Virgo men are impossible!

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Unlike Pisces, we Virgos are fully aware of our own shortcomings, and are quite open & honest about them with the people we love and hold dear to us. Our behavior on a public forum is not the same as our behavior in private - wish I could say the same about my experiences both here and in the Real World when I comes to Pisces...

Our very directness is what makes us so incompatible with Fishes; who prefer muddy waters, innuendo, and subterfuge -- what they would call mystique -- in dealing with others. Their air of mystery often cloaks a well of anger and regret, for they have great difficulty admitting to their mistakes, and solving the real problems in life.

Catch them in a lie, and you'll hear: "Oh, I knew all along you were going to find that out -- that's how much smarter I am than you are! If you understood people at all, you would have seen that from the start, and you wouldn't have fallen into my trap." Or some similar clap-trap that is equally evasive, and attempts to turn the argument back on you, the unjustified accuser...

Virgos are impossible, and Pisces are implausible. We are polar opposites - maybe that's the way it should be.
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SF225: The Virgo men I know have been the liars..

All the Pisces I've known - men & women - have been liars. And they'll continue in the lie, even after they've been exposed. Some, when pressed, will fall back on that "I'm A Dreamer" quality as an excuse.

Look: I don't hate Fishes. I don't hate anyone, and even if I did, it wouldn't be over their friggin' birthdate! But most DXPers support the notion that the personality descriptions in astrology for each Sign are fairly accurate -- in general -- so if Virgos have to accept that we're stiff & fussy, Pisces should accept that they're slippery.

Fair's fair!
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SF225: ...I would be bashing Virgo's every chance I get like what I see done to Pisces..I look past the sign...

It's great that you feel that way. But you can check the Virgo Board, and you'd find TONS of non-Virgos bashing away at all of us because of some experience they had with some Virgo at some time.

All the Pisces I've known - men & women - have been liars.

That's been MY experience.

Astrologers say that Pisces have a looser grip on reality than Virgos. Is it bashing to mention that? I don't think so - anymore than it is to say astrologers think Virgos are too stiff and analytical.
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I for one am stiff and analytical.

Yes Virgo men do go off on our own and not tell anyone, you know why?
Because if we tried to explain things, the woman would become overly concerned or confused and try to fix it herself, when we Virgos know that only WE can deal with.

Our shortcommings make us who we are, we do not have to change anything!
Why do Pisces take so much pride in telling people what they should do!?

Is not the saying, like someone for who they are and love them for their faults?!
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I choose to say only bad things so that people would judge me and their real thoughts come out.

I don't WANT to meet or date a Piscean woman. I'm just trying to get enough knowledge to understand my experiences.

I don't know any down stream pisces, they are all nice and sweet and all have a dark side which surfaces around me.

AGAIN with the changing!
I don't have to change anything! Why can't people accept me for who I am?
This is how I was brought up, I'm not going to change for anyone but me.
That's why I choose to present myself in a negative way, so that all the judgemental hypocrites dash to the front lines and I can discern who is worthy of my time!

And I am FINE with me!
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"That's why I choose to present myself in a negative way, so that all the judgemental hypocrites dash to the front lines and I can discern who is worthy of my time!"


You mean the ones who will participate, who will entertain your games .. that's what you really meant, right?


Pulled from another thread ...... "I know Scorpios so well, I enjoy manipulating them."




Again .... they will come. And I'm sure you'll have your fun.
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It doesn't take a rocket scientist to loop all this together .... Pisces won't play with you, and that's what you mean by they try to tell you what to do, and have a sense of self-righteousness.


By your own admission ... you want to play people, and this gets you off ...

In reality .... a Pisces won't .. they'll stand up and shoot you down, and for this they aren't worthy of you because they make you walk the line instead of allowing you to manipulate them.


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ALL of you claim that.

So i'm beginning to give up on bringing it to the attention of you all...
Yet all my experiences and even that of my closest friend (Virgo) who was with a Pisces indicate my argument is solid.

Just look on page 2 for all the evidence!

Starfish is constantly telling me I should look at my flaws and change.

But I don't expect someone of a like mind to see it...
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>>In a Pisces mind, it doesn't matter WHAT is done, it's why it was done. It's all about motives with them. The thing is to show them the impact and reality of actions. If actions are unimportant, then it shouldn't matter what you do to them. This drives a very hard lesson through their thick little skulls.>Unlike Pisces, we Virgos are fully aware of our own shortcomings, and are quite open & honest about them with the people we love and hold dear to us.
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i know my share of r/t pisceans too; and no, honestly they are not naturally authoritative by nature.. If it's advice; everyone gives advice or an opinion every now & then, no matter what the sign. And very often it's not what you expected or wanted to hear. However, demanding someone do something or change is totally different, and i've yet to see a fish with a leather whip on anyone's back, so-to-speak. Even (if) the whole world told you what to do or (change), you have your own free will. If you're confident within yourself and your own sense of identity, words shouldn't bother you that much.

sorry, but seems the only "authoritative" type of words thus far on this piscean thread, imo, have been.. "..when they (Pisces) have NO place to do so."
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You see the thing is the delivery.

No other sign in life, has ever told me how wrong I am or what I need to change like Pisces.

The woman always makes these finite statements as if there were no other options and this statement is the be all and end all of it.

We are complete opposites and how I choose to behave can not be properly understood or dissected by my natural counterpart.

I am not emotional, I do not go with the flow nor am I easily swayyed.
I am grounded, stable and stubborn.

Stop applying your understanding of life to me you will never understand.


PISCES AND VIRGO
Pisces's affectionate nature intrigues Virgo at first, but these two personalities are just too opposite for any rapport. Virgo, being a mental sign, distrusts emotions whereas Pisces runs its life emotionally rather than intellectually. Reserved, fault-finding Virgo won't satisfy sexually, and when Virgo's sexual rebuffs start that awakens all the Piscean insecurities. Virgo also can't give Pisces the romance or ego-bolstering Pisces needs, and Pisces proves to be too unstable for exacting Virgo. Virgo will resent Pisces's dependency. This soon becomes a toboggan to nowhere.
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If you care not, as you so suggest with every mention of Pisces people .. then why bother exerting any of your precious energy into reiterating it to Pisces people?

You say we don't understand you .... yet, you don't even understand that by you putting focus and energy into it ... you actually embrace the very thing in which you claim to detest.


** thanks lucky stars that my Virgo husband is AWARE of himself, and holds himself accountible for himself **
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Reminds me of Dyr .. he starts a thread saying he's got a problem communicating with Pisces people, as if we are suppose to resolve this for him.

If you've got issues with Pisces, cajun .. then this is your problem, not ours.

You say Virgo's stand up and accept ... so accept then and be done with it .... accept that issue you have with Pisces people is your own, and not somebody elses to present to you why you should feel this way.

Be real, or go swim somewhere else ... Pisces people won't own your feelings for you.