Said goodbye to Pisces today

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I dumped the Pisces today. Not because I'm afraid he will chase after all the college girls (he seems to be focusing on his artwork and his friend's wedding lately), but because I'm simply not happy with him being gone and us not talking to each other much anymore. Without him around and with him wanting some space, the relationship felt dead anyway. I moved here so that I could be happy and make a better life for myself, and I am not about to be lonely again and wait around for months in the hopes that he will eventually decide he wants to stay with me and come back around. I don't have time for that. If he's not sure that he likes me anymore, then I need to make myself available to the men out there who DO know that they like me. I'm not sure what all is eating at the Pisces' mind lately, and he has every right to think on it and try to figure it all out for himself. But I won't put my own life on hold and be lonely and wait around for him to figure it all out. I thanked him for the beautiful memories and told him I would always love him and that I hope he can understand my point of view. He didn't reply, so I can only assume that he doesn't care and that he isn't bothered by me wanting to call it quits and just be friends. Oh well, I guess it's better than us both having hard feelings towards each other about it.
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Do you really think he is sad about it? Even if he is, I had to do this. I just wasn't happy being away from him and having to "play it cool" while waiting for him to decide if he wants to still be with me or not. I don't want to deal with that stuff anymore, and I no longer have to settle for that now that I'm living in such an urban area with plenty of other available fish in the sea (no pun intended). If he still likes me and wants to be with me, then he can just step up and say so and show it.
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Do you really think he is sad about it? Even if he is, I had to do this. I just wasn't happy being away from him and having to "play it cool" while waiting for him to decide if he wants to still be with me or not. I don't want to deal with that stuff anymore, and I no longer have to settle for that now that I'm living in such an urban area with plenty of other available fish in the sea (no pun intended). If he still likes me and wants to be with me, then he can just step up and say so and show it.

but you over reacted and probably you hurted him and eluesive i'm serious *D
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Honestly, I don't see how I overreacted. I've never yelled at him, insulted him, or made a big production out of him wanting to re-evaluate things. If anything, I've been extraordinarily patient with him. But several of my friends have said that they think he is trying to indefinitely string me along and keep the relationship on his terms only and that I should walk away from him and make myself available to other men out there who are interested in me without needing to "think about it". This is something I must do for my own good, and it does feel very empowering to be the one to make a choice. I don't want to be lonely and alone while hoping that he might one day come back around and decide he wants to stay with me; life is too short for that. He needs to either claim me as his woman or let me go. Maybe my decision will be what he needs to light a fire underneath him and goad him into making a decision. Either way, I will always think fondly of him. I will never speak negatively of him to other people and if he ever needs me to assist him with something, I'm sure I would be happy to. We also have many mutual friends and I plan on keeping it that way. I just can't put my life on hold for several months and be lonely while waiting for him to figure out what he wants.
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I don't see how I have acted "obsessive" with this Pisces at all. If that were the case, then I wouldn't have told him TWICE that I think we should call it quits and just be friends. If I were being obsessive with him, then I would be doing everything in my power to make him stay with me.

Pisces told me that he wanted me to "chill out" also, but I can't chill out and be unhappy at the same time. I think by "chill out" he meant that he wanted me to just put up & shut up and let him take his sweet ole time to do whatever he wants while I patiently sit by and wait for him. Sorry, no can do. I have a life to live too, and I have needs too...needs that he is not fulfilling right now. I need a man who is present in my life, affectionate, knows he wants to be with me, and non-distant. He is none of those things right now. I want to be happy and right now he is making me unhappy. The best and only thing I can do for myself right now is to cut him loose and try my luck with someone else. He will always be a friend to me and I will always be there for him if he ever needs advice or a favor, but I will not wait around for him while life passes me by. He just has to understand and accept that. I wish him all the best.
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I think by "chill out" he meant that he wanted me to just put up & shut up and let him take his sweet ole time to do whatever he wants while I patiently sit by and wait for him. Sorry, no can do. I have a life to live too, and I have needs too...



"So instead of taking his needs into consideration... I decided to pre-empt the relationship to "protect MY feelings" instead of letting things naturally flow so our true feelings could be revealed. NO! I'll be in control of this situation, thank you!

Then, I tried to manipulate , by ending it in hopes he would "see the light and come running back to me."

Just a different way of seeing it, I guess...
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Whatever his needs are, I respect them...but not to the point where I am willing to put my life on hold for the next several months while waiting for him to sort it all out. I'm not a selfless martyr here and it's not like we're married or been in a relationship for several years. He's free to think and do what he needs to do while I continue to live my life and enjoy myself. When/if he ever gets it all figured out and decides to come back around, if I'm not already dating someone else then we will talk and see what we both want to do at that point. But I'm betting that he never comes back around wanting to rekindle things. No matter what he says, I get the feeling that he never had any intention of coming back again. "I need some time to think" is classic man-speak for "I want to break up with you but don't quite have the courage to say so." If he TRULY cares about me and wants to be with me, then he will get up and come to me.

And the Capricorn is a completely different issue...he is totally different from the Pisces. The Cap was a selfish asshole who screws everything up and just decided one day out of the blue that he wanted to disappear from the face of the earth. Some of his own friends don't even associate with him anymore. As indecisive as he seems to be right now, the Pisces has never just suddenly up and disappeared on me without an explanation. When something began to go awry for him, he spoke up and told me so. And I appreciate that. I care very much about him and what is going on on his life, and he is always welcome to come talk to me about anything. But I have to take care of myself and not put my own life on hold waiting around for him when he is most likely done with me anyway. No woman with an ounce of self-respect would sit around for months or longer waiting alone for a man to make up his mind!!
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Posted by shellshocker
"So instead of taking his needs into consideration... I decided to pre-empt the relationship to "protect MY feelings" instead of letting things naturally flow so our true feelings could be revealed.


Yes the feelings WERE freely flowing and I came to the conclusion that I wasn't happy with the way things were going. I don't think either of us was happy. And I thought hard about this for a few weeks before deciding what to do.
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Posted by shellshocker
"So instead of taking his needs into consideration... I decided to pre-empt the relationship to "protect MY feelings" instead of letting things naturally flow so our true feelings could be revealed.


Yes the feelings WERE freely flowing and I came to the conclusion that I wasn't happy with the way things were going. I don't think either of us was happy. And I thought hard about this for a few weeks before deciding what to do.
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I'm just letting the board know what I've done and inviting any insightful feedback. But all I ever seem to get here is nasty hateful criticism as if I could do nothing right. If I had begged him to stay with me, you all would have ripped me apart for it and called me desperate and obsessive. If I had decided to sit around alone for months and months hoping and waiting for him to make up his mind and come back around, you all would have ripped me apart for being pathetic for waiting for a man who clearly doesn't want me anymore. And because I've made the choice to go ahead and let him go, now you're all ripping me apart for being selfish and manipulative. There is NOTHING I could have chosen to do about this situation that wouldn't have drawn nasty insults and criticism from you all, so I don't know why I even bother to post.
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"So instead of taking his needs into consideration... I decided to pre-empt the relationship to "protect MY feelings" instead of letting things naturally flow so our true feelings could be revealed.


Yes the feelings WERE freely flowing and I came to the conclusion that I wasn't happy with the way things were going. I don't think either of us was happy. And I thought hard about this for a few weeks before deciding what to do.



I'm just letting the board know what I've done and inviting any insightful feedback. But all I ever seem to get here is nasty hateful criticism as if I could do nothing right. If I had begged him to stay with me, you all would have ripped me apart for it and called me desperate and obsessive. If I had decided to sit around alone for months and months hoping and waiting for him to make up his mind and come back around, you all would have ripped me apart for being pathetic for waiting for a man who clearly doesn't want me anymore. And because I've made the choice to go ahead and let him go, now you're all ripping me apart for being selfish and manipulative. There is NOTHING I could have chosen to do about this situation that wouldn't have drawn nasty insults and criticism from you all, so I don't know why I even bother to post.
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that's all bullshit, drama

3 months isn't months and months. and how long has he been gone for? You are all about assumptions.. on how YOU see everything. black and white
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Three to four months is more than long enough to sit at home twiddling my thumbs alone waiting and feeling unhappy. I've spent longer periods of than that waiting for guys to come around who never did. It was a sad waste of my time and life. I won't be doing that ever again. If he truly cares and wants to make this work, then he will reach out to me and talk to me about it. I'm open to working it out if he WANTS to. Otherwise I'm moving on without him. We have both agreed that we want each other to be happy with or WITHOUT each other.
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Yes Elusive, I have thought about everything and I still came to the conclusion that I'm not happy and cannot accept this situation as it is. It's just not good for me.

Maybe I should have more clearly stated it, but I guess I was hoping to see if any Piscean experts might give me some feedback on what he might be thinking or feeling right now after reading my break-up email. I still care about him and want to keep him in my life as a friend, so his thoughts and feelings do matter to me. Of course, he probably isn't going to tell them to me, so I thought maybe some experts could give me some general insight into his thoughts & feelings on this.
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Oh believe me Elusive, I have PLENTY to do with my time now that I've moved. I've been spending 10 hours or more per day getting my new apartment cleaned and fixed up, and I've also been studying my ass off for my insurance license during every other waking moment so that I can begin working ASAP. I start work as a resort server on Monday night, but I will also be selling health & life insurance policies as soon as I'm licensed and legal. And when I am no longer working on my apartment or studying, I'll be spending plenty of time at the beach. But still, I have been single for a long time and I do not enjoy it. I want and need someone to share my life with and be intimate with. And if he can't do that for me right now, then I won't bother waiting for him. Not when there is such a large population of single men to choose from here. I didn't have that option where I used to live (i.e. the middle of nowhere).
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Hi, MermaidPrincess.

Even though I have no Pisces placements, Saturn and Neptune are planets I can strongly relate to even if their respective natures contradict each other. I just feel like offering a little insight on this, just like you asked. You are free to ignore if you don't think it fits your situation.

From what I've just read, I don't see any problems. What I see is two people who realized they were completely incompatible with each other. The fish tends to "go with the flow", they just let themselves go. And it looks like you tried to do the same and it worked for a while. But then reality kicked in and you felt desperate. You felt him distant, like he was letting go of your hand. Also you realized you were loosing sight of your own boundaries and became scared. You were afraid you were about to lose control over yourself. You knew he wasn't going to give you the security you needed in case you lost yourself. So what you did next was to strongly set your boundaries again, thus interrupting the flow. With this you returned to your comfort zone and regained control. However, what does this mean to the fish? What does fish do next? Fishes are unable to break through boundaries. This is why they try to make them dissipate. But when they are unable to do that, the only choice they have is to let the flow take them to another place. They just slip through obstacles, unable to (or simply not wanting to bother to) break through them.

You may want to read about Saturn and Neptune. The conflict between those two planets was apparent in your relationship. Saturn is all about reality, restriction and boundaries. While Neptune is about fantasy and always tries to unify (opposed to Saturn, which separates). I'm interested in taking a look at your charts, just for the sake of it. I think it's pretty safe to say he won't be back unless you are up to let yourself go a little. That will most likely not happen (with him at least) though, so i think it would be best for you to be well by yourself. You may want someone more grounded and stable next time?

Hopefully that helped.
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Oh believe me Elusive, I have PLENTY to do with my time now that I've moved.

Not when there is such a large population of single men to choose from here. I didn't have that option where I used to live (i.e. the middle of nowhere).



Wow.. thick as wood... and twice as deceptive

basically, you're saying you pretty much USED this Pisces to get out of your shit hole town... and now that he isn't doing what you want him to do.. you'll cut him loose and open your legs to the bounty of men you now have access to. how can you expect people to respect behaviour like that?

All the rest of your post was... "me, me, me... i am so great"

Just like bluegrass.. knew that thread wouldn't last too long...

her deceptive behaviour had her disguising her lust for a co-worker as "winning friendship" .. while she was married. Hey, people do that but at least admit it and stop trying to look for validation by posting your story on a public forum.

I bet she is trying to USE this Pisces too cause her husband is about to go bye, bye. She can feel it. So... she is going to pre-empt that relationship by trying to manipulate this Pisces into a "friendship" that leads to more and possibly causes the split of her marriage. She had every right to vacate and involve others, right? HER needs weren't being met.

Honestly MP... how long have you been single for?
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Shellshocker, I didn't "use" the Pisces for anything...least of all to move from my home state. I made that move completely on my own and of my own accord. He just waited 5 months for me until I moved there because he met me before I moved and apparently liked me enough to wait around until I moved to his area. But once I finally got here, he decided he needed to "think about things" and ran off to Gainesville. Oh well, I came here to make a better life for myself and be happy, and I plan to do that with or without him. He says he's doing great up in G'ville, so I doubt he is very torn up about my decision to move on. That's why I don't see what the big deal is about me being a "mean" person to him...he doesn't seem unhappy about any of this at all, does he? It looks to me like this is what we both want.
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He just waited 5 months for me until I moved there because he met me before I moved and apparently liked me enough to wait around until I moved to his area.



do you not see the hypocrisy in your needs being met... but you being unable to return the gesture?

but you can't wait 3/4 months for him.... still you justify, justify and twist your words (the rest of your post)

*shake it off, shellshocker... and walk away*
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There's a big difference here, Shellshocker: I wasn't being distant and ignoring him while he was waiting for me to move. We kept in constant contact and I made an effort to talk to him whenever he wanted to communicate with me. I even let him come up to my home state to see me and meet my family. Right now he is barely talking to me, he mostly ignores me, and he has not invited me up to visit him. Can you not see the difference here?? I was open to him while he was waiting for me to move closer to him...and he is shutting me out right now while I am waiting for him to return home (if he ever does). So your point is completely moot.
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I meant to type "Enormouos."
sorry.



I can assure you I am not looking to hear that Pisces is torn up about me calling it quits with him. As I stated earlier, it seems to me that he is not bothered at all by my decision. He didn't say anything at all about it, so I can only assume it doesn't matter to him. And that makes my decision easier to make since I know it won't hurt him.
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That is true, Piranhaparadise, I don't have a lot of patience. All I know is that I'm not happy with the situation right now and I just don't have the patience to wait it out until December to see what happens...especially when I can't guarantee that the situation would ever change for the better. That is why I made this decision. Patience has never been a virtue of mine.

Well as a pisces thats will hurt my feeling specially if i had some emotion for you so dumbing him was way to fast and why you didnt tell him the way you feel before acting like that?
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Posted by 88pisces
I meant to type "Enormouos."
sorry.



I can assure you I am not looking to hear that Pisces is torn up about me calling it quits with him. As I stated earlier, it seems to me that he is not bothered at all by my decision. He didn't say anything at all about it, so I can only assume it doesn't matter to him. And that makes my decision easier to make since I know it won't hurt him.
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Why you say that?? pisces feel almost everything you say.
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Well to be totally honest love seeker, I truly believe he stopped caring for me and that was one of the reasons why he decided to move away for a few months. I didn't really want to call it quits with him, but I didn't like the current situation one bit and I felt as if I has already lost him anyway. So I just closed the lid on the coffin so to say. Later on I did tell him that he was one of the best things that happened for me here in FL and that I don't regret one second of the time I spent with him. Again, no response, so I can only assume he doesn't care and that he stopped caring long before I ever said those words. :-/
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The truth, which can be found in her history postings ...



She lied to Pisces about her fidelity. Her life with Pisces was going so well that the two arranged for a move, so they could be in closer proximity of each other, and then once the dust settled and she knew she had him .. she revealed to him that she had indeed slept with someone else, and had been lying about it.


At that moment, he backed off from her.


So, this isn't a matter of her deciding that she wants to better her life and leave the Pisces .. this isn't her decision at all. He left her because she's a liar.
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Well to be totally honest love seeker, I truly believe he stopped caring for me and that was one of the reasons why he decided to move away for a few months. I didn't really want to call it quits with him, but I didn't like the current situation one bit and I felt as if I has already lost him anyway. So I just closed the lid on the coffin so to say. Later on I did tell him that he was one of the best things that happened for me here in FL and that I don't regret one second of the time I spent with him. Again, no response, so I can only assume he doesn't care and that he stopped caring long before I ever said those words. :-/

After or before you dumb him?
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Well I didn't mention that only 2 days after the Pisces told me he wanted some space to think, he invited me over to his house to go skinny dipping. He had seen me out and about that night, and even though I didn't approach him, I guess he thought I was looking good and wanted to have one last sex session before telling me he was going to be moving away. Of course after that rendezvous was over with, he went right back to wanting space the next day. LOL Typical guy behavior, I guess.
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It was actually a pretty good night. After we went swimming, we sat together in his mancave sanctuary and just chilled and talked while he smoked weed. Lol He never mentioned our argument, so I played it cool and didn't bring up either. I figured he must have gotten over it and wanted to start over, because at one point he said something like "Well if you're gonna be hanging out with me from now on, then..." Apparently he wasn't really over it after all.
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Anyway, my whole point of posting my reply was to point out that he must not have been THAT hurt by what I did, because two days later he invited me over to his house to hang out and fool around. Then the next day it was right back to "needing time and space to think about things" again. So he obviously wasn't heartbroken enough to not want to get physical with me anymore.

Anyway, he doesn't miss me at all. He's reliving his college days up at U of F and partying it up and chasing young college girl tail. He's suddenly become nasty to me, giving me this big spiel about how he "never wants to ever get married and be a traveler for the rest of his life" (don't see how that last part is gonna happen once he signs his life away to the military) and how he doesn't like me or want to talk to me. He wants rid of me out of his life and mind because right now he just wants to live out this little fantasy no-responsibility-party-24/7 life for the next few months. I witnessed the exact same behavior with an old friend of mine years ago when he got it into his head to start hanging out with a new crowd of people and live a "new life". He started shunning all of his family and friends, left his wife, began drinking every day, bought a new motorcycle, hanging out at biker bars, and sleeping with a bunch of married women. We all think he was doing drugs too. The Pisces guy isn't doing anything THAT extreme, but he IS going through a change right now and he is coping with it by retreating into a fantasy world of endless partying, no working, and no responsibilities. And he doesn't want me in his mind because I remind him of the world outside of this fantasy. I remember how difficult it was dealing with my old friend when he suddenly went into that weird phase and began shunning everyone he knew from his ordinary life, and so I know without a doubt that I do NOT want to endure that a second time around. Whenever people are trying to escape from reality like that, they cannot be talked to or reasoned with. They have to eventually come back to reality on their own. So I'm going to avoid him for the next few months until he gets himself straightened out. To be quite honest, I'm really not that attracted to a guy who doesn't want to work and just wants to pretend he's back in college again. I understand he's got some thoughts to deal with, such as his impending entry into the Service, but living on a college campus when you're already done with school is just pathetic.
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I've read many times that Pisces "retreat into a dream world" when the real world gets too difficult for them to handle. And that seems to be exactly what he's doing...retreating into a dream world where he's a "big college man on campus" again and free to party it up with no responsibilities. And it's not just me who thinks this either. Several of his friends and my family have said the same thing. There's only one thing to do here and that is to walk away and let him get this out of his system.
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Posted by MermaidPrincess

Anyway, my whole point of posting my reply was to point out that he must not have been THAT hurt by what I did, because two days later he invited me over to his house to hang out and fool around. Then the next day it was right back to "needing time and space to think about things" again. So he obviously wasn't heartbroken enough to not want to get physical with me anymore.

Anyway, he doesn't miss me at all. He's reliving his college days up at U of F and partying it up and chasing young college girl tail.







You broke up with him to attempt to get him to come running to you ... there would no other reason for you to have to try and make the point that he must not have been that into you. If a woman breaks up with a guy for sincere, true purposes then there are no expectations.

You have tons of expectations attached to that point you want to have.

Then he calls you up for a fuck, you go running to climb on his dick ... then when he disregards you like the slut you acted like (the climbing on his dick after breaking up with him) .. he realizes clearly now that you're a piece of ass to him because that is the mentality you have about it The Point.

Then the final sentence quoted above is the opener for a long paragraph in which you continue to cry about him not missing you and partying at college .... because you still think you are manipulating him, and have zero brain cells telling you that he got your game figured out the moment you told him you lied to him about fucking another man.


No, he doesn't care about you, and he doesn't miss you ..... how thick-headed are you in that you will continue to convince people of something we got from your first sentence, in which you have no clue what it means because you're still trying to tell anyone who will listen.


You lied to him, he swam, unless he's horny and you oblige like the slut you must be.

Any questions?
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So I'm going to avoid him for the next few months until he gets himself straightened out.







You act like you have control over him and it's up to you.

He broke up with you when he realized you lied to him about fucking another man.

Of course you will avoid him because he totally ignores you unless he needs to fuck.

You are so wrapped in your delusion that you think you are giving him a lesson or punishing him, or shunning your attention from him .... in reality, he broke up with you. He is avoiding YOU.


And then you talk about reality?



lol ... why is it always the Scorpios who become crazy when they can't face reality?
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P-Angel you can fuck yourself right in your ass!!! Who the fuck are you to call me a slut you fucking piece of shit loser?!?! Having intercourse with a man I was IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH, even while taking a break, does not constitute being a slut. Keep your sexist mysoginistic hatred to yourself, you worthless old cunt. FUCK YOU.

Intrigued, let me clarify that I didn't sleep with him to see if he still liked me. He invited me over to the house that night and I took him up on his offer thinking he was ready to come around and make ammends. So I just played it cool and neithet of us mentioned the argument. That was the night he told me the news he was going to be moving away for a few months. I just found it amusing later on that he would claim to be so hurt but then change his tune 2 days later. You are correct in that he and I were not together yet when I had last had sex with someone else. And when he put me on three spot and asked me about my sex history face-to-face, I was embarrassed to talk to him about it that early on and I couldn't just ignore his questions when he was right there in front of me. So I fibbed. Later on when I got to know him better and trusted him more, I told him the true time span. That's what he got upset about. I realize now that I should have asked HIM about his sex life and seen if he was comfortable enough with telling me all his details. You seem to be the only person on this board who seems to understand that point. Thank you. And honestly, I don't WANT any guy who wants to live in a fantasy world by pretending to be in college again. Wanting to be free and enjoy life is one thing...moving onto a college campus, not working, and pretending to be a carefree student all over again when you've already graduated is just stupid and immature. I need a guy with some priorities & responsibilities in his life, and right now Pisces is not it. Obviously the morons like P-Angel missed that part, because they seem to think I am wanting him to miss me and come back to me. My statement that he doesn't miss me or care about me was just that--stating an observed fact. It doesn't mean I'm pining away after him. And quite honestly, after all the skanky girls he's messing around with up there I don't know if I'd feel comfortable letting him touch my body ever again. Eww.
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uote>Posted by IntriguedScorp

Well if a man pisces or not is going to get butthurt because you lie about when you slept with someone BEFORE you started dating, then they can take a hike. Who needs someone who can't understand that a girl might not want to give away all her secrets upfront like that? I think it sounds petty. Scorp is better off without him, IMO.

I'd be pissed if someone I met made a big deal out of that even after I explained myself. Not worth another second of my time.

On the other hand, sleeping with the guy to find out if he is hurt that you left? Nothing but games with a capital G. G for grow up, as well.




Her sleeping with another man wasn't before ....


Posted by MermaidPrincess

I revealed to him that I hadn't been 100% honest with him about my sex life. When he came to Illinois to see me, he had asked me how long it had been since I'd slept with anyone else. I had actually hooked-up with someone not long after I first met him, but out of embarrassment I told him it had been a year since I'd gotten laid. When I finally came clean about it, he was upset with me for lying to him.

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She slept with another man WHILE she was seeing the Pisces ... and any person should get butthurt over thier partner lying to them for a whole year.


At any rate, it isn't about that anylonger ... it's about her now proclaiming to us as if she had decided to rule the relationship, and she has decided to make him wait a couple months, as if he's waiting in the balance on her Majesty .... when in reality, he dumped her ass the moment she came clean with her lie.

sounds like he doesn't mind getting his dick wet on her .... and sounds like she doesn't mind being his whore
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She sounds a lot like the Deluded Scorpio who is oblivious to any voice except her own .... she too wrote on and on about how she pinned away for a man ... a man to whom was engaged and she wrote him a love letter trying to win his heart over.

No matte what anyone said, it was as if she was stuck inside a fantasy.


this lady sounds the same way .... she is obviously stuck in a fantasy, and has no clue of the reality around her
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Posted by MermaidPrincess

I did NOT sleep with anyone else while I was dating the Pisces. I am not a cheater and never have been one. I slept with someone else BEFORE Pisces and I became a couple.







When in reality, when the two of you met, there was an instant connection, on that day the two of you began a 6 month long-distance relationship in which he he kept in constant contact with you.


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I've been seeing a Pisces guy for 6 months now. (I'm a Scorpio) We met back in early March through a mutual friend on the final night of a trip I took to Florida. We seemed to instantly click that first night we met and he kept trying to kiss me. He was sad to see me leave, but I told him I would be returning in 5 months to stay forever. We stayed in touch through Facebook, and a few weeks after meeting me he got my phone number from someone and began texting me. So throughout the next 5 months while we were 1,200 miles apart, he kept in constant contact with me.

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In reality, there was no actual dating because you and him were facebook and text buddies .. however, from that first night you two met and you instantly clicked .... that is when this relationship started.


You're a fucking liar and there's nothing you can do to save yourself in dxp .. you've been exposed for who you really are.
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Oh my fucking God...since when does meeting someone and clicking together constitute an instant relationship?!?!?! Give me a fucking break, only a clingy freak with attachment issues would meet someone and instantly think they're in a relationship. Ours began later on after we began discussing it. Oh but wait... We never really were in a relationship after all because you just contradicted yourself and said we WEREN'T in a relationship because it was mostly long distance at first. LMAO... Make up your fucking mind already P-Angel. You really need to get laid. Lol
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Oh what, no response to that P-Angel?? What you got nothing to say now that I just pointed out your absurd contradiction?? Yeah that's what I thought, dumbass. You can't be in a relationship and not be in a relationship at the same time. What kind of dimensional time warp are you living in?? Must be the senility of old age setting in. And you don't instantly become in a committed relationship with someone the minute you meet them...unless you're one of those bunny-boiling Fatal Attraction types. When Pisces and I first met, we were attracted to one another but certainly not in a relationship. That came later on after we talked about it. Until then, we were both free to see and sleep with whomever we wanted. That's why I thought it was a little absurd that he became upset with me for disclosing to him that my last sexual partner was after we met. I'm sure he was still hooking up with other girls when we first met and before we became exclusive, so he has no right to be pissy that I didn't automatically become monogamous with him the minute we met. IntriguedScorpio understands this point, but clearly you and several others do not. But again, I have become less attracted to him ever since he decided to quit his job and move to a college campus just so he can play Frat Boy for a few months. That whole event just smacks of immaturity to me, and I can easily find plenty of other guys who aren't trying to relive their long lost college days.
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I don't need anymore advice, Elusive. In the last few days I have gotten clarity on my decision and I am even more certain now that I made the right choice. Pisces is just way too immature for me at this current point in time. When he gets his shit together, then maybe I'll reconsider being with him. The only reason I keep posting here is because some people keep twisting my own words and calling me nasty names to the point where they NEED to be corrected. P-Angel calling me a dick-wetting whore who was both in a relationship and not in a relationship (which isn't even logically possible) needed to be called out.
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