What do u people think about gay marriage?

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I was in the street in the city and was given a phamplet to march for gay peoples rights and i cant wait.

personally I don't really care lol but I dont see what the big deal is about letting gay people get married!? apart from the church saying its a holy thing...at the same time I dont know why gay people want to be joined in something that the church doesnt support..well something god doesnt support.....so its a political thing i guess that gay people want prenup or want to be seen as equals in society....

I big pro about gay marriage i realised is theres gonna be more jobs for wedding planners because or the wedding industry even because im sure the gays are gonna splurge big money on it....or maybe they churches could put a tax on gay marriage so they would make a big profit out of it but I guess that kinda takes away the point of gays wanting to be equals and it would be seen as the church buying out....

I am dissapointed about julia gillard who is australias new and first female priminister because she doesnt support gay marrage and shes making a new asylumn seeker detention center....I hate it! theres kids in there and theyre lives are being destroyed and my heart goes out to them...
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I really admire marriage my ex went to a wedding on saturday and brough me back my first peice of wedding cake and i scoffed it down before he told me i was supposed to put it under my pillow....

I think monogamy wise gays hve it worse that str8 people in some ways perhaps they look towards marriage as some sort of boundary to make theyre relationship solid.

its interesting that a wedding is is a ceremony that puts two people under wedlock because they love each other......and to some people they feel like theyre under so much pressure....theres like weddding vows where u promise all this stuff....."people shouldnt be made to promise things"

trust me Ive made my exs promise me things.....but it never works so i learnt to never make someone promise u shit. lol

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I dont know why gay people want to get married so badly.....being a gay person makes me feel like a mutant off the xmen lol different

why do gay people want to conform to tradition?....to feel like they are equal to str8 people? or just because they can?
or is for legal reasons?

why dont gay people make up theyre own gay wedding ceremony?

weddings are a religious thing and u need a priest to wed a couple what kind of priest weds people who are not allowed by the bible?

why are gay people turning to the government? it may be illeagle by law but isnt it the priests descision?...

and what does it mean to be leagally wedded then?......does it mean u get half of theyre money and entitlements? is that way gay people want it.....because its too embarassing to ask someone "hey if we get together can i have half of what u own" and when u get married it just happens naturally and is expected without the awkwardness?

if i wanted to get married i wouldent want to ask a priest to wed me to someone if it was against theyre beliefs is that was gay people want or is it to be leagally married?


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What difference does it make? Y??all gay men are not monogamous anyway, so it's all the same. You might be sexy, but you are not exactly the faithful bunch. Obviously I personally think it should be allowed, but that's just my pov, wouldn't change the fact that you??d all be cheating on eachother anyway.



OMG ....

Wow .......


You know, this is not even worth what I originally typed so ..... yeah. And no, I'm not apart of a *faithful bunch* as you put it, whatever the hell that mean LOL!!!!!!! -- I don't want to be associated with a bunch of haters. Simple as that, they cramp my style and I'm not gonna let that happen.
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I'm a typical Libran and dont feel strongly about alot of things...There are pros and cons in most everything from the boat people to homosexuals. What it comes down to is, it's not in our control alot of it!

I think as time goes on though it will not be a huge issue (gay marriage) 20 years ago, you darent come out as a homosexual as you were said to be the cause of aids amongst other thoughts...Now look it's more exceptable world wide. People are getting married now and it's becoming less and less of a big deal. Seriously there are bigger fish to fry like paedofiles and murderers, people that really are hurting others not just trying to live their own lives in peace!
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^^ yeh ur so right though.......I'm always thinking that in the future as we become more evolved humans we look back and think on how more primitive we were lol trypical detatched air sign...

but i dont think theres any pros against keeping refugees here in detention centers I hate it as much as the oil spill...its like....you cant explore the world anymore set sail and travel places and meet people...u need paperwork lol and stuff....if u do the natives capture u and throw u in a cage lol.....so now were the new savages lol only were not putting people in cooking pots and throwing in vegetables and eating them.....we just let them waste away in a prison....those tasty morcels....
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Agrees with ScorpDragon ... our society goes through marriages like sheets .. changing often.

We couldn't care a less about the constitution of marriage, and two people are fucking lucky if they stay in a marriage for more than 3 years .. because it sure wouldn't be love that would keep them together that long.


so, what the fuck difference does it make with the whole gay marriage issue? If people change partners that fucking fast .. then stfu and put focus in something that actually matters.
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Two gay people raising a person from baby to adulthood ... now there's a fucking problem.

And if two people of same gender were to be allowed to wed, then it would become common for them to raise a child .. and that should be stopped, taking any means necessary to stop it.



We would the begin to evolve into ....

Two female parents = sissy fucking boys & insufferable princesses
Two male parents = extreme chauvenistic boys & forced Plain-Janes with atrocious self esteem
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i think the child spin is an interesting one. the reality is, people hang out with people who are like them...age, race, gender, socioeconomic status, we go for people who mimic us in some way. gay people are likely to have more gay friends than the average hetero.

now if you're a kid growing up in a gay household, not only are your parent's gay, but many of your parent's friends are gay as well.

i don't have kids so i can only go on how it was for me as one. at my bday parties, after the kid festivities ended, the adults would do their thing and the adults who were in attendance were invariably my mom's friends. i'd reckon the same would occur if the parents were gay...they'd invite their friends with most of them being gay.

where it's normal for the child growing up in the gay household, it won't exactly be normal for their peers with hetero parents. i think what would end up happening is that the child would grow up in an alternate reality. where up really is down.

what bothers me about homosexuality as a concept is that it all boils down to who you wanna fuck and frankly, i don't wanna have to think about that. imagine there's a guy who every time he meets a woman he thinks, "oh, she bleeds between her legs like once a month." or him, what differentiates man and woman is her menstrual cycle. it's kinda stupid right?

well, what differentiates homosexuality from hetero? for some reason, it's been framed under the guise of sex...what sex you choose to fuck. in a way, both sides of the debate are to blame. gays for allowing themselves to manipulated into justifying their sexuality and straights for giving a damn about where Antwan's wee-wee goes.

i think the only way that this rights itself is when people get the fuck out of other folks beds AND other people stop trying to put their bedrooms on display.

at the end of the day, is being a gay a life style or is it merely sexuality? if it's merely sexuality, get back in the closet and stfu. be you, do you. what the fuck does what you lick or where you stick have to do with anything?
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And quite honestly, since God created all beings and life, He created gays as well. The Bible often backtracks and conflicts itself, why? Because it was written by men, humans in other words. And like all humans we do have a tendency to put our own personal slant on stories told. I am sure the original scrolls are a far cry from what is presented in a modern King James. And there again there is a 'love everyone' clause in there, floating about the New Testament I do believe. The teachings of Jesus.
I would FAR prefer a child be in a home where two people love each other ( same sex, yes ) than in some tumble down shack where "Mumsy and Diddums" are shooting up drugs, smacking each other around and calling each other every nasty name in the book. Sexual preference has NO bearing on the capacity to love.
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Im not for or against Gay marriage. If gay people want to marry fine, I'm not going to be holding a banner supporting it or running through the streets protesting against it. I did use to be of the opinion that marriage is for a Man and a Woman, but as people have mentioned marriage is not a religious thing anymore (and even if it was im not religious) so it doesnt really matter. Live and let live.

There was a kid at my school who had 2 lesbian parents. One was his biological mum. He hated it, he wanted a dad. He wasnt bullied much for it but there were a lot of nasty comments made behind his back, which I thought was horrible. He is straight, but he does feel like he missed out on a lot by having two mums.
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In response to the original poster's question: Personally, my views on marriage are from a biblical standpoint. In other words, I don't see gay marriage as wrong b/c I'm judgemental or b/c I'm trying to be a hateful bigot. No, I see gay marriage as wrong b/c MY GOD says it's wrong no different than I view stealing/cheating as wrong b/c my God says it's wrong.

If 2 homosexuals want to get married, fine by me. That's on them. Their marriage won't in any way affect me nor will it make anyone "gay." I personally think marriage should be between a man & a woman, BUT hey I think marriage is ALSO about 2 people who love eachother & who vow to stand by eachother for life. And whose to say that 2 people can't "love" or be just as dedicated/committment simply b/c they're gay? Homosexuals are JUST AS capable of having loving relationships/committments just like heterosexual people are.

Would I support a law allowing gay marriages? Well no. It's no different than me not supporting a law that legalizes marijuana. It's not anything personal. My views aren't opinions of mine so I can be spiteful or hateful towards others who have differences in opinons/life style s than me. No, BUT if I believe in something AND remain respectful & considerate of others, I won't feel bad for not supporting something that I literally just DON'T support.

I think it's wrong that some people go to the extreme of rallying against gays who want to get married. I think it's wrong of those who spew hate & bigotry on anything other than terrorism. It's 1 thing to not agree that 2 people of the same gender should be allowed marriage, BUT it's another thing to step on/spew hate towards those who are different than I am.

Gay people need to sometimes understand that NOT everybody claiming they don't support gay marriage are claiming so b/c they're discriminating. Straight people have a right to NOT like/support something just like gay people don't. Gay people are still human, therefore they naturally DON'T like/support certain things. If a gay person doesn't support polygamy, no one knocks them. BUT if a straight person doesn't support homosexuality, it's a big deal. There's def. a contradiction/hypocrisy there