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Grief
Posted by Saturn_Returns
A cat sandwich usually helps.
Well, I hope when you die, people say the same thing about you.
And that cats eat your heart out.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by Saturn_Returns
A cat sandwich usually helps.
Well, I hope when you die, people say the same thing about you.
And that cats eat your heart out.
Listen, you only had a 'relationship' with that cat because you fed it and provided shelter. If you didn't provide these, I very much doubt the cat would give two shits about you.
Could you successfully verbally communicate with each other? Nope! Was there a mental or spiritual connection? Nope! So, whatever 'bond' you had with that cat was largely in your head and borne out of an arrangement of convenience.
So, no, don't expect me to treat this situation exactly the same as a fellow (and close) human being passing away, which means A LOT MORE.click to expand
Listen, I stated above that grief could be about the person or a pet.
And we actually had a spiritual bond. Cats/animals can communicate and they can be trained.
I saved him as a little baby cat. He was appreciative. He was a special needs cat, 2/3 blinds. Someone tried to burn him alive.
Do you have any compassion for animals or??
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulI love animals just as much as you do, but I'm not going to make a mountain out of a molehill nor 'intellectualise' what is essentially the cycle of life.Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulListen, you only had a 'relationship' with that cat because you fed it and provided shelter. If you didn't provide these, I very much doubt the cat would give two shits about you.Posted by Saturn_Returns
A cat sandwich usually helps.
Well, I hope when you die, people say the same thing about you.
And that cats eat your heart out.
Could you successfully verbally communicate with each other? Nope! Was there a mental or spiritual connection? Nope! So, whatever 'bond' you had with that cat was largely in your head and borne out of an arrangement of convenience.
So, no, don't expect me to treat this situation exactly the same as a fellow (and close) human being passing away, which means A LOT MORE.
Listen, I stated above that grief could be about the person or a pet.
And we actually had a spiritual bond. Cats/animals can communicate and they can be trained.
I saved him as a little baby cat. He was appreciative. He was a special needs cat, 2/3 blinds. Someone tried to burn him alive.
Do you have any compassion for animals or??
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So you don’t feel any grief?
Posted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulListen, you only had a 'relationship' with that cat because you fed it and provided shelter. If you didn't provide these, I very much doubt the cat would give two shits about you.Posted by Saturn_Returns
A cat sandwich usually helps.
Well, I hope when you die, people say the same thing about you.
And that cats eat your heart out.
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Could you successfully verbally communicate with it? Nope! Was there a mental or spiritual connection? Nope! So, whatever 'bond' you had with that cat was largely in your head and borne out of an arrangement of convenience.
So, no, don't expect me to treat this situation exactly the same as a fellow (and close) human being passing away, which means A LOT MORE.
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man the fuck, more i get older more i appreciate gob is that the capricorn connexion or smthclick to expand
More like an idiot connection.
You both sound like you hate animals, people and your own self.
Posted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulListen, you only had a 'relationship' with that cat because you fed it and provided shelter. If you didn't provide these, I very much doubt the cat would give two shits about you.Posted by Saturn_Returns
A cat sandwich usually helps.
Well, I hope when you die, people say the same thing about you.
And that cats eat your heart out.
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Could you successfully verbally communicate with it? Nope! Was there a mental or spiritual connection? Nope! So, whatever 'bond' you had with that cat was largely in your head and borne out of an arrangement of convenience.
So, no, don't expect me to treat this situation exactly the same as a fellow (and close) human being passing away, which means A LOT MORE.
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man the fuck, more i get older more i appreciate gob is that the capricorn connexion or smth
More like an idiot connection.
You both sound like you hate animals, people and your own self.
sometimes i hate myself, sometimes i love myself there is up and downs, but i know one thing,
ill get a dog cats whatever, after having wife kids and a house. it's supposed to be a bonus not to be the main thing' i'll see so many lonely people who rather talk with animal instead having a social interaction with a human.
Its make no fuckin sense' BOOMERS the trash Generation, MILLENIAL THE DELUDED FUCK GENERATION
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You sound like you hate the whole world.
For me grief is all encompassing. Not sure if it’s because I’m a Scorpio or if I haven’t evolved enough to deal with it. I am currently dealing with a significant amount of grief which I can’t discuss at the moment, but I try to turn to God and my faith to help me through. Death is a part of life. We all will die someday and even though it’s a known fact….it doesn’t make it any easier when a loved one or a beloved pet dies. It leaves a void which never really goes away. It just lessens with time. For me, sometimes talking with others who can relate helps. Staying busy, doing something nice for yourself, listening to music etc. All of these things are just distractions really until enough time passes to where we don’t need the distractions as much. It takes me forever to overcome grief, but it does get easier. Sending you healing vibes during this time as you grieve the loss of your beloved kitty. ❤️
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulI love animals just as much as you do, but I'm not going to make a mountain out of a molehill nor 'intellectualise' what is essentially the cycle of life.Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulListen, you only had a 'relationship' with that cat because you fed it and provided shelter. If you didn't provide these, I very much doubt the cat would give two shits about you.Posted by Saturn_Returns
A cat sandwich usually helps.
Well, I hope when you die, people say the same thing about you.
And that cats eat your heart out.
Could you successfully verbally communicate with each other? Nope! Was there a mental or spiritual connection? Nope! So, whatever 'bond' you had with that cat was largely in your head and borne out of an arrangement of convenience.
So, no, don't expect me to treat this situation exactly the same as a fellow (and close) human being passing away, which means A LOT MORE.
Listen, I stated above that grief could be about the person or a pet.
And we actually had a spiritual bond. Cats/animals can communicate and they can be trained.
I saved him as a little baby cat. He was appreciative. He was a special needs cat, 2/3 blinds. Someone tried to burn him alive.
Do you have any compassion for animals or??
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How in the fuck do you not 'intellectualise' what is essentially the cycle of life? I do this every fucking day!
My life is full of tragedy. But my earliest one was my grandfather dying of cancer when I was 11. It broke my heart..... because he was my sole father figure and I'm the one that got him to go to the doctor. Above all else....he was brought home on hospice and my bedroom was his hospice room...
Imagine that. Being that young and that close to death. I used to wake up in the middle of the night and pretty much see him pass away and come back 😐man that was so hurtful. The last day at our house they all prayed over him. My last time seeing him was the night of my bday party. I spent the whole party depressed. I still haven't unpacked that.
What I just went thru with my father and brother cuts deep too. It's one thing to be a bastard. It's another to finally realize you're being treated as such. No rejection hurts worse than that and I've been REJECTED
Imagine that. Being that young and that close to death. I used to wake up in the middle of the night and pretty much see him pass away and come back 😐man that was so hurtful. The last day at our house they all prayed over him. My last time seeing him was the night of my bday party. I spent the whole party depressed. I still haven't unpacked that.
What I just went thru with my father and brother cuts deep too. It's one thing to be a bastard. It's another to finally realize you're being treated as such. No rejection hurts worse than that and I've been REJECTED
I have a weird problem where I don't perceive death as a bad thing which is another topic. I also have a weird detachment with people and pets, even if I love them deeply. I've already though about and mourned their death dozens of times, even if I truly don't know the outcome of how life will truly play out. Because of that mindset when people die I kind of don't feel anything. Like I already expected, it and said goodbye before they were even gone.
Even with that being said I still have bursts of breaking down if I get into deep thoughts. It's because I'm a male and bottle stuff up. My only advice is let yourself break down, and let it all out for as long as it takes. Imo even amplifying it with sad music or something for a few days will help let out all that sadness. Just don't dwell for too long. You simply have to let it all out, then move on. Just know you gave your pet the best life you possibly could, and with the short about of time they had here was spent loved, fed, sheltered, and safe.
Even with that being said I still have bursts of breaking down if I get into deep thoughts. It's because I'm a male and bottle stuff up. My only advice is let yourself break down, and let it all out for as long as it takes. Imo even amplifying it with sad music or something for a few days will help let out all that sadness. Just don't dwell for too long. You simply have to let it all out, then move on. Just know you gave your pet the best life you possibly could, and with the short about of time they had here was spent loved, fed, sheltered, and safe.
I’ve lost lots of people and pets in my life
It’s so difficult but all you can do is take it from day to day and allow yourself to cry when you need to.
Gem
(((❤️)))
It’s so difficult but all you can do is take it from day to day and allow yourself to cry when you need to.
Gem
(((❤️)))
Posted by ATGRPosted by Saturn_Returns
I don't exist, nor am I on dxp, to exclusively stroke your ego.
Right….so ignore the topic if you’re not interested in it. Being sad about losing a pet is not an “ego” issue.
You’re not educating anyone with this garbage.
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👏👏👏
Posted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by Libra4rmTX
My life is full of tragedy. But my earliest one was my grandfather dying of cancer when I was 11. It broke my heart..... because he was my sole father figure and I'm the one that got him to go to the doctor. Above all else....he was brought home on hospice and my bedroom was his hospice room...
Imagine that. Being that young and that close to death. I used to wake up in the middle of the night and pretty much see him pass away and come back 😐man that was so hurtful. The last day at our house they all prayed over him. My last time seeing him was the night of my bday party. I spent the whole party depressed. I still haven't unpacked that.
What I just went thru with my father and brother cuts deep too. It's one thing to be a bastard. It's another to finally realize you're being treated as such. No rejection hurts worse than that and I've been REJECTED
wow, honor & respect, but like ur father and half brother i guess ? never wanted to know uclick to expand
Pops was cool not ever meeting me. Definitely shows the shame and guilt. He not hateful tho but he definitely can't hide the fact that he shamed of me. My brother tho, he just hateful over everything. And it's subtle and disappointing 🙁. And constant. And ion know wtf I did to make my own brother hate me but he always been like this. Since I met em
I love completely and grieve completely. I have zero middle ground. I hate that about myself but I also love it. The pets in my life I've wept over more than people. Because of course they are beings of true love and acceptance - their love is not defined by whether we open a can of food for them or not. Certainly that's part of the bond we have with them, but that's not completely it. And that's not a point I choose to debate with anyone. You either believe it or you don't. One side will never convince the other.
And I 100% believe they wait on the other side. 100% . I have seen it with a dying family friend who saw his dogs while he was passing. Whatever your individual belief based on your own culture, ideals, religion, dreams, what have you - that's yours. This is mine. I know that there is love all around us like the air we breathe on the other side. I can't even describe it. And if animals were a part of that, then they still are. That's MY near death experience.
And I 100% believe they wait on the other side. 100% . I have seen it with a dying family friend who saw his dogs while he was passing. Whatever your individual belief based on your own culture, ideals, religion, dreams, what have you - that's yours. This is mine. I know that there is love all around us like the air we breathe on the other side. I can't even describe it. And if animals were a part of that, then they still are. That's MY near death experience.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by CAPZPRIMEMore like an idiot connection.Posted by Saturn_Returnsman the fuck, more i get older more i appreciate gob is that the capricorn connexion or smthPosted by borednbeautifulListen, you only had a 'relationship' with that cat because you fed it and provided shelter. If you didn't provide these, I very much doubt the cat would give two shits about you.Posted by Saturn_Returns
A cat sandwich usually helps.
Well, I hope when you die, people say the same thing about you.
And that cats eat your heart out.
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Could you successfully verbally communicate with it? Nope! Was there a mental or spiritual connection? Nope! So, whatever 'bond' you had with that cat was largely in your head and borne out of an arrangement of convenience.
So, no, don't expect me to treat this situation exactly the same as a fellow (and close) human being passing away, which means A LOT MORE.
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You both sound like you hate animals, people and your own self.
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I don't exist, nor am I on dxp, to exclusively stroke your ego.
No wonder you go through so many men online - your craving for attention is insatiable but, at some point, most of the men see through your self-serving act.
Yes, it's a pity about the cat but it's YOUR loss. Stop trying to turn it into EVERYONE'S loss.
Grieve in private, instead of trying to drag everyone into your misery.
Fucking Leo mooners...
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You of all people are telling someone else to not drag everyone into their misery?
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Are you ever not the pot calling the kettle black. When have you ever, EVER passed up an opportunity to drag others down with your misery and self loathing? Bro we are in the Mariana Trench
I digress. It’s actually so beyond pathetic to watch these fragile incels descend to new lows in real time.
"Most of you here with your pseudo-intellectual and philosophical bullshit, acting all inflamed because of a harmless joke about a cat you never knew…" - but it's not about a cat we never knew. It's about someone who is feeling grief. Maybe she's not up to hearing about a "cat sandwich" right now.
I'm sorry for your loss. ❤️
I've learned a little bit about people in this thread. Regardless, what helped me get over my grief much quicker than I thought it would, were signs from the universe not long after their passing. A reminder to me, that they are with us as long as we don't forget them or the love that they've blessed us with during their very short stay here on Earth. And just when I think that I might be forgetting them or pushing their energy too far aside, I get more signs and synchronicities. And I definitely know that they are waiting for me when it's my turn. Even though I'm not a massive fan of cats, I still treat them well enough even if the bond isn't close.
There's still a soul inside of that biological entity. I don't want to be judged negatively for that when it's my turn to talk to St. Peter.
I think if you received a sign or synchronicity, it'll provide tremendous relief although there will still be grief. And grief takes time.
I've learned a little bit about people in this thread. Regardless, what helped me get over my grief much quicker than I thought it would, were signs from the universe not long after their passing. A reminder to me, that they are with us as long as we don't forget them or the love that they've blessed us with during their very short stay here on Earth. And just when I think that I might be forgetting them or pushing their energy too far aside, I get more signs and synchronicities. And I definitely know that they are waiting for me when it's my turn. Even though I'm not a massive fan of cats, I still treat them well enough even if the bond isn't close.
There's still a soul inside of that biological entity. I don't want to be judged negatively for that when it's my turn to talk to St. Peter.
I think if you received a sign or synchronicity, it'll provide tremendous relief although there will still be grief. And grief takes time.
Posted by WarAngel79
I'm sorry for your loss. ❤️
I've learned a little bit about people in this thread. Regardless, what helped me get over my grief much quicker than I thought it would, were signs from the universe not long after their passing. A reminder to me, that they are with us as long as we don't forget them or the love that they've blessed us with during their very short stay here on Earth. And just when I think that I might be forgetting them or pushing their energy too far aside, I get more signs and synchronicities. And I definitely know that they are waiting for me when it's my turn. Even though I'm not a massive fan of cats, I still treat them well enough even if the bond isn't close.
There's still a soul inside of that biological entity. I don't want to be judged negatively for that when it's my turn to talk to St. Peter.
I think if you received a sign or synchronicity, it'll provide tremendous relief although there will still be grief. And grief takes time.
Beautiful ❤️
You won’t get judged negatively
You’ve a deep feeling and caring heart 😊
Posted by geminiflyby
I love completely and grieve completely. I have zero middle ground. I hate that about myself but I also love it. The pets in my life I've wept over more than people. Because of course they are beings of true love and acceptance - their love is not defined by whether we open a can of food for them or not. Certainly that's part of the bond we have with them, but that's not completely it. And that's not a point I choose to debate with anyone. You either believe it or you don't. One side will never convince the other.
And I 100% believe they wait on the other side. 100% . I have seen it with a dying family friend who saw his dogs while he was passing. Whatever your individual belief based on your own culture, ideals, religion, dreams, what have you - that's yours. This is mine. I know that there is love all around us like the air we breathe on the other side. I can't even describe it. And if animals were a part of that, then they still are. That's MY near death experience.
(((❤️)))
The internet will argue about everything. I never once seen anyone attack a Leo moon just because. That seems like the most arbitrary attack ever?
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by ATGRNo, your hypocrisy needs to get a grip.Posted by Saturn_Returns
@ATGR, since you so desperately want this thread back on track, are you prepared to address grief in Palestine or are the Palestine women not pretty enough for you?
Get a grip man, FFS. Could always spend your time elsewhere since you’re so superior to other DXP posters?
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I'm perfectly fine where I am.
Btw, stop trying to censor and gaslight others. If you don't like it, go and create your own echo chamber.
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ATGR should stop censoring and gaslighting others, kind of like how you’re attacking bnb in her thread right now telling her her grief and feelings aren’t real (gaslight) and to stop posting about it (censor)? Or is it only permissible for you to gaslight and censor others as it fits your agenda, because the same ‘rules’ you hold others to, don’t apply to you somehow? How’s that for hypocrisy?
This is clown behavior and some goofy ass clown tactics 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
Posted by RollergirlOrc
The internet will argue about everything. I never once seen anyone attack a Leo moon just because. That seems like the most arbitrary attack ever?
That dude would get into a fight in a damn empty room. He’s the aggressor in nearly every interaction he’s ever had on here and then when someone actually tries to hold a mirror up to his behavior, he conveniently decides he’s suddenly a victim to try to garner sympathy from others - like he just did. He came in this thread guns blazing, gaslighting and censoring and insulting bnb, and now he’s attempting to flip it around, crying that someone (who’s not even doing that) is doing that exact same thing to him. It’s the same patterns and behavior happening for 10+ years now 🙄 There’s never any introspection or growth with him.
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by Libra4rmTX
My life is full of tragedy. But my earliest one was my grandfather dying of cancer when I was 11. It broke my heart..... because he was my sole father figure and I'm the one that got him to go to the doctor. Above all else....he was brought home on hospice and my bedroom was his hospice room...
Imagine that. Being that young and that close to death. I used to wake up in the middle of the night and pretty much see him pass away and come back 😐man that was so hurtful. The last day at our house they all prayed over him. My last time seeing him was the night of my bday party. I spent the whole party depressed. I still haven't unpacked that.
What I just went thru with my father and brother cuts deep too. It's one thing to be a bastard. It's another to finally realize you're being treated as such. No rejection hurts worse than that and I've been REJECTED
wow, honor & respect, but like ur father and half brother i guess ? never wanted to know u
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Pops was cool not ever meeting me. Definitely shows the shame and guilt. He not hateful tho but he definitely can't hide the fact that he shamed of me. My brother tho, he just hateful over everything. And it's subtle and disappointing 🙁. And constant. And ion know wtf I did to make my own brother hate me but he always been like this. Since I met em
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Sorry to hear that
What’s your dad and bro’s astro like?
I don't know. It's not really easy to get over something like this. It lingers with you for a very long time. Im not saying that you should do what I would do but I just drink my heart out. My heart was broken in two when my pet bird died. Yeah I know some people will say "oh it's just a bird. Get over it". And they would be right. Yeah It's just a bird but also part of the family.
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I don't know. It's not really easy to get over something like this. It lingers with you for a very long time. Im not saying that you should do what I would do but I just drink my heart out. My heart was broken in two when my pet bird died. Yeah I know some people will say "oh it's just a bird. Get over it". And they would be right. Yeah It's just a bird but also part of the family.
“Part of the family” ❤️🥺
It’s so good to see there’s so many compassionate people here 💜
I am sorry guys, I completely shut down when I read all of this. I am almost in shock because of this vicious and vile attack at me and my poor cat.
The cat was 2/3 blind and burned alive by some evil people. He didn’t ask for much in return, but he gave a lot to those who knew him. He never spoke a bad word about anyone and didn’t have bad thoughts. He accepted and fostered a baby kitten I adopted. He cleaned him and played with him. He was a very good natured cat.
First I was mad, and now I am just sad. I am simply too exhausted to argue tonight. I was working all day and it’s been very emotional.
I appreciate all the good vibes and all the good people.
The point of this thread is to deal with very human emotions such as grief, sadness, love, empathy, care, vulnerability.
I hope we will all learn something by looking deep inside. What makes us human and humane?
The cat was 2/3 blind and burned alive by some evil people. He didn’t ask for much in return, but he gave a lot to those who knew him. He never spoke a bad word about anyone and didn’t have bad thoughts. He accepted and fostered a baby kitten I adopted. He cleaned him and played with him. He was a very good natured cat.
First I was mad, and now I am just sad. I am simply too exhausted to argue tonight. I was working all day and it’s been very emotional.
I appreciate all the good vibes and all the good people.
The point of this thread is to deal with very human emotions such as grief, sadness, love, empathy, care, vulnerability.
I hope we will all learn something by looking deep inside. What makes us human and humane?
Posted by borednbeautiful
I am sorry guys, I completely shut down when I read all of this. I am almost in shock because of this vicious and vile attack at me and my poor cat.
The cat was 2/3 blind and burned alive by some evil people. He didn’t ask for much in return, but he gave a lot to those who knew him. He never spoke a bad word about anyone and didn’t have bad thoughts. He accepted and fostered a baby kitten I adopted. He cleaned him and played with him. He was a very good natured cat.
First I was mad, and now I am just sad. I am simply too exhausted to argue tonight. I was working all day and it’s been very emotional.
I appreciate all the good vibes and all the good people.
The point of this thread is to deal with very human emotions such as grief, sadness, love, empathy, care, vulnerability.
I hope we will all learn something by looking deep inside. What makes us human and humane?
Take care of yourself sweetie. I know it’s rough. If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to message me. ❤️
Posted by borednbeautiful
I am sorry guys, I completely shut down when I read all of this. I am almost in shock because of this vicious and vile attack at me and my poor cat.
The cat was 2/3 blind and burned alive by some evil people. He didn’t ask for much in return, but he gave a lot to those who knew him. He never spoke a bad word about anyone and didn’t have bad thoughts. He accepted and fostered a baby kitten I adopted. He cleaned him and played with him. He was a very good natured cat.
First I was mad, and now I am just sad. I am simply too exhausted to argue tonight. I was working all day and it’s been very emotional.
I appreciate all the good vibes and all the good people.
The point of this thread is to deal with very human emotions such as grief, sadness, love, empathy, care, vulnerability.
I hope we will all learn something by looking deep inside. What makes us human and humane?
Best not to engage with psychopathic people as it is a waste of energy
Just ignore them and just engage with positive people.
😘
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by Libra4rmTX
My life is full of tragedy. But my earliest one was my grandfather dying of cancer when I was 11. It broke my heart..... because he was my sole father figure and I'm the one that got him to go to the doctor. Above all else....he was brought home on hospice and my bedroom was his hospice room...
Imagine that. Being that young and that close to death. I used to wake up in the middle of the night and pretty much see him pass away and come back 😐man that was so hurtful. The last day at our house they all prayed over him. My last time seeing him was the night of my bday party. I spent the whole party depressed. I still haven't unpacked that.
What I just went thru with my father and brother cuts deep too. It's one thing to be a bastard. It's another to finally realize you're being treated as such. No rejection hurts worse than that and I've been REJECTED
wow, honor & respect, but like ur father and half brother i guess ? never wanted to know u
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Pops was cool not ever meeting me. Definitely shows the shame and guilt. He not hateful tho but he definitely can't hide the fact that he shamed of me. My brother tho, he just hateful over everything. And it's subtle and disappointing 🙁. And constant. And ion know wtf I did to make my own brother hate me but he always been like this. Since I met em
Sorry to hear that
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Pops is an Aquarius and bro is a Libra. Bday a day after mine. The moon is the theme for me and my pops. Both of ours are heavily aspected. Me and my brothers chart is kinda touch n go
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by CAPZPRIMEPops was cool not ever meeting me. Definitely shows the shame and guilt. He not hateful tho but he definitely can't hide the fact that he shamed of me. My brother tho, he just hateful over everything. And it's subtle and disappointing 🙁. And constant. And ion know wtf I did to make my own brother hate me but he always been like this. Since I met emPosted by Libra4rmTX
My life is full of tragedy. But my earliest one was my grandfather dying of cancer when I was 11. It broke my heart..... because he was my sole father figure and I'm the one that got him to go to the doctor. Above all else....he was brought home on hospice and my bedroom was his hospice room...
Imagine that. Being that young and that close to death. I used to wake up in the middle of the night and pretty much see him pass away and come back 😐man that was so hurtful. The last day at our house they all prayed over him. My last time seeing him was the night of my bday party. I spent the whole party depressed. I still haven't unpacked that.
What I just went thru with my father and brother cuts deep too. It's one thing to be a bastard. It's another to finally realize you're being treated as such. No rejection hurts worse than that and I've been REJECTED
wow, honor & respect, but like ur father and half brother i guess ? never wanted to know u
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Sorry to hear that
What’s your dad and bro’s astro like?
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Pops is an Aquarius and bro is a Libra. Bday a day after mine. The moon is the theme for me and my pops. Both of ours are heavily aspected. Me and my brothers chart is kinda touch n goclick to expand
What are their moons?
You don't...it just gets easier to deal with as time goes on.
I'm sorry for your loss 😞🖤
I'm sorry for your loss 😞🖤
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulWho doesn't in the right situation.Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulI love animals just as much as you do, but I'm not going to make a mountain out of a molehill nor 'intellectualise' what is essentially the cycle of life.Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulListen, you only had a 'relationship' with that cat because you fed it and provided shelter. If you didn't provide these, I very much doubt the cat would give two shits about you.Posted by Saturn_Returns
A cat sandwich usually helps.
Well, I hope when you die, people say the same thing about you.
And that cats eat your heart out.
Could you successfully verbally communicate with each other? Nope! Was there a mental or spiritual connection? Nope! So, whatever 'bond' you had with that cat was largely in your head and borne out of an arrangement of convenience.
So, no, don't expect me to treat this situation exactly the same as a fellow (and close) human being passing away, which means A LOT MORE.
Listen, I stated above that grief could be about the person or a pet.
And we actually had a spiritual bond. Cats/animals can communicate and they can be trained.
I saved him as a little baby cat. He was appreciative. He was a special needs cat, 2/3 blinds. Someone tried to burn him alive.
Do you have any compassion for animals or??
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So you don’t feel any grief?
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But I don't have a Leo moon, who feels the need to persistently make EVERYONE aware of something personal, which means NOTHING in the greater scheme of things... and in a universe where you and I are pretty much INSIGNIFICANT.
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Lmfao you do though. You constantly have to make comments like the ones in this thread, it's always about you having to be the biggest cunt on DXP. It's as if you need to appear to be this hard ass. But it screams broken and insecure.
I doubt you'll understand this though, it seems you're high on the spectrum and you don't really understand how you appear to the world and how the world works. You think you do, like you're some sort of social understanding savant or some shit. But you're not.
Posted by poppyflower
Gobby, spreading his misery wherever he goes🙄
He trys to spread it but it clings to him like flys.
Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulWho doesn't in the right situation.Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulI love animals just as much as you do, but I'm not going to make a mountain out of a molehill nor 'intellectualise' what is essentially the cycle of life.Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulListen, you only had a 'relationship' with that cat because you fed it and provided shelter. If you didn't provide these, I very much doubt the cat would give two shits about you.Posted by Saturn_Returns
A cat sandwich usually helps.
Well, I hope when you die, people say the same thing about you.
And that cats eat your heart out.
Could you successfully verbally communicate with each other? Nope! Was there a mental or spiritual connection? Nope! So, whatever 'bond' you had with that cat was largely in your head and borne out of an arrangement of convenience.
So, no, don't expect me to treat this situation exactly the same as a fellow (and close) human being passing away, which means A LOT MORE.
Listen, I stated above that grief could be about the person or a pet.
And we actually had a spiritual bond. Cats/animals can communicate and they can be trained.
I saved him as a little baby cat. He was appreciative. He was a special needs cat, 2/3 blinds. Someone tried to burn him alive.
Do you have any compassion for animals or??
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So you don’t feel any grief?
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But I don't have a Leo moon, who feels the need to persistently make EVERYONE aware of something personal, which means NOTHING in the greater scheme of things... and in a universe where you and I are pretty much INSIGNIFICANT.
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Lmfao you do though. You constantly have to make comments like the ones in this thread, it's always about you having to be the biggest cunt on DXP. It's as if you need to appear to be this hard ass. But it screams broken and insecure.
I doubt you'll understand this though, it seems you're high on the spectrum and you don't really understand how you appear to the world and how the world works. You think you do, like you're some sort of social understanding savant or some shit. But you're not.click to expand
one time i was confused why my aries co-worker was acting all arrogant and braggy around me at work and this guy out of nowhere goes:
"you gon be bitter single mom in 5 years."
me irl: *barely married 3 months in
uhh? okey dokey. 🤷🤷
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by CAPZPRIMEPops was cool not ever meeting me. Definitely shows the shame and guilt. He not hateful tho but he definitely can't hide the fact that he shamed of me. My brother tho, he just hateful over everything. And it's subtle and disappointing 🙁. And constant. And ion know wtf I did to make my own brother hate me but he always been like this. Since I met emPosted by Libra4rmTX
My life is full of tragedy. But my earliest one was my grandfather dying of cancer when I was 11. It broke my heart..... because he was my sole father figure and I'm the one that got him to go to the doctor. Above all else....he was brought home on hospice and my bedroom was his hospice room...
Imagine that. Being that young and that close to death. I used to wake up in the middle of the night and pretty much see him pass away and come back 😐man that was so hurtful. The last day at our house they all prayed over him. My last time seeing him was the night of my bday party. I spent the whole party depressed. I still haven't unpacked that.
What I just went thru with my father and brother cuts deep too. It's one thing to be a bastard. It's another to finally realize you're being treated as such. No rejection hurts worse than that and I've been REJECTED
wow, honor & respect, but like ur father and half brother i guess ? never wanted to know u
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Sorry to hear that
What’s your dad and bro’s astro like?
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Pops is an Aquarius and bro is a Libra. Bday a day after mine. The moon is the theme for me and my pops. Both of ours are heavily aspected. Me and my brothers chart is kinda touch n go
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Pops got a sagg moon trining my leo moon. Brother has a Scorpio Moon with no aspects. And it's in late degree Scorpio so it doesn't touch my Leo Moon which is at 0°
Death reminds us how precious and finite life is.
You remember the good times and bad. You honor and cherish thier memory.
Yes no more experiences and memories can be made. That is the loss/mourning part.
Work through your feelings and grieve. Take your time.Eventually you move on in life.
I have seen people allow death of loved ones consume them and hold them back for years. That's sacrilege to thier memory. Someone who really loves you would never be ok with you being miserable because of them. Thats not what love is or what's it about.
You remember the good times and bad. You honor and cherish thier memory.
Yes no more experiences and memories can be made. That is the loss/mourning part.
Work through your feelings and grieve. Take your time.Eventually you move on in life.
I have seen people allow death of loved ones consume them and hold them back for years. That's sacrilege to thier memory. Someone who really loves you would never be ok with you being miserable because of them. Thats not what love is or what's it about.
I never had any pets because it’s a lot of responsibility. I’m sure those who go through taking care of pets have a lot of love to give in general. It’s an amazing way to express it. I can only imagine the pain of your loss. Take as much time as you need to deeply feel all the emotions.
Time. Just give it time. Sorry for your loss. 💔 I'm sure he's in heaven watching over you now living the dream. 🐱
I had the best dream of my favorite cat as well! I know I posted it awhile back in comments but I can't find it now. In the dream, my brother had been looking after her while I was away and I wasn't happy about the job he did. I took her from his arms and started brushing out her coat. The dream was so real, I could feel the weight of her, and feel her fur while I was brushing it. I woke up so happy I got to spend time with her again.
Oh wow, I wish I could dream my cat 🐱 😔
Maybe some day it will happen 🙏 💓
I sometimes think I see him running towards my car. I would always honk beep-beep and he would wag his tail..
I burried him in my garden. His spirits will forever reside close to me.
Maybe some day it will happen 🙏 💓
I sometimes think I see him running towards my car. I would always honk beep-beep and he would wag his tail..
I burried him in my garden. His spirits will forever reside close to me.
When my deceased grandmother appeared to me in my dream, I felt incredibly better.
Somehow being around animals help
Blowing a little bit of money on something ridiculous
Church
Somehow being around animals help
Blowing a little bit of money on something ridiculous
Church
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Thank you for all the condolences 💐
I appreciate you all! ❣️🐈⬛
Please tell me how do you deal with sadness and emptiness that’s left after someone you care about passes away?
And it doesn’t matter if it’s a person or a pet- only love and faith is important 💕🙏
I think we should not try to replace it with something else. Accept the loss, keep everything as is and move on.
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