jdla
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Relationship with a Pisces guy.
"Its seems like everything offends them ..."
"I am scorpio female."
Nuff ......
"I am scorpio female."
Nuff ......
Well, I not trying to be rude. They are complicated.
LOL! @ p-angel.......be nice the scorp needs help....
"How do you treat them when you are in a relationship with them?"
there's no rule book on that, it depends on the pisces, what will work for one might not work for the next. talk to him and ask him what you need to do. i unintentionally offended my virguy and when i later discovered this, i told him to next time tell me so that i could make it up to him 😉 (you what i'm saying?). he liked the idea and it diffused the issue. i find that being direct with men in general cuts through the bull a lot quicker.
"When you overcome one problem, they create another one. They don't like confrontation and always want to play the victim so they can get away with what they did wrong."
this sounds more about immaturity than anything else.
good luck...
"How do you treat them when you are in a relationship with them?"
there's no rule book on that, it depends on the pisces, what will work for one might not work for the next. talk to him and ask him what you need to do. i unintentionally offended my virguy and when i later discovered this, i told him to next time tell me so that i could make it up to him 😉 (you what i'm saying?). he liked the idea and it diffused the issue. i find that being direct with men in general cuts through the bull a lot quicker.
"When you overcome one problem, they create another one. They don't like confrontation and always want to play the victim so they can get away with what they did wrong."
this sounds more about immaturity than anything else.
good luck...
Rudeness/politeness/consideration/diplomacy .. attitude holds no revelance with me, I read words .. not hear tone online.
You said everything seems to offend .. my answer is that being a Scorpio is enough reason ..
"They don't like confrontation and always want to play the victim so they can get away with what they did wrong."
And will continue to do so, so long as it's your aim to mold him into admitting he's done something wrong.
Accept or swim ..... how complicated is that?
You said everything seems to offend .. my answer is that being a Scorpio is enough reason ..
"They don't like confrontation and always want to play the victim so they can get away with what they did wrong."
And will continue to do so, so long as it's your aim to mold him into admitting he's done something wrong.
Accept or swim ..... how complicated is that?
"talk to him and ask him what you need to do"
Phishy has the right idea ... ask him what you need to do, instead of trying to force him into confrontations for you not liking his actions.
The Fish responds negatively to control .. try bending you to meet him and he will likely respond positively.
Phishy has the right idea ... ask him what you need to do, instead of trying to force him into confrontations for you not liking his actions.
The Fish responds negatively to control .. try bending you to meet him and he will likely respond positively.
Well P-Angel, I am only trying to get advice. Please don't take my words offensive. I not trying to make Pisces look like they have issues. I do like him. If you have any advice that would be great.
I don't scream or yell at him. What I mean by confrontation is having an open communication. I can not read his mind. He does even tell me what is bothering him. How am I supposed to know what do?
I did give you advise ..
No its true, there feelings are easily hurt. You have to choose your words carefuly with them.
"Please don't take my words offensive. I not trying to make Pisces look like they have issues. I do like him. If you have any advice that would be great."
Is this what you say to him after he has offered his mind?
No wonder you believe, "I can not read his mind. He does even tell me what is bothering him."
"How am I supposed to know what do?"
Actually put on your listening ears.
Is this what you say to him after he has offered his mind?
No wonder you believe, "I can not read his mind. He does even tell me what is bothering him."
"How am I supposed to know what do?"
Actually put on your listening ears.
why does it seem like jdla is making her point—......hmmmmmm
I understand jdla.
No, but I have a feeling you do...outhouse.
Phishy, don't be so naive ... Scorpio's never need help .. they need whipping posts.
lol
LOL! p-angel....i am not naive.....i just thoutht it was a funny observation that's all...
scorp: phishy's are so sensitive
phishy: NO THEY'RE NOT!
LOL.....funny......
scorp: phishy's are so sensitive
phishy: NO THEY'RE NOT!
LOL.....funny......
So what should I do?
There pretty resilient. They wouldnt be around if they werent. I find they secretly enjoy the harshness.
"So what do i do?"
oh.......now i'm clear about his actions.......
so um............p-angel, where did you put the whip?
oh.......now i'm clear about his actions.......
so um............p-angel, where did you put the whip?
....and the post.
...and the rope...
.. strap-on ..
"When you overcome one problem, they create another one."
Did he ask you to overcome a problem for him?
Did he think it was a problem to have to overcome?
Did he ask you to overcome a problem for him?
Did he think it was a problem to have to overcome?
"I am scorpio female."
Nuff ......
no kidding, right...
Nuff ......
no kidding, right...
How to treat your PISCES
February 19 - March 20
for Pisces Sun, Moon or Rising people or...strong Neptune or 12th House
The Pisces gives love constantly. The moment you withhold love from your Pisces, or treat your Pisces even a little bit harshly, you've opened the door to great sadness . Pisceans don't understand cruelty - even if it comes unwittingly from them. And the sensitive nature of Pisces makes him susceptible to great hurt. If you want to keep him around, be aware of your words and actions, and your Pisces' reaction to them. If he slinks off and hides, you know there's some serious heartache going on!
The Pisces needs compassion, water, creative or spiritual surroundings, an atmosphere of peace and calm, and ample opportunities to show off her many talents and ideas. Pisces loves to learn, and needs to be provided with information and ideas to help keep the creative juices flowing.
So be sure to provide your Pisces with imaginative, uplifting and beautiful entertainment. Don't overwhelm her with frightening images such as one might see in a violent movie. Pisces would rather not dwell on such things, and is much healthier when exposed to natural, peaceful or spiritual imagery.
Feed your Pisces with love and kindness, a sincere interest in his many dreams and ideals, respect for her creations, quiet, secluded outings, romantic conversation and your own spiritual idealism.
Wake your sleepy, dreamy night-fish up in the morning, help your Pisces find the way in crowded places, guide him through confusing times and hold her hand while crossing the street. You will be rewarded with a sweet, gentle and unconditional love.
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The WATER signs, Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces, are emotional & imaginative, they strive for meaningful connections ..............water is our reactions, the way we flow into each others hearts and merge energy
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Mutable signs are flexible and mobile - Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces
http://www.mooncatsastrology.com/astro/kittypisces.htm
February 19 - March 20
for Pisces Sun, Moon or Rising people or...strong Neptune or 12th House
The Pisces gives love constantly. The moment you withhold love from your Pisces, or treat your Pisces even a little bit harshly, you've opened the door to great sadness . Pisceans don't understand cruelty - even if it comes unwittingly from them. And the sensitive nature of Pisces makes him susceptible to great hurt. If you want to keep him around, be aware of your words and actions, and your Pisces' reaction to them. If he slinks off and hides, you know there's some serious heartache going on!
The Pisces needs compassion, water, creative or spiritual surroundings, an atmosphere of peace and calm, and ample opportunities to show off her many talents and ideas. Pisces loves to learn, and needs to be provided with information and ideas to help keep the creative juices flowing.
So be sure to provide your Pisces with imaginative, uplifting and beautiful entertainment. Don't overwhelm her with frightening images such as one might see in a violent movie. Pisces would rather not dwell on such things, and is much healthier when exposed to natural, peaceful or spiritual imagery.
Feed your Pisces with love and kindness, a sincere interest in his many dreams and ideals, respect for her creations, quiet, secluded outings, romantic conversation and your own spiritual idealism.
Wake your sleepy, dreamy night-fish up in the morning, help your Pisces find the way in crowded places, guide him through confusing times and hold her hand while crossing the street. You will be rewarded with a sweet, gentle and unconditional love.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
The WATER signs, Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces, are emotional & imaginative, they strive for meaningful connections ..............water is our reactions, the way we flow into each others hearts and merge energy
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Mutable signs are flexible and mobile - Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces
http://www.mooncatsastrology.com/astro/kittypisces.htm
Hey Y'all,
It's Dreamy-Eyez. I read the post by "jdla". Babe, you just need to fall back and relax, because there ain't nothing more irritating than someone whose trying to get inside your head and heart. (I know, because these are my vices.) He will come to you when he is ready to talk about a certain issue. If you continue trying to pin him and down to talk, he's going to slip from under you so fast that you'll be like one of those cartoon characters who'll spin numerous times before falling flat on your ass. Sit back and relax, babe.
Dreamy, out.
It's Dreamy-Eyez. I read the post by "jdla". Babe, you just need to fall back and relax, because there ain't nothing more irritating than someone whose trying to get inside your head and heart. (I know, because these are my vices.) He will come to you when he is ready to talk about a certain issue. If you continue trying to pin him and down to talk, he's going to slip from under you so fast that you'll be like one of those cartoon characters who'll spin numerous times before falling flat on your ass. Sit back and relax, babe.
Dreamy, out.
@ Dreamy I totally agree.
Anytime, babe.
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