as in he is an independent thinker and is not influenced by mass media and or mob thinking.

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The sexiest man I've been attracted to would be my current political science professor.
He's a Scorpio with an Aries Moon and a mercury in libra.

At 6'3 , he's chiseled ( he has to because he is a cancer survivor and needs to take care of his body to stay in remission)
Some might consider him "to be slightly effeminate".

I think he's merely "a mama's boy" who doesn't give a treetrunk about the dynamics of the socially constructed role of the male gender that one has to play in order to garner respect. He loves to show his emotions as well as his evolved sensibilities regarding the struggles and rights of marginalized groups such as women, african americans , gay and transgendered people etc.....
He's a self proclaimed feminist who identifies as being queer in the political sense.*thud*

He cooks for his wife every night , picks up his kids from school , has built his second home with his bare hands. He obtained his PHD by the age of 30. Is tenured. He makes around 250k.Takes his family to France every summer and is proud of his son whose is an aspiring ballet dancer.

He met his wife at 18.

*sigh*

All of the good ones get snatched up early.

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@Resurrected
11 Years

We want to know your heart but is that a weakness? I think that people put theses bad expectations on our sign because they deem us as weak. My man is a Aquarius and he is not that emotionally available but he has always been there for me showing me he cares and loves me. If he has weakness he doesn't show it on the outside. I will say that he has help me to not be so emotional but he doesn't just cut off my emotions either he just doesn't responds the way that I would like him too all the time but I think I need that tough love. Anyone can drop into self pity if they don't watch themselves depression is only meant to go down a dark spiral that is why God says keep your mind on high things. I think if you foundation is strong then you are strong. I think all people need the opposite of their sign in some way but there is nothing wrong with experiencing the same kinds of love that you give out either. Who wants a mother boy it way too much work.

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@pierdol
12 Years

I like a guy who is very nonchalant and stoic but sappy and cute and romantic around me. Not too mushy though, i'll pass on the flowers at my front door bs. Just wanting to tell me about their feelings and deepest thoughts. It's makes me feel more special than any grand gesture ever could.
thats my number one thing. but as well, good humour, intelligence, the mental connection are all very important.
i like a guy who is a little bit protective but not overbearing.
appearance wise he has to be bigger than me. i can do with height. i date a lot of skinnier tall guys. as long as i can wrap myself up in his arms.
good sex is also key.
and, i tend to fall for guys who i am friends with first. it's a good basis for relationships (but unfortunately in all my cases, devastating when it ends).
~Pisces sun leo moon

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@Hemispheres
11 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

The one I'm dating can be extremely emotional and gets down over some of the smallest stuff...

She's obviously physically attracted to me, but she did mention how she wanted to prove to me that not all women are bad after the ex.

Do definately the nurturing, emotional type.

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@aliquiox
11 Years

I like men with a strong sense of self and individuality, I have a very strong personality so he has to be able to deal with my thoughts and opinions. I am not looking to mother anyone, but I do like to nurture and take care of him. It's complex and simple, just talk about your feelings and then go shoot dinner for us to eat.