All or Nothing?

Alright, first we are both Scorpio.

We both have Moon in Libra.

I have mercury in Libra, he has mercury in Scorpio.

I have venus in Virgo, he has venus in Libra.

I have mars in Cancer, he has Mars in Aquarius.

My Asc is Capricorn, he has Pisces.

I love this man for years! How can I make him mine and keep him mine?
Is it even possible? (we have a interesting past to say the least)