Re-visiting a pisces... Still fishy

So i've gone on a couple of dates with this guy before and we've had great chemistry both times, but between first and second date it was a real struggle to commit to a time and date, mainly from his end. All he wanted to do is catch up last minute. We kept in touch a little after date one then he said things don;t feel right and i said ok no worries.

Second time we crossed paths we joked that it's meant to be but there was same drama and i he wouldn't answer my messages or suggest he comes over and i told him off saying he needs to respect women and not try and lock them in when he has nothing better to do (yup didn;t have a good day but no regrets there).

Since then it must have been about a year and i decided to reach out as i moved closer to his area and he responded as i was being cheeky. I thought it'd be nice to have a casual thing maybe and we started trying to find time to catch up. Over a month later we were both out and came home around the same time so we took a walk and sat in the park. We talked for hours and there was touching, kissing, but all very respectful. He messaged me right after. I haven't heard from him a few days so i messaged something casual to which he replied and we had a chat then there was another couple of days quiet and i said there is outdoor movies on atm, i want to go and he should come with. He replied with asking me what movies i like and i replied and asked what he's doing Wednesday. That was Friday now it's Monday and no response.

I felt like it was much easier this time around and he wasn't trying to get into my pants although at that point he could have, but i'm really struggling with this head in the clouds appearing and re-appearing when he wants thing. If that's just a sign of a pisces not being interested i'd like to close that chapter.

Thank you!

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Pisces and fishy lol

Posted by AerialView
Pisces and fishy lol

We are not that fishy 😄 He is just not that interested in her

Posted by Gemsgem
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Don’t waste your time.

Posted by Gemsgem
Since then it must have been about a year and i decided to reach out as i moved closer to his area and he responded as i was being cheeky. I thought it'd be nice to have a casual thing maybe and we started trying to find time to catch up. Over a month later we were both out and came home around the same time so we took a walk and sat in the park. We talked for hours and there was touching, kissing, but all very respectful. He messaged me right after. I haven't heard from him a few days so i messaged something casual to which he replied and we had a chat then there was another couple of days quiet and i said there is outdoor movies on atm, i want to go and he should come with. He replied with asking me what movies i like and i replied and asked what he's doing Wednesday. That was Friday now it's Monday and no response.

I felt like it was much easier this time around and he wasn't trying to get into my pants although at that point he could have, but i'm really struggling with this head in the clouds appearing and re-appearing when he wants thing. If that's just a sign of a pisces not being interested i'd like to close that chapter.

Thank you!

Maybe tell him straight up your looking for something casual/fwb. Cause in his mind he made a move and was rejected aka friend zoned. Now YOUR the one who is the aggressor (which is why he's not responding to the movie bait) and he's thinking your after a friendship.

Ehh poked him again after almost a week with a casual fun tone-d message and he responded saying he would like to hang as friends. I said it was disappointing as i do feel chemistry with him but nothing i can do if he doesn't feel the same. Then send him a pic of my pancakes as he mentioned he wants me to help him learn cooking aaaand was left on read. I'm quite resilient i think so i would be able to be friends but this just sounds like code for "i'll keep you around just in case i get bored". Meh.

aaaand was left on read. I'm quite resilient i think so i would be able to be friends but this just sounds like code for "i'll keep you around just in case i get bored". Meh.

Girl I've been there! At least he said he'll hang out with you! Mine won't even see me. haha 😢

I have to say, I do respect a straight forward response. When someone tells me (with words not actions) their not interested, it makes moving on much easier!

Posted by SadgeGirl318

aaaand was left on read. I'm quite resilient i think so i would be able to be friends but this just sounds like code for "i'll keep you around just in case i get bored". Meh.

Girl I've been there! At least he said he'll hang out with you! Mine won't even see me. haha 😢

I have to say, I do respect a straight forward response. When someone tells me (with words not actions) their not interested, it makes moving on much easier!

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It really does, i wish more people were upfront! and stick to their plans haha some guys say lets be friends then keep flirting and in your head you know they just want attention but your heart has hope.

He still hasn't talked to me though so i don't think we will make it as friends, i like to hang out and talk to people i call friends and not be left on read for days lol that shit will get called out real quick!