Taurus man/Pisces woman advice

I am Taurus man who has the tools of vision,(spiritually,physically,mentally)on this Pisces woman.I notice she is the first(to me) woman who plays hard to get.So I made the unwise fault of making the untrue statement of confidence i told her i like when she plays impossible to get--And i now see it's not easy chasing someone--for i am used to being the chased after.i was on a street walking alone--but 40 feet behind her..and though not making and sound while walking,she turned around smiled and looked at me and kept going,(she told me she uses her intuition)we've met a places unexpectedly,flirt she told me everything she likes and dislikes.Since i don have her number,(because she always working)i asked for her Facebook)but then she wouldn't tell me directly --she wanted me too guess.well then soon we met in another place,she sat beside me,and we talked a little while .I was on the pc next to her so i was trying to see if she would get on her page so i could friend her and say i guess it(but she wouldn't known i was lying due to her source of accurate info--intuition) but she said she was leaving and went past me and i paid no mind--i assumed she was leaving the place.but i turn my head and she decides to go to the back of the building--request me --(yes ..i'm loving this sweet,but unpredictable fish!!!)and i accept and don't answer her but she messages me with "Hi"--she must be very shy---we talk it was around her birthday..i bought her something but was not able to give it to her due to certain situations.see's me and smiles and i love it--when we are not around she seems moody,or sad(from the messages she sends me in the chat)She destroys my ego but i'd rather that than my ego turn me into hilter and destroy my foes..no matter how bad i want to.someone told her that they were going to see me--and the girl who told her that was an enemy of her already(they'd been in war with each other)The girl who i want got mad.--but soon she started to show me attention. asking whats wrong with me when i'm sad,congratulating me on my achievements in life. when we talk in person she makes they awkward face like she wants to laugh but smiles instead,like one time she said a statement that made it look like she was hurt by a man be she told me "that she know i would never harm her"--ans i would never(Does she want me to chase her?)

slow it right down. i've been chased by a taurus before, it was horrifying. what you think is playing hard to get is her testing the waters. basically, she's sizing you up. i guarantee if you start chasing her now, she will back all the way off.

or become even more vague and girly than she is now.

she's already onto you. she knows you're interested. let her come to you. make her feel it's safe to do so, just be a friend to her. when you're more sure of how she feels, by all means go for it. right now you're a nice little fantasy in her head. bring her back down to earth too early, and the magic's gone.

you're dealing with a fish, remember...how do you catch one? you throw the bait and wait for it to come to you.

She's feeling you out and trying to see what you are about. She likes you, but doesn't want to put herself out there it sounds like. It also sounds like she is seeing if you will chase. As Star said, once she feels comfortable, then open up. Before then will scare her off. She wants you to chase but she will chase too.

That's quite an evasive dance haha. Maybe she wants to see if you're really interested or just looking for a quick.. 😛

Posted by nimbue
it was horrifying.

lol!! 😄

Posted by Starfish225
Lets see depending on her level of maturity this answer will apply. I too am a Pisces and I had a relationship with a Taurus guy that ended not to long ago. The mature Pisces woman that knows what she wants will not play the chase game. Not to be confused with easy to get. The mature Pisces woman is straight foward. Now if I suspect some bs or not real sure I will stand back some and observe. Our intuition is spot on. What I do know about a Taurus man and Pisces woman relationship is our thinking about alot of things are opposite. Taurus men as you said like and is use to being chased by women. The mature Pisces woman is not going to do that we like a man to take the lead. Now I dont know your Pisces girl cant say if she is mature or not. But I will say is YOU be yourself and if you like her and want to date her you can show her not really tell her. She already knows due to intuition but we still like to see the actions of a man that wants to date us bc again thats him taking the lead. Like what was said above allow her to feel safe that is important as well to her deciding if she will go out with you or not. And last but not least dont come with any insecurities and wishy washy ways, you need to know what you want also other wise it will end in disaster. Good luck!!

Ugh..lets try this again...

Haha I knew I would see a reply from you Starfish on this one.

Everything Starfish said. A mature Pisces woman will not put up with the games or play games with you. An IMMATURE Pisces gets off on the chase, and she generally has no real intentions of being with the object of current desire . She may not even realize it, because the drama of it all is so very heady. You know what I mean? Once she is satisfied, she may tire of the whole thing and swim away.

So you have to decide what manner of Pisces you are dealing with here. The whole not wanting to give you her number or FB page seems a little silly, IMO.

I dated a Taurus and his feelings/ego were easily hurt. And like you, he was used to being chased and didnt want to put in much effort. That didnt work for me. We dont like men who are too afraid to step outside of the box. In reality, neither party should have to chase. If there is mutual interest then it should all just flow...

Take the lead, be bold, be confident. If that doesn't work she is not the one. Good luck 🙂

She's prob just making sure he's not a killer/rapist.


Why is my brain telling me that's not an appropriate thing to say? =/

okay because though i am gentle i would never have the slightest intention of frightening her so that's why i 'm not going after her--and i just wanted to make sure because i have denied lots of women for the chance to at least know her--(which is risky on my part)and yes i am clearly aware that we dont think the same way--but i adapt to anything--and don't harass her cuz i'm always doing my own things knowing she has things she needs to get done. I'm not in a rush-anyway.just the thought of losing an opportunity bothers me somewhat.thnks all of you--and as for deciding if she mature or immature----she acts, thinks like a 22 yr old(her age) but i think like i lived for 28 years(forced to grow up thats why i do)when i'm 2 years younger than her.

i am a pisces. I am engaged to a taurus man who didn't take no for an answer. it depends cuz not all pisceans are the same. it seems as though she is interested. sometimes we like being chased but dont hold us down because we really don't like that. just be patient and gentle with her.

Chase her! You are a hunter, she is a fish, go after her. I see why it didn't work with me and Mr. Taurus. Shy men are not my cup of tea.

Just noticed OP has not posted since November so my message goes out to ALL men. Stop being pussies and start being MEN! Man up and get that woman.

I am pisces sun and cancer moon. If you were interested in me, I would want you to tell me pretty directly, then open yourself up to me a bit, and then back off. And do not ever be sarcastic! Here's an example.... "Hello Pisces, I find you very attractive and would like to get to know you better. I would be honored if you would (go have coffee/have dinner/go out on a date/etc.) with me. "I'll buy" (that's a no-brainer if you are interested and asking me out). "Here is my cell phone number 555-555-5555". "If you are interested, text or call me anytime and let me know what nights you are free." "If you give me a general idea of what you might like to do, I'll plan something nice for us". "No pressure Pisces". "I really hope to hear from you". A letter would be fine, but make sure you give 2 ways to contact you. (Like an email and phone number or a cell phone and tell me to text or call). Then back off. NOTHING MORE!

I might ponder this a few days, but if I'm not sure of you and you keep asking, or writing, you might as well forget it. I'll think something is weird about you or you're so insecure that you will be needy and I'll be totally turned off. But if you totally leave me alone after that, I'll think you were strong enough to be straight, and I'll know you have strength enough to not be needy and I'll think about that for a while, and if I find a couple things I might like about you, I definitely would answer you back.

If I don't answer you back, it means I really have absolutely no interest in you, and think that I never would. In that case, you need to move on.

I do smile at men sometimes, not because I am attracted to them in any way shape or form, but only because I am a genuinely nice person. I like to be friendly and to make you feel good about yourself, because I usually can feel your insecurities......your weaknesses. I don't like anyone to feel bad.....It makes me feel bad for them. But don't mistake that for me flirting with you! Just because I talk with you, does not mean I want to go out with you. Hope that helps.

lol......your post is from last year. Too funny. I bet this issue is resolved.