seperate friends?

i was making an observation (which then became an observation of a specific sign) on friendships. and then i thought maybe i was the same way and i have my reasons which i will express.


it might sound a bit selfish, but i find that i keep my group of friends seperate. only because i think that joe would probably never get along with jane because of their obvious differences. joe might be a bit shy and introverted while jane is loud and beligerent. i'd get a different kick out of hanging with jane, and if i want someone to simply chill out with i'll call joe? so i may keep them in seperate groups just to keep my circle of friends in some kind of order. i've seen some of my friends become friends with each other, and a lot of times, it causes a rift between us bc often times someone stops talking to the other (sometimes that person can be me.. often aloof and all)



do you have seperate groups of friends, that you choose not to mix together for whatever reasons? are you ever cautious of bringing a potential mate around your friends? why?

i'm curious to hear everyones thoughts🙂

I have a group of best friends, who are also best friends with eachother, and I'm the common thread.

i can see how that works out ms.pisces.

however! i have sooo many favorite people in my life. but they vary by the days, hours, minutes, possibly even seconds being fickle as i am! i've seen a lot of people in my life come and go for some of the dumbest reason (one: introducing one another..silly bicker, etc) it seems oh so selfish, but i have to be extra careful these days. i don't think i can afford to lose the trust i've given already.

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i was making an observation (which then became an observation of a specific sign) on friendships. and then i thought maybe i was the same way and i have my reasons which i will express.


it might sound a bit selfish, but i find that i keep my group of friends seperate. only because i think that joe would probably never get along with jane because of their obvious differences. joe might be a bit shy and introverted while jane is loud and beligerent. i'd get a different kick out of hanging with jane, and if i want someone to simply chill out with i'll call joe? so i may keep them in seperate groups just to keep my circle of friends in some kind of order. i've seen some of my friends become friends with each other, and a lot of times, it causes a rift between us bc often times someone stops talking to the other (sometimes that person can be me.. often aloof and all)



do you have seperate groups of friends, that you choose not to mix together for whatever reasons? are you ever cautious of bringing a potential mate around your friends? why?

i'm curious to hear everyones thoughts🙂

im the same way me and my oldest aries brother is like dat we keep friends separate from other friends because of different temperaments view points and ideas etc.

and the fact they might kill each other lmfao

I know what you mean. I do that to an extent with my other friends/associates.


Its probably a good thing, as your instincts about certain ppl not meshing well together or whatever the reason, is probably right. Also, Pisces are like chameleons; we adapt to what/who we're around, so it can be sort of akward when we're trying to play the part of us that mixes with personA, while also playing the part of us that mixes with personB, all at the same time.

I know when I'm in that situation, not only is it draining, it can also make me feel like Im unsure of who I really am, because each person brings out a different facet of my personality, and having them together makes me feel like I have to be two different people at once. I normally appreciate and embrace my ability to adapt so well, but in those situations, you can begin to question yourself. Not sure if I'm making sense to you, but yea... 🙂